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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me it depends what mood I'm in and what I want that particular day. I do love a nice hotel meet

Second is a club, with lots of fuckery with multiple people

Mrs C xx

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Hotel meets are great, but when the weather is nice you can't beet some outdoor fun somewhere secluded

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.

Mrs

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By *ussexualMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Definitely clubs, like minded people, no pressure, no time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same really depends on what I am looking for or wanting hotels are grate for first meets and what no after the social

If I am at clubs not really looking for sex more just there to mingle and talk to people sex is always a bonus but it’s not why I am primarily there for just a safe investment to be myself without orther being to jumental and starring and such

If it’s a sanua then I am out for a wicked time take a ticket with your number on it I get around to it at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll do it wherever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costa, just prefer it to Starbucks

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I prefer meeting in a bar, or maybe a coffee bar if the person/people I’m meeting don’t drink.

Even if we’re heading somewhere else for a bed and privacy, let’s meet in a bar first and chat.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We prefer Hotel stays as it allows us time to ourselves also. We have been to clubs but so far only played with each other. We have had a 'friend' come to our house but that was a couple of years ago and no longer an option. We've had a lovely country walk with a couple that ended with some fun too.

Jo.Xx

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We prefer to meet at clubs now. We've found that it tends to filter out the fantasists and time wasters.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Hotel for me.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Bar or coffee shop for the initial meet then hotel's afterwards.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Escape Rooms.

Because sex is great, but you gotta earn it first.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.

Mrs "

Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Escape Rooms.

Because sex is great, but you gotta earn it first.

"

Some of the clubs I’ve been to have felt like bloomin’ escape rooms at times …

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"We prefer Hotel stays as it allows us time to ourselves also. We have been to clubs but so far only played with each other. We have had a 'friend' come to our house but that was a couple of years ago and no longer an option. We've had a lovely country walk with a couple that ended with some fun too.

Jo.Xx "

Would love to break the club cherry with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.

Mrs

Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it. "

This^

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Assuming we're talking meeting people we don't know?

In a club works great. A have a drink, have some laughter and see if the chemistry is there. You have a spaces to get more intimate together if things flow that way. If it goes greats and you want to meet again you can always arrange a hotel or something in the future. However if its not working out you're still in a club and both parties can split and find more fun with others.

Our second option would be a few drinks at a bar with at least one party having a hotel room booked close by. No obligation to swing but a neutral place to go if things go well.

Generally if we get on well over a drink and we're all laughing then there's a good chance we'll work well together in bed.

However if its people we know then a couple of drinks at the bar and hotel/Airbnb or drinks and fun at their place.

For us the main thing is meeting good people, having a good laugh and a great time. If we end up in bed and having a filthy time with them that's awesome but if not along as we've enjoyed a few laughs then we're happy. Not into pressure to get physical just love things to flow naturally and free.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We've done hotels and clubs ,enjoyed both .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be a bit sociable so a first meet would always be just that. Though hopefully would leave us both wanting more.

Even if it's someone I know I like to flirt, chat, laugh before any naughtiness as its all part of the foreplay.

When it comes to fun then I'm a hotel room kinda girl.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I'd rather go on a date and see what happens, or what could happen at a later date, then book a hotel room as plan banging at 8pm or whatever. There's no time to build chemistry when you play it like that.

I had a planned meet in a hotel room at the back end of last year and by the time it came I can't even horny. I was actually stressed because of the traffic

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

in a pub or bar so its easy to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.

Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.

Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

A museum.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley


"Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.

Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.

Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life"

I think clubs are full of cliques and a bunch of awkward single guys on the periphery. I've met some really good people in clubs, but they are definitely a hell of a lot more seedy than people on here portray them to be

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.

Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.

Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life

I think clubs are full of cliques and a bunch of awkward single guys on the periphery. I've met some really good people in clubs, but they are definitely a hell of a lot more seedy than people on here portray them to be"

Depends which ones, can't tar all clubs with the same brush, they are just venues

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I've been to 4 and got the same vibe from each. Can only go from my own experience

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Coffee shop usually but yesterday had a impromptu meet! I was using my bus pass for first time and it passed a fabsters house I sat at top and he waved from his garden on way down! He suggested stopping of on way back for a cuppa so I bought the cake he made the tea! X

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

For a social meet I prefer to meet in a bar. Play meets are always in hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For social meets, sake as others have mentioned. Coffee shops, bars/pubs, public places generally.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

My secluded cabin in the woods

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Pub meet to start off then hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.

Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.

Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life

I think clubs are full of cliques and a bunch of awkward single guys on the periphery. I've met some really good people in clubs, but they are definitely a hell of a lot more seedy than people on here portray them to be"

Not much different to a bar/spa if you've agreed to meet someone there? I'd imagine just rocking up alone would be a very different experience if you haven't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My secluded cabin in the woods "

I've seen movies like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer clubs, I just feel a lot safer.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.

Mrs

Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it. "

Actually yes putting it that way makes sense, thank you.

Mrs

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.

Mrs

Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it.

Actually yes putting it that way makes sense, thank you.

Mrs "

You'll remember this when we visit Pandoras, we're just angling to bump into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do hotel meets. Neutral venue offers both parties security, and excitement

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs, if there is no connection there is always a great social space with like minded people.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"My secluded cabin in the woods

I've seen movies like that "

Perfectly safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My house

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I'm meeting someone socially? A coffee shop or a nice bar. I quite like going for walks as well, there are some beautiful walks very close to me.

Being more intimate with someone? I love staying in a nice hotel. Having a hot shower, snuggling up to someone on a big bed. Actually there's a whole heap of reasons but I'm logging off soon.

Anyway, hotels to me are perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Initially, in a casual social setting such as a coffee shop, tea room or a cocktail bar.

Otherwise hotel.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Charing cross

Exeter

Newton Abbot

Isle of Purbeck

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The orange tree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down a dark alley preferably

F

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.

Mrs

Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it.

Actually yes putting it that way makes sense, thank you.

Mrs

You'll remember this when we visit Pandoras, we're just angling to bump into you "

We've only been the once, I keep thinking we should give it another try.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are choosing cities then obviously it's got to be Edinburgh

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm all for visiting a meet in their area.

At a pub or similar.

If things are to go further then I'm sure there's a hotel that we could go.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"If we are choosing cities then obviously it's got to be Edinburgh "

Love Edinburgh, will be back to Stockbridge in August for the fringe

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