FabSwingers.com forum: Social media....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just watched one of those short video reel thingys. I do this sometimes.

The guy in the video has the most gorgeous face, and the whole video consists of him doing things for his woman, flowers, swapping his food for hers, cooking for her, picking the bits she doesn't like out of the food for her, stroking her skin affectionately, buying her trainers, tying her laces, winning her stuff at the fair, it goes on.

I felt sad ....what does the poor guy get done for him, what does she do for him. In the video it's absolutely nothing and I felt sad for him.

Seems like true love is apparently having someone that's your personal servant on social media.

Is this really what the world is coming to? Where did equality go?

I saw one months ago that was teaching men to do everything for a woman when she's on her period, buy her snacks, cook her favourite meal, fresh bedsheets, you name it....

Guys if it was the was the other way round and women had to do everything for you what would it be in line with the above video descriptions? I'm curious.

What have you seen lately in social media that made you think wtf is the world coming to?

Have to say social media appalls me. Yet I watch it sometimes to keep up to date because I have kids.

Can someone break the internet please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know the poor guy gets nothing done for him? I'd be very wary of the fact he felt the need to post that shit online. He's either controlling her by doing everything or up his own arse showing off.

Perhaps the videos showing men how to do things for their partner are from women sick to death of doing 90% of the house work.

Things posted online aren't automatically true.

Much like the crap some people post about their perfect lives/ kids/ holidays etc. Likely in dodgy relationships and up to their eyeballs in debt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't take anything online at face value.

As for men having to do everything for the woman, pretty similar to fab isn't it?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

To be honest, what i see mainly on social media is exactly the other way around, women doing everything for the man!! I take it all at face value. Its just for the views and the hype

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

In my home I do 80% of everything that needs doing. Out of the remaining 20%, about 10% mysteriously gets outsourced back to me.

Life.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It is the Internet I wouldn't believe any of it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"In my home I do 80% of everything that needs doing. Out of the remaining 20%, about 10% mysteriously gets outsourced back to me.

Life."

Do you have a partner?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If I could be bothered I'd start an instatokbook account showing my real life. I guarantee nobody would be watching after the first video of Mr N and I shouting "pardon" from another room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could be bothered I'd start an instatokbook account showing my real life. I guarantee nobody would be watching after the first video of Mr N and I shouting "pardon" from another room

I'd watch that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

In reality, he forgets her birthday, pissed on the toilet seat, stays out all night on a lad's night out, never does any housework and tells her his mother's cooking is better than hers.

Have you seen the fake baby gender reveal ones?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

In my culture, and at least still in my generation, it was expected of men to do all that for us women.

In return, we cook, we wash and iron their clothes, give birth and do the lion’s share of childcare, do housework… and make them little treats. My mother always took my dad’s shoes off when he came in from work, massaged his feet and brought his slippers.

Things are changing now, thank f*ck.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"In my home I do 80% of everything that needs doing. Out of the remaining 20%, about 10% mysteriously gets outsourced back to me.

Life.

Do you have a partner?"

A cat I'm betting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If I could be bothered I'd start an instatokbook account showing my real life. I guarantee nobody would be watching after the first video of Mr N and I shouting "pardon" from another room

I'd watch that.

We should do one of us sewing and not realising the bobbin is empty

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"In my culture, and at least still in my generation, it was expected of men to do all that for us women.

Things are changing now, thank f*ck.

I did all that plus ran his bath, bathed him and gave him towels hot from the dryer.

I'm still rubbing off the "mug" written on my forehead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True love involves a lot of give and take on both sides.

If one partner is selfish it just won't last.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Problem with social media is people will

Only show what they want others to see ..The perfect life the perfect plate of food the perfect body etc etc .I don’t do any social media besides fab but I would definitely take anything you see with a pinch of salt..

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I don't like the idea of expectations. The women I've nested with would tell you to fuck off if it was expected.

Some of the stuff they'd do that felt nice though.

Fix me a drink. Especially an old fashioned or a Caiprinha that's sweet; takes a little effort and she'd get it spot on too. Then cuddle up to me.

Bacon sandwich does the trick too. Or Ribeye steak. Take turns feeding the fire. Hang out, talk not talk.

I can look after myself, but it's nice when you do things for each other and there's no expectations. Shows caring and understanding of each other. I'd make her carbonara and a kir Royale. Or we'd drink port and eat cheese.

If one is under the weather the other compensates, no need for score keeping.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Done for likes and shares. He may do somethings but nah, everything on those things is at least exaggerated by 10000000000000000

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By *jk1978Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Don’t pay any attention to social media think it’s a load of rubbish,you only see what they want you to see, I work I do most of the housework as k is an A&E nurse and works long days,so take as much pressure of her as possible, I encourage her to have time for herself telling her to have relaxing baths, encourage her to masturbate, and have regular orgasms when she’s on her own to feel confident as a sexy woman and forget about stress from work and give her regular massages with out wanting anything in return you might ask what I get out of it nothing apart from seeing the woman I have loved for the last 24 years is happy relaxed and knowing she gets time for herself

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