FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me about your first..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

..meet from fab!

Was it a social? Straight into it? Club night?

Still haven’t had my first meet from here so I wanna hear all your gory details

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Was a coffee with a guy I got chatting to from the forums. 5/6 years later, we’re very good friends and never did sleep together.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

The first time I visited a club was the night I learned about fab. Someone I met told me about it and very kindly verified me. Still friends 7 years later

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Social, then another, then bed. Very enjoyable

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

My neighbours. Who introduced us to fab

Stil good friends now thankfully as that could have gone tits up!

Mrs TMN x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Someone who is still one of my closest friends even though she now lives in Chicago. We went full lesbian. Had a date that lasted a week. Decided we were better as friends because we're both waaaaay too intense. She gets married next year to someone I introduced her to. Utter success.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

My first social was a coffee in the park, and he was also my first proper meet, lovely afternoon in a hotel.

Sadly due to him having another long term fwb and a complicated home life, we didn't get to see each other again. Bit I still would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social with someone in the chatrooms. We’re not friends anymore but I had a good first meet. Got coffee and cake. Which was dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A met a guy on a layby, classy me.

Was just to say hi, no kinky stuff. Well until he undid his trousers and shoved my head down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a small group social. Didn't know anyone at all and was absolutely bricking it not knowing what to expect. It was perfectly pleasant and everyone was lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A met a guy on a layby, classy me.

Was just to say hi, no kinky stuff. Well until he undid his trousers and shoved my head down there.

I hope this is a very dark joke and if it isn't, that's awful to hear. I'm so sorry that happened to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A met a guy on a layby, classy me.

Was just to say hi, no kinky stuff. Well until he undid his trousers and shoved my head down there.

I hope this is a very dark joke and if it isn't, that's awful to hear. I'm so sorry that happened to you

Ah very true!

It's ok though, I didn't bite it off completely. (That bits a joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was 9 years ago. My first time meeting someone face to face was following a few messages with a fairly well known London-based couple. I was nervous, a fish out of water. And then the opportunity was gone.

As for what could be termed a successful meet that went further, that was a while later. Still unverified, I took a punt and responded to a meet request on a Saturday afternoon and by the evening I was at their place. That was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a newbie wet behind the ears in Fab terms, and desperate to get that very first veri years ago I was accepted to a group meet with a couple where he wanted a few guys to gangbang her while he watched.

Out of the 5 chaps that were due to attend I was the only one that turned up, so we sat around for about an hour having small talk waiting for the others to arrive.

Finally we just agreed to do a 1 on 1 (which to be fair was quite fun and I went home smiling at least) while he sat in the corner and wanked.

They never did send a veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A met a guy on a layby, classy me.

Was just to say hi, no kinky stuff. Well until he undid his trousers and shoved my head down there.

I hope this is a very dark joke and if it isn't, that's awful to hear. I'm so sorry that happened to you

Ah very true!

It's ok though, I didn't bite it off completely. (That bits a joke)

So you DID bite it off completely!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Straight into it we had done enough chatting (serious convo) until both was available....

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

First meet was in Blackpool couples photos were about 10 years old at least made a sharp exit and left

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I went to this TVs house and I fucked them.

It was fun

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Had a coffee meet then went to his he cooked me pizza then we had fun saw him for a while! Quite eccentric like me x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Went straight into a scripted by me fantasy night, I felt so much like a Queen, it was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A met a guy on a layby, classy me.

Was just to say hi, no kinky stuff. Well until he undid his trousers and shoved my head down there.

I hope this is a very dark joke and if it isn't, that's awful to hear. I'm so sorry that happened to you

Ah very true!

It's ok though, I didn't bite it off completely. (That bits a joke)

Good! If he can't play nicely, you were right to try and take it away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tragic. Pictures looked amazing, the chat was on point. Meet arranged, turned up and she looked like a corpse

I then achieved my best 1km run time back to my car.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

A very long day at a a museum. Good fun.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A lovely social with a guy i still sometimes see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tragic. Pictures looked amazing, the chat was on point. Meet arranged, turned up and she looked like a corpse

I then achieved my best 1km run time back to my car."

You don't have to tell everyone about our first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met at his, had a quick beer and a chat, me and my wife went up to the bedroom and he joined 5 minutes later. It was his first time with a couple so it was all a bit nervous but we had a great time and probably would have met again but he’s left the site now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tragic. Pictures looked amazing, the chat was on point. Meet arranged, turned up and she looked like a corpse

I then achieved my best 1km run time back to my car.

You don't have to tell everyone about our first meet.

You're the reason I hide my verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tragic. Pictures looked amazing, the chat was on point. Meet arranged, turned up and she looked like a corpse

I then achieved my best 1km run time back to my car.

You don't have to tell everyone about our first meet.

