FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me something about love?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just been on a cute date with my gf. We were reflecting. Being understood is an underestimated and underrated part of love. Being able to be yourself and being able to be with someone that knows all your thoughts and references and jokes before you even say them. *chefs kiss*

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

It sucks, that’s my piece of knowledge. I hate being vulnerable with people that seem worthwhile and then poof, hurt again

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love hurts. It never actually goes away, nor does the pain of it.

It is eternal in one form or another.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Love can hit you like a ton of bricks when your not expecting it....It also can rip your heart out

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By *asper1987Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Do you know that first glass of water after a hardcore night out? You feel it running trough your whole body, that’s what it is.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

he loves her, but she loves this guy, (right over here)

and he loves somebody else -

You just can't win.

And so it goes until the day you die.

This thing they call love,

its gonna make you cryyy I hate you.

I've had the blues, the reds and the pinks.

One thing's for suurre...

Love stinks

Love stinks...yeah yeah...

Love stinks!

Love stinks! Yeah yeah...

Love Stinks

Love stinks! Yeah yeah...

LOOOVE stinks! yeah yeah

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

The monkees said it best “only true in fairytales”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see some people that are very happy in love and it shows when you are around them. The way they look at each other, the way they dance together and look out for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurts

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The answer to all three questions is you have each others back whatever

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I love the love for family and friends. But romantic love too often doesn't work out so I would rather avoid it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love for me is a Jane's Addiction lyric

Jane says, "I've never been in love"

No, she don't know what it is

She only knows if someone wants her

"I want 'em if they want me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you need is love...

...money, food, a house, car, job, good health, cake, family, friends nice clothes and the occasional orgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s entirely possible to think you know what love is. And then out of nowhere, real love hits you.

Love is the most wonderful, but also most destructively powerful force. Right now I hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you feel whole.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Love for me is a Jane's Addiction lyric

Jane says, "I've never been in love"

No, she don't know what it is

She only knows if someone wants her

"I want 'em if they want me.

that song

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

To do that could be dangerous

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

It's a waste of fucking time ( in my personal opinion obviously)

But other than that it's awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes you feel whole.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Love is Mr KC getting up earlier in the morning to pack the car with my stuff, because it makes my life easier. It's me knowing from just a look that he's not okay and knowing exactly how to soothe him.

Like the wise NCs said, it's having each other's back, no matter what.

We're deeply in love and there's nothing negative about our love. We experience negative things in our lives, but our love and teamwork means we overcome it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The monkees said it best “only true in fairytales”"

But that was before they saw her face. Then they were believers

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's intoxicating and magnificent and incredible when it works

But it can ensnare you when it doesn't work and become a trap.

The best way to escape the trap is to disavow it while you sort your shit out.

I'm happy for those who have it and are making it work

As for me, I have some more manure to shovel.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Unrequited love is the absolute worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unrequited love is the absolute worst"

It’s worse than no love in the first place

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's being secure with someone & also compromising at times.

It takes work especially when you've been together a good while.

It's being there for each other ,whilst still being honest with each other.

Miss

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Dear Pickle,

Love is giving. Love does not expect return. Love is letting others be and being happy for their being. Love is all encompassing. Love doesn't hurt unless it is the love of the self above the love of the other.

That is what I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Pickle,

That is what I know.

If this be error and upon me prov'd,

I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Dear Pickle,

That is what I know.

If this be error and upon me prov'd,

I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

Ahhhh sonnet 116 and you purport to be a pickle of stone and yet I findst thee a mellow fellow full of grace , folly and wisdom.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Love is my second favourite four letter word.

My favourite four letter word is my love.

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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago

Kendal

“Love is a stranger in an open car…”

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

It's better to loose in love than to have never loved at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's better to loose in love than to have never loved at all. "

This is bollocks

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Its NEVER unconditional....

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It's better to loose in love than to have never loved at all.

This is bollocks "

No, you're bitter. Yes it hurts like hell when it all breaks down but sometimes these are growing and learning opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's better to loose in love than to have never loved at all.

This is bollocks

No, you're bitter. Yes it hurts like hell when it all breaks down but sometimes these are growing and learning opportunities"

I'm amazed you know me so well since we've never spoke. But I'm actually not bitter, I'm very sweet. Sometimes.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Love is demanding

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It's better to loose in love than to have never loved at all.

