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Is National Pride a Good Thing

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By *aravancouple OP   Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

I see nothing wrong with National Pride.

what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud to be British, I mean English, no I mean..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it capitalised? Is it a tv show or a political party or something? Or is it an abstract concept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree nothing more annoying than folk running the place down. Dont like go somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until it becomes jingoistic

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

Very poor bread. Prefer seeded etc.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

National pride is a great thing until it gets synonymous with thuggery and violent racist, xenophobic riots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am proud to be British....but,somewhat hypocritically,I can't wait to retire and fuck off somewhere warm for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fiercely proud of being Scottish but my father and grandfathers fought shoulder to shoulder with Welsh, Irish and English men in 2 world wars so I'm also proud to be British and don't see anything wrong with either.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Nothing wrong with it at all..

but some dont seem to differentiate between it and lets kick some foriegn looking persons head in..

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Until it becomes jingoistic "

Which it so often does....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I see nothing wrong with National Pride.

what you think"
Its a fabulous thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you look at it. One way, it seems wildly irrational to be proud of where your mum happened to be when you popped out - something you had no control over whatsoever.

Another way, it's natural to identify with the people around you and stick up for each other. After all, they're the ones who are likely to be able to help you out later on if you need it as well.

Or maybe at it's heart it's about identity - people don't feel significant unless they're a part of something so they big up the idea of a nation in order to define themselves. Which seems a bit pathetic, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how you look at it. One way, it seems wildly irrational to be proud of where your mum happened to be when you popped out - something you had no control over whatsoever.

Another way, it's natural to identify with the people around you and stick up for each other. After all, they're the ones who are likely to be able to help you out later on if you need it as well.

Or maybe at it's heart it's about identity - people don't feel significant unless they're a part of something so they big up the idea of a nation in order to define themselves. Which seems a bit pathetic, really."
Completely agree with your reasoning. After all if we were all genetically tested I'm sure we would find we're all multi-national. Nations were created by the powerful and wealthy to enslave those within their agreed man made borders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to be clear, the point about the rich enslaving the poor isn't at all what I was saying. Seems sometimes like you can't have a thread about anything on fab without a class war breaking out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humans are pack animals and we function better as part of a cohesive unit with whom we identify.

My 'pack' happens to be British and if push came to shove and myself and another Brit found ourselves abroad amongst a foreign 'pack' baying for our blood I would defend my countryman even if I hated his guts.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love it... I love this country

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"I love it... I love this country"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humans are pack animals and we function better as part of a cohesive unit with whom we identify.

My 'pack' happens to be British and if push came to shove and myself and another Brit found ourselves abroad amongst a foreign 'pack' baying for our blood I would defend my countryman even if I hated his guts."

To be honest I wouldn't - a twat is a twat whatever their nationality and a British twat acting like a twat in another country won't get any help from me.

Overseas I find I'm equally proud and ashamed to be British (or English) but that goes with our history (and those fuckwits they show on late night TV programmes of Brits abroad).

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Overseas I find I'm equally proud and ashamed to be British (or English) but that goes with our history (and those fuckwits they show on late night TV programmes of Brits abroad)."

tend to agree, there are times when we will avoid some of 'our own' when abroad..

then again we tend to avoid the same folk in this country tbh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it... I love this country"

this country... More like cuntry... Im embarassed to be english... What a shithole... We have become the dumping ground of europe...

Spineless people who whine and moan but dont have the courage or fight in them to make a change... All crushed into shopping centres... Great britain???? Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it... I love this country

this country... More like cuntry... Im embarassed to be english... What a shithole... We have become the dumping ground of europe...

Spineless people who whine and moan but dont have the courage or fight in them to make a change... All crushed into shopping centres... Great britain???? Where?"

Does anyone else see the glaring irony in this post?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I love it... I love this country

this country... More like cuntry... Im embarassed to be english... What a shithole... We have become the dumping ground of europe...

Spineless people who whine and moan but dont have the courage or fight in them to make a change... All crushed into shopping centres... Great britain???? Where?"

och well, different strokes and all that.....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I love it... I love this country

this country... More like cuntry... Im embarassed to be english... What a shithole... We have become the dumping ground of europe...

Spineless people who whine and moan but dont have the courage or fight in them to make a change... All crushed into shopping centres... Great britain???? Where?"

Who or what do you think some people should be fighting to change..?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Until it becomes jingoistic "

exactly what I would have said.... it was great for those 6 weeks last summer with the olympics and paralympics and people had a huge pride in the nation without it being bad at all...

the issue is when it becomes jingoistic that the problems arise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha - get out of the shopping centres you weak pathetic fools and follow that angry man.

(which direction did he go in?)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I love it... I love this country

this country... More like cuntry... Im embarassed to be english... What a shithole... We have become the dumping ground of europe...

Spineless people who whine and moan but dont have the courage or fight in them to make a change... All crushed into shopping centres... Great britain???? Where?

Does anyone else see the glaring irony in this post? "

So glaring my specs just went dark.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"haha - get out of the shopping centres you weak pathetic fools and follow that angry man.

