FabSwingers.com forum: How to be sexy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think they are all cheap and love me because of my amazing pics and hope to get laid one day.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

And NO FAB does not make me feel sexy or desired by any FABBER

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It has grown my confidence. I am fairly realistic about my looks though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And NO FAB does not make me feel sexy or desired by any FABBER"

I often wonder if you’re sexy or not.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

What Fab giveths the Fab taketh away. Think it depends on the day, other people and my general mood of the day.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Makes me feel used and dirty, I'm ok with that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"And NO FAB does not make me feel sexy or desired by any FABBER

I often wonder if you’re sexy or not.

Yes. I am. If I keep my mouth shut and surrender.

But fuck that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sexy??? Me???

Don't be bloody silly.

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

"And NO FAB does not make me feel sexy or desired by any FABBER"

Hidden profile doesn't help.

Yes it does make feel sexy and desired (i do get a lot of messages

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What Fab giveths the Fab taketh away. Think it depends on the day, other people and my general mood of the day. "

Pretty much this. It's hard to distinguish genuine admiration for arse licking to get laid. I can morph from allegedly the sexiest woman alive to a fat cow in moments, depending on the messages.

I'm me. Some days I feel sexy, most of the time I feel like a fat frump. But some people like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst it has massively increased my confidence, I'm also very realistic. I know I don't get half the attention irl as I do on here (although I don't tend to walk about with my boobs out

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"And NO FAB does not make me feel sexy or desired by any FABBER

Hidden profile doesn't help.

Yes it does make feel sexy and desired (i do get a lot of messages

Ahhhhhh but I am not after feeling sexy or desired .... unless I want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't make me feel hot desired or sexy....but the lovers I have from fab do that.

Most are just wankers and that gives me the ick.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fucked if I know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What Fab giveths the Fab taketh away. Think it depends on the day, other people and my general mood of the day. "

Want me to message you sweet things everyday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And NO FAB does not make me feel sexy or desired by any FABBER

I often wonder if you’re sexy or not.

Yes. I am. If I keep my mouth shut and surrender.

But fuck that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got likes, winks or messages then maybe, I can't even get a verification haha....

I already have kinksters that enjoy what I do and give them...that's satisfaction enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a double edged sword for me.

It's addictive and like all social media, can have a negative effect on mental health. (NO one posts their shittest moods/days/pictures)

However, on the flip side.

I never really appreciated how many people thought I was attractive. Which is great for the ego, its certainly made me walk with my head held slightly higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ass. Like hello I have a face.

Seriously though…it varies a lot. Lately not so much.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?"

Def not, I was trying to do a video for a thread and luckily for the recipient could not upload due to meet verification lack off and when I played it back it was hideous to say the least….

And sadly people probably don’t pay me any attention as I don’t stand out or own a suit pic

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?"

Nope, on all or any account.

But I still come back and enjoy being in the company of like minded adults.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope

Yes, it's not easy being me

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Fab is a website, so no it does nothing for me personally. I started swinging a year ago and being out in the clubs has massively increased my confidence, it was rock bottom a year ago

I love the liberation, the fact everyone is so free and all different, everyone is embraced. I still stare at the floor a lot but i am definitely getting more confident. I feel desired in a shallow way like good enough to fuck but thats a low bar isn't it?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Doesn't make me feel sexy or desired but then I'm not sexy or desirable. Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish someone wanted my body!! *cries.

Fab can make me think my photos look good, it never has made me feel sexy, in fact, it’s done the opposite.

But, some people are just simply amazing and can put my mood into overdrive. A person can make me feel sexy, people don’t. ….

Unless it the 5 people in my hotlist gave I to my my thoughts.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"What Fab giveths the Fab taketh away. Think it depends on the day, other people and my general mood of the day.

Want me to message you sweet things everyday? "

You're always welcome in my in box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all been here to long

I glad it can bring confidence in people’s thought

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?"

Hard to say...either way I don't really care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peanut butter and banana Soreen. Sex. Sexy.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Dick pic over a used toilet bowl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dick pic over a used toilet bowl?"

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Dick pic over a used toilet bowl?

Extra points if feet are on show I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me think most men say anything to get a shag

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Makes me think most men say anything to get a shag

No not anything!

Just what we think you want to hear!

You have the best fluffy bits on fab by the way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Makes me think most men say anything to get a shag

Most men will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me think most men say anything to get a shag

No not anything!

Just what we think you want to hear!

