FabSwingers.com forum: Flowers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll take some flowers…always brightens the house up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll take some flowers…always brightens the house up

Teleporting you some now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm slightly odd I say. But they could, depending on their personality and style, get away with It... Unless it's a date.. but Even so, on the first meet, it's a bit too much, I think. - never had flowers given to me by a date...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serial killer alert

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

'You don't bring me flowers

You don't sing me love songs

You hardly talk to me anymore'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serial killer alert "

I'd bring you foxglove leaves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ummm slightly odd I say. But they could, depending on their personality and style, get away with It... Unless it's a date.. but Even so, on the first meet, it's a bit too much, I think. - never had flowers given to me by a date...

Awww hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Serial killer alert "

Nope just a hopeless romantic at hart ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take some flowers…always brightens the house up

Teleporting you some now "

Thank you kindly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'You don't bring me flowers

You don't sing me love songs

You hardly talk to me anymore'"

Aww hugs sorry I start doing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Billy Bob Thornton in Big Bang comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll take some flowers…always brightens the house up

Teleporting you some now

Thank you kindly "

Your welcome

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"'You don't bring me flowers

You don't sing me love songs

You hardly talk to me anymore'

Aww hugs sorry I start doing more "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Billy Bob Thornton in Big Bang comes to mind "

Ha ha ha ok ok I get it ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, bring a bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's very sweet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, bring a bottle "

Ok then you have a deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it a few times, an old fashioned but sweet gesture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Billy Bob Thornton in Big Bang comes to mind "

Fuck the flowers, I'd take Billy Bob any day!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone turn up with a bunch of really nice flowers the first time I met them.

I don't drink wine/champagne so I suppose that was the next best gesture to make.

Never expected it either so it was a lovely thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Billy Bob Thornton in Big Bang comes to mind

Fuck the flowers, I'd take Billy Bob any day!!!"

He’s kinda cute in an oddball way

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

Known my look if I did they would have really bad hay-fever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Billy Bob Thornton in Big Bang comes to mind

Fuck the flowers, I'd take Billy Bob any day!!!"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's very sweet."

That’s what I was thinking also

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had it a few times, an old fashioned but sweet gesture."

Yip it is a very old fashioned thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had someone turn up with a bunch of really nice flowers the first time I met them.

I don't drink wine/champagne so I suppose that was the next best gesture to make.

Never expected it either so it was a lovely thing to do. "

Sounds like he was very lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Known my look if I did they would have really bad hay-fever "

I bring some hay fever tables as well then ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love flowers, I think if it was a social or a fab meet I would probably be taken aback a bit but it's a very sweet gesture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love flowers, I think if it was a social or a fab meet I would probably be taken aback a bit but it's a very sweet gesture. "

So a bit to much for a fab meet then

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'd be pleasantly surprised, not that it's ever happened. I did used to enjoy gifting things, like cake if it was something we'd talked about, but I never felt particularly appreciated for it. So now I don't bother!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a first meet? Sweet, but no.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not had flowers but someone once bought me chocolates and wine which was much appreciated.x

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Well no one else buys me flowers so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it was creepy and not welcomed, if any brought a gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone arrived with flowers I’d hope he was a florist so I could say couldn’t you leave work alone for just one day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be pleasantly surprised, not that it's ever happened. I did used to enjoy gifting things, like cake if it was something we'd talked about, but I never felt particularly appreciated for it. So now I don't bother!"

It is definitely a surprise when it happens can be a little much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not had flowers but someone once bought me chocolates and wine which was much appreciated.x "

Can never go wrong with chocolate and wine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well no one else buys me flowers so why not

Aww hugs sending virtual flowers to you now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would think it was creepy and not welcomed, if any brought a gift. "

Understandable it could be seen as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If someone arrived with flowers I’d hope he was a florist so I could say couldn’t you leave work alone for just one day?

Ha ha that’s a good one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On a first meet? Sweet, but no."

Can be and not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

If someone bought me flowers to a swinging social/swinging meet i'd cancel the meet. That's date stuff not swinging stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would think it was creepy and not welcomed, if any brought a gift. "

100%

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Well no one else buys me flowers so why not

Aww hugs sending virtual flowers to you now "

Back at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

If someone bought me flowers to a swinging social/swinging meet i'd cancel the meet. That's date stuff not swinging stuff."

But don’t most want dates not swinging ???

