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Valentine's as a singleton

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this will be my second Valentine's as a single lady. Last year I escaped to my grandparents' thinking that it'd be away from romantic stuff up there... it wasn't.

This year I can't decide what to do, so I'm going to be brave and throw it open to you lot, sensible suggestions will be considered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i shall be doing same as i do every day, working lol

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It is pants...This is my 2nd as a singleton too....Appreciate how rubbish it is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just another day as far as im concerned.....i totally ignore the valentine stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just another day as far as im concerned.....i totally ignore the valentine stuff "

me too

i never bothered with it when i was married

they'll be selling cards for when you do a dump next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put flowers on my partners grave, he may be long gone but he is still in my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just another day as far as im concerned.....i totally ignore the valentine stuff

me too

i never bothered with it when i was married

they'll be selling cards for when you do a dump next "

oooooooo i see a marketing opening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put flowers on my partners grave, he may be long gone but he is still in my heart. "

Aww laine hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put flowers on my partners grave, he may be long gone but he is still in my heart. "

That's a lovely thing to do, big hugs xx

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It's never bothered me as a singleton and I've had a good few Februarys where I've not been in a relationship. Can honestly say, since I left school, I've never had a card apart from ones off my significant other of the time and whilst I'll joke about not getting any (fnar, fnar) it makes not one iota of difference to me and I think if I did have an anonymous card, it'd do my head in trying to think who it was as I'd much rather they just asked me for a date or shag.

I'm afraid unless you hibernate for the next 2 weeks in a small cave in the middle of the Saharan wastes you won't be able to avoid the hearts and flowers in the shops Ruby, so best to just grin and bear it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being single doesn't bother me unless other people being in a relationship is rammed down my throat (as in Valentine's day) I love my own space, bed and rules.... but every so often (once or twice a year) that niggling thought of "oh I wouldn't mind" comes into my head but is quickly told to fuck off!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I put flowers on my partners grave, he may be long gone but he is still in my heart. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it'll be my first. Can't say I'm looking forward to it...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

This will be my 7th year as a singleton, think I'm used to it by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me... if it bothers you a bit just get a good film to watch (not a romantic one) and have a take out and a good wank lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this will be my second Valentine's as a single lady. Last year I escaped to my grandparents' thinking that it'd be away from romantic stuff up there... it wasn't.

This year I can't decide what to do, so I'm going to be brave and throw it open to you lot, sensible suggestions will be considered. "

Im spending it at a Greedy girls night Hope I get a few silly gifts though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This will be my 7th year as a singleton, think I'm used to it by now "

Snap!

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

Wots the big deal about being in a relationship anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wots the big deal about being in a relationship anyway "

I dont know. This is my first and only valentines that I have ever been single.. and I am looking forward to it.

I am loving being a single lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this will be my second Valentine's as a single lady. Last year I escaped to my grandparents' thinking that it'd be away from romantic stuff up there... it wasn't.

This year I can't decide what to do, so I'm going to be brave and throw it open to you lot, sensible suggestions will be considered. "

I love valentines day as a singleton, and count myself lucky at how much money I'm saving whilst others are paying for gifts, cards, flowers, night out etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wots the big deal about being in a relationship anyway "

There isn't one, I can't think of anything I want less in the world. Yet having everyone's happiness in relationships rammed down my throat makes me think what if.

I am single through choice, its how I like my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well from a single blokes view: I agree as well. The pressure is painful.

Meals out are overpriced and poor quality and if you want to buy treat the price has gone up.....

Normal day ignoring it all wanting it to pass by.

I can then just enjoy a nice meal, bottle of wine and a good film.

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

Seems some folk think your abnormal if your not attached,everythings geared up for couples,i dont get it............in fact i dont get it at all ARGHHHHHH

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

Ruby, if you lived closer then I would invite you round on the VD to join me and my female friends in drinking wine and eating nice food x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this will be my second Valentine's as a single lady. Last year I escaped to my grandparents' thinking that it'd be away from romantic stuff up there... it wasn't.

This year I can't decide what to do, so I'm going to be brave and throw it open to you lot, sensible suggestions will be considered. "

I'll be on my travels with work - so doing the usual!

Looking for company in my hotel!!

Are cupids not doing anything that night if you're well enough to go misbehave outrageously!?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im married and Valentines day is just the same as every other day

That does'nt mean I live my life surrounded by flowers,teddies and love hearts either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cupids will either be dead or full of single blokes. The parties are the 15th and 16th.

I think I'll buy my wand a bottle of wine and we can enjoy it together lol.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i split up with my ex boyfriend on valentines day and my ex husband walked out on me on the 15th so i can hardly forget the dates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just another day, no different to any other and will be at work as usual

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By *ctavius StuntMan
over a year ago

london

go buy a machine gun and have your own valentines day massacre

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By *ichelle n big alCouple
over a year ago

Derbys


"I put flowers on my partners grave, he may be long gone but he is still in my heart. "
awww thats lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Valentines is just another day for us, we don't do the card and flowers stuff,

It's all hyped for marketing purposes

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I put flowers on my partners grave, he may be long gone but he is still in my heart. "

I do the same, except it is for my son. Gone but never forgotten x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have not long come out of a long term relationship, so will prob be spending the day feeling miserable, unless I get an offer I can't refuse

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Well it will be my first valentines single in about 12 years. Was hoping to get a guy I was meeting fairly regular round for some naughty antics but now he's binned me and started seeing someone! Argh. Sure they will get each other a card tho. How lovely

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

It's my second year as a singleton too ... but thankfully I am the happiest I have been for years !!!