This is bollocks

No, you're bitter. Yes it hurts like hell when it all breaks down but sometimes these are growing and learning opportunities

I'm amazed you know me so well since we've never spoke. But I'm actually not bitter, I'm very sweet. Sometimes. "

you hide it so well. let it out sometime.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Once I believed it didn’t exist, now I could draw you a picture of how it feels.

Hades

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

It's the best thing ever and I can honestly say I don't think I'd ever experienced true love until I met Mr

It's feeling safe, cared for unconditionally and you can be your true self

Its magical

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Love sucks, in my experience all I've had is hurt after falling in love with with someone, can't remember the last time I actually felt loved n wanted for more than minutes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Pickle,

That is what I know.

If this be error and upon me prov'd,

I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

Ahhhh sonnet 116 and you purport to be a pickle of stone and yet I findst thee a mellow fellow full of grace , folly and wisdom. "

I’m just a young man that believes in love and that listened in his A Level English lit class

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

"It's better to loose in love than to have never loved at all. "

Hahaha got to disagree I felt fucking awesomely happy before had ever been in love. Never recaptured that feeling since

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unrequited love is the absolute worst"

I’ve given love that hasn’t been given back in the same way. And it sucks. Pouring yourself into someone that doesn’t feel the same way is tough. But that love is character building. There are worse things than unrequited love though. Like not loving at all. I think that’s pretty sad.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be. "

It's a difficult balance, trying to respond authentically without shitting on other people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be.

It's a difficult balance, trying to respond authentically without shitting on other people."

I think it’s nice to be happy when others are happy.

But I just hate when, and I have seen this irl, people say things like ‘it’ll end’ or ‘it’ll end in tears’. Like ew

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"The monkees said it best “only true in fairytales”"
The end of Shrek hahahaha it's not a fairytale though if you've experienced true love. Which i did with someone who became my best friend, We remained only best friends for a few years until he died. Instead of being sad that it ended, Just smile and remember how lucky you were to have found it not everyone does.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Unrequited love is the absolute worst

It’s worse than no love in the first place "

Perhaps, but what you've never had you can't miss I suppose

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be.

It's a difficult balance, trying to respond authentically without shitting on other people.

I think it’s nice to be happy when others are happy.

But I just hate when, and I have seen this irl, people say things like ‘it’ll end’ or ‘it’ll end in tears’. Like ew "

Maybe 2 years ago I might have been saying those things. Telling you it's not worth the potential pain. Heartbreak near killed me. I'm still here though. A bit wiser, a few more scars but maybe foolish of me but I'll try again. Be happy and don't let anyone rain on your parade

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Just been on a cute date with my gf. We were reflecting. Being understood is an underestimated and underrated part of love. Being able to be yourself and being able to be with someone that knows all your thoughts and references and jokes before you even say them. *chefs kiss*

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

"
If it's real you can just be yourself completely! Someone who is your safe place and understands and can read you like a book. Also someone you can just be utter ridiculous with and not take yourselves too seriously, But you can be deep and vulnerable with them too.

PS glad you both had a nice time!

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I know love for my children, for my friends but relationship love, I haven't experienced it enough to comment. What I have experienced has been beautiful and painful in equal measure. But I would still like to experience it again at least once more

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It clouds your judgment, raises your hopes and then slams them deep into the dirt before covering them with sprinkles of sorrow and regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me feel confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a chemical reaction...the rest is compromise.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be.

It's a difficult balance, trying to respond authentically without shitting on other people.

I think it’s nice to be happy when others are happy.

But I just hate when, and I have seen this irl, people say things like ‘it’ll end’ or ‘it’ll end in tears’. Like ew "

Yeah. That's a bit much.

I want others to be happy and also for my feelings on the matter to be recognised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So here's my take...

True love is when you can feel good about being vulnerable (because you relinquish control over your heart, body and soul when you truly love someone) and trust that you won't be shred to pieces.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love is knowing how to help when my partner has had a bad day and getting as much of a warm feeling out of it as he does. It's him knowing when I'll want a cup of tea. It's doing the jobs he hates because I don't mind them and him putting the shopping I bought away for me because my body is broken. It's thinking about him while smiling thinking about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like home. A place where you can truly be yourself, the good and the bad. It’s peaceful

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Once I believed it didn’t exist, now I could draw you a picture of how it feels.

