FabSwingers.com forum: Organised socials….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Onw was great the other not so much . It depends on who goes and for me I prefer smaller events.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been to a few different ones now and they can definitely be overwhelming if you're a quiet/reserved type of person. If you're not in the right zone they can be stressful too.

Otherwise it's a great way to meet people. Put yourself out there and connect where you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been but I actually have my name down for 2 later in the year.

It's 50/50 if I'll actually go though, I think they're just too sociable for me.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We’ve been to loads & not been to a bad one. A great way to connect with others that you might not consider from their Fab profile & get the all important verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t mind.

If anyone likes his type of social, this idea was born for and from the lounge …

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1472396

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I've been to a few and always had a good experience. I know someone who is looking for any around the wirral if anyone knows of any

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I organised a few in Edinburgh and they were fun nights. It's hard work but I think everyone who attended had a good night. I went out of my way to make sure everyone was interacting and chatting with others and it filled my wee soul.

I've been to a few Glasgow socials over the years and again, a lot of work goes into them.

I'm looking forward to my first lounge social though. I think it will be a very different night out as there's so many people I've already chatted with and can't wait to meet in person.

So organised socials are a yes from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to a few. Met some gorgeous people. Want to go to the Manchester one. I like them.

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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

York in July, it's small great hosts and some nice people go would really recommend it. Off to the Manchester social in August it's an unknown but we'll see how it goes, hopefully some more fun friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like the sound of this…. Maybe this is where I need to head to get better interaction…. That way I’ll figure out if it’s my chat tahts actually terrible or just the fact it’s via messaging

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've really enjoyed them for the most part, I'm definitely enjoying them a lot more currently.

They're great to go to with someone - whether that's a lover or a friend it can be good to have that person with you. And they might change their mind and think they're not half bad.

They can be a tad overwhelming at times, new place, new people, loud... I guess it depends on the one you go to. Different socials have different vibes/people that attend.

If you find the right one and put in the effort, not only will you singalong to Hamilton, you'll also get a chance to flirt, meet some fantastic people whose friendship can transcend Fab. And dance. Poorly.

There are a couple I'm planning on going to in the coming months. I need to decide which ones are definite before the end of the month. :D

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Ooooo the sting

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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I like the sound of this…. Maybe this is where I need to head to get better interaction…. That way I’ll figure out if it’s my chat tahts actually terrible or just the fact it’s via messaging

Normally you find single guys are limited on some social, there's definitely more couples and single ladies than single guys

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Ooooo the sting

Your arsehole touched my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Onw was great the other not so much . It depends on who goes and for me I prefer smaller events."

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Ooooo the sting

Your arsehole touched my mouth

It wasn’t ‘my’ arsehole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you know some of the people going, they're an absolute blast as you have the people you know as a safety blanket and that gives you confidence to chat to new people. It can be very daunting and overwhelming with how many people are there but the ones I've been to haven't been cliquey as I'd worried and people are more than happy to chat

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’ve only ever been to the Birmingham one a couple of times and made some lush friends. It’s just a really good night out too!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Ooooo the sting

Your arsehole touched my mouth

It wasn’t ‘my’ arsehole

Ohhhhhhhhhhh it was Red's, wasn't it?!

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

I only started with the swinging thing in April. The first one I went to in Manchester I went saying to myself that I would only stay for an hour and a half. I stayed all night and had a blast. I have been to 4 group socials since including the Manchester MLS, and Up the Brum. I highly recommend them. I don't go having expectations. And I see them as a way to make friends with like minded people. If I make sexy connections too then great but I don't treat it as my goal. I did a post about group socials a while ago. I will find it and put it here.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

Here it is. People posted about what ones they enjoyed.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1462343

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

You went to one without me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Years ago I organised a few in Edinburgh and they were fun nights. It's hard work but I think everyone who attended had a good night. I went out of my way to make sure everyone was interacting and chatting with others and it filled my wee soul.

I've been to a few Glasgow socials over the years and again, a lot of work goes into them.

