FabSwingers.com forum: Men, are you fussy eaters?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fussy is my new addition to fab bingo.

Men, are you fussy though? What are the key qualities that people must have in order for you to do the sex with them?

Or are you easy? Nothing wrong with being easy. but own it if you are

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly. I'm not sure.

In a way yes, but also no.

Do I have standards and preferences? Yes.

But I'm not entirely rigid and unmoving on every little thing.

People surprise you in good and bad ways. Somebody unexpected thst you would initially think no way, then they win you over.

A quick smile, fluttering of eyes, or even a flash of tits won't win me over easily. But you are welcome to try

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fussy.

Yeah. Fussy.

I think it's best I don't comment on that. Good addition to the Fab bingo though. :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fussy.

Yeah. Fussy.

I think it's best I don't comment on that. Good addition to the Fab bingo though. :D"

Hey, gorgeous. You dropped your emoji.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought it said "pussy"

My bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly. I'm not sure.

In a way yes, but also no.

Do I have standards and preferences? Yes.

But I'm not entirely rigid and unmoving on every little thing.

People surprise you in good and bad ways. Somebody unexpected thst you would initially think no way, then they win you over.

A quick smile, fluttering of eyes, or even a flash of tits won't win me over easily. But you are welcome to try

Do you think you’re rigid with your ideals and preferences? Or are you generally quite flexible because like you say people can surprise you?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Fussy.

Yeah. Fussy.

I think it's best I don't comment on that. Good addition to the Fab bingo though. :D

Hey, gorgeous. You dropped your emoji.

Oh fuck that's so cute! Gosh. You're like the sunshine I needed on a drizzly day. I'm trying to spice up emotes.

Good thread Pickle, I'm looking forward to reading more men talking about their "fussy".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say "fussy" but I know my own worth. It has to be a mutual two way street.

As previously stated on another thread. I've fucked myself over more times than anyone else. So I'm a little more cautious now. Always gone for banter and chat though

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Honestly. I'm not sure.

In a way yes, but also no.

Do I have standards and preferences? Yes.

But I'm not entirely rigid and unmoving on every little thing.

People surprise you in good and bad ways. Somebody unexpected thst you would initially think no way, then they win you over.

A quick smile, fluttering of eyes, or even a flash of tits won't win me over easily. But you are welcome to try

Do you think you’re rigid with your ideals and preferences? Or are you generally quite flexible because like you say people can surprise you?"

Some more than others I guess.

Age for example. I have my age range, but a year or 2 won't suddenly change whom they are. The further from my age range the less likely of course, so the rigidity becomes more apparent.

I'm flexible to a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very.... particular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think fussy can be coded. Not for everyone obvs. But I take it as sometimes people just saying that ‘There’s a level of attractiveness you need to be at in order to meet me’.

Sometimes it’s other things though- you need to live relatively close, be single, able to host, willing to pay for hotels etc.

Anyway- I rarely hear men describe themselves as fussy on here.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

The stuff outside of chemistry: because there's not a lot you can do about that.

Self-awareness, empathy, authenticity.

Desire to put the time in to getting to know each other.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We are both "Fussy " and like articulate people with good social skills and a range of outside interests/hobbies and having a good sense of hunour is very nice along with a appreciation of sarcasm ! and a personality ( but not multiple ones??) is a huge bonus with us both !

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am not fussy, more aware of what I eat and the calories of it, being aware of it is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively

It's actually tragic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going."

Don’t be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

Don’t be shy

Post some more"

No. I'm going to listen to Dave and face the corner

But nah, not fussy in that sense. We need characters in life, would be boring without them! I'm too chilled to get deep with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fussy can be coded. Not for everyone obvs. But I take it as sometimes people just saying that ‘There’s a level of attractiveness you need to be at in order to meet me’.

Sometimes it’s other things though- you need to live relatively close, be single, able to host, willing to pay for hotels etc.

