FabSwingers.com forum: Subtle message on vanilla dating apps

By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

Do any of you single folks on vanilla dating apps have something written on your profile that subtly implies that you are into swinging/kink? I have seen "Vanilla is good only for ice creams" message on some profiles.

Any other creative messages like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say....

'Before you unmatch with me, please understand that I have a tongue like a bees wings'

Never fails.

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By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I say....

'Before you unmatch with me, please understand that I have a tongue like a bees wings'

Never fails.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

There will soon be an upside down emoji.

Mind you the person that introduced me to fan I found on a vanilla dating site.

Got in from work one day opened up my dating profile and I had a message from a lady, this is what it said.

Hello hope you don’t mind me contacting you.

I am (name), I am happily married and love my husband however we no longer have a sexual side to our relationship.

I am looking for a man who is local and would like to meet regular for sex.

I understand if this is not for you, however if you’d like to meat please message back.

I messaged her back and then she sent her phone number. We arranged to meet the next day at mine at lunchtime. She arrived I buzzed her in and went to meet her in the hall, we entered my flat and within 3 steps of the door she was naked I soon followed suit has a great afternoon and then twice a week for the next few years she’d come round.

She told me about fab which I joined and she was my first verification. Sadly they eventually moved away.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've dabbled with it previously, but I get little interaction on these apps anyway, so difficult to tell what impact it has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice various things, like 'I like doing as I'm told' 'I like latex' and other things that imply they are into kink

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I have ‘Not here for the traditional life, here for the alternative life’ with a pineapple at the end.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"I have ‘Not here for the traditional life, here for the alternative life’ with a pineapple at the end. "

Oh I like this. Please can I pinch it for mine?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I have seen "Vanilla is good only for ice creams" message on some profiles.

And the only acceptable ice cream is Fab lolly?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have enm on my tinder profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put poly in all my profiles to subtly hint I’m not into monogamy

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By *parkleCCWoman
over a year ago

Staffs/chesh border

I have vanilla is good experimental is better.

Still single and not met adventurous man from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have enm on my tinder profile."

I initially read that as EMH and wondered why you had emergency medical hologram on your tinder profile...

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By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I put poly in all my profiles to subtly hint I’m not into monogamy"

Like -

I enjoy solving polynomial equations

Polythene bags should be banned

I am a polyglot

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By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I have ‘Not here for the traditional life, here for the alternative life’ with a pineapple at the end. "

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By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I have vanilla is good experimental is better.

Still single and not met adventurous man from it "

Do you get interests with that on profile though? I tried being open once about me being submissive for about a month and my match rate reduced to 0. Removed it and the match rate is back to one or two per week. I guess all the people are not pervs like fab would make me believe

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By *rtic explorerMan
over a year ago

ring road bristol

Hold a pineapple instead of a fish in one of the pictures and see if that solves the problem ??

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes

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By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

"If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes "

Curious to hear more. If someone is into sexual stuff which aren't considered normal in the vanilla world, wouldn't it be better to be honest and upfront about it? The other options are to bring it up after a few dates which could mean time wasted or not talking about it at all the which could lead to problems Down the line

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes

If having their sexual predelictions met was high on their priority list I wouldn't want to date them

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Normal dating apps are all trash

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By *ostindreams OP Man
over a year ago

London

"If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes

If having their sexual predelictions met was high on their priority list I wouldn't want to date them"

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By *parkleCCWoman
over a year ago

Staffs/chesh border

"I have vanilla is good experimental is better.

Still single and not met adventurous man from it

I do, but just like on here following day they go quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put poly in all my profiles to subtly hint I’m not into monogamy

Like -

I enjoy solving polynomial equations

Polythene bags should be banned

I am a polyglot

Along came Poly is my favourite film. Tell me your thoughts if we match.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I have that I was ENM on my last one, never mention anything about kink on them though.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

'Will you fuck on first date?'. Seems subtle to me

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Iv got open minded on mine but get far less hits than i used to since putting it unfortunately

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I have ‘Not here for the traditional life, here for the alternative life’ with a pineapple at the end.

Oh I like this. Please can I pinch it for mine?

Of course, bug only if you swipe right

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I don't date.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

ENM is common on Feeld. I have "non-vanilla" on my various ones but it still baffles some people.

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By *hegirlwiththepeachtattooWoman
over a year ago

"I say....

'Before you unmatch with me, please understand that I have a tongue like a bees wings'

Never fails.

As a woman who uses dating apps I avoid profiles/messages like this like the plague.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I say....

'Before you unmatch with me, please understand that I have a tongue like a bees wings'

Never fails.

As a woman who uses dating apps I avoid profiles/messages like this like the plague. "

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"I have enm on my tinder profile.

I initially read that as EMH and wondered why you had emergency medical hologram on your tinder profile..."

Please state the nature of the medical emergency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one fancies me on the dating apps. I don't think reminding them I'm also a rubbish swinger would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one fancies me on the dating apps. I don't think reminding them I'm also a rubbish swinger would help

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I amuse myself by posting vanilla photos of me working on my allotment etc, then when I've matched and started chatting with someone I swap those photos for ones where I'm practicing Shibari!

The reaction from some of them is hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up on vanilla apps. Either the men are horrified at me or they want me to teach them kink. FFS.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I do remember seeing one that said something like "Looking for someone to drill my ass in front of my boyfriend"

LvM

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I do remember seeing one that said something like "Looking for someone to drill my ass in front of my boyfriend"

LvM"

How subtle!!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do any of you single folks on vanilla dating apps have something written on your profile that subtly implies that you are into swinging/kink? I have seen "Vanilla is good only for ice creams" message on some profiles.

Any other creative messages like that? "
Vanilla wtf does that mean its used all the time but what does it mean...... Nothing it means nothing sex is sex we don't do sex greater here than anywhere else, oh he does vanilla sex and she doesn't

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I do remember seeing one that said something like "Looking for someone to drill my ass in front of my boyfriend"

LvM

How subtle!!!"

Right?

At least they're clear on what they want

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do remember seeing one that said something like "Looking for someone to drill my ass in front of my boyfriend"

LvM"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my only two fwb through vanilla dating sites, although we had all declared we were only looking for sex, not a lifelong relationship.

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