I'm looking forward to my first lounge social though. I think it will be a very different night out as there's so many people I've already chatted with and can't wait to meet in person.

So organised socials are a yes from me. "

I went to your Edinburgh beach one. Was one of the best ones I've been too. I did love the old ones before lock down. Haven't been to been much since. Though hopefully change that this year.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Ooooo the sting

Your arsehole touched my mouth

It wasn’t ‘my’ arsehole

Ohhhhhhhhhhh it was Red's, wasn't it?!

Seeeeee I’m right

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

You went to one without me?

I know. You were my staple. But you abandoned me. It wasn't the same without you.

I genuinely nearly messaged you to say it felt weird you weren't there!

I will send you my calendar in advance next time so you don't let me down again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a few Glasgow socials over the years and again, a lot of work goes into them.

I'm looking forward to my first lounge social though. I think it will be a very different night out as there's so many people I've already chatted with and can't wait to meet in person.

So organised socials are a yes from me.

I went to your Edinburgh beach one. Was one of the best ones I've been too. I did love the old ones before lock down. Haven't been to been much since. Though hopefully change that this year."

Wow I'm so sorry I didn't recognise you. Did you see Peter Peter Fire Eater that night? It was the most random yet fitting addition to the night! Glad you had a good night x

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I've been to two Manchester ones and loved both. I am booked for the next two and hoping to get to more further afield soon too! Really relaxed although I was terrified at first. Everyone was really lovely and welcoming. Would definitely recommend

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

hornsea

We aren't a fan, we found them a bit cliquey.

Mr H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a few Glasgow socials over the years and again, a lot of work goes into them.

I'm looking forward to my first lounge social though. I think it will be a very different night out as there's so many people I've already chatted with and can't wait to meet in person.

So organised socials are a yes from me.

I went to your Edinburgh beach one. Was one of the best ones I've been too. I did love the old ones before lock down. Haven't been to been much since. Though hopefully change that this year.

Wow I'm so sorry I didn't recognise you. Did you see Peter Peter Fire Eater that night? It was the most random yet fitting addition to the night! Glad you had a good night x "

Yeah he tried to teach me it on the beach! He's a cool guy. I was the one at the start of the night with the guy trying to help you get that gazebo tent thing up. Though I'm sure I had a different name back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You went to one without me?

I know. You were my staple. But you abandoned me. It wasn't the same without you.

I genuinely nearly messaged you to say it felt weird you weren't there!

I will send you my calendar in advance next time so you don't let me down again."

Awww that's actually so adorable you were going to message me

sorry I abandoned you but I'm sure you had a great time! And yes, send me your calendar and we can even colour coordinate

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Luckily you can avoid them!

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

We’re so glad you stayed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a few Glasgow socials over the years and again, a lot of work goes into them.

I'm looking forward to my first lounge social though. I think it will be a very different night out as there's so many people I've already chatted with and can't wait to meet in person.

So organised socials are a yes from me.

I went to your Edinburgh beach one. Was one of the best ones I've been too. I did love the old ones before lock down. Haven't been to been much since. Though hopefully change that this year.

Wow I'm so sorry I didn't recognise you. Did you see Peter Peter Fire Eater that night? It was the most random yet fitting addition to the night! Glad you had a good night x

Ah now I remember you!

I'm really not sure why I ever thought that gazebo would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a couple of Manchester ones - i enjoyed them. It can be overwhelming plucking up courage to chat - but everyone is in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been to a couple of Manchester ones - i enjoyed them. It can be overwhelming plucking up courage to chat - but everyone is in the same boat

You still owe me a "hello"! But you're right about everyone being in the same boat as it's not easy approaching people

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"You went to one without me?

I know. You were my staple. But you abandoned me. It wasn't the same without you.

I genuinely nearly messaged you to say it felt weird you weren't there!

I will send you my calendar in advance next time so you don't let me down again.

Awww that's actually so adorable you were going to message me

sorry I abandoned you but I'm sure you had a great time! And yes, send me your calendar and we can even colour coordinate

I will add you to my 'swing' calendar. And yes I do have a calendar called swing with all the socials I fancy doing it club nights infancy going to. I am yellow.