Anyway- I rarely hear men describe themselves as fussy on here. "

I think more men should be fussy!!

Its actually an attractive trait.

Personally I don't see fussy as a bad thing. I see it as essential. I want what I want, why would I deviate away from that if I wouldn't enjoy it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Fussy is my new addition to fab bingo.

Men, are you fussy though? What are the key qualities that people must have in order for you to do the sex with them?

Or are you easy? Nothing wrong with being easy. but own it if you are

Breath and pulse....in fact maybe neither

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

Don’t be shy

Post some more

No. I'm going to listen to Dave and face the corner

But nah, not fussy in that sense. We need characters in life, would be boring without them! I'm too chilled to get deep with it!"

She don’t listen to UK rap. If it ain’t Dave or Cench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she doesn’t look like Gollum I’m in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

Don’t be shy

Post some more

No. I'm going to listen to Dave and face the corner

But nah, not fussy in that sense. We need characters in life, would be boring without them! I'm too chilled to get deep with it!

She don’t listen to UK rap. If it ain’t Dave or Cench"

She'll get locked in the bathroom whilst Bando is played then. That'll teach em!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think fussy can be coded. Not for everyone obvs. But I take it as sometimes people just saying that ‘There’s a level of attractiveness you need to be at in order to meet me’.

Sometimes it’s other things though- you need to live relatively close, be single, able to host, willing to pay for hotels etc.

Anyway- I rarely hear men describe themselves as fussy on here.

I think more men should be fussy!!

Its actually an attractive trait.

Personally I don't see fussy as a bad thing. I see it as essential. I want what I want, why would I deviate away from that if I wouldn't enjoy it "

I agree with you. I think more men should put less pressure on having sex at all and focus more on having the best sex.

But I’ll just add again that there’s nothing wrong with being ‘easy’ if being easy brings you joy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as she doesn’t look like Gollum I’m in."

Do you do have standards then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

Don’t be shy

Post some more

No. I'm going to listen to Dave and face the corner

But nah, not fussy in that sense. We need characters in life, would be boring without them! I'm too chilled to get deep with it!

She don’t listen to UK rap. If it ain’t Dave or Cench

She'll get locked in the bathroom whilst Bando is played then. That'll teach em!!!!"

Bando?!

Wow you really are my people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as she doesn’t look like Gollum I’m in.

Do you do have standards then

Seriously my main one is that she gets my sense of humour. If someone doesn’t get me then the chances of them enjoying my company are pretty slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

Don’t be shy

Post some more

No. I'm going to listen to Dave and face the corner

But nah, not fussy in that sense. We need characters in life, would be boring without them! I'm too chilled to get deep with it!

She don’t listen to UK rap. If it ain’t Dave or Cench

She'll get locked in the bathroom whilst Bando is played then. That'll teach em!!!!

Bando?!

Wow you really are my people.

Only a small percentage of the world are cunts Mr Pickle

music heals wounds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as she doesn’t look like Gollum I’m in.

Do you do have standards then

Seriously my main one is that she gets my sense of humour. If someone doesn’t get me then the chances of them enjoying my company are pretty slim."

This is a big one for me. If she doesn’t get my references then she’s too boring for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ffs.

I gen thought it was about food.

I'm going.

Don’t be shy

Post some more

No. I'm going to listen to Dave and face the corner

But nah, not fussy in that sense. We need characters in life, would be boring without them! I'm too chilled to get deep with it!

She don’t listen to UK rap. If it ain’t Dave or Cench

She'll get locked in the bathroom whilst Bando is played then. That'll teach em!!!!

Bando?!

Wow you really are my people.

Only a small percentage of the world are cunts Mr Pickle

music heals wounds!"

You have excellent taste in music

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I am fussy in terms of preferences - I need to be attracted to someone to have sex with them. If I'm not attracted, then it isnt happening.

I know what I dont like, but I am not rigid on what I do like. I remain open minded until something comes up and I dont like it, if that makes sense.

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