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"Can I ask do you use the same device as you do fb or do you use fab and fb on different devices and never cross them " Why I am asking is if you use the same device then fab and fb are never separate they one in the same Just like ever other thing in that device belongs to fb | |||
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"It’s mostly down to people giving Facebook (or Instagram, or Threads) access to their phone contacts. When you give someone your number, you just have to accept that they might have that stuff switched on. It’s out of your hands." Internet history chat logs from apps the lot basically have fb instead in to your phone you give them access to read the full device | |||
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"Can I ask do you use the same device as you do fb or do you use fab and fb on different devices and never cross them " Yes all on my phone ... I get all the tech and that it's just scary how many .. Some I barely know and don't speak to off fab .. I get the WhatsApp connection as its the same company but the rest I just don't get  | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??" Not only on here but on the scene in general, it’s surprising a big community 
We met a couple we know from 20 years ago in the vanilla world at a social recently, once over the initial surprise it worked well as we laughed it off and all got on like a house on fire leading to all night fun back in our hotel.
We are all in this for the same thing and the majority and not going to brag about meeting you on here or in a club | |||
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"It’s mostly down to people giving Facebook (or Instagram, or Threads) access to their phone contacts. When you give someone your number, you just have to accept that they might have that stuff switched on. It’s out of your hands." Some of the people I saw don't have my number  | |||
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"It’s happened to me on instagram, but never on Facebook. " This is the thing , I don't have Instagram Twatter Snapchat Tik Tok or any of those  | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ?? Not only on here but on the scene in general, it’s surprising a big community
We met a couple we know from 20 years ago in the vanilla world at a social recently, once over the initial surprise it worked well as we laughed it off and all got on like a house on fire leading to all night fun back in our hotel.
We are all in this for the same thing and the majority and not going to brag about meeting you on here or in a club "Oh I'm not worried about that I've noubt to hide , I was just shocked at the amount | |||
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"Some of the people I saw don't have my number "Yeah, but it’s the ‘six degrees of separation’ thing. Connections of connections. And if the system sees that a bunch of people know each other, and that one of them knows you, it guesses that you may know them all. That’s the point. | |||
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"Yep, I had a few pop up once we have swopped numbers, and escaped them once I found out that they are actually married "I've kinda had this with a couple we swapped numbers with found the male half advertising himself as a single dad and was clearly on the prowl, safe to say conversation halted. Mrs | |||
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"It’s mostly down to people giving Facebook (or Instagram, or Threads) access to their phone contacts. When you give someone your number, you just have to accept that they might have that stuff switched on. It’s out of your hands." This is the reason why we don't swap numbers with people we barely know  | |||
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I haven’t seen anyone from here but I don’t pay much attention to the ‘people you may know’ page. | |||
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"Yep, I had a few pop up once we have swopped numbers, and escaped them once I found out that they are actually married "Hahaha  | |||
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"Some of the people I saw don't have my number
Yeah, but it’s the ‘six degrees of separation’ thing. Connections of connections. And if the system sees that a bunch of people know each other, and that one of them knows you, it guesses that you may know them all. That’s the point."Scary shiz | |||
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"Yeah someone from here shows up regularly on my FB people you might know, but that’s cos I do know her and we have mutuals. I just told her she’d popped up and had no intention of crossing that boundary even though if I see her out we always say hi and are cordial "Best way mate | |||
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"Check your privacy settings on this account and your Fb account x" Yep have done all that .. I'm not particularly worried or owt I was more surprised | |||
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"I only learned recently about the connection between fan and social media being on the same phone.im glad I have a separate phone for fab as it solves this problem! " Me too I had no idea | |||
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"*Off to delete my Facebook
I haven’t seen anyone from here but I don’t pay much attention to the ‘people you may know’ page. "Nor did I but I was scrolling down my news feed and the first one in that section I kinda knew | |||
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"Yes it happens a lot and not just with fab, but other dating sites, because people have their phone numbers on Facebook " True tbf haha | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??" Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed | |||
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"I'm not on Facebook but have never come across it on Instagram. F" Tbh I'm only on FB to find inappropriate stuff to send people I know  | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed "Cash will be around for a while yet | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed
Cash will be around for a while yet "Or it will become irrelevant as we revert to a barter system  | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed
Cash will be around for a while yet
Or it will become irrelevant as we revert to a barter system"What's a Barter system ? | |||
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"It’s only happened once OP… with you
Ps. I didn’t add you "Same haha | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed
Cash will be around for a while yet
Or it will become irrelevant as we revert to a barter system
What's a Barter system ?"Exchange of goods or services, sort of swopping in value. I'll fix your gate if you change the wheel of my car......I'll swop you my excess tomatoes for eggs..... | |||
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"Not on Facebook so not an issue for me" Very wise tbf | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed
Cash will be around for a while yet
Or it will become irrelevant as we revert to a barter system
What's a Barter system ?
Exchange of goods or services, sort of swopping in value. I'll fix your gate if you change the wheel of my car......I'll swop you my excess tomatoes for eggs....."I assumed that's what it was tbf .. Cool  | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. " Haha I know ... My FB privacy is tighter than a ducks arse so I'm confused | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. " Are you Busty Blonde on FB? I think I’ve seen you | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. Are you Busty Blonde on FB? I think I’ve seen you "Ha ha ha cheeky moo..... don't tell everyone | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. Haha I know ... My FB privacy is tighter than a ducks arse so I'm confused "Not that tight ...... | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. Haha I know ... My FB privacy is tighter than a ducks arse so I'm confused
Not that tight ......" | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. Haha I know ... My FB privacy is tighter than a ducks arse so I'm confused
Not that tight ......
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. Are you Busty Blonde on FB? I think I’ve seen you
Ha ha ha cheeky moo..... don't tell everyone "Oops | |||
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"One Guy who is related to a friend of mine,he messaged me and said not to worry my secret was safe,I don't like it though" Scary I know  | |||
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"This is another reason why I have a "fake name" Facebook page and only really use it for what's on stuff in the school holidays. My name, no pictures of me or my location will ever twig to someone else from fab that has my number or I speak too elsewhere on other sites. Haha I know ... My FB privacy is tighter than a ducks arse so I'm confused
Not that tight ......
Point now proven ha ha "Ffs | |||
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I think it's when you use other apps to chat that use your numbers etc. And then it kind of syncs you up on all of your social media which is slightly unsettling. No such thing as privacy anymore.  | |||
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"I was scrolling through this section of FB earlier and I was shocked at how many people I know from FAB , and some I barely know but recognise ... I try and keep FB totally seperate and although I do have 1 fab friend on there it's bloody scary... Anyone else get this ( and no I'm not saying who haha ) ??Technology pretty soon no freedom to do anything without others.... Many others knowing, this and the demise of cash and telephone banking we are doomed "I think it’s safest to assume that all your online activity is tracked and collated by someone, and your only anonymity is the same as it always has been, i.e. lost in the crowd. This will of course work only if someone is just trying to stalk you on a whim, it won’t offer any protection against a tech company or someone with skills and determination. | |||
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