Hope to see you at one soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You went to one without me?

I know. You were my staple. But you abandoned me. It wasn't the same without you.

I genuinely nearly messaged you to say it felt weird you weren't there!

I will send you my calendar in advance next time so you don't let me down again.

Awww that's actually so adorable you were going to message me

sorry I abandoned you but I'm sure you had a great time! And yes, send me your calendar and we can even colour coordinate

I will add you to my 'swing' calendar. And yes I do have a calendar called swing with all the socials I fancy doing it club nights infancy going to. I am yellow.

Hope to see you at one soon!"

Oh my god, that is some serious organisation skills

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

We’re so glad you stayed xx

Me too. I had a lovely evening.

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I go to organised socials regularly at After Dark. They're always great nights

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

Awww that's actually so adorable you were going to message me

sorry I abandoned you but I'm sure you had a great time! And yes, send me your calendar and we can even colour coordinate

I will add you to my 'swing' calendar. And yes I do have a calendar called swing with all the socials I fancy doing it club nights infancy going to. I am yellow.

Hope to see you at one soon!

Oh my god, that is some serious organisation skills

You call it organisation. I call it ADHD lack of memory.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m a bit of a social whore

My next two are York IN July and the FAB MCR in August

Had some fantastic weekends away at different socials up and down the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been to a couple of Manchester ones - i enjoyed them. It can be overwhelming plucking up courage to chat - but everyone is in the same boat

You still owe me a "hello"! But you're right about everyone being in the same boat as it's not easy approaching people"

Have we been at the same one?! So many people i didn't even get chance to say hi to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been to a couple of Manchester ones - i enjoyed them. It can be overwhelming plucking up courage to chat - but everyone is in the same boat

You still owe me a "hello"! But you're right about everyone being in the same boat as it's not easy approaching people

Have we been at the same one?! So many people i didn't even get chance to say hi to

It might have been one of the Manchester ones last year? Unless that was someone else

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

We've had a great time at several organised socials.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done a swing one and think would struggle as a single man

Used to do kink ones and enjoyed them, used to help host them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And dance. Poorly."

Speak for yourself.

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Done a few of the Manchester ones a few years ago and they were great fun. Done a few of the Norwich ones recently and again great fun. Good chance to meet up with like minded people in the scene. Always got a hotel room and stay overnight as you never know what can happen

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Love them. The Manchester one was my first this time around on Fab and can’t wait for the next one

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Never done a swing one and think would struggle as a single man

Used to do kink ones and enjoyed them, used to help host them "

You need to join the UpTheBrum Socials!! Single men always welcome but you have to be quick to sign up

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We love them and attend as many as we can we don’t meet people through fab anymore it’s to much hard work so socials for us are a great way to meet new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had my name down for a few but never made it. I shall try again but I may have to try and make a friend before hand to walk in with or I may not get through the door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it seems I shall be doing my research on socials then…. And hopefully attending some near me soon….

Thank you one & all….

Maybe I’ll see some of you soon

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've been to a few now, I love them, I find it so much easier meeting people at face value.

I think as long as you mingle a little there really fun, if you stand in a corner and expect everyone to approach you not so much, it's a bit like fab you get out what you put in.

In my experience everyone is friendly and it's a great way to meet new people.

We've our next one in October for the Leeds social I can't wait.

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Ive had my name down for a few but never made it. I shall try again but I may have to try and make a friend before hand to walk in with or I may not get through the door.

Hey Maren, if you do want someone to walk in with? I'm more than happy to be that someone. Once your foot is through the door it's so much easier, it's just getting to that point that can be tricky. Anyway, let me know, x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have been to a few and we have always enjoyed them, we are still hopeful to try and attend one or two this year

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I have my name down for one later this year. I was very easily talked into it by my gal pal who is quite the social butterfly

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I have my name down for one later this year. I was very easily talked into it by my gal pal who is quite the social butterfly"

We wanna go to that one!!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm a social whore as well as Cookie, Frequent attendee of the CNL and Northampton social, upthebrum is next month for my first one, lichvegas was fun. Manchester was awesome, but its too far for me to justify the cost of the weekend away.

