FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you flirt?

Are you more comfortable on or offline?

I struggle to flirt when messaging I become almost robotic especially when it comes to paying compliments to anyone other than F! Where as in real life I'm quite charismatic and flirtatious, I don't understand why messaging is harder for me!?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I just sort of do it. I don't have a set plan or tactic. It's not strategic.

I'm just sort of myself, but more so with that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remain fully confident despite my almost non existent success rate

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I’m much much better at flirting in person.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just lob it out! On and offline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.

In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life! Catch eye contact, then a wink, shortly before a fireman's carry of too... Greggs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't know how I flirt. Poorly? In a dorky fashion? I still think I'm not particularly flirty.

In person I'm possibly a bit better as I'm more tactile. Smile a lot more. I kind of bounce off someone else's energy - if they're flirty with me I'm more likely to respond in kind - it's far easier to read that in person.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

When I have the energy I'm very playful and joke a lot. I guess this is flirting. But if I really fancy someone I get butterflies in my stomach while doing it. And I'm equally good in text or in person. I enjoy it

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

Real Life for me as I'm not the most educated so find it difficult to find the right words, A look sometimes is enough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know how I flirt. Poorly? In a dorky fashion? I still think I'm not particularly flirty.

Listening to your voice would definitely work in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a natural flirt. Catching eyes. Suggestive smiles. Looking from head to toe. And then confident in conversation.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'm a natural flirt. Catching eyes. Suggestive smiles. Looking from head to toe. And then confident in conversation."

Can you show me how it's done please

I'm crap at flirting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a natural flirt. Catching eyes. Suggestive smiles. Looking from head to toe. And then confident in conversation.

Can you show me how it's done please

I'm crap at flirting lol"

If I'm ever in Southampton I'll show you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It's easier online. Irl if the chemistry is really good I can't help myself.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.

In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap"

This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person or online definitely love a bit of flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot of it comes down to confidence.

Without sounding like an arrogant prick. I'm confident in my ability to deal with most situations. And that confidence comes across in my personality.

Again. I don't want to sound arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.

In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap

This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life."

Hey sexy I love you. How did I do?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I am subtle as a brick

Mrs TMN x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'm a natural flirt. Catching eyes. Suggestive smiles. Looking from head to toe. And then confident in conversation.

Can you show me how it's done please

I'm crap at flirting lol

If I'm ever in Southampton I'll show you

Oh please do

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I don't think I firt. I just ask for what I want

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I just go ahead and do it whether online or Face to Face if I really like someone whether friends or something more it's tongue and cheek

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

We sit behind a façade when it comes to Fab messaging, which can be a little easier than flirting in real life.

I'm not really sure how I flirt overall - am I too obvious or bumbling awkwardly like a lovestruck teenager or perhaps comfortably confident and assured? I do flirt, that much is true, if the dialogue is seductive and engaging - it almost becomes instinctive.

It also depends on the environment: in a busy pub I find the environment less conducive to flirting. In a hotel lounge/cocktail bar the ambience brings out my coquettish demeanour.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I'm pretty good at flirting in 'real life' but it doesn't compare to my flirtiness in messages.

I have a superpower in flirty messages/fantasy erotic text. I love it.

The question is when to flip from the probing and 'sparring' of early messages of relative innocence to flirting to filth.

Knowing that is the key. Some women like it, some don't and I guess I haven't got that right all the time.

And before you say it...it's actually that I play it too safe at the beginning.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.

In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap

This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.

Hey sexy I love you. How did I do?

Subtle as a sledgehammer

pretty much like me when I try to flirt in real life!

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"How do you flirt?

Are you more comfortable on or offline?

In person best...

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

IRL I tend to be ok at it but on line I can never find the right tone

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Apparently I’m a terrible flirt, which also apparently means I’m actually quite a good flirt.

Go figure.

Oh you’re quite lovely by the way

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.

In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap

This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.

Hey sexy I love you. How did I do?

Subtle as a sledgehammer

pretty much like me when I try to flirt in real life!

Sledgehammer is fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tho k it depends. I can flirt with only those I can see being receptive to it. I can sense when done aren’t interested, or bc will take it as bad form.

I like flirty people, I get along with them well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just lob it out! On and offline

D."

I'd love you to just 'lob it out'

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've never flirted. I don't even know how I'd start.