Hades"

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It feels like home. A place where you can truly be yourself, the good and the bad. It’s peaceful

I like that phrase - it feels like home. Your heart can stop wondering and your soul which grew tired from wandering to find its soul mate can finally stop and focus on growth. Growing together and evolving as a person with your best cheerleader by your side. Someone who sees the treasures in you behind all the locks on your trunk. Someone who isn't afraid to dive deep into feeling. Love is an adventure with a right partner.

Tones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It lays you bare and then stands back with a drawn sword, waiting the right moment to cut you down.

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By *ob and DeeWoman
over a year ago

crook

i have never ever been in love. As a teenager my nan told me 'never fall in love with a man because he wont love you back' my mam never fell in love either because she too had been told the same thing by my nan.

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be. "

I am happy for people that is happily in love, but I thought you asked what it means to other people, hence the honest answer. Apologies if it’s not what you were after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, love is wanting to share absolutely everything. Being my best friend in the world, knowing each other better than you know yourselves. Telling each other the truth, even when it hurts.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I heard on the tv. "Once you put your defences up you're fucked. Two vulnerable people will find a way to connect". Struck a chord

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you know what I hate- people that project their hatred of love into people that are enjoying love. That’s not cool man. If someone’s happy in love. Let them be.

I am happy for people that is happily in love, but I thought you asked what it means to other people, hence the honest answer. Apologies if it’s not what you were after "

Oh no no. This isn’t aimed at the thread.

The thread is interesting to read.

It is something I hate about talking about love more generally. Didn’t want to start a new thread but wanted to share these thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

If it's real you can just be yourself completely! Someone who is your safe place and understands and can read you like a book. Also someone you can just be utter ridiculous with and not take yourselves too seriously, But you can be deep and vulnerable with them too.

PS glad you both had a nice time! "

Thank you.

She is my safe place. I am able to be me. All the sides of me. All the jokes and references. She knows what I’m thinking. I know what she’s thinking. We smile constantly. And obvs we fancy the pants off each other.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

It's feeling bigger and brighter and more when they walk into the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

PS glad you both had a nice time!

Thank you.

It's no secret I'm not a fan of men and love and shit.

But this is actually just....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"i have never ever been in love. As a teenager my nan told me 'never fall in love with a man because he wont love you back' my mam never fell in love either because she too had been told the same thing by my nan."

I hope you don't mind, but I think that's kinda sad. I had a terrible time with my son's Dad but tried massively never to speak negatively around my son, so he could form his own opinions as he grew up. I think people should be allowed to find their own way, not be influenced to choose a pathway because others steer them down it.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

They know fuck all! Once I got over 40 my parent and ultimately my grandparent lost their power as things change so quickly these days their superstitions became nothing more than mumbo jumbo.

Why put up a fence because of something your grandparent said? It's your loss not theirs, it's Just daftness.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

It can be scary and unnerving giving your heart to someone to hold - but when it's right, everything glows that much brighter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

PS glad you both had a nice time!

Thank you.

It's no secret I'm not a fan of men and love and shit.

But this is actually just....

I know it’s proper moist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

PS glad you both had a nice time!

Thank you.

It's no secret I'm not a fan of men and love and shit.

But this is actually just....

I know it’s proper moist.

Annnndddddd you've ruined it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

PS glad you both had a nice time!

Thank you.

It's no secret I'm not a fan of men and love and shit.

But this is actually just....

I know it’s proper moist.

Annnndddddd you've ruined it. "

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

It rips your heart out & stamps on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

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love doesn’t do that. Men do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

love doesn’t do that. Men do"

Yes they bloody well do!!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

Ouch. Someone said that to me when I broke up with them

Mrs TMN x

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Love is different, complicated, terrible and the absolute BEST.

In different shades obv...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Pickle,

That is what I know.

If this be error and upon me prov'd,

I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

Ahhhh sonnet 116 and you purport to be a pickle of stone and yet I findst thee a mellow fellow full of grace , folly and wisdom. "

So beautiful, Ms Granny, and Mr Pickle!

Love to me is acceptance, not being judged. And the feeling when you think about or see that person, you can feel your heart split open and energy fill your insides! X

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

love doesn’t do that. Men do

Yes they bloody well do!!"

