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To block or not to block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it strange the people will take endless about of time chatting with you and once you share a photo they block instantly without a word...

How do you feel with this happens and how often do you block peeps and why ?

Always curious to find what others have experienced!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe they didn't like your photo, I've blocked many for the same reasons.

It's a useful tool not to contact those you don't want to or want them to contact you or see in your updates.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked for breathing, I wouldn't think too much about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really blocked people before, I do now.

I just either can't be arsed talking to you, the thought of you looking at my pics just creeps me out or you're an annoying twat.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

If i message someone and they clearly give me a no.. i will block them just so i dont bother them again. Nothing nasty. I do block those that are cunts about it as well, and I block those that block me (clearly they dont want to talk to me so easy fixed).

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

This is why it's good to get face pics right away

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Block early, block often.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've never really blocked people before, I do now.

I just either can't be arsed talking to you, the thought of you looking at my pics just creeps me out or you're an annoying twat. "

It’s nice that I score full marks

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By *horesonWellesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If we've been talking I don't often block without telling you why, it's not hard to politely say I'm not interested. If people are rude, continue to hassle me, or obsessively view my profile after a "no thanks" I'll block. That said I do preventatively block bigots and people whose profiles make clear they won't interested in me (no hairy men, fat men, bi men etc).

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I find it strange the people will take endless about of time chatting with you and once you share a photo they block instantly without a word...

How do you feel with this happens and how often do you block peeps and why ?

Always curious to find what others have experienced! "
Hey you just dont appeal to them you cant appeal to everyone so better they cut you off now i guess

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I probably block in double figures most weeks.

I never used to, I used to only block the absolute twats and irredeemable arseholes. But my inbox is a much nicer place now I don't have to see the same tripe from the same people I've already expressed a complete lack of interest in every few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably block in double figures most weeks.

I never used to, I used to only block the absolute twats and irredeemable arseholes. But my inbox is a much nicer place now I don't have to see the same tripe from the same people I've already expressed a complete lack of interest in every few weeks."

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset


"I find it strange the people will take endless about of time chatting with you and once you share a photo they block instantly without a word...

How do you feel with this happens and how often do you block peeps and why ?

Always curious to find what others have experienced! "

If I’ve been chatting to someone and it’s not going anywhere, I tend to tell them.

Problem is quite often you get some abuse back after this and get accused of wasting peoples time.

This is why lots of people just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me tbh. If there's someone that doesn't want to interact with me anymore I'm more than happy to be blocked rather than ignored.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Various reasons:

Didn't like your photo.

The conversation is going nowhere / is becoming boring and time consuming.

The one party to the chat, thinks that because there's been a bit of ongoing chat that a connection has been made, which will lead to a meet. It may be that the other party was just replying out of politeness.

Any party is allowed to back out /change their mind at any stage.

If a meet is unlikely to happen, it's a way of avoiding a similar conversation happening again in the future.

One party to the chat has started getting pushy / wierd / rude / obnoxious / vulgar / psychopathic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not block anyone simply because I didn’t find them attractive, especially after chatting for a while. That could hurt someone’s feelings and self confidence plus I wouldn’t like to be treated like that myself.

I seem to have been very lucky in comparison, I only seem to have messages from friendly people who will accept ‘no’ for an answer in a polite and easy going manner. Yes some will pop up again every so often to see if things are different but off they go again then with no rudeness or abuse whatsoever.

There really are some lovely kind and genuine people on here who have now become good friends.

As for Tinder etc..that’s just a melting pot of all sorts

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We've never blocked after seeing a pic of someone ,you can just say sorry not for me and then block.

Some may be worried that they'll get abuse if they say no ,or they might have known you and panicked.

It seems a bit harsh to me though if you've chatted a while.

Miss

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I block for a myriad of reasons and never mean it to cause hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block me

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've never really blocked people before, I do now.

I just either can't be arsed talking to you, the thought of you looking at my pics just creeps me out or you're an annoying twat. "

This is are the main reasons

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't block that often anymore. I have tight filters so rarely get messages that are bad enough for me to block anyone.

I have never blocked anyone after we chatted and they sent a face pic. I'd prefer to tell someone I didn't feel the attraction rather than just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block me "

I keep trying. It doesn’t work. I now just report you instead.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close


"I've never really blocked people before, I do now.

I just either can't be arsed talking to you, the thought of you looking at my pics just creeps me out or you're an annoying twat. "

I love this woman. Truly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if someone doesn't reply to a wink within 14 minutes it's a block. Rules are rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange the people will take endless about of time chatting with you and once you share a photo they block instantly without a word...

How do you feel with this happens and how often do you block peeps and why ?

Always curious to find what others have experienced! "

They probably didn't find you attractive or didn't like the photo

Nothing strange about it, people are allowed to block as and when they wish

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