I'm looking forward to Bedford in September as another new for me social

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have my name down for one later this year. I was very easily talked into it by my gal pal who is quite the social butterfly"

Make sure the squirrels are groomed first, yeah?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"I have my name down for one later this year. I was very easily talked into it by my gal pal who is quite the social butterfly

Make sure the squirrels are groomed first, yeah?"

The fleas on the squirrels will be wearing bow ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

What does Extra mean?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Been to a few and loved them! Love chatting to meeting new people! Very friendly peeps on the whole made a few good friends x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have my name down for one later this year. I was very easily talked into it by my gal pal who is quite the social butterfly

Make sure the squirrels are groomed first, yeah?

The fleas on the squirrels will be wearing bow ties."

They're going to be looking sharp as fuck. Would it be over the top for the squirrels to wear a blazer rather than a long coat? I'm thinking not.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Don't worry - you can be as extra as you want with me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"If you don’t mind.

If anyone likes his type of social, this idea was born for and from the lounge …

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1472396

No offence…. This is where you have to be an OG… this is nowhere near the right answer!

This might of been the post COVID reboot… but the fab socials were things of lore

You could almost set out a timetable and diary…. Wigan taking over a cricket club, 400 at the Glasgow social, persuading a Nottingham city centre pub to go private on a Saturday night to let 300 of us party, booking out 3 wings of a hotel in Doncaster, getting 3 buses to take people post social in Newcastle to a curry house

Birmingham, Bristol, Southampton, Essex , the gay village in Manchester, the Cardiff takeover of an Aussie pub!

A few things back then…

1) organisers use to liaise with each other so they didn’t clash and they were spaced apart

2) people from all over the country use to go and make weekends of them

3) they were not affiliated with clubs… social literally meant socialising and in that respect you didn’t have to limit different groups because you knew they were non play events (what you did after was up to you)

Me and obi-fox talked about it in a thread about socials a few weeks ago on here

In a weird way you didn’t have to worry about journalists being there because there was no play the headline “adults getting d*unk and singing on a Saturday night” isn’t really grabbing!

I will always maintain what killed the grand old socials of old were the rise of local chatrooms… because people then thought in an insular way, and the chatrooms are little bubbles within themselves!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"We have been to a few and we have always enjoyed them, we are still hopeful to try and attend one or two this year

D."

And which ones might those be? Asking for a friend

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have only been to one. There were some lovely people there, but unfortunately it was overshadowed by a couple of women that have to “hold court”, otherwise known as bore the ass of you.

I might have to venture further afield at some point, but I treat club visits as socials…. Unless they become naughtier

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Ive had my name down for a few but never made it. I shall try again but I may have to try and make a friend before hand to walk in with or I may not get through the door.

I’ll second what Meli said. If we end up going to the same social I’ll gladly walk in with you and keep you company until you are comfortable with being there. That’s the daunting part

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had a great time at many.

I can't put my name down for any London ones now as they're always on a Friday.

The one time I could I was too ill to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have my name down for one later this year. I was very easily talked into it by my gal pal who is quite the social butterfly"

Ooooh and which social might that be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a Couple Years ago when I was first on here..

Totally insane for a Newbie to Socials but I've bitten the bullet and am off to UtB9 on my own (If you see someone sat in the Corner for a while.. that'll be me!)

It's a great way to meet People You Wouldn't/Couldn't play with and just chat with them about everything.

No Play means no pressure for that click but yeah, it worked for Me..

Highly recommend going to One (or 10) and just chilling with People who aren't going to judge you or critisise your lifestyle and just have a bloody good laugh about anything from Halls Soothers to a particual drink

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Luckily you can avoid them! "

I was referring to the bumhole brownies, haven't met any actual arseholes at socials. Apart from Rex, obviously

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"They’re great, I’ve met 1 or 2 from this thread already at such events

I generally enjoy them, but sometimes arseholes turn up

Luckily you can avoid them!