Indeed they do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is trust. If being in love is being vulnerable and knowing the other has your back, then that takes trust. Love is quite sweet and innocent and for the optimistic

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Love? Pfft... Biochemically it's no different from eating large quantities of chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is something you feel for your children. At least I hope so. There is no love I have felt quite as powerful and the complete absence of self preservation in light of their advancement. As much as the pain of losing someone randomly acquainted is, it pales to the pain of losing someone you truly love and of your lineage is. That pain is torture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most remarkable people can be found in the strangest of places, at the strangest of times.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

love doesn’t do that. Men do"

People do. People are cruel and vindictive. And love gives them just another opening to exploit.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

....allowing each person to be the best versions of themselves they can be. Sharing their dreams and desires, consoling their fears, supporting them when they need it and giving them space when they don't.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

It's a dangerous game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

love doesn’t do that. Men do

People do. People are cruel and vindictive. And love gives them just another opening to exploit. "

And they call it love but it is nothing of the sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘’You don't need another human being to make your life complete, but let's be honest. Having your wounds kissed by someone who doesn't see them as disasters in your soul, but cracks to put their love into, Is the most calming thing in this world’’

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By *oupot56Man
over a year ago

Ruislip

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lick your own wounds like your cat and dog does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lick your own wounds like your cat and dog does."

Hilarious

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Once you've been alone for a while it's dangerous.. it becomes addictive once you feel how peaceful it is.. you don't want to deal with peoples shit after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lick your own wounds like your cat and dog does.

Hilarious "

Hilariously poignant.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Love is a beautiful thing. Why are we so limited to thinking we only have one love?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

It can fade no matter how hard you try to hold on…..then the pain and disbelief engulfs you and you just want to cry… I’m sad but happy at the same time….Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love, in its truest sense, is unconditional.

It’s often uninvited and it’s usually unexpected.

It just is.

We succumb to it despite how much we swear we’ll never fall for it again.

It shapes us and alludes us.

But what do I know x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I look at love from a different angle the other end. Love is not wanting something to die, hence nourishing, caring, respecting, guiding, protecting and so forth. Love is a connection both physical and emotional. Love is uplifting, doing what makes you happy and it is pretty hard to love if you don’t love yourself, as you can't share what you don't have.

Most forms of love people express are manipulative and fear to control, dominate or exploit. Love can be very much unconditional but that is very rare in a romantic partnership but common from mothers to children. As long as you are an adult human being there are going to be conditions some form of an exchange. Getting attached to this exchange is not love. Love is being interdependent and free, however, your choice will dictate compatibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be the most amazing thing to happen to you but it's also an extremely vulnerable place to be. You need good people to fall in love with and that's not always easy. Sometimes you find out far too late that they were not good people with good intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be the most amazing thing to happen to you but it's also an extremely vulnerable place to be. You need good people to fall in love with and that's not always easy. Sometimes you find out far too late that they were not good people with good intentions. "

Overrated or underrated… all depends on your situation x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

The only true love is that I have for my children/grandchildren/great grandchildren and my fur children x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like that MR Pickle, being understood. It’s very rare but so important.

I’d add feeling truly secure. When everything else goes to shit, health, career, finances, still feeling that everything is ok because someone has your back.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If you'd have asked me 10 years ago I'd have probably said it's a made up emotion people use to cling to each other.

Now.....

It's comfort, safety, your best friend and lover in one, it's happiness and laughter, cuddles and tears, dancing in the kitchen, random unexpected cuddles and ass grabs, it's being able to completely be yourself and relax even if you are a weirdo, it's making him a coffee with his favourite spoon even though he's been a dick

It's just the best.

Mrs

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"The only true love is that I have for my children/grandchildren/great grandchildren and my fur children x"

My fur children are my world

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

"It makes you feel whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

love doesn’t do that. Men do"

#Notallmen

Luckily I am short, so I am allowed to.

So on that note Mr Pickle, if you are so in love with your gf why did you come back to Fab and why are you on here flirting?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It rips your heart out & stamps on it

love doesn’t do that. Men do

#Notallmen

Luckily I am short, so I am allowed to.

So on that note Mr Pickle, if you are so in love with your gf why did you come back to Fab and why are you on here flirting?"

I can answer that. The joy of being poly. You can truly love someone without it being negated by you being on here and having the audacity to enjoy flirting with others.

Actually; I don't think you have to be poly to be able to do that. You can be ethically non-monogamous and enjoy that. Like swingers. Or less ethically - like those who cheat. The amount of people I know who proudly say they love their partner so much and do far more than flirt on here.

Maybe you meant that particular night though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more addictive than heroin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin! "

Is that love, or is it lust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?"