Just my thoughts people want connections and emotions involved that’s dateing is it not ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I got an artificial rose sprayed with a man's perfume

It wasn't a first meet though. Made me laugh

Tones

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I got an artificial rose sprayed with a man's perfume

It wasn't a first meet though. Made me laugh

Tones"

Aww that sounds like it was a lovely thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well no one else buys me flowers so why not

Aww hugs sending virtual flowers to you now

Back at you

Aww thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I got an artificial rose sprayed with a man's perfume

It wasn't a first meet though. Made me laugh

Tones

Aww that sounds like it was a lovely thought "

Yes and a good ice break before the action commenced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breaker!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Great ice breaker, love me some flowers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I got an artificial rose sprayed with a man's perfume

It wasn't a first meet though. Made me laugh

Tones

Aww that sounds like it was a lovely thought

Yes and a good ice break before the action commenced

Sounds like it would have been

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great ice breaker, love me some flowers

Yes it can be a good ice breaker to put everyone at ease

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Daffodils for me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

It depends on the person and how long we've been chatting but I love flowers. Gerbera are my fave

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey if this is becoming a wishlist then wildflowers for me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends on the person and how long we've been chatting but I love flowers. Gerbera are my fave

Em x"

It can depend on the person and teleporting some Gerberas your way now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey if this is becoming a wishlist then wildflowers for me please

Ok some wildflowers comeing right up

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Double it and pass it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Double it and pass it on "

Ooo I could never re gift

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Ah that’s cute

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now "

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah that’s cute

Aww thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the pouring rain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the pouring rain?"

That’s why bring a umbrella

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

Personally, I would feel a little uncomfortable if it was on a first-time meet. I mentally need to know that if I'm not feeling a connection, I can walk away without feeling like I've taken anything from him- hence the reason I would want to pay for the drinks etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard no - its not a date

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen "

I should have asked for more than daffodils...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

Definitely reasonable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hard no - its not a date "

Thanks for the warning in atvance beautiful I not to make that mistake with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen

I should have asked for more than daffodils..."

Ha ha yip

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen

I should have asked for more than daffodils...

Ha ha yip "

....two daffodils?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen

I should have asked for more than daffodils...

Ha ha yip

....two daffodils?"

Coming right up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's always lovely when it's done

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen

I should have asked for more than daffodils...

Ha ha yip

....two daffodils?

Coming right up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

If someone bought me flowers to a swinging social/swinging meet i'd cancel the meet. That's date stuff not swinging stuff.

But don’t most want dates not swinging ???

Just my thoughts people want connections and emotions involved that’s dateing is it not ??? "

That's not what i want. I'm a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's always lovely when it's done

It is that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what’s everyone thoughts on someone bringing you flowers to a social or first time meeting

If someone bought me flowers to a swinging social/swinging meet i'd cancel the meet. That's date stuff not swinging stuff.

But don’t most want dates not swinging ???

Just my thoughts people want connections and emotions involved that’s dateing is it not ???

That's not what i want. I'm a swinger."

Understandable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Daffodils for me please

On the way with them now

You'll do well to find any at this time but they'd be super appreciated!

I am magical I can make anything happen

I should have asked for more than daffodils...

Ha ha yip

....two daffodils?

Coming right up

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't like them. Always felt awkward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't like them. Always felt awkward. "

Some don’t like them at all

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love flowers but would hate it if a fabber got me some. No, no, no!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love flowers but would hate it if a fabber got me some. No, no, no!!"

Understandable

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’d go with chocolate covered hob nobs personally. If anything it’d get a laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d go with chocolate covered hob nobs personally. If anything it’d get a laugh "

Chocolates are always a good one

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Be a good start to a meet and break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be a good start to a meet and break the ice."

That was the thought process to the tread

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've taken a sunflower for the female of a couple before. She loved it and said it was a first.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd feel weird about it. No thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've taken a sunflower for the female of a couple before. She loved it and said it was a first. "

Awww that sounds so sweet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd feel weird about it. No thank you "

So just a bottle off bubbly then

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd think they hadn't thought it through very well if we were meeting for a coffee or a drink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd think they hadn't thought it through very well if we were meeting for a coffee or a drink "

Really just depends it can be very tough full but understanding that it’s not for everyone

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Erm... I said I was into Naughty Culture, not Horticulture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm... I said I was into Naughty Culture, not Horticulture

Ha ha

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Bit weird, I wouldn’t accept them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit weird, I wouldn’t accept them "

Could be seen as a bit odd

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

If we've been talking a week toa month - bit odd but could be their love launage.

Over a month or two and we have a flirty close connection - its lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If we've been talking a week toa month - bit odd but could be their love launage.

Over a month or two and we have a flirty close connection - its lovely."

It can be a bit much was just a thoughtful thread to see how people thought

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I would find it very strange if someone bought me flowers on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would find it very strange if someone bought me flowers on a first meet. "

I could see how it could come off like that

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By *akeuslaugh1994Man
over a year ago

Larne

On the first meet? Nope, have to see if I like them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love flowers, I think if it was a social or a fab meet I would probably be taken aback a bit but it's a very sweet gesture.

So a bit to much for a fab meet then "

Well it hasn't happened so I cant really say how I would feel 100%.

I think like I said just be a jot taken aback but if I really fancied them I would probably be like aww he is so nice haha.

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