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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

has anyone ever seen this before and know how invasive it is ..

we were asked to watch our next of kin have every organ removed whilst on a life support system ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I didn't know they expected you to watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine that being pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has anyone ever seen this before and know how invasive it is ..

we were asked to watch our next of kin have every organ removed whilst on a life support system ?"

That's a memory I don't want. I'm not squeamish by any means but I don't want my last memory of a loved one being them sliced open and their innards removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never heard of this before....

Did they explain why....?

Is it some form of legal reason....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen it done loads of times...never seen family watch the process

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have never heard of this before....

Did they explain why....?

Is it some form of legal reason....??"
Me neither, consent forms are one thing but watching the procedure ive never heard of that.How awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dreadful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on the donor register but I hope none of my loved ones would have to watch them actually harvest my organs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recieved organ donations, corneas. To which I am very grateful, but that's just awful watching your loved one being sliced open.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive never heard of being asked to watch either

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"has anyone ever seen this before and know how invasive it is ..

we were asked to watch our next of kin have every organ removed whilst on a life support system ?"
Did they explain what was going to happen? Did you consent to watch etc...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't think of any reason why family would be asked to watch. Its an upsetting time for staff involved, never mind family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be and am.only guessing you had option of not watching i cannot see anyway you would be required to do so.

But on the plus side its a goof chance the removed organs will have saved or improved someone elses life which is something you should take pride in.

When we were kids my mum drummed into us fact she was donating her body to medical science. When she died of enphysemia i came close to saying no but realised i was being selfish not wanting her cut up etc. So glad i did now.

Hard part was getting them to accept her body for donation as her body was buggered and ideally they want fit healthy bodies if there is such a thing as an healthy dead body.

Personally i feel organ donation should be the norm and folk would have to opt out instead of in as few more bodies would be donated because some may not bother opting out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not even sure they would take any of my organs now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am on the donor register but I hope none of my loved ones would have to watch them actually harvest my organs. "

Likewise, imagine how many people would opt out if this was the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you asked to watch and this would probably be declined,they only allow you to see your loved one once they are stitched back up.

I think in your time of grief you may have miss understood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you asked to watch and this would probably be declined,they only allow you to see your loved one once they are stitched back up.

I think in your time of grief you may have miss understood "

Agree with you here....its not the most pleasant of processes

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