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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?

I think it's time to go back under my rock for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit but it makes the point.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I agree. I hate the whole verification thing. Its just sex reviews. One needed i think to say you are who you say you are. Thats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel as you do, it does sound a bit crude but the person has displayed it so they must be happy with it...I guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really as the person choice to show it

If it was disrespectful the person wouldn’t have shown it

We can pick and choose witch verification to show it’s one off the reason I hold 0 stock in them

No one’s going to show

Turned up 20 minutes late 2 pumps and a squirt and ran out the door

People are only going to show verifies that show them in a good light or what they want other to see off them

So that person has chosen to show that veri meaning they don’t find it disrespectful and that’s the light they want people to see off them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?..,"

Where’s more details??

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

If they felt it was disrespectful, they wouldn't have chosen to display it.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I would like to see a bad verification lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'd be very disappointed if someone I'd chosen to be naked with wrote a verification of that ilk.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

You are aware OP that the recipient of that 'disrespectful verification' has chosen to willingly display it on their profile with their acquiescence and delight?

So where is the disrespect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree OP,I dislike crude verries turn off if I'm honest

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

So what? If the receiver didn't like it and felt disrespected, they wouldn't display it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it's the dehumanising aspect that riles me.

On reflection, I do agree if they found it disrespectful they wouldn't of displayed it.

Food for thought on my part though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some lovely veris. I choose not to display them because it's not anybody else's business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can choose what they display so they must have felt comfortable to share it.

Different people have different styles. That's what makes this wee corner of the web great. We aren't all the same

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?

I think it's time to go back under my rock for a while."

Presumably the recipient doesn’t mind it as they’ve displayed it!

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I use them as an additional filter.

If someone I wish to meet displays or gives very graphic ones, I tend to avoid them. They aren't for me. Unless they are being ironic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to see a bad verification lol"

Admittedly I've never seen a bad one, but I've certainly seen some very lukewarm ones! And some very glowing ones. Call me out for it, but it does make a difference in my eyes!

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"I use them as an additional filter.

If someone I wish to meet displays or gives very graphic ones, I tend to avoid them. They aren't for me. Unless they are being ironic."

The wife on her profile has a very tongue in cheek one. “10/10 would knob again” left by a very good friend.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?

I think it's time to go back under my rock for a while."

That's generally how the fake verifications are worded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person who received the verification obviously doesn’t mind or they wouldn’t have displayed it.

Each to their own or something like that

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Wheres the respect?"

The profile owner has made the choice to display that particular verification, therefore can't feel all that disrespected.

If it's too vulgar for you, they're probably not a good match for you.

Don't get me wrong I would find that too much. So I'd just press the back button and not get upset on their behalf.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I use them as an additional filter.

If someone I wish to meet displays or gives very graphic ones, I tend to avoid them. They aren't for me. Unless they are being ironic.

The wife on her profile has a very tongue in cheek one. “10/10 would knob again” left by a very good friend. "

Exactly- you can usually tell when its like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Wheres the respect?

The profile owner has made the choice to display that particular verification, therefore can't feel all that disrespected.

If it's too vulgar for you, they're probably not a good match for you.

Don't get me wrong I would find that too much. So I'd just press the back button and not get upset on their behalf. "

On the button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You went looking for it on their profile, got upset and posted it publicly calling shame to their profile and their verification.

Do you see the issue?

It's none of your business, how anyone else conducts their business.

This is literally all your own subjective bias, applied to something and someone thats nothing to do with you.

Have a word.

This. This is disgusting. Innit.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Maybe she likes to bring out her inner hoe? I had one once and it pretty much just said I was "legit" so I didn't display it. Not disrespectful, but zero effort.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

It’s a funny one with regards to reviews. How many does one need for example? I can see it’s necessary particularly for a newbie as it helps confirm they are who they say they are. Aside from that it does have a feeling of trip advisor.

Some are straight to the point so maybe we’re overanalysing to a point.

I don’t know if anyone has done this but when reading a verif of someone do you also check the verifs of the person who wrote it ?

We’ve found it’s helped build a better picture overall of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?

I think it's time to go back under my rock for a while."

Agree. Prefer to see none at all.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?

I think it's time to go back under my rock for a while."

hey its universal basic income of pervs

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"You are aware OP that the recipient of that 'disrespectful verification' has chosen to willingly display it on their profile with their acquiescence and delight?

So where is the disrespect?"

Agreed, some people are right prudish considering it's a sex site.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"You are aware OP that the recipient of that 'disrespectful verification' has chosen to willingly display it on their profile with their acquiescence and delight?

So where is the disrespect?