I was referring to the bumhole brownies, haven't met any actual arseholes at socials. Apart from Rex, obviously

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Went to a Couple Years ago when I was first on here..

Totally insane for a Newbie to Socials but I've bitten the bullet and am off to UtB9 on my own (If you see someone sat in the Corner for a while.. that'll be me!)

It's a great way to meet People You Wouldn't/Couldn't play with and just chat with them about everything.

No Play means no pressure for that click but yeah, it worked for Me..

You’ll be well looked after at UTB - it’s always great night

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ll be well looked after at UTB - it’s always great night

J x"

Totally Agree which is why I made that my First Sign-up on returning. x

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve only been to the MLS. It was lovely and a brilliant day/night.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Another social whore here

I absolutely love them, meeting so many people, laughing until my sides hurt, flirting, dancing and getting up to general silliness! I've met the best people at socials, my besties for life, the love of my life and others I've made amazing memories with! Socials have enabled paths to cross that have brought the happiest (and sexiest) times since joining fab, long may it continue!

Cherry x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m up for a social BTW

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I've attended a handful of London socials. The Bank Social was my first one and I was extremely nervous and hesitant in attending, because I didn't really know what I had signed up for! It was also very convenient to get to and I knew that I could bail out if my nerves got the better of me.

I previously attended the (now defunct) 'City Social' which was a much smaller affair but thoroughly enjoyable - it was like a dinner party in a wine bar.

I recently mentioned The Central North London Social, which is now the stalwart of the London-based socials. I've only been a couple of times and these have been a genuinely fantastic experience, a perfect conduit to meet some truly wonderful, engaging, inclusive but bat-shit crazy Forumites!

I still find them a daunting experience because of nervousness and the "going alone Billy no mates" sense of feeling.

I'm attending the next Manchester Social in September. This is a big step for me as it's my first non-London social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don’t mind.

If anyone likes his type of social, this idea was born for and from the lounge …

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1472396

No offence…. This is where you have to be an OG… this is nowhere near the right answer!

This might of been the post COVID reboot… but the fab socials were things of lore

Birmingham, Bristol, Southampton, Essex , the gay village in Manchester, the Cardiff takeover of an Aussie pub!

A few things back then…

1) organisers use to liaise with each other so they didn’t clash and they were spaced apart

2) people from all over the country use to go and make weekends of them

Me and obi-fox talked about it in a thread about socials a few weeks ago on here

In a weird way you didn’t have to worry about journalists being there because there was no play the headline “adults getting d*unk and singing on a Saturday night” isn’t really grabbing!

Ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still find them a daunting experience because of nervousness and the "going alone Billy no mates" sense of feeling"

Yep, I get You there.. I'm nervous as hell about UtB9 (Also Local so I know where to go if I bail) but also it's exciting as it's out of that "comfort zone" but as You know, once You're in that door, it's so welcoming that you feel you've known some people for years

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Went to a Couple Years ago when I was first on here..

Totally insane for a Newbie to Socials but I've bitten the bullet and am off to UtB9 on my own (If you see someone sat in the Corner for a while.. that'll be me!)

It's a great way to meet People You Wouldn't/Couldn't play with and just chat with them about everything.

No Play means no pressure for that click but yeah, it worked for Me..

You’ll be well looked after at UTB - it’s always great night

J x"

Second what J says, always a good night with loads of friendly people.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Depends what you want out of them.

They can be great human zoo’s, spotting newbies, predators, fuck bois/gurls, hypocrits, attention whores, cheats and the rare genuine person.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We actually prefer these ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t been on one yet, but I’m very tempted to go along and meet the people I chat to

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

"If you don’t mind.

If anyone likes his type of social, this idea was born for and from the lounge …

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1472396

No offence…. This is where you have to be an OG… this is nowhere near the right answer!

This might of been the post COVID reboot… but the fab socials were things of lore

Birmingham, Bristol, Southampton, Essex , the gay village in Manchester, the Cardiff takeover of an Aussie pub!

