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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maintaining a sense of identity is important, but throughout life we might lose sight of ourselves. Whether in a relationship, due to a job, or by trying to impress someone, we stand the chance of losing sight of who we really are

How do you avoid losing sight of your personal goals and identity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By choosing to prioritise relationships with people that love those things about me and for me.

I’d say always exploring things I want to. Sometimes just with different friends, partners etc

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm not sure we have one true identity. I think we have several. They often share a core but can be radically different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation.""

Having a wank then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

Having a wank then? "

Give it go. See if you feel more self appreciated

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

Having a wank then?

Give it go. See if you feel more self appreciated "

I dunno, I sometimes feel quite dirty and a little resentment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think our goals and identity aren’t independent of others they are shaped by them, just as we share those of others. The ones on whom we have no effect, or who do not effect us in sone way, we see as transient and ancillary to our lives at best, egocentric and remote at worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

Having a wank then?

Give it go. See if you feel more self appreciated

I dunno, I sometimes feel quite dirty and a little resentment"

Do you call yourself names whilst your doing it?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Maintaining a sense of identity is important, but throughout life we might lose sight of ourselves. Whether in a relationship, due to a job, or by trying to impress someone, we stand the chance of losing sight of who we really are

How do you avoid losing sight of your personal goals and identity?"

By not letting external relationships, get in the way of the relationship I have with myself. Being true to myself and not crossing my own boundaries

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I keep sight of my goals by saying no to the things that I don’t want to do. Knowing what to say no to and _actually_ being able to say it is key for me.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

Having a wank then?

Give it go. See if you feel more self appreciated

I dunno, I sometimes feel quite dirty and a little resentment

Do you call yourself names whilst your doing it?"

Oh, not during. After it's done.

During, it's single minded self lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

Having a wank then?

Give it go. See if you feel more self appreciated

I dunno, I sometimes feel quite dirty and a little resentment

Do you call yourself names whilst your doing it?

Oh, not during. After it's done.

During, it's single minded self lust "

"Who's a bad boy?"

"Daves a bad boy!"

That kind of thing afterwards then?

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've said it before I'll say it again.

"By increasing our sense of self appreciation."

Having a wank then?

Give it go. See if you feel more self appreciated

I dunno, I sometimes feel quite dirty and a little resentment

Do you call yourself names whilst your doing it?

Oh, not during. After it's done.

During, it's single minded self lust

"Who's a bad boy?"

"Daves a bad boy!"

That kind of thing afterwards then?"

Among other things, yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive gotten lost in the void of motherhood (which isnt a bad thing at all) but it is definitely a way to lose yourself. Having time and energy to remember doing the things you like doing and then allowing yourself to do them will be the way back for me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Serious answer. Surround yourself with people that have similar values and make yourself accountable to them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Periodic reflection and adjustment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maintaining a sense of identity is important, but throughout life we might lose sight of ourselves. Whether in a relationship, due to a job, or by trying to impress someone, we stand the chance of losing sight of who we really are

How do you avoid losing sight of your personal goals and identity?"

I don’t know how people function without extended periods of time alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maintaining a sense of identity is important, but throughout life we might lose sight of ourselves. Whether in a relationship, due to a job, or by trying to impress someone, we stand the chance of losing sight of who we really are

How do you avoid losing sight of your personal goals and identity?

I don’t know how people function without extended periods of time alone "

You couldn't pay us enough to spend time apart.

40 year together and still both very much in love.

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