You have the best fluffy bits on fab by the way! "

Aw thanks Kai, lemme just go take my knickers off

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By *ynxOrchidWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Just looked at your profile. Have you no mirrors un your home?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just looked at your profile. Have you no mirrors un your home?

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By *ynxOrchidWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I never really appreciated how many people thought I was attractive."

I just looked at your profile....seriously?.....Do you have no mirrors in your home?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fab makes me feel more cynical than sexy. Hence why I don't spend as much time here anymore. I have found some beautiful people in my Fab wanderings though.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Makes me think most men say anything to get a shag

No not anything!

Just what we think you want to hear!

You have the best fluffy bits on fab by the way!

Aw thanks Kai, lemme just go take my knickers off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wore green uv contacts for work this weekend. Instantly I felt sexy as fuck. Anytime I get to dress up like a fairy/fae wierd forest creature, sexy clown, Halloweeny crap I'm in my element.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't say it makes me feel sexy I think people like me for the photos they don't know me to like me for me.

The photos however do make me feel sexy the Mr has a way of taking pics that I look at and think wow that's me, kinda like an alter ego I guess.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wore green uv contacts for work this weekend. Instantly I felt sexy as fuck. Anytime I get to dress up like a fairy/fae wierd forest creature, sexy clown, Halloweeny crap I'm in my element. "

3 more months until your special day

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Fab makes me feel more cynical than sexy. Hence why I don't spend as much time here anymore. I have found some beautiful people in my Fab wanderings though. "

Awww fanxs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men love my cleavage and the fact I have a wet hole. Massive ego boost!

Also the fact that they don't give a crap what *I* want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think fab has made me more confident. It’s definitely made me feel sexier in my skin. I have for she’s HATED my body and the way I look but I like that some people appreciate it. Whether I find them attractive or not it is a confidence boost.

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

At first it did I think , kind of showed but now generally no , it makes me feel like a piece of meat, which is what we are to most of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think fab has made me more confident. It’s definitely made me feel sexier in my skin. I have for she’s HATED my body and the way I look but I like that some people appreciate it. Whether I find them attractive or not it is a confidence boost.

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me. "

Ofc though people like my forum persona more than anything else though.

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me.

Ofc though people like my forum persona more than anything else though. "

You've always been a sexy mofo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy,hell no ,i just come here for the bants

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me.

Ofc though people like my forum persona more than anything else though.

You've always been a sexy mofo

My man

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

They definitely like me for my pictures

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The men love my cleavage and the fact I have a wet hole. Massive ego boost!

Also the fact that they don't give a crap what *I* want.

I did fab without any images for a month recently , it was quite enlightening.

You are funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can peel a babybel by just looking at it, beyond sexy.

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

For women I think it will make them feel great as there are so many hungry men on here but for men this is not the place unless you are after hundreds of men in your inbox

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I can peel a babybel by just looking at it, beyond sexy."

No! You didn't say undress. At least make the wording sexy.

The ladies love the sexy wording.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can peel a babybel by just looking at it, beyond sexy."

Impossible I’m calling BS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can peel a woman by just looking at it, beyond sexy.

No! You didn't say undress. At least make the wording sexy.

The ladies love the sexy wording. "

Some Harold Shipman shit

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close

Fab doesn’t make us feel sexy. What does makes us feel sexy is going to a club & people are giving us that slightly longer look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can peel a babybel by just looking at it, beyond sexy.

Impossible I’m calling BS

The babybel would most likely mug me off anyway. Turned down by cheese

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I can peel a woman by just looking at it, beyond sexy.

No! You didn't say undress. At least make the wording sexy.

The ladies love the sexy wording.

Some Harold Shipman shit

I do have that look about me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

No. Fab doesn't make me feel sexy or desired or hot.

All the beautiful, sexy people I see in the pictures (and videos I guess, I rarely watch them) cause my feelings of inadequacy and lack of sexiness to rise up and take hold.

There are a couple of people on fab who do make me feel desired. They think I'm sexy, and hot, and that encourages the hint of a belief that actually, to a few people, I am.

The random people who message and tell me I'm amazing right from the start... they don't make me feel good. And I have a level of certainty that if I replied and said no thanks, they'd do their best to make me feel crap, unsexy, undesirable and not hot.

Most people don't like me for my body or pics... they do actually just like me for my personality and I guess on occasion that grows into a physical attraction? I'm not sure. Except my boobs. They attract people apparently.

I'd quite like to be objectified for my body, not just boobs, now and again.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"No. Fab doesn't make me feel sexy or desired or hot.

