FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys

By *agerMorgan OP Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.

Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and socials are best bet

But also op know your worth ie

If they not interested ones then your not interested ever no matter what that opportunity passed them by

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By *agerMorgan OP Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"Just be yourself.

Fair fair, rule number 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.

And be ripped, handsome and charming with a decent sized cock.

If you’ve got all that ^ being yourself is easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.

It's not as easy as that sometimes guys just don't stand a chance

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Just be yourself.

Are you sure?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

"Just be yourself.

And be ripped, handsome and charming with a decent sized cock.

If you’ve got all that ^ being yourself is easy

And remember shave it like a bald chicken to

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't know where they're going wrong.

I can't keep up with everyone that wants to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.

It's not as easy as that sometimes guys just don't stand a chance "

That's bollocks.

Guys that do well on here exude confidence, they aren't sex desperate or obsessed and they get the women.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Be in the top 2%. Otherwise you're fucked. Not literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.

And be ripped, handsome and charming with a decent sized cock.

If you’ve got all that ^ being yourself is easy

The reason men don't get replies or meets?

Men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.

Are you sure? "

Yes

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Just be yourself."

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JAG is actually right. Just be yourself. Stop conforming to the humdrum.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.

Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!

I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.

Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!

I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all "

Apart from me. I'm worth saving.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Just be yourself.

This 100%.

I’m not muscled or tattooed or vwe but I do ok by being myself. If I tried being someone im not then I’ll soon get found out. So totally agree

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just being yourself won't really change anything much. Though it's likely to do more good than complaining.

The thing is, being yourself is just easier to do. It requires less effort to be than pretending to be something or somebody you are not.

Don't bend over backwards to please the women, or couples, or anyone. Doing one thing to dmtry and get in their favour may attract some, but it will turn others away.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Be polite, be consistent, communicate, turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's easy.

Meet other Men.

We've done our bit for fab now, we've met several men, not yet met a woman or couple.

So, meet more men or realise it's not easy for the majority here.

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By *agerMorgan OP Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"That's easy.

Meet other Men.

We've done our bit for fab now, we've met several men, not yet met a woman or couple.

So, meet more men or realise it's not easy for the majority here. "

See, this is where I’m displaying my naivety a little but I thought it would have been a little easier for couples to meet other couples / women. Apparently not!

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Self-acceptance for the win.

At least then there's a chance they will like you for you. Then the intimacy can be real, well if they do the same, of course.

You can only be as accepting as you are aware though so...

Nosce Te Ipsum.

I wouldn't listen to me though, I rarely listen to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's easy.

Meet other Men.

We've done our bit for fab now, we've met several men, not yet met a woman or couple.

So, meet more men or realise it's not easy for the majority here.

See, this is where I’m displaying my naivety a little but I thought it would have been a little easier for couples to meet other couples / women. Apparently not! "

It's a common misconception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not showing up, ghosting and making last minute excuses when you've agreed to a social....generally helps.

Not bitter at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not showing up, ghosting and making last minute excuses when you've agreed to a social....generally helps.

Not bitter at all.

Agreed.

We are always short on time, and express that clearly.

The last time we had availability, we were let down by two guys in the same week, ghosted at the eleventh hour, then both popped up a couple of days later with the same 'reason' and asked if we were available.

We'd gone the same way that has always served us well, both verified etc etc.

Not once been let down, then two in the same week.

Guys, it's guys like that, cause the most damage, creating cynicism in women and couples.

Yes I know You wouldn't let us down, that's exactly what they said.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.

Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!

I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all

Apart from me. I'm worth saving. "

I'm coming Cape is flapping behind me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Get out and mingle

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Just be yourself.

It's not as easy as that sometimes guys just don't stand a chance

That's bollocks.

Guys that do well on here exude confidence, they aren't sex desperate or obsessed and they get the women.

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get out and mingle

Or.just get out your minge.

Wait, that's for the women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not showing up, ghosting and making last minute excuses when you've agreed to a social....generally helps.

Not bitter at all.

Agreed.

We are always short on time, and express that clearly.

We'd gone the same way that has always served us well, both verified etc etc.

Not once been let down, then two in the same week.

Guys, it's guys like that, cause the most damage, creating cynicism in women and couples.

Yes I know You wouldn't let us down, that's exactly what they said. "

Same thing here, same approach. Worked with others brilliantly and somehow had a run of it lately. Not just men either which sucks even more. Everyone can change their mind, I understand that. But a message to say so is just the nice thing to do. But hey no one owes me anything so I shouldn't expect that either and grow a thicker skin.

Fab seems different.

It's a lot more hook up than anything else. Harder to find those that get what an Fwb means and don't call it a relationship and think I should be on dating apps.

Grrr I could moan.

My time is limited I don't like it wasted.

I can relate to you completely.

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By *agerMorgan OP Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"Get out and mingle

Or.just get out your minge.

Wait, that's for the women. "

Awh, guess it’s sausage waving & boings for us blokes

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As the song says: girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more wonko

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fire and forget

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Just be yourself.

That doesn’t work either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.

That doesn’t work either "

It does!

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By *agerMorgan OP Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"Be more wonko "

On a scale of Nero to Wonko, where’s the optimal level?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be more wonko

On a scale of Nero to Wonko, where’s the optimal level?

Ooh that’s a tough one. I’d say take aspects of each and mould them to suit you

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By *agerMorgan OP Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"Be more wonko

On a scale of Nero to Wonko, where’s the optimal level?

Ooh that’s a tough one. I’d say take aspects of each and mould them to suit you

That’s a good answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show up not give a excuse hours before a meet when things were planned.

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By *irtdiggerABCMan
over a year ago

torbay

I guess that we all have to accept that society has changed a lot since lockdowns too ???????

It seems harder to meet people in person in general nowadays, not just on fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need the 'successful' men to tell you what they do really. And they come in many shapes and sizes and personalities, that would be impossible to squish into a handy formula. As above. Just be you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself."

Ah so THAT’S where I’ve gone wrong!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

If it helps anyone here, being more me really is marmite. You get some absolute stunners message and flirt. Then you get dickheads block

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If it helps anyone here, being more me really is marmite. You get some absolute stunners message and flirt. Then you get dickheads block

Man is spitting truths! Being yourself is great, it really is, but it's a double edged sword. Draws some in, pushes others away.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"If it helps anyone here, being more me really is marmite. You get some absolute stunners message and flirt. Then you get dickheads block

Man is spitting truths! Being yourself is great, it really is, but it's a double edged sword. Draws some in, pushes others away."

Bet they wouldn't say no to both our swords together though would they the silly geese!

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I think not just on Fab but life in general if you're not being you're self it's just an act.

which as this is a sex site is basically you acting like a shitsemi competent porn star.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.

Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!

I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all "
You nob! Lol

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