Could be both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both! "

I think caffeine trumps all those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those. "

Weetabix??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both! "

Have you tried getting off love? It’s difficult, takes years, and you still want it years later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those.

Weetabix??"

Go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those.

Weetabix??

Go away"

Not even warm!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those. "

Haha - put the kettle on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those.

Weetabix??

Go away

Not even warm!?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those.

Weetabix??

Go away

Not even warm!?

I’ll down to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurts when not in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much love will kill you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those. "

Failed to have a coffee for the past hour cos assumed the rain will stop and I'd be walking the dog.

Sod it, going to make one and walk round the park with it as I am clearly crotchet and being cynical. Need my caffeine more than love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more addictive than heroin!

Is that love, or is it lust?

Could be both!

I think caffeine trumps all those.

Failed to have a coffee for the past hour cos assumed the rain will stop and I'd be walking the dog.

Sod it, going to make one and walk round the park with it as I am clearly crotchet*** and being cynical. Need my caffeine more than love."

*** crotchety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much love will kill you!

Or the woman will.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"Its NEVER unconditional...."

In my experience it is unconditional love you feel for your children and grandchildren.

I sadly haven’t experienced that in relationships. I have seen couples that do have that love for each other though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love has rarely been reciprocated properly for me. Its been faked and it's broken my heart.

Yet,I'm not jaded. I love, love. The feelings and the excitement of lust combined with the comfort, safety and deep emotional connection of love.

I'm not sure I'll find it but I'm always open to it.

Someone who will help me pour in enough love to fill the cracks that are still in my heart.

I guess that's still the dream for me but I'm not searching for it. I think the best loves take you completely by surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real unconditional love, that is the worlds best motivator, you will do anything, it’s the highest emotion, more than all the others, greed jealousy hate all have limits because deep down you know they are wrong, there’s something stopping you, but love will push you further, all emotions can make you blind but love is the only one worth losing your sight for xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Love is getting your two bottom ribs removed, so you can suck yourself off.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've loved and been loved for 10 years. It's the best feeling in the world. I know that if everything collapsed around us, the love we have for each other would get us through. Love from Mr makes me feel wanted, appreciated, sexy.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

It makes me sad how many people have bad experiences with love.

I love love. I adore seeing others in love. It gives me a warm hopeful happy glow.

Being in love for me is rare but when it happens it is wonderful. When it ends it can rip your outsides out but even throughout my breakup with my long term partner I still believed in love.

I found the prospect of love much more beautiful when I learnt to be happy with myself. Then it became a thing that could grow between people rather than a thing that gave me validation.

I hope I find romantic love again. I think I will. But if I don't I will be still be happy. If do and it ends again I will also be happy.

Maybe I am more of an optimist than I thought I was!

I am so happy for you OP feeling understood and seen is such a wonderful feeling.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

When it's right, it makes life worth living.

When it's wrong, it can make life unbearable.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"he loves her, but she loves this guy, (right over here)

and he loves somebody else -

You just can't win.

And so it goes until the day you die.

This thing they call love,

its gonna make you cryyy I hate you.

I've had the blues, the reds and the pinks.

One thing's for suurre...

Love stinks

Love stinks...yeah yeah...

Love stinks!

Love stinks! Yeah yeah...

Love Stinks

Love stinks! Yeah yeah...

LOOOVE stinks! yeah yeah"

This one's for the mutants on table 9!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is a desire to feel the happiness exude from and to do no harm to the loved: to lift when fallen; to shelter and protect when afraid; to support when faltering; to guide when lost; to set free with trust and respect.

That’s how I feel when I love and feel loved. Whether it is achieved, even with the best of intentions, tests the patience and persistence of love.

Miles

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Love isn’t easy and it’s definitely not all roses around a white picket fence it’s hard work having patience and plenty of understanding.

It’s definitely worth it tho .It’s different for everyone but for me it’s having a best friend and a husband all rolled into one knowing you can tell each other anything with no judgment and knowing what the other is feeling/thinking without saying a word.

It’s also very important for us to be able to even after 30 years of being together still laugh and act like teenagers .

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Pretty much the lyrics to love bites

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pretty much the lyrics to love bites "

Or I see you by little Simz

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I miss her in the forums (shout out to GeorgiaPeach)

Anyway. Tell me something about love

? What do you love about it? What does it make you feel?

Tell him, tell him, tell him right now

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