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"I think it's a great Idea and any boss should want to keep their staff happy, the only pitfall I can see from the boss point of view would be if everyone wants the same treatment then there could be problems keeping the business running steady, not knowing what your employment entails and how many workers there are it's hard to tell if it would be affected though." Employees need to use common sense and be flexible if required by the boss. | |||
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"It all depends on if there is cover and if its going to be a regualr thing as others may want to take longer breaks during that time to attend business etc. Where I worked a few years ago the boss was decent and allowed a few of us to complete our work over 4 days but it was never a fixed day, and most of us got the day off we wanted. There was also a choice of a few wantinng to work w/e's and others w/d's Show some flexibility mate and don't get ticked off if the boss has to stop you going one day as he/she is doing you a favour" Thats how it should be. However some employees just want what they want and refuse to be flexible. | |||
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"Tumble out of bed And stumble to the kitchen Pour myself a cup of ambition And yawn and stretch and try to come to life Jump in the shower And the blood starts pumpin' Out on the streets, the traffic starts jumpin' For folks like me on the job from 9 to 5 Workin' 9 to 5 What a way to make a livin' Barely gettin' by It's all takin' and no givin' They just use your mind And they never give you credit It's enough to drive you Crazy if you let it 9 to 5 For service and devotion You would think that I Would deserve a fat promotion Want to move ahead But the boss won't seem to let me I swear sometimes that man is Out to get me, hmmm They let you dream Just a watch 'em shatter You're just a step on the boss man's ladder But you got dreams he'll never take away In the same boat with a lot of your friends Waitin' for the day your ship'll come in And the tide's gonna turn And it's all gonna roll you away Workin' 9 to 5 What a way to make livin' Barely gettin' by It's all takin' and no givin' They just use your mind And you never get the credit It's enough to drive you Crazy if you let it 9 to 5 Yeah, they got you were they want you There's a better life And you think about it, don't you? It's a rich man's game No matter what they call it And you spend your life Putting money in his wallet 9 to 5 Oh, what a way to make a livin' Barely gettin' by It's all takin' and no givin' They just use your mind And they never give you credit It's enough to drive you Crazy if you let it 9 to 5 Yeah, they got you where they want you There's a better life And you dream about it, don't you? It's a rich man's game No matter what they call it And you spend your life Putting money in his wallet " Wasn't like that Friday now was it... Hmmmm.... How's that song gonna go... Especially that traditional remedy for getting rid of your headache. | |||
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"So long as the work is done, that's what it's there for. Obviously always check with the boss that it's not going to interfere in anyway. But don't feel bad or anything. As long as you keep track of it, it's amazing. Just don't overuse or abuse it, that's when you can get caught up. " I definitely don't plan to abuse it and only use it for the days I go to the gym. I suppose I just need to check with core hours and guess I'd also hate to put them in a position where they'd have to say no. | |||
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"I kind of have that arrangement. My job is very busy and deadline based, but I can pretty much do what I want when I want." That a bit of what I worry about too. If I know there's a deadline then I don't mind planning around it but would hate to use flexi-time during the hour I might be needed. | |||
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"I was distracted by the hoover... But no, I don't have that option. If you don't ask you don't get Joe!!!" Sorry to hear that (about not getting it, not about you being distracted!) But that's true, I'll try be a bit ballsy and just ask | |||
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"Don't overthink it....if you never ask the question Joe, the answer will be always no.. How will you ever break a 9 to 5 mindset, if you only ever do 9 to 5..." That's a very good point. I suppose I'll never feel comfortable working outside that rigidity unless I do it. | |||
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"Do whatever the fuck you wanna do. Kinda how I live. Works out for me!" Might not help when I have a boss to answer to | |||
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"Yes, I use it to it's advantage. We can also build up time each day to take in bigger blocks which is what I usually do. 30 minute lunches with start and finish time unchanged and I can take a full day off here and there or an afternoon when I need it. F" That's really cool! I don't think we ha that much leeway in terms of hours worked but that genuinely sounds like bliss | |||
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"No I don’t have that option but I don’t see any harm in asking if that option is there for you. As long as you’re making up the hours and getting the work done I can’t see there being an issue. " Do you think you would use it if you did have it available to you? I know it shouldn't be an issue for the reasons you mentioned but still have a bit of doubt about whether it would work in reality. | |||
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"Without sounding arrogant Joe, I'm currently in a job where I'm given much autonomy. I don't have to go cap in hand to ask my boss for x, y and z. Thankfully I'm not micro-managed (and I'm not suggesting that you are). If the situation ever changed for me I would be looking for another job. And I'm also thankful that I have this flexibility because most people don't. As long as I don't lose focus on my duties and am meeting my goals and objectives then it's all good. It's swings and roundabouts and give and take. Most employers should be flexible. Good luck my friend." Don't get me wrong, my boss is lovely and always says I can go to her if I have any troubles. It's good that you're given autonomy and I'm sure she would give me the same, but maybe I'm overthinking in terms of how it would work in reality compared to in practice. | |||
