FabSwingers.com forum: Help with profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK so I'm not new here but always find it difficult to write about my self in a profile any tips would be greatly appreciated

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By *r Black 85Man
over a year ago

nottingham

A picture always helps so people can see who they are talking to.

A bit more sbout you. What do you like to do? How do you unwind?

It doesnt have to be War and Peace but you need something to grab peoples attention and help you stand out from the crowd

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

A photo. Any kind.

What you into? Who's your type? Is there anything you absolutely love? Any strict no nos for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18-99

Literally ticked every “like”

Nothing about you

Nothing what you’re after

Fill in shortly for me comes across as lazy

Photo of some sort doesn’t have to show face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and maybe an brief explanation of why you can’t accommodate, people naturally assume you’re cheating but you may live with your folks, be a single parent etc

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Pretend like you actually want people to read your profile and be attracted to it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I get all your points and appreciate the feedback I'm not great when it comes to writing about myself don't like to come across like everyone else on here but also don't want to come across like I know it all and I've seen it all just aiming for the middle ground

I'm not shy nor am I pushy I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant

I've got pics pending upload I've been waiting since last night for them to be verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, there looks as though there is nothing genuine about this profile.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Faf and Meet now....thank me later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, it needs to be an accurate reflection of you as an individual.

Trying to figure out the secret sauce recipe is only going to lead to failure.

This is about making an impact, a quick snap judgement of who you are and why you're worth a moments notice above all the other noise.

Your ability to do that, in itself, is a filter by which you'll be measured. Be derivative you'll blend in, fake you'll be found out.

Be you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To me, there looks as though there is nothing genuine about this profile."

What makes you think that I can see why no pics no bio etc but I can assure you I'm 100% genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I get all your points and appreciate the feedback I'm not great when it comes to writing about myself don't like to come across like everyone else on here but also don't want to come across like I know it all and I've seen it all just aiming for the middle ground

I'm not shy nor am I pushy I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant

I've got pics pending upload I've been waiting since last night for them to be verified "

Let others run their profile as they want and yours how you want.

Calling other peoples profiles “arrogant” isn’t the best when you don’t have one yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not shy nor am I pushy I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant

I've got pics pending upload I've been waiting since last night for them to be verified

Let others run their profile as they want and yours how you want.

Calling other peoples profiles “arrogant” isn’t the best when you don’t have one yourself "

I'm not calling others arrogant I'm saying from my point of view it comes across as arrogant if that makes sense which if it works for them that's fine but I'm not like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So then say what you are like…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comments like these don't endear you to your audiance OP

"... don't like to come across like everyone else on here ...

... I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant ...

You've explained on your profile why you cannot accommodate, so that responds to a point others made.

Still get some photos (but personally I would not go for the dick pics), but who am I to talk, I only have a couple on show (I must upload some proper ones).

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

At least give it a try before asking for a critique. It's like telling your mate you struggled with your maths homework and giving them a blank piece of paper when they offer to help

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

Imagining your profile was a couples or females, there's no compelling reason why I would want to meet you.

You explain why you can't accommodate, fine, but what do you bring to the table?

You are 6 ft 2 apparently, lots of women like a tall chap so expand on that angle. What else?

Are you the shy type and want to be seduced, what might a fun date look like for you? Likes dislikes? Anything that might pique someone's interest?

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Have you seen any profiles on here that you did like then? Not like as in want to fuck the person but like because it showed originality and a bit of personality.

Unless you have an absolutely amazing body, you need to say something in your bio that will make you memorable. The odds are stacked against you here as a single guy so you need to stand out.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Keep it as it is OP. You have only been here 7 weeks and have a verification (although it’s hidden and I find that slightly strange) you have done better than a lot of people on here

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos.

I'd take out the genders of your children too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom."

This but more a case of me asking if you're a Dom or a dominant?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Hi Dom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My name not my sexual preference

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

My name not my sexual preference"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As above photos will help.

Nothing about what your looking for or what you have to offer, no hints at your personality.

Have a look at some other guys profiles for some inspiration.

Good luck

Mrs

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

My name not my sexual preference"

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

My name not my sexual preference

Mate, you read more into two words than I've ever read into any profile on here in 10 years, proud of ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the green tick but no verification showing? My Mrs likes to really verifications before we meet.

Otherwise, some pretty sound advice in the above replies.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Why are you called Mrs Mooth?

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"Why are you called Mrs Mooth?"

Mr Smooth am guessing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe sound a bit harsh here

But if you ask for “help” to build a profile isn’t that a bit fausle and disingenuous off you as it wouldn’t be a real representation off your self

It would be a representation off those that help you build sed profile

Leading to people you meet not getting the real you and maybe putting them off meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe sound a bit harsh here

But if you ask for “help” to build a profile isn’t that a bit fausle and disingenuous off you as it wouldn’t be a real representation off your self

It would be a representation off those that help you build sed profile

Leading to people you meet not getting the real you and maybe putting them off meeting people "

Not if you’re only getting some pointers and ideas.

The input and pics are still your own,

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

My name not my sexual preference

Mate, you read more into two words than I've ever read into any profile on here in 10 years, proud of ya

Well ya know mate, I'm Dom kinda fits into the site we're on lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe sound a bit harsh here

But if you ask for “help” to build a profile isn’t that a bit fausle and disingenuous off you as it wouldn’t be a real representation off your self

It would be a representation off those that help you build sed profile

Leading to people you meet not getting the real you and maybe putting them off meeting people

Not if you’re only getting some pointers and ideas.

The input and pics are still your own,"

Still a bit dishonest to be honest as it isn’t a representation off the person and that’s just my honest

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Half your profile is about your children. I'd always advise against even mentioning them on such a site.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Mrs Mooth ..

How do you expect others to know you if you don't know you a little bit.

Think about what you are offering and write it in a sentence or two AFTER you have written a sentence or two about what you are looking for......

It really is that simple.

I am looking for

I can offer........

And a nice face pic or fully clothed body shot.

the end.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Honestly, it needs to be an accurate reflection of you as an individual.

Trying to figure out the secret sauce recipe is only going to lead to failure.

This is about making an impact, a quick snap judgement of who you are and why you're worth a moments notice above all the other noise.

Your ability to do that, in itself, is a filter by which you'll be measured. Be derivative you'll blend in, fake you'll be found out.

Be you."

Pretty much this.

*helps being hung like a horse, being a looker and having the patter too though.

**as Tesco says. 'Every Little Helps'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos. Do some and choose the best looking ones that you think the people you like might like.

Text, if you find it hard knowing what to write, have a look at a lot of other males accounts and be inspired. (Do not copy and paste, bad form ).

Good luck op, nobody on fab has a perfect formula, but some do have very attractive profiles.

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