(which direction did he go in?)"

he's so angry he cant formulate an answer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha - get out of the shopping centres you weak pathetic fools and follow that angry man.

(which direction did he go in?)

he's so angry he cant formulate an answer..

"

Think he popped to the 24 hour Tesco for chamomile tea.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"haha - get out of the shopping centres you weak pathetic fools and follow that angry man.

(which direction did he go in?)

he's so angry he cant formulate an answer..

Think he popped to the 24 hour Tesco for chamomile tea."

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

If we would only learn from our forefathers ( yes I know you only had one dad ) maybe the pride in ourselves and the children we leave to follow us maybe we would have more humility and make fewer mistakes but we must all have pride in the PEOPLE not some iconic flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"National pride is a great thing until it gets synonymous with thuggery and violent racist, xenophobic riots "

but there will always be an element looking to attach itself onto any cause, that can be twisted into a fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we would only learn from our forefathers ( yes I know you only had one dad ) maybe the pride in ourselves and the children we leave to follow us maybe we would have more humility and make fewer mistakes but we must all have pride in the PEOPLE not some iconic flag"

It is the flag that soldiers rallied to in time gone past to fight a battle against an oppressive enemy who would enslave us (our forebears). That's what it represents, and to disrespect it is to disrespect every man or woman who has laid down their lives in defence of what it is and what it means. Our flag could have a picture of a bunch of daisies on it but it would still be our flag.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm proud to be British. I have really welcomed the reclaiming of the flag over the last year. Proud to be British doesn't have to mean jingoism or disrespecting/hating any other nationality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm proud to be British. I have really welcomed the reclaiming of the flag over the last year. Proud to be British doesn't have to mean jingoism or disrespecting/hating any other nationality."

Can't argue with that.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I'm proud to be British. I have really welcomed the reclaiming of the flag over the last year. Proud to be British doesn't have to mean jingoism or disrespecting/hating any other nationality."

Best post on the thread...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I'm proud to be British. I have really welcomed the reclaiming of the flag over the last year. Proud to be British doesn't have to mean jingoism or disrespecting/hating any other nationality."

Spot on.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"If we would only learn from our forefathers ( yes I know you only had one dad ) maybe the pride in ourselves and the children we leave to follow us maybe we would have more humility and make fewer mistakes but we must all have pride in the PEOPLE not some iconic flag

It is the flag that soldiers rallied to in time gone past to fight a battle against an oppressive enemy who would enslave us (our forebears). That's what it represents, and to disrespect it is to disrespect every man or woman who has laid down their lives in defence of what it is and what it means. Our flag could have a picture of a bunch of daisies on it but it would still be our flag."

I agree

but unfortunately people have lost that meaning and attach the flag to a sport or political cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am proud to be British....but,somewhat hypocritically,I can't wait to retire and fuck off somewhere warm for good. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha - get out of the shopping centres you weak pathetic fools and follow that angry man.

(which direction did he go in?)"

I want to follow him, but didn't see which shopping centre he was heading out of. Was it the English one or the British one.

We once got into a debate with a meat head in a bar one night, who proclaimed - on the subject of language - 'there's only one language for me. And that's British'. We laughed until we saw he was being serious! Maybe its the same guy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

English first, British second. If it's good enough for the Welsh, Scots and Irish, it's good enough for us.

St George's Day should be celebrated in the same, d*unken way as St Pat's.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

Im very proud to be English my folks are both jocks but i was born in England.. Being proud of our Country is a mine field its easy to be called a racist or a pureist im neither i dont care for religion, n creed isnt an issue

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By *ayjay218Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I'm fiercely proud of being Scottish but my father and grandfathers fought shoulder to shoulder with Welsh, Irish and English men in 2 world wars so I'm also proud to be British and don't see anything wrong with either."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"English first, British second. If it's good enough for the Welsh, Scots and Irish, it's good enough for us.

St George's Day should be celebrated in the same, d*unken way as St Pat's.

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I do feel increasingly 'English' but it was good in the summer to feel British too. And as others have said I agree there should be an effort to take pride in the St. George's Cross, not represented by a minority of ignorant dipshits.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Depends how you look at it. One way, it seems wildly irrational to be proud of where your mum happened to be when you popped out - something you had no control over whatsoever.

Another way, it's natural to identify with the people around you and stick up for each other. After all, they're the ones who are likely to be able to help you out later on if you need it as well.

Or maybe at it's heart it's about identity - people don't feel significant unless they're a part of something so they big up the idea of a nation in order to define themselves. Which seems a bit pathetic, really."

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm proud to live on this island, we are small but disproportionately strong.

Also the French are a bunch of farking carnts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm proud to live on this island, we are small but disproportionately strong.

Also the French are a bunch of farking carnts."

Ah the French. At least we can agree on something x

At least there's a place we can put 'em. France.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ancestors were French

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ancestors were French "

So were mine. Chased out of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see nothing wrong with National Pride."