A few things back then…

1) organisers use to liaise with each other so they didn’t clash and they were spaced apart

2) people from all over the country use to go and make weekends of them

Me and obi-fox talked about it in a thread about socials a few weeks ago on here

In a weird way you didn’t have to worry about journalists being there because there was no play the headline “adults getting d*unk and singing on a Saturday night” isn’t really grabbing!

Ok. "

Woody wears the OG tee-shirt you know...

MLS 2016 printed on the back

Cherry x

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Would love to go to one in Manchester x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've been to 1 or 2

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've been to a few. Some were good enough craic others not so much .I wouldn't be that bothered about going to anymore large ones if I'm honest as the bad ones put me off them.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together "

That's not why you were shaking

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together

That's not why you were shaking

Grumpy shusssh now, it was our dirty little secret

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together

That's not why you were shaking

Grumpy shusssh now, it was our dirty little secret "

Oops Soz

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together

That's not why you were shaking

Grumpy shusssh now, it was our dirty little secret

Oops Soz

To late your sorry's Grumpy, im butt hurt not for the first time

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Don't worry - you can be as extra as you want with me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Pffft. You're always extra

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Pffft. You're always extra

Shhhh, I am playing it down! Its when Testarossa of old takes over

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Pffft. You're always extra

Shhhh, I am playing it down! Its when Testarossa of old takes over

Oops. Soz.

Yeah. You're all chill and anti extra and shiz

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together

That's not why you were shaking

Grumpy shusssh now, it was our dirty little secret

Oops Soz

To late your sorry's Grumpy, im butt hurt not for the first time

You should have said your butt hurt , I'd have stopped

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to 1 or 2

Just 1 or 2

I'm shy

Thats why we were both shaking like shitting dogs in the corner together

That's not why you were shaking

Grumpy shusssh now, it was our dirty little secret

Oops Soz

To late your sorry's Grumpy, im butt hurt not for the first time

You should have said your butt hurt , I'd have stopped

You promised me lube Grumpy, where was the lube

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Pffft. You're always extra

Shhhh, I am playing it down! Its when Testarossa of old takes over

You’ll have a great time!! We can’t make it sadly

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Second what J says, always a good night with loads of friendly people. "

Oh I know I will Chap.. it's just getting up the Guts to walk in the Door on my own is the Daunting bit

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I haven't been to any since I was single, although I have tried, a couple of times.

I am going to the MLS though, although I will probably be "Extra" which is my defense mechanism for nerves

Pffft. You're always extra

Shhhh, I am playing it down! Its when Testarossa of old takes over

You’ll have a great time!! We can’t make it sadly

J x"

Thats a shame, perhaps the next one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve been to loads & not been to a bad one. A great way to connect with others that you might not consider from their Fab profile & get the all important verifications "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to our first last night and absolutely loved it, will definitely go to more

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Organised socials and the forums are the essence of my Fab experience.

I’ve done a few in London (including one last night) and also did Manchester earlier in the year (and I’m back next month)

I thoroughly enjoy them and enjoy chatting with people I might not naturally converse with in the forums or in private chats

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

I am getting pretty excited by how many people are going to MLS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Second what J says, always a good night with loads of friendly people.

Oh I know I will Chap.. it's just getting up the Guts to walk in the Door on my own is the Daunting bit "

I'll always meet ya so you don't have to

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit."

Why don't you think you fit in appearance wise? There are people of all shapes, sizes, age... you get the idea.

I don't think socials are easy if you're shy, at all. x

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit."

I'm a complete car wreck n I fit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the body confidence or the money to buy an appropriate outfit.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit.

I'm a complete car wreck n I fit..."

Fair point that

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Wish there were more during the week. Bugger for childcare at weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have the body confidence or the money to buy an appropriate outfit.

You don't need a Specific Outfit SD.. just something that You're comfy wearing and can be Yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Second what J says, always a good night with loads of friendly people.

Oh I know I will Chap.. it's just getting up the Guts to walk in the Door on my own is the Daunting bit

I'll always meet ya so you don't have to "

Thank you for the offer.. I'll remember it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit.

I'm a complete car wreck n I fit...