Agreed, some people are right prudish considering it's a sex site. "

damn and here i am thinking i could meet the woman of the dreams i never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some disgust me with the lack of respect shown.

I've just seen one.

"Big tits, great fuck. This one's good with her mouth to"

Maybe it's me. But isn't it a bit tripadvisor-ish? Wheres the respect?

I think it's time to go back under my rock for a while."

But isn’t it exactly the same what you say in person or write verification on someone’s profile ? Ohh she’s great and bendy, or he knows how to make girl scream..

care less about others and care more about yourself.

Alice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification?

What’s one of those? Can you grow them?

I joke wholeheartedly lol

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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago

Grays

Its worse if you have no verifications (like me) cause alot of people actually say they will only talk to you if youre verified! Hence I havent met anyone here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its worse if you have no verifications (like me) cause alot of people actually say they will only talk to you if youre verified! Hence I havent met anyone here!"

Easy... go to a club

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Veris are pointless now anyway people verifying each other on here without meeting just a simple click of a button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here put far too much weight on a stranger's opinion of another stranger.

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By *luefunMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"People on here put far too much weight on a stranger's opinion of another stranger.

"

The early bird catches the worm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people will be "it's a sex site" so it's fine and good. Personally, I think to review another human being in that way says nothing good about the writer.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not one for sex review type verifications but some are and each to their own, if they didn't like it they wouldn't display it.

Mrs

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A lot of people will be "it's a sex site" so it's fine and good. Personally, I think to review another human being in that way says nothing good about the writer. "

Totally agree

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Each to their own! I love collecting them some people collect stamps some fridge magnets I collect verris! actually fridge magnets as well! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing with verifications is that it is absolutely not a necessity to display them.

Fab gives one the option to hide or display them. So I assume that if a person displays a verification that I personally find tacky, cheap, seedy (add here any belittling remarks) is that they are okay to be seen like that.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"The thing with verifications is that it is absolutely not a necessity to display them.

Fab gives one the option to hide or display them. So I assume that if a person displays a verification that I personally find tacky, cheap, seedy (add here any belittling remarks) is that they are okay to be seen like that.

"

To be fair I bet your veris would be delightfully brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing with verifications is that it is absolutely not a necessity to display them.

Fab gives one the option to hide or display them. So I assume that if a person displays a verification that I personally find tacky, cheap, seedy (add here any belittling remarks) is that they are okay to be seen like that.

To be fair I bet your veris would be delightfully brutal "

Probably if I meet guys like you, they certainly would, but as I only meet respectful men.

Except the last one

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"The thing with verifications is that it is absolutely not a necessity to display them.

Fab gives one the option to hide or display them. So I assume that if a person displays a verification that I personally find tacky, cheap, seedy (add here any belittling remarks) is that they are okay to be seen like that.

To be fair I bet your veris would be delightfully brutal

Probably if I meet guys like you, they certainly would, but as I only meet respectful men.

Except the last one "

Well now I feel like you've said I'm not respectful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing with verifications is that it is absolutely not a necessity to display them.

Fab gives one the option to hide or display them. So I assume that if a person displays a verification that I personally find tacky, cheap, seedy (add here any belittling remarks) is that they are okay to be seen like that.

To be fair I bet your veris would be delightfully brutal

Probably if I meet guys like you, they certainly would, but as I only meet respectful men.

Except the last one

Well now I feel like you've said I'm not respectful! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I've had some cringy ones. Good thing that you can hide them. If I write any I tend to focus on the persons personality with a few subtle hints to their skills and avoid "he has a tounge like a hummingbirds wing and a fist of fury" even if it is true ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish more women would objectify me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish more women would objectify me. "

And call you pretty?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've read all of your opinions and I appreciate them greatly.

Each to their own. Seems to be the general concensus.

I've been on the receiving end of dehumanisation, worthlessness, objectification.

It takes you to a dark, dark place mentally, and can take forever to get over.

Perhaps, that's why I have the view I have, and it triggered me more than it should.

I feel I've said more than enough for now, so its time to grab an iced latte and get to my job site. Have a great day, and thank you all for your views

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I would like to see a bad verification lol"

No no no, those get swept under the carpet

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Each to their own. Dont read it if you dont like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine as they all state how small my penis is

That, and it annoys people. Which I think is quite funny

'Must have visible verifications' yawwwwwwwn

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"If they felt it was disrespectful, they wouldn't have chosen to display it."

This

Personally I aim not to be crude when writing one but each to their own we all different

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I guess what's an appropriate verification is subjective. I doubt anyone would display a verification they didn't like content of? So if the language used for the verification is fine with the person being verified then that's all that matters.

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