My lovely little boy died 10 years ago on valentines day .... so guess if I ever do fall very madly and deeply again ... it will never mean the same !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bloke here it sucks ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just another money making exercise! I couldn't give an eartha kitt about it and didnt when I was in a relationship.

Just imagine all those couples having rows because one of them forgot to buy a card!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my second year as a singleton too ... but thankfully I am the happiest I have been for years !!!

My lovely little boy died 10 years ago on valentines day .... so guess if I ever do fall very madly and deeply again ... it will never mean the same !!!"

Bless you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just gonna send myself a Valentine - the clever part is I'm gonna get really really d*unk before I post it so I won't know who its from.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I cannot win on valentines day, if I take home a bunch of flowers the missus just says,

I suppose I've got my legs now?

In which I reply, whys that haven't you got a vase big enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care, just be doing my usual thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This will be my 7th year as a singleton, think I'm used to it by now

Snap!"

Me three. Anything good on the telly on a Thursday night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I cannot win on valentines day, if I take home a bunch of flowers the missus just says,

I suppose I've got my legs now?

In which I reply, whys that haven't you got a vase big enough!

"

I dont get it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gonna send myself a Valentine - the clever part is I'm gonna get really really d*unk before I post it so I won't know who its from."

Love it! Might do this myself

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Being single doesn't bother me unless other people being in a relationship is rammed down my throat (as in Valentine's day) I love my own space, bed and rules.... but every so often (once or twice a year) that niggling thought of "oh I wouldn't mind" comes into my head but is quickly told to fuck off!!"

what she said...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first valentines day on my own in a long time feels very strange. Oh well onward and upward is all I can say and a happy valentines day to you all for the 14 th of feb x

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


" I cannot win on valentines day, if I take home a bunch of flowers the missus just says,

I suppose I've got my legs now?

In which I reply, whys that haven't you got a vase big enough!

I dont get it?"

Think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG… I need glasses

I thought the title of this was thread was about a former Blue Peter presenter,,,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll working, then off to do my weekly shop, as per usual.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

17 years as a single so valentines is no big deal,although i got a rather lovley poem last year from a fellow forumite

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


" I cannot win on valentines day, if I take home a bunch of flowers the missus just says,

I suppose I've got my legs now?

In which I reply, whys that haven't you got a vase big enough!

I dont get it?"

That's because he missed words out. It is supposed to say 'I suppose I've got to open my legs now?'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OMG… I need glasses

I thought the title of this was thread was about a former Blue Peter presenter,,,,,,,, "

Haha Soxy I love ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually dont care about valentines day being single im happy to just recieve usual post means nothing to me.lot of expense for nothing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gonna send myself a Valentine - the clever part is I'm gonna get really really d*unk before I post it so I won't know who its from."

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

My 7th or 8th year as a singleton, I'm loosing count! Nothing planned, unable to go anywhere, just lonely old me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its roots go back to raucous annual Roman festivals where men stripped naked, grabbed goat- or dog-skin whips, and spanked young maidens in hopes of increasing their fertility.

Sounds like an idea?

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


" I cannot win on valentines day, if I take home a bunch of flowers the missus just says,

I suppose I've got my legs now?

In which I reply, whys that haven't you got a vase big enough!

I dont get it?

That's because he missed words out. It is supposed to say 'I suppose I've got to open my legs now?'"

Thanks I really should get my bloody eyes tested

Anyway, I'm going to try chocolates this time see what she does with them.

lol

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Do as I do, ignore it! If I loved someone I would not need a special day to tell. I cant understand why its seen as 'romantic' to take part in an over commercialised event that has been over sentimentalised. I'd sooner surprise my loved one out of the blue when she was least expecting it a few times in the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be my 7th, it does and doesnt bother me, it doesnt as i like my own space and enjoy a good one person dance off, i always win!! It does as i think it would be nice but then the hassle of it soon puts me rite off! Xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I look at all the hype and feel sorry for those taken in by it all.

25 years single here and I would be terribly disappointed to be in a relationship with someone who waited for a day in February to show me how he felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be quicker for me if I told you how many valentines I've had in a relationship! I think it's just the one but I am grateful that I don't have to feel like I have to do something special for someone one day a year and pay an extortionate amount for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single folk its all over hyped over charged bollocks!

The only time I won't buy flowers is around valentines !

If you go out for a drink an a meal add a couple of zeros on the bill, get a good movie an a carry out instead !

Romance isn't one day a year

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't give a flying rats arse about it.

But then I'm a miserable old cynic.

Yours,

Victoria Meldrew.

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