Fair point that

Then i met you and felt so much better

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

I have updated my profile and written at the bottom what socials I am going to. If anyone is going to one that I am and is nervous. Please hit me up. I will probably add more too since I am becoming obsessed.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit.

I'm a complete car wreck n I fit...

Fair point that

Then i met you and felt so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Second what J says, always a good night with loads of friendly people.

Oh I know I will Chap.. it's just getting up the Guts to walk in the Door on my own is the Daunting bit

I'll always meet ya so you don't have to

Thank you for the offer.. I'll remember it "

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm considering starting a couple of London socials. Midweek ones for those that can't do weekends (I usually cant)

I piggy backed on a abandoned cubs and Cougars thread to gauge interest but only really got guys in their late 30s - 40s replying.

To me a cub is 18-29 right?

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Never been to one

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Never been to one"

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Never been to one

Might have to change that

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Never been to one

Might have to change that

Yes you should

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Never been to one

Might have to change that

Yes you should

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I've had a great time at many.

I can't put my name down for any London ones now as they're always on a Friday.

The one time I could I was too ill to go."

That will be soon to change Nanna we are just working on a venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll always meet ya so you don't have to

Thank you for the offer.. I'll remember it

And me"

Still a few slots for UtB9 SD.. get Your name down, I'll walk in with You as well as Mr G (take my mind off my own nerves before I go and hide)

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"I have updated my profile and written at the bottom what socials I am going to. If anyone is going to one that I am and is nervous. Please hit me up. I will probably add more too since I am becoming obsessed."

That’s lovely

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit."

There is room for everyone. Unless you try you won’t know

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"I've been to a couple. Total nightmare. I'm too shy and appearance wise i don't fit."

It’s a shame that’s been your experience. Hopefully you don’t give up on socials. I’d love to buy you a drink and say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them swinging for me is more than sex it's the lifestyle and people that keep me coming back for more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of a massive group social makes me shiver. I think I operate much better in smaller more intimate groups, mainly 121’s with singles or couples, most I’ve ever done off Fab was with 3 ladies off the forums for a night out in London back when I was here first, even then I felt a bit out of place as they were kind of in girls night out mode..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Been to loads, Met my partner at one, I usually check the list first just to make sure I know some people going and who to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been but I actually have my name down for 2 later in the year.

It's 50/50 if I'll actually go though, I think they're just too sociable for me. "

surely they are as social as you decide beautiful myself i end up go clubbing you must join me sometime x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been and didn’t have the best experience, more to do with the venue being too small than anything. The people were great and made some good connections there though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm considering starting a couple of London socials. Midweek ones for those that can't do weekends (I usually cant)

I piggy backed on a abandoned cubs and Cougars thread to gauge interest but only really got guys in their late 30s - 40s replying.

To me a cub is 18-29 right? "

Depends if the cougars are in their 70's

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I don't have the body confidence or the money to buy an appropriate outfit.

I felt like this. Then we went to our 1st social & there was such a mix of people wearing whatever they felt comfortable in (jeans, dresses, trainers, heels, Docs) & not caring what others thought of them x Last week I walked in looking like a drowned rat, barefoot carrying my soaked sandals - not my best look but still had a great time xx

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We have been to quite a few Birmingham (UTB) socials and love them! We have made so many great connections, and proper friends off the back of it.

We are going to spread our wings and try the Leeds social a bit later in the year too. Any hand holders for that one would be appreciated

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"We have been to quite a few Birmingham (UTB) socials and love them! We have made so many great connections, and proper friends off the back of it.

We are going to spread our wings and try the Leeds social a bit later in the year too. Any hand holders for that one would be appreciated

Have you met Fred & Wilma at UTB? They organise LichVegas but have attended the Leeds social

J x

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over a year ago

"I'll always meet ya so you don't have to

Thank you for the offer.. I'll remember it

And me

Still a few slots for UtB9 SD.. get Your name down, I'll walk in with You as well as Mr G (take my mind off my own nerves before I go and hide)"

How do I find out about UtB9?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I've had a great time at many.

I can't put my name down for any London ones now as they're always on a Friday.

