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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think being in love with a sexual partner makes sex better?

What's your take on this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think being in love with a sexual partner makes sex better?

What's your take on this ? "

I think an emotional connection of any type is important to sex. For me at least. Love is certainly at the top of the spectrum.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yes

Its not the same its great fun but without that spark of lightning there can be no thunder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I asked my husband if he wants to "Make love". He would check to see if I have a fever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent the majority of the last 6 years in love and making love.

It does change the dynamic and sensation, and it’s going to be interesting changing back and not having the love aspect

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Yes it does.

That's not to say mind blowing sex can't happen without love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me being in love makes it more intense he makes me feel super safe so I'm more experimental I've done things I've never done before

Mrs B

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Difficult one to say. Know for me sex with another guys wife always intense and horny. Have been doing since young so I must like it!

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Absolutely does..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, providing the chemistry and connection is present, I don’t need to feel any love whatever…

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By *alocheziaMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I love my right hand but don't care for or use my left as much in daily life.

I can testify that masturbating does feel better with my lovely right companion. Left is so unfeeling but does reach for the tissues afterwards so not all bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a hopeless romantic so for me yes it really adds something more to it.

Feelings in general make it better for me and I embrace them all. Sex without any emotion isn't my style really.

Lust on its own can also be incredible. It's just more likely to fizzle out when the novelty wears off. Love can feed lust though and make it last so the dream scenario is both.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Do you think being in love with a sexual partner makes sex better?

What's your take on this ? "

Yep 1000%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my goodness yes it does, I've only experienced it with one person a long time ago and the sex was amazing. Im much more adventurous when that connection is there. Don't think it will ever happen again.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

For me, absolutely; The emotional connection serves to augment the physical connection ten fold.

The intensity is efficaciously magnified as a result.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The number of men on here who say they love their wives but 'need extra' I would say, not always

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Do you think being in love with a sexual partner makes sex better?

What's your take on this ? "

I’ve only been in love once and she didn’t let me have sex with her because she said I was too small…so i don’t know.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I know it sounds cheesey but... making love with the person I love is VERY different to just having sex with somebody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think being in love with a sexual partner makes sex better?

What's your take on this ? "

I think so anyway, when people are totally into each other it's va va vooooom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my goodness yes it does, I've only experienced it with one person a long time ago and the sex was amazing. Im much more adventurous when that connection is there. Don't think it will ever happen again. "

We should meet and see

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely it does.

Having that connection and time to learn their bodies makes for much more intense orgasms. (For me anyway)

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Love? Possibly. For me personally, any form of emotional connection intensifies it - it doesn't have to be love but some sort of bond? I'm perhaps not explaining this very well.

I think when you have that connection with another, you're able to relax more. Be more you, more open to expressing yourself. Even when it comes to penetrative sex - that level of intimacy, of caring about another makes it all so much more... erotic.

I'm demisexual so it undoubtedly affects how I see this.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Lust for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love? Nah.

Lust? Hell yeah.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'd say so

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%

Nobody comes close to giving me the sex my husband does. It can't be done. It's that emotional connection, trust, I get excited when he gets excited... I'm totally relaxed and comfortable when hubby fucks me in the comfort of our bed in our home

Mrs C

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