FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Hi

Jump to newest
 

By *kivi Bi Male OP   Man
over a year ago

North Shields

If you mail people, don't you think it's only polite to respond even if it is a no thank you or something along those lines to show they have acknowledge you! But no, they keep checking your profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36


"If you mail people, don't you think it's only polite to respond even if it is a no thank you or something along those lines to show they have acknowledge you! But no, they keep checking your profile."

Nope no reply needs to be sent because it’s site rules and understood on here that no reply means no thank you.

When you get hundreds and hundreds of messages it’s impossible to reply to them all.

Plus why should a woman reply to a message like “Hi” exactly why would they.

T

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This isn't the real world, it's the Internet.

You have to realise that many ladies on here gat hundreds of messages each day, many of which are from people that don't meet their preferences.

Don't take it personally.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna go watch GroundHog Day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm gonna go watch GroundHog Day"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm gonna go watch GroundHog Day"

Again??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Dear OP, this topic resurfaces time and time again, hence the Groundhog Day references.

Don't lose faith, keep trying and expect miracles...they do happen bicentennially.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Preemptively, NO THANK YOU EVERYONE!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Preemptively, NO THANK YOU EVERYONE! "

I'll get me coat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"If you mail people, don't you think it's only polite to respond even if it is a no thank you or something along those lines to show they have acknowledge you! But no, they keep checking your profile."

Entitlement sucks.....Nuff said

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Even when it's clear they haven't bothered to read your profile?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

No mate it’s impossible for some to reply to all. I have seen some ladies messages and amazing numbers. Caught one in hotel looking at hers as recognised all those yellow boxes. Was lucky I ended up having fun as she would not have seen a message from me. She hundreds a day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"If you mail people, don't you think it's only polite to respond even if it is a no thank you or something along those lines to show they have acknowledge you! But no, they keep checking your profile."

So you want me to take time to respond to all messages. What about the ones that say hi great tits wanna fuck you. Or. Wuu2. Or. I want to empty my load now. Or similar versions of these.

And don’t get me started on the messages from profiles that have no photos or info on their profile. If they can’t be bothered to make an effort why should I.

I get tons of msgs everyday and sometimes those msgs are abusive. Shall I reply to those as well.

I haven’t got time or the inclination

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

OP - we are at our best when we can fit in somewhere, rather than feeling like an outsider. We have each accepted Fab terms that no reply = no interest. This place is unique and it's better for us to accept it, as it is.

My advice is to keep your options open and to not place undue expectations on any individual contacts that you cultivate. Even if you get a social meeting, it's still possible that you won't click and you won't hear from them again. Let yourself be free. Others will potentially notice and to not feel pressured, from being experienced to reply.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Some people get hundreds of messages a day, saying "hi".

Even reading them can be a full time job, let alone replying.

It's not a case of being polite or impolite, there's just not enough time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top