FabSwingers.com forum: WhatsApp

By *ent in Black OP Man
over a year ago

Silsden

I’ve got a friend who’s just complained he gets fed up of being disturbed by his work group on the WhatsApp app on his personal phone.

I told him to tell his employer if they want to contact him in via WhatsApp it should be on a work phone in work time.

He said that’s never going to happen.

Am I seeing this wrong here?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Tell him to mute the chat and only respond/read during work hours.

Mrs

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By *ornyhungforfilthyfunMan
over a year ago

London

He can just silence that chat in out of work hours ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just mute all the groups, saves the notifications etc.

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By *ent in Black OP Man
over a year ago

Silsden

"Tell him to mute the chat and only respond/read during work hours.

Mrs "

I did try that, I’m more surprised people do this on private phones though. Surely if work expect you to use it it should be on a work device?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mute everyone on whatsapp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have work group chats on my personal phone- I just mute them when I’m unavailable.

And have set the boundaries with the team that while yes we talk in the group during our personal time, but there’s no obligation to read/reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp"

Liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Not really appropriate on a personal phone. Take it off.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I mute everyone on whatsapp"

So that's why I still haven't got a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry."

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have notifications turned off on WhatsApp or it would invade my personal space too much . If it’s important they will call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

So that's why I still haven't got a reply

Men are so needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry.

Stop sending me cock pics then

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Tell him to mute the chat and only respond/read during work hours.

Mrs

I did try that, I’m more surprised people do this on private phones though. Surely if work expect you to use it it should be on a work device?"

Then block on the private phone and give the works phone number, he can't moan if he's doing nothing to cha he it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave any groups I'm added to. It's the weekend Maureen, I don't need to see photos of your grandkids or your cat ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry.

Stop sending me cock pics then

Did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to delete it of is private phone I won't join my work one simples

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The only thing I'll respond to in non work hours is happy birthdays. They can't make you respond outside of work unless that's part of your contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry.

Stop sending me cock pics then

Did I

Shit, wrong guy. Sorry.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Mute. Then archive.

Double whammy.

Saves him a fuck load of headspace and he can check it just before work.

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By *ent in Black OP Man
over a year ago

Silsden

"Tell him to delete it of is private phone I won't join my work one simples "

I’m the same, my phone is my phone. I’m amazed though at how many people accept this.

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By *ent in Black OP Man
over a year ago

Silsden

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry.

Stop sending me cock pics then

Did I

Shit, wrong guy. Sorry."

Oh ye, sorry

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I have a dual sim phone so i just turn off the work sim. I refuse to give my employer my personal phone number as i pay for it so why should i

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Delete the group from his phone. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mute everyone on whatsapp

Liar

You were too distracting, sorry.

Stop sending me cock pics then

Did I

Shit, wrong guy. Sorry."

Was gonna say

I'm not a needy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are they paying him to respond in his private time? If not it should be on a company device during contracted hours only.

One of the perks of being really conscientious and good at your job is that they'll give you more work, the same money and start encroaching on your personal time.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Turn off read receipts . So stays on two grey ticks. Never goes blue. That way unless whoever is messaging you sees you are online . Phones may vary. On iphone can only see if person is online if reading a message from them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Did you ask why it's never going to happen?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I mute everyone on whatsapp"

Rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mute or archive?

We only use Teams now, and I only have that on my laptop in work hours.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

"Tell him to mute the chat and only respond/read during work hours.

Mrs

I did try that, I’m more surprised people do this on private phones though. Surely if work expect you to use it it should be on a work device?"

The concept of work device is not present in all jobs or companies. I work in tech and I do have work device. But I have friends who also work in tech but in start-ups where there is no concept of work device. It's up to the employees to figure out how to separate. Muting groups is one way to go about it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Mute or archive?

We only use Teams now, and I only have that on my laptop in work hours."

My work laptop is under my desk in the office. I don't get paid for out of hours work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I leave any groups I'm added to. It's the weekend Maureen, I don't need to see photos of your grandkids or your cat ffs. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got a friend who’s just complained he gets fed up of being disturbed by his work group on the WhatsApp app on his personal phone.

I told him to tell his employer if they want to contact him in via WhatsApp it should be on a work phone in work time.

He said that’s never going to happen.

Am I seeing this wrong here?"

If any work people have my personal number I've blocked them on WhatsApp.

Work phone for work stuff otherwise they can fuck off.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I’ve got a friend who’s just complained he gets fed up of being disturbed by his work group on the WhatsApp app on his personal phone.

I told him to tell his employer if they want to contact him in via WhatsApp it should be on a work phone in work time.

He said that’s never going to happen.

Am I seeing this wrong here?"

He can mute the chat

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

"I’ve got a friend who’s just complained he gets fed up of being disturbed by his work group on the WhatsApp app on his personal phone.

I told him to tell his employer if they want to contact him in via WhatsApp it should be on a work phone in work time.

He said that’s never going to happen.

Am I seeing this wrong here?"

In France an employer is banned from contacting employees outside of working hours, and faces an unlimited fine if caught doing so.

Here it is your choice, I have never joined a work group and never will.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Depends on the nature of the job, the degree of on call required and why he doesn’t have a work phone.

Also given the mute function and set clear boundaries and to then complain seems a bit silly without further context

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

I dont allow work to intrude into my personal life full stop, work is just somewhere I have to go to earn money, I don't socialise or contact with people I work with in my own time, I have enough trouble being nice to the cunts when I'm paid to do so

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By *ouplemeet39Couple
over a year ago

kent

I’m on what’s app happily show some pics of my mrs if anyone interested

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

I believe in France they passed a law in 2017 forbidding employers contacting employees in their off time.

Unlimited fine is the punishment.

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

"I believe in France they passed a law in 2017 forbidding employers contacting employees in their off time.

Unlimited fine is the punishment."

I am repeating myself.

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