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"Yes, I use it to it's advantage. We can also build up time each day to take in bigger blocks which is what I usually do. 30 minute lunches with start and finish time unchanged and I can take a full day off here and there or an afternoon when I need it. F That's really cool! I don't think we ha that much leeway in terms of hours worked but that genuinely sounds like bliss " Definitely helpful with the lack of annual leave and with the thousands of school things you feel guilty towards if you don't attend F | |||
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"No I don’t have that option but I don’t see any harm in asking if that option is there for you. As long as you’re making up the hours and getting the work done I can’t see there being an issue. Do you think you would use it if you did have it available to you? I know it shouldn't be an issue for the reasons you mentioned but still have a bit of doubt about whether it would work in reality." I probably wouldn’t use it even if it was available. there wouldn’t be any reason that I’d need to, and I’d end up taking a advantage of it a little because, well I’m extremely lazy . If it’s only half an hour in the morning and at the end of the day that you’d need to make up, it doesn’t sound like it would be too difficult to manage, especially if you’re going to the gym in the morning anyway. | |||
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"No I don’t have that option but I don’t see any harm in asking if that option is there for you. As long as you’re making up the hours and getting the work done I can’t see there being an issue. Do you think you would use it if you did have it available to you? I know it shouldn't be an issue for the reasons you mentioned but still have a bit of doubt about whether it would work in reality. I probably wouldn’t use it even if it was available. there wouldn’t be any reason that I’d need to, and I’d end up taking a advantage of it a little because, well I’m extremely lazy . If it’s only half an hour in the morning and at the end of the day that you’d need to make up, it doesn’t sound like it would be too difficult to manage, especially if you’re going to the gym in the morning anyway. " You say that but it's amazing for medical appointments, even hair appointments even needed. Those times a delivery or repair guy or whatever says they can only do between x hours.If you need to get that shopping in before a party or whatever. Definitely easy to overuse and abuse if you don't check yourself. But the freedom to not be locked down, or have to take a day off for that one small thing it's one of those things that you don't realise until you can use it. | |||
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"No I don’t have that option but I don’t see any harm in asking if that option is there for you. As long as you’re making up the hours and getting the work done I can’t see there being an issue. Do you think you would use it if you did have it available to you? I know it shouldn't be an issue for the reasons you mentioned but still have a bit of doubt about whether it would work in reality. I probably wouldn’t use it even if it was available. there wouldn’t be any reason that I’d need to, and I’d end up taking a advantage of it a little because, well I’m extremely lazy . If it’s only half an hour in the morning and at the end of the day that you’d need to make up, it doesn’t sound like it would be too difficult to manage, especially if you’re going to the gym in the morning anyway. You say that but it's amazing for medical appointments, even hair appointments even needed. Those times a delivery or repair guy or whatever says they can only do between x hours.If you need to get that shopping in before a party or whatever. Definitely easy to overuse and abuse if you don't check yourself. But the freedom to not be locked down, or have to take a day off for that one small thing it's one of those things that you don't realise until you can use it. " I just meant because of the shift pattern that I have, I wouldn’t need it for anything like that anyway. But yeah I imagine it would be really useful to have that option there for people who do need it. | |||
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"Thank you for the advice everyone. I know it's only half an hour each side of the work day but guess I was worrying about the extra hour in the middle of the day in case anything urgent would be needed. But always worth asking and seeing how it goes " What if something urgent is needed after five? | |||
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"Thank you for the advice everyone. I know it's only half an hour each side of the work day but guess I was worrying about the extra hour in the middle of the day in case anything urgent would be needed. But always worth asking and seeing how it goes What if something urgent is needed after five? " A lot of jobs these days don't have that 9-5 luxury. If something needs doing you just do it even if you have to work well into the night and have early rises too. I have done my fair share of that. I am not advocating is right but the reality is that it happens a lot. | |||
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"Thank you for the advice everyone. I know it's only half an hour each side of the work day but guess I was worrying about the extra hour in the middle of the day in case anything urgent would be needed. But always worth asking and seeing how it goes What if something urgent is needed after five? " It's rarely been the case as it's generally seen as the end of the working day so could be looked at the next day. | |||
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"Thank you for the advice everyone. I know it's only half an hour each side of the work day but guess I was worrying about the extra hour in the middle of the day in case anything urgent would be needed. But always worth asking and seeing how it goes What if something urgent is needed after five? It's rarely been the case as it's generally seen as the end of the working day so could be looked at the next day." So if anything urgent occurred during one of the hours you were at the gym the longest it would wait is two hours, far less than over night. . Do it, adjust your work to fit your life if you can...your life is by far the most important of the two | |||
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