You're the reason I hide my verifications

Rude

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world

Straight into it with someone from the forums. Really good first meet, met a couple of times afterwards and it got better each time.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Ours was a group social but we’d been talking to a gorgeous lady for a few month’s leading up to it, everything went great and the three of us ended up eating haribo’s in a nice hotel room after many many cocktails then waking up in the morning with sugary treats stuck to each other.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Straight in sexual meet in Small heath park, fucked all round that band stand

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Tragic. Pictures looked amazing, the chat was on point. Meet arranged, turned up and she looked like a corpse

I then achieved my best 1km run time back to my car.

You don't have to tell everyone about our first meet.

You're the reason I hide my verifications

Rude"

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Chatted all night to a guy, and had impromptu meet next morning, which resulted in us parking up, and playing in his car.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wish I could remember. Lol.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Mine wasn't the best ,many years ago when single.

I didn't have a social first & he came and went v quickly.

It taught me to always chat till I'm comfortable and meet for a social first .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An afternoon coffee, then a night in a hotel later in the week. It was exactly what I needed to wake up my libido and confidence at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think was a quick meet at mine after a few messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex by numbers at his place after chatting a few weeks. Mistake on my part.

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By *ittlelad69Man
over a year ago

clay cross

Unfortunately not had any meets. Had quite a few no shows so mainly just chats in forums. Maybe one day my luck will change xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was spontaneous and not planned! It was utterly brilliant though. It was a very long time ago.

He's still around and a new profile pops up occasionally. He always reaches out but logistics aren't always on our side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a social in Carlisle. It used to be a regular thing but unfortunately stopped a while back. After that was a trip to club f with a group I met at the social...was a great night.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Was a social. We went on a Forestry walk. He was a fast walker, I’m not (despite my long legs!). We had a kiss but nothing else. I spent most of our meeting out of breath for all the wrong reasons. That was back in 2016 and we still chat now.

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By *otmike 2018Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I started by finding an ad for bukkake party in a hotel which i went too. Things progressed from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is non existent

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social in a pub. We're still good friends

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

Chatted afew weeks with Female 62yo,very Attractive and.fit for her age.

Arranged to meet up at her place.

Had coffee and chat, kissed

Then moved to bedroom, few hours later and after a Fun sexy Evening...

Last August not had Sex since and I'm Very Horny

Andy xx

Kik Andy26471

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ add him ladies

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

When i was in a couple, met another couple in a pub...was really good fun, but no naughty stuff

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

lomdon

First meet was a social, fun but in the end she did not fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a spontaneous meet. It wasn’t terrible but it wasn’t great either. It’s not something I’d be in a hurry to do again.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

She was a surgeon, visiting London for a few weeks. The first meet was a social in a cocktail bar in a rather plush hotel.

The following evening it was...more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my first actual fab social was with someone I still have a connection with now.

It ended up in a pub/restaurant after our first plan turned out to be not such a great choice. We chatted away for quite a while. He left me in the car park after a walk with a kiss that lingered and left me wanting more. I remember it quite vividly. A gorgeously sexy man and a very respectful one too. Never said a bad word about him...which pisses others off or has done but I think very highly of him. Cannot fault the man. And god he's sexy.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Y’know, I can’t remember my first meet from Fab.

I mean, I probably can remember whoever it was and whatever we did. I just used so many other websites, messageboards, lists and whatever over the years that I can’t really remember which meets came from which places. So the ones back over a decade and a half ago - and longer - are all a bit of a blur …

A sexy blur, but still a blur.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

He was amazing. He is amazing. Many years on and he’s one of my bestest friends, essentially family. I love him, have been in love with him, and I hope he’s in my life forever.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

MF couple, I went to their place and we had a quick chat and a cuppa before me and his wife went upstairs to play and he came up after we finished to clean up

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

A social. Drinks in what was then my favourite bar. We had a really good night and a bit of a snog before getting the tube home.

No second meet though - she said it had felt too much like a date, which wasn't what she was looking for. Charged to the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a deep breath and a bit of hysteria at reception made my way to his room and was on my knees as instructed within the right number of seconds

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

My first meet the first time around was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..meet from fab!"

On fab as a couple we created the account and posted a status for a meet. After flushing the normal influx of tyre-kickers and cut and paste messages we had a like minded meet organised within about 45 minutes. They arrived and there was not much more than a hello before we got to it.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"..meet from fab!

Was it a social? Straight into it? Club night?

Still haven’t had my first meet from here so I wanna hear all your gory details

Been on Fab for a year, and not been able to have a meet myself either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple of social meets first. We’re glad we did it that way! Then we did a social event and some club nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle person never kiss and tells sorry just not my style what happens on meets stays bween me and the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap. Basically.

Now I make sure to follow my patented program for success.

Phone calls. Chats.

