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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me " Interesting though going in blind would possibly put people off. | |||
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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me Interesting though going in blind would possibly put people off." Well it’s a blind service for the person being payed it’s not as if pics and what not is exchanged kind off like fab whare you have a profile and your mobile number at the bottom They call the number you give the address or they give there’s and they turn up So it’s hafe blind service they get to see you but you didn’t get to see them till they arrive | |||
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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me Interesting though going in blind would possibly put people off. Well it’s a blind service for the person being payed it’s not as if pics and what not is exchanged kind off like fab whare you have a profile and your mobile number at the bottom They call the number you give the address or they give there’s and they turn up So it’s hafe blind service they get to see you but you didn’t get to see them till they arrive " You can't check out customers before the meet? I've looked in to it myself as I know a couple it's worked well for and much like yourself thought that it could be a way to make some money... I know I could do it. | |||
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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me Interesting though going in blind would possibly put people off. Well it’s a blind service for the person being payed it’s not as if pics and what not is exchanged kind off like fab whare you have a profile and your mobile number at the bottom They call the number you give the address or they give there’s and they turn up So it’s hafe blind service they get to see you but you didn’t get to see them till they arrive You can't check out customers before the meet? I've looked in to it myself as I know a couple it's worked well for and much like yourself thought that it could be a way to make some money... I know I could do it." Well I mean you maybe able to ask for a pic before hand I know I didn’t maybe that’s whare I went wrong was a long time ago though maybe things are different now I am going back maybe 7-8 years and fair play if you can x | |||
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"I have a fantasy where a woman pays for my coffee. " • That's probably the fantasy of the average well-heeled gentleman.  | |||
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"Steve. The idea of it all is a turn on. But.....letting shaz go with another man without me there is not something we have done. Spoke about it but not sure how we would feel as this is for both of us. " I can see your dilemma especially as it would be for both of you. Though I suppose being on here you could probably get to know the guy first so it wouldn't be a complete stranger. At the end of the day if he is paying to have sex with your wife would that not be enough of a turn on or would you like to watch or even listen in ? | |||
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"Done it. There’s nothing wrong with it" So was this a fantasy or necessity or both if you don't mind me asking ? | |||
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"Done it. There’s nothing wrong with it So was this a fantasy or necessity or both if you don't mind me asking ?" Fantasy and extra pennies. Very difficult to arrange actually as I have 2 vanilla jobs and family, so certainly not necessity. Frankly, the guys were more respectful than most are on here | |||
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"Done it. There’s nothing wrong with it So was this a fantasy or necessity or both if you don't mind me asking ? Fantasy and extra pennies. Very difficult to arrange actually as I have 2 vanilla jobs and family, so certainly not necessity. Frankly, the guys were more respectful than most are on here " Well maybe it was a fantasy for them as well and I'd imagine that a lot of men on here would hopefully be respectful for any woman on here. Being an arse won't get you very far on here | |||
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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me " When ever money is involved it becomes a professional service that you're providing, and therefore your needs become second to your clients. I imagine this not only includes people we would normally turn down, but also our own sexual gratification. I've heard it said years ago, that if the working girl is enjoying herself too much, the client would argue payment. | |||
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"Done it. There’s nothing wrong with it So was this a fantasy or necessity or both if you don't mind me asking ? Fantasy and extra pennies. Very difficult to arrange actually as I have 2 vanilla jobs and family, so certainly not necessity. Frankly, the guys were more respectful than most are on here " That's nice to hear! | |||
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"I have a fantasy where a woman pays for my coffee. " I always pay for the drinks on dates. It sets men off kilter  | |||
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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me When ever money is involved it becomes a professional service that you're providing, and therefore your needs become second to your clients. I imagine this not only includes people we would normally turn down, but also our own sexual gratification. I've heard it said years ago, that if the working girl is enjoying herself too much, the client would argue payment. " This isn’t actually the case. I still screened, and only met guys I was comfortable with and had an attraction to. The only difference really is that I was more open on my age preference and didn’t insist on a social. More often than not guys didn’t want sex, just company x | |||
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"Not really a fantasy for me As I can already tick that one off the list Ie I have tryed it and not pretend way for real my thought process was I like sex so why not get payed for it Turned out to just be a bunch off people who I had turned down from here and another place booking me Think I maybe did it 5-6 times and then pulled the profile But it definitely gave me respect for those who do it If it wasn’t such a blind service and I could see them before hand and could pick and choose before they got here Then yes would probably be for me But blind service they turn up and you think god your not for me but you don’t want to cause any hassle or anything so just go through with it wasn’t for me When ever money is involved it becomes a professional service that you're providing, and therefore your needs become second to your clients. I imagine this not only includes people we would normally turn down, but also our own sexual gratification. I've heard it said years ago, that if the working girl is enjoying herself too much, the client would argue payment. " That is so true that’s how I just wasn’t for me hence why I pulled the profile always something I can look back on and say I have tryed | |||
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