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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many women get this has a first message from guys..?

No introduction or checking if your compatible. Just are you free and if you say no followed by " let me know when you are and I'll meet you".

I get these often, even though I have on my profile I can't do unplanned meets. Was wondering if women equally get this sort of attention or is it mostly tgirls. With men thinking we are more desperate and will meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or

I’m free now.

Let’s meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well when I don't have filters on, which won't be happening again for a while, it's generally "what's your plans for tonight/weekend".

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I used to when my filters were open, yes. Or occasionally even a demand that I come to them between X and Y o'clock.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I get plenty of those ones too.

Everyone loves being approached with the any willing hole will do attitude right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip get them all the time I just don’t even bother replying to them

I am to lazy to put filters up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many women get this has a first message from guys..?

No introduction or checking if your compatible. Just are you free and if you say no followed by " let me know when you are and I'll meet you".

I get these often, even though I have on my profile I can't do unplanned meets. Was wondering if women equally get this sort of attention or is it mostly tgirls. With men thinking we are more desperate and will meet anyone. "

I get it a lot

And men that want to bypass a social.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Yes, we get those as a couple.

Luna

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yup, a common occurrence. Or. I'm in your neck of the woods this week/next week/day X. Are you available?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep even with filters on my single profile I get them ,what you up to now /later .I don't answer them anymore cos it's always followed by "fancy meeting me ".

Or as above I'm just in a hotel in x if you want to come over ,err no ta.

Miss

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not very often.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"How many women get this has a first message from guys..?

No introduction or checking if your compatible. Just are you free and if you say no followed by " let me know when you are and I'll meet you".

I get these often, even though I have on my profile I can't do unplanned meets. Was wondering if women equally get this sort of attention or is it mostly tgirls. With men thinking we are more desperate and will meet anyone. "

I get this often, as if I sit around all day and night dressed ready for sex!

Then it's "what are you wearing?" Jeans and T shirt usually.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I get them even though my profile says I don't do unplanned meets.

Just indicates they haven't bothered to read it. Acts as a good filter.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"How many women get this has a first message from guys..?

No introduction or checking if your compatible. Just are you free and if you say no followed by " let me know when you are and I'll meet you".

I get these often, even though I have on my profile I can't do unplanned meets. Was wondering if women equally get this sort of attention or is it mostly tgirls. With men thinking we are more desperate and will meet anyone. "

We get that a lot (and I do but to a much lesser extent) - didn't realise we sat around with our boots on ready to go at any second

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We do get this a lot despite being clear that’s not how we work.

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By *edandwhiteroseCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

All the time. I instantly block those people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and my bitchyness has started to come through so for some I'll reply with a 'yes, because when my profile says I'm not meeting it actually means the opposite. Does that mean you think a 'no' is actually a yes too.

I get cranky easily lately

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes, and my bitchyness has started to come through so for some I'll reply with a 'yes, because when my profile says I'm not meeting it actually means the opposite. Does that mean you think a 'no' is actually a yes too.

I get cranky easily lately "

I do the same, it's amazing how many don't get the sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ite the guys attitude in general that is the thing, not a different approach to tgirls than he would a woman. That's reassuring in a way.

The other ones that first message " i want to fuck your brains out" is a laugh.

I've sometimes replied " does this ever work with anyone" to which they reply sometimes it does...

I wonder with who..

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I get it of men even though I state straight

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I get it all the time, even though profile clearly states not looking or meeting at present

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I pop it on my status when I'm free for a cuppa occasionally

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I get this from couples. "We're in a Soho bar, come join us".

Ummm.....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m always free to get balls deep

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