The one time I could I was too ill to go.

That will be soon to change Nanna we are just working on a venue

On a Saturday?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I've had a great time at many.

I can't put my name down for any London ones now as they're always on a Friday.

The one time I could I was too ill to go.

That will be soon to change Nanna we are just working on a venue

On a Saturday?"

Yes

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"We have been to quite a few Birmingham (UTB) socials and love them! We have made so many great connections, and proper friends off the back of it.

We are going to spread our wings and try the Leeds social a bit later in the year too. Any hand holders for that one would be appreciated

We'll hold your hands if you'll hold ours

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We have been to quite a few Birmingham (UTB) socials and love them! We have made so many great connections, and proper friends off the back of it.

We are going to spread our wings and try the Leeds social a bit later in the year too. Any hand holders for that one would be appreciated

Can happily hand hold, looks like a good bunch going to Leeds Oct.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I find out about UtB9?"

Messaged You

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"We have been to quite a few Birmingham (UTB) socials and love them! We have made so many great connections, and proper friends off the back of it.

We are going to spread our wings and try the Leeds social a bit later in the year too. Any hand holders for that one would be appreciated

We'll hold your hands if you'll hold ours

If you are even half as lovely as J we would be silly to turn down such a kind offer

K x

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"We have been to quite a few Birmingham (UTB) socials and love them! We have made so many great connections, and proper friends off the back of it.

We are going to spread our wings and try the Leeds social a bit later in the year too. Any hand holders for that one would be appreciated

Can happily hand hold, looks like a good bunch going to Leeds Oct.

Mrs "

Thank you so much!

It will be lovely to meet the people behind all those beautiful photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it. I've registered for UTB9.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Love them, love chatting to like-minded people about the scene. I need to build a rapport with someone before having fun so the socials allow me to do that in a no-pressure environment. Mrs

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I use to attend the organised London socials fairly regularly before lockdown and always found them a good night out with the opportunity to make some connections for future adult events or 1 to 1 adult fun.I attended my first social for 3 years at the start of the year and it was a good night out and I hope to attend more in the near future.For me it’s about making the time to attend which I don’t always do.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve been to a good few. A bit of flirting with like minded people. I’ve ended up in clubs afterwards. I even got invited back to a small house get together after. That was a late night. Lol.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I've never been to one but I would like to go.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

This meadow flower ^ is my next plus ¹...

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Evening all your beauties

So what are your experiences of the planned socials … not the 1-1 but the event type …where like minded folk attend.

Did they work out for you?

Would you do them again?

Are you a frequent attendee?

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I did try to go to one recently unfortunately it wasn't advertised in the meets section so i was late getting to it and even though i was a few weeks before the event no places left for guys, they were still advertising for women and couples the day before, such is life

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"This meadow flower ^ is my next plus ¹...

You say the sweetest things Nero

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I've done it. I've registered for UTB9.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I've had a great time at many.

I can't put my name down for any London ones now as they're always on a Friday.

The one time I could I was too ill to go.

That will be soon to change Nanna we are just working on a venue

On a Saturday?

Yes

Great! Fingers crossed it doesn't clash with anything my family have planned

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I've had a great time at many.

I can't put my name down for any London ones now as they're always on a Friday.

The one time I could I was too ill to go.

That will be soon to change Nanna we are just working on a venue

On a Saturday?

Yes

Oooh! That’s fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to attend a few later in the year.

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By *red and daphneCouple
over a year ago

in the middle

We love them, like a few that mentioned it before, the utb socials are always good, great venues and such a great mix of people. The organisers really go to town ensuring everyone has a good night. We've met some wonderful people through their events. Looking to attend many more socials when we're not actually doing life things.

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over a year ago

"We love them, like a few that mentioned it before, the utb socials are always good, great venues and such a great mix of people. The organisers really go to town ensuring everyone has a good night. We've met some wonderful people through their events. Looking to attend many more socials when we're not actually doing life things. "

Totally agree, I was at UtB1 in the Jewellry Quarter 3yrs ago and had a laugh

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