All the beautiful, sexy people I see in the pictures (and videos I guess, I rarely watch them) cause my feelings of inadequacy and lack of sexiness to rise up and take hold.

There are a couple of people on fab who do make me feel desired. They think I'm sexy, and hot, and that encourages the hint of a belief that actually, to a few people, I am.

I'd quite like to be objectified for my body, not just boobs, now and again."

From your posts you are clearly intelligent and articulate. THAT is sexy as fuck.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

The magic mirror does

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"And sadly people probably don’t pay me any attention as I don’t stand out or own a suit pic

Oh my word, you can not be more wrong...

I cannot stop perving your outstanding pics in your birthday suit...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?"

No. It doesn’t. But some people from Fab do

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"For women I think it will make them feel great as there are so many hungry men on here but for men this is not the place unless you are after hundreds of men in your inbox "

This is the reason it doesn't make you feel great too, hundreds of men just after a shag isn't that complimentary, a high majority (not all I do like the gentleman of fab) would fuck anything, it's far from a compliment.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women I think it will make them feel great as there are so many hungry men on here but for men this is not the place unless you are after hundreds of men in your inbox

Mrs "

I wouldn't be on here if I was female. I wouldn't be able to handle it. I'd feel constantly attacked.

Which is partly why I try to be as respectful as I can be.

It's often why I've said something in a funny voice in my head. Written it. Read it back and then explained the comment. That in itself goes a long way.

The rule of fab is quite simple. Be yourself.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm too sexy for my shirt,

Too sexy for my shirt,

Soooooo sexy it hurts......

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"For women I think it will make them feel great as there are so many hungry men on here but for men this is not the place unless you are after hundreds of men in your inbox

Mrs "

Yeah but they are easily ed out. And what's left are guys who are prepared to put in the work because they like you for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?

No. It doesn’t. But some people from Fab do

You are hot. So fucking hot.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Does Fab make me feel desired/sexy? Well the people I've met thanks to it do but not the act of being on here.

I think I share very similar views to NotSoPosh. I think sometimes people put me on a pedestal, message me because they've read my waffling on the fora. Think I'm something I'm not. They lust after my pseudo intellect. My voice that could whisper promises of things to come late at night.

I don't think I'm often desired physically. Perhaps I need another iced coffee.

I like being desired physically. You know, having someone who wants my body. Not because it's the body of a woman, because it's mine. Someone who desires every inch of me, wants to trace their lips over my soft skin and arouse me as much as I do them.

I know I'm not sexy. Not really. But when someone makes me feel like I am, all of me is and it's exactly what they want in that moment? That does make me feel desired. Sexy. A good byproduct of being on here.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Does Fab make me feel desired/sexy? Well the people I've met thanks to it do but not the act of being on here.

I don't think I'm often desired physically. Perhaps I need another iced coffee.

Just say yes, Meli. Just say yes!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Does Fab make me feel desired/sexy? Well the people I've met thanks to it do but not the act of being on here.

I don't think I'm often desired physically. Perhaps I need another iced coffee.

Just say yes, Meli. Just say yes! "

Ah apologies! I shouldn't type a stream of consciousness really.

No to Fab, yes to those I've met thanks to it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me.

Ofc though people like my forum persona more than anything else though. "

Steve, you come across as a genuinely lovely guy. Not a dick. I only like dicks when attached to lovely guys.....

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By *tlasBenMan
over a year ago

"Does fab make you feel sexy and desired and hot?

Do people like you for you? Or do you think they mostly just love your body and your pics?"

If I ever manage to actually find someone that likes me on here, I'll make a judgement and let you know lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me.

Ofc though people like my forum persona more than anything else though.

Steve, you come across as a genuinely lovely guy. Not a dick. I only like dicks when attached to lovely guys....."

See^

They do t wanna rip my clothes off or kiss my beautiful face. Just- you’re a nice guy. I like nice guys.

(I’ll take it though ehhhhh shshskslabagamalsv

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

And I generally get responses to being me in the forums and when I show face pictures so I like that for me.

Ofc though people like my forum persona more than anything else though.

Steve, you come across as a genuinely lovely guy. Not a dick. I only like dicks when attached to lovely guys.....

See^

They do t wanna rip my clothes off or kiss my beautiful face. Just- you’re a nice guy. I like nice guys.

(I’ll take it though ehhhhh shshskslabagamalsv

Where did I say nice?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age has a helping hand. 45 kids are grown and for the first time in 25 years I am pretty much free and rediscovering me now if that makes sense.

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