Basic house keeping. Specific questions.

And knowing when to walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a social. And it worked out fine.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Our first was a social (hotel) with a sexy lady who enjoyed playing with couples that are new to the scene

we had one drink then spent the night in the hotel room

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Coffee and quick lunch with a local guy, right after I joined fab as a single. Then we met a few times at the hotel.

It was nice first experience and we’re still friends now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee and a chat, was really good both putting eachothers mind at ease! Went back to mine and had plenty of fun!

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Our 1st fab meet was a Social meet in a Tesco cafe with a guy who later went on to become Rach's 1st Fab fuck and who we ended up seeing for about 6 months before COVID came along and screwed it all up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you go on a meet after being in touch through phone etc , when the lady knows you respect everything about her, the meet is everything you want it to be..it was bliss...for both.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

The first one started as a coffee one morning that became a glass of wine that then was us getting naked at the Airbnb round the corner that I was staying in, so that was a fun morning/afternoon. Weirdly, my second one was the same day and was a drink at a board game cafe playing scrabble, which I would have loved to have become something more but never did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was rubbish!!!

Worst meet I've had ever

Ff fun, own partner fun. Dunno why I even agreed to it, maybe I even suggested it, can't remember

All seemed a bit pointless and didn't feel very natural. Got us our first verification on our first fab account (not this account)

Mrs C

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Our first was great. We had drinks and a real laugh, and set the tone for a great couple of meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet wasnt actually a meet because it was someone I knew from the outside world. She accidentally made her face picture her profile pic, I messaged her to tell her. Initially didnt say who I was but when she asked I said "well you've been serving me pints all evening". So the "meet" happened before I knew she was on fab.

We used to go walking together and often talked about experiences on here, did I fancy her...yes...but nothing ever happened. I think it might have at one time, but I fucked up, let her down and we didn't speak for ages. Happy to say we've recently reconnected.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Rubbish!!

The difference between the photos and reality we're huge.

Definitely taught us to have socials first.

Luckily it didn't put us off and had far better experiences since.

Mrs

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

My first fab meet was just after covid but we've been chatting loads before so we practically knew each other inside and out so when we meet up, it was like two friends catching up really but the experience was amazing and we are still friends today

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Rubbish!!

The difference between the photos and reality we're huge.

Definitely taught us to have socials first.

Luckily it didn't put us off and had far better experiences since.

Mrs "

But but but !!! Your pictures are awesome

OK we're not daft enough to think good lighting & framing follow you around but we get enough of a feel for your personality on here to know you would both be a hoot in the flesh, and naughty as hell in a room x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Mine was a social meet at a munch … was ok abit different and odd going to a place with about 40 strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rubbish!!

The difference between the photos and reality we're huge.

Definitely taught us to have socials first.

Luckily it didn't put us off and had far better experiences since.

Mrs

But but but !!! Your pictures are awesome

Awww that's so lovely. I'm as real as they come

and daft as a brush.

Trying to over impress seems to much hard work. Your both GORGEOUS

Mrs C x

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By *Mr-Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Straight down to it!

A local couple, he wanted to watch her with another guy.. nothing like in at the deep end!!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I bummed her anus in a bungalow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a bit of a social, then we hit it off straight away.

He had a camper van, we pulled up and f*cked with the scenery behind us. Was probably one of my best!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My first fab meet was a social. He stood me up. Thought I must be too old for fab and was going to quit. Glad I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met for a walk along a beach, had a brilliant chat. Only lead somewhere later on that night when we realised we wherent (3 miles away) but actually lived around the corner from one and other.

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

Honestly can’t remember so looked up my oldest verification. Him on me: “Arrived on time as planned, followed his instructions. Took a good pounding and did not refuse me... anything! Good with both holes and left a satisfied man! Worth a spin...”. Me on him: “A long hard fucker - knows what he wants and makes sure he gets it. My arse can take a fair pounding but he gave me a testing workout before shooting his load. If you want a long hard fucker he's your man”.

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

First was with couple met in hotel bar got on great then second night wife want seconds while hubby was at meeting

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

First meet ended in sex cause younger me had not much impulse control.

The sex wasn't good. We didn't meet or speak again as I blocked him.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Just ain’t happening…..

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"First meet ended in sex cause younger me had not much impulse control.

The sex wasn't good. We didn't meet or speak again as I blocked him. "

How's thr impulse control today?.FAF

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Rubbish!!

The difference between the photos and reality we're huge.

Definitely taught us to have socials first.

Luckily it didn't put us off and had far better experiences since.

Mrs

But but but !!! Your pictures are awesome

Thank you, we always send face pics before meeting so definitely not catfishing anyone, the woman we met face photos were definitely very outdated

Mrs

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

It was a 1:1 social and I had a great time and learned a lot

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