I feel like it is something I'd like to learn though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I can’t flirt to save my life and I am also rubbish at detecting people who are flirty with me…

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By *ea wangMan
over a year ago

scunthorpe

"I can’t flirt to save my life and I am also rubbish at detecting people who are flirty with me…

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you have very nice legs x

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm definitely better at flirting in person! My sarcasm doesn't come across well online for a start!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm shit both online and in person, probably slightly better in person because I can at least smile.

But yeah think more socially awkward & quiet with the odd smile and hope you get the hint is probably me.

I'm equally as bad at knowing anyone is flirting with me.

Mrs

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By *ea wangMan
over a year ago

scunthorpe

My dry sense of humour is rarely got on here and some women don't like compliments or a bit of flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.

In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap

This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.

Hey sexy I love you. How did I do?

Subtle as a sledgehammer

pretty much like me when I try to flirt in real life!

We’re a match made in heaven then. We should get married and make the sex until we ache a lot.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine."

Give it to me baby

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine."

So that's what that is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

Give it to me baby

Hey you saucy bird. I’m smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

Give it to me baby

I so would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

So that's what that is...

Oh please, you're hooked.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

Give it to me baby

I so would."

I so would too

With you two too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

So that's what that is...

Oh please, you're hooked.

I’m not hooked. I’m the wh00k32r

…wait…

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Much better in real life and can gauge whether it's wanted or not. Pretty hopeless online though trying to get better

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Much better in real life and can gauge whether it's wanted or not. Pretty hopeless online though trying to get better

Oh yeah

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I just lob it out! On and offline

I'd love you to just 'lob it out'

it will lob itself out for you!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm better online but at the same time I flirt differently in person.

It's somewhat the same but I use eye contact and little smiles too.

Plus behind a screen I have the added bonus of that person not being able to see me going bright red

Em x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

Give it to me baby

I so would."

I got a thrill from that

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Promising start then I usually fuck it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.

Give it to me baby

I so would.

I got a thrill from that

I'm not sure if I like seeing Lilith flirt, it's like looking at the sun, I know it's bad for my eyes but I can't seem to stop

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm told that I'm not very good at picking up on those that flirt with me.

I probably just think they're taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My knickers have fallen down already.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We flirt.

It’s something that we find so natural.

It’s just one of the skills that make us distinctive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My knickers have fallen down already.

Is that malteaser for me?

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I love to flirt and chat online, but nothing can beat the excitement of flirting in a club or at a first meet in a bar.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yea i flirt, more so in person though i don't realise i'm doing it, people around me tell me i am

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By *aturedWithAgeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im good at neither unless I know the person quite well.

Get fair amount of attention in real life, but always never know what to say!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Yea i flirt, more so in person though i don't realise i'm doing it, people around me tell me i am

Perfect, love it when people do it unintentionally

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I think it usually starts in conversation in a cheeky comedic way. Then if it turns us both on the comedy turns to lust. Then if the lust builds the cheeky turns into

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By *aturedWithAgeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im good at neither unless I know the person quite well.

Get fair amount of attention in real life, but always never know what to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m better in real life. I’m good at reading people and judging how they’ll react to my humour which is almost impossible to do online.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

I don't know how to properly flirt! I'm just myself and hope for the best. Lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I can do both, but like face to face more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm probably better face to face if I know the person likes me

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

Online. Far more of an open environment, the anonymity offers up the 'ideal' you. In real life, there's the physical, the instant reaction as to whether you find another attractive.

No lies though, in either setting. Games are fun, mind games aren't.

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By *otts-manMan
over a year ago

Long Eaton

I love a good bit of flanter... Flirty banter!

I sometimes have to rein myself in when I recognise I'm going too far or being too inappropriate... Although I've got some good girlfriends who give as good as they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the energy or effort to flirt. Unless they have cake.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't have the energy or effort to flirt. Unless they have cake."

I have cake at home

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just a natural flirt x

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"I don't have the energy or effort to flirt. Unless they have cake.

I have cake at home "

Bromance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love flirting. It's just the online is different to offline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have the energy or effort to flirt. Unless they have cake.

I have cake at home

Bromance"

I can bring caterpillar cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have the energy or effort to flirt. Unless they have cake.

I have cake at home "

On route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't flirt

You're a minge magnet anyway Wonks, no worries for you!

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