Please explain National Pride to what? and what Nationalty? do you refer? expatriots.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ancestors were French "

that explains a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my grandparents are or were Irish, and i do celebrate paddys day, but i also celebrate st georges day as i am english, it seems to me because a lot of people have a chip on there shoulder about reclaiming the flag etc, that we celebrate it by getting d*unk, and being aggressive, obviously not everywhere, but in birmingham, were racial tension is relatively high, it seems to end in a lot of fights, which might be why people tend to stay away from it, Im obviously just talking from a working class inner city birmingham point of _iew, its probably better celebrated in say warwickshire or summer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm proud to live on this island, we are small but disproportionately strong.

Also the French are a bunch of farking carnts.

Ah the French. At least we can agree on something x

At least there's a place we can put 'em. France."
not long before jonny foreigner gets a bashing ..endemic of this countries misguided sense of superiority perpetuated by centuries of imperialism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder if some the mindless louts who hijack national symbolism in an attempt to display national pride do so simply because they secretly lack pride in themselves….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the flag that soldiers rallied to in time gone past to fight a battle against an oppressive enemy who would enslave us (our forebears). That's what it represents, and to disrespect it is to disrespect every man or woman who has laid down their lives in defence of what it is and what it means. Our flag could have a picture of a bunch of daisies on it but it would still be our flag."

Well, that's a very emotive slogan but there's no obvious reason to think it's true. It's quite common in life to respectfully disagree with someone's values, or to think (respectfully) that their values were appropriate for the time they lived in but not in the present day.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

well i think like a lot of island races we are a bit more proud of our nationality and heritage ,we have a lot of proud moments as people and in our history so why not.

ok so we talk up our importance on the world stage a bit, isn't it just "people propaganda", evident in every country in the world,the people coming together under a common tribal banner.

I actually think we are a bit too reticent to fly the flag, due to the colonial past and right wing hijack,but maybe that's just us Brits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im proud to be british and id tell anyone that asked the same

if that offends someone im sorry they feel that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very proud to be british!!!

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By *aravancouple OP   Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"I'm fiercely proud of being Scottish but my father and grandfathers fought shoulder to shoulder with Welsh, Irish and English men in 2 world wars so I'm also proud to be British and don't see anything wrong with either."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder if some the mindless louts who hijack national symbolism in an attempt to display national pride do so simply because they secretly lack pride in themselves…. "

I think the reason is more base than that - I believe they are of the thick and stupid variety of which I spoke a few days ago. I doubt the EDL have an ology between them.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

Well said that man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm proud to live on this island, we are small but disproportionately strong.

Also the French are a bunch of farking carnts.

Ah the French. At least we can agree on something x

At least there's a place we can put 'em. France.not long before jonny foreigner gets a bashing ..endemic of this countries misguided sense of superiority perpetuated by centuries of imperialism"

hmm - oh dear, maybe my sarcasm was a little too subtle. Please see previous posts of ours in this thread - and try and lighten up a little. xx

Happy Fridays all

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Depends how you look at it. One way, it seems wildly irrational to be proud of where your mum happened to be when you popped out - something you had no control over whatsoever.

Another way, it's natural to identify with the people around you and stick up for each other. After all, they're the ones who are likely to be able to help you out later on if you need it as well.

Or maybe at it's heart it's about identity - people don't feel significant unless they're a part of something so they big up the idea of a nation in order to define themselves. Which seems a bit pathetic, really."
Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am extremely proud to be British. I have several friends who have emigrated, mainly to oz and it really gets my goat when all they do is slag Britain off, infact anyone who slags Britain off. Yes it has its problems but I would rather live here than anywhere else in the world.

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.


"If we would only learn from our forefathers ( yes I know you only had one dad ) maybe the pride in ourselves and the children we leave to follow us maybe we would have more humility and make fewer mistakes but we must all have pride in the PEOPLE not some iconic flag

It is the flag that soldiers rallied to in time gone past to fight a battle against an oppressive enemy who would enslave us (our forebears). That's what it represents, and to disrespect it is to disrespect every man or woman who has laid down their lives in defence of what it is and what it means. Our flag could have a picture of a bunch of daisies on it but it would still be our flag."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Great Britain. I think it's a lovely place to live.

It's just the people that spoil it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

national pride (taking pride in the advantages your country offers to you and the collective achievements of it's inhabitants) is fine.

nationalism on the other hand (militant attitudes that boarder on intolerant fascism of others that differ from that particular ideologies idealism of "patriot") in contrast is destructive , sinister and socially toxic..

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Nothing wrong with having a cultural identity - in my home in fact there are several cultures and traditions that we adhere to and are proud of...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vastly overrated

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By *icky55Man
over a year ago

Warm an cosy cave. Brist

Always believed that the land owns us an every thing on it.

Not the other way round, afterall it supports us if some nut don't distroy it.

Loved where I was born an grew up but it has been trashed by goverments and councls and greedy people.

So i have no national pride what so ever.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"im proud to be british and id tell anyone that asked the same

if that offends someone im sorry they feel that way "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Until it becomes jingoistic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see nothing wrong with National Pride.

what you think"

Its a good thing to have within a society as it promotes positivity and should promote things like buying British as in the case of our fair isles.

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