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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Awful daughter, using money sent to his foundation to build a swimming pool and spa in their garden....in his name!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes horrible and surely illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them.

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them."

You have to take your hat off before using the pool

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Did they actually use the money to build it or did they just use the name of the trust to get planning permission.

Both horrible.

Poor old Tom he had the good intentions and his name is being grifted.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them.

You have to take your hat off before using the pool"

Unless it's a swimming hat.

I don't need one of those as I look close enough to Duncan Goodhew already.

A

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't trust any charity.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Awful daughter, using money sent to his foundation to build a swimming pool and spa in their garden....in his name!"
How do you know have you read it in the paper or watched the news?

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Unclear whether they have used charity money or just charity status for planning permission or to claim vat back on materials.Its alleged they called the pool "public" which suggests they have used charity money.

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Used money donated to the trust fund in his name

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I took a dislike to her from the beginning. In the early days when he walked it became clear that she was part of a business and she exploited what was going on - they came under investigation some time ago.

Entitled people.

Not read the ins and outs but I must do

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Remember the Mcanns using money donated to find Maddie to pay off the mortgage

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Remember the Mcanns using money donated to find Maddie to pay off the mortgage

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

According to some news articles they've built it bigger than the original planning permission given and applied for retrospective planning permission which the council are now rejecting and are in the demolition enforcement order on it. There's an appeal lodged but who knows what will happen.

It's always been a bit sketchy from the start with them applying for an 85k salary while independent trustees were found. And from what I've read the trust has suspended taking any future donations or donors to it until investigations of wrongdoing etc have been completed.

Tinder x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"According to some news articles they've built it bigger than the original planning permission given and applied for retrospective planning permission which the council are now rejecting and are in the demolition enforcement order on it. There's an appeal lodged but who knows what will happen.

It's always been a bit sketchy from the start with them applying for an 85k salary while independent trustees were found. And from what I've read the trust has suspended taking any future donations or donors to it until investigations of wrongdoing etc have been completed.

Tinder x

"

The charity commission actually stepped in and made her step down when she tried to appoint herself a six figure salary as well

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By *antam AvershiresMan
over a year ago

Falme


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them."

Actually the greatest grift was the Tories who enhanced the coverage about what he was doing.

Caveat, I fully respect what he did as a moral boost and his fight to the last spirit.

But as ex service and ex NHS I think the government was laughing all the way as not only do they find the NHS with our taxes they were encouraging us to continue funding it after tax by suggesting anyone not supporting Tom was being unpatriotic.

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

There's a pub near me called Uncle Tom's Cabin

Captain Tom's Cabin is health and fitness club

Pretty brazen behaviour.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

The people who run the charity have took more money out than that what has been released . The whole charity is corrupt. This is typical of a lot of charities unfortunately

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Capt Toms daughter admitted to keeping the royalties from his book when it was meant to go to charity and getting covid loans and handouts.

She is lower than low, I bet she forced her Dad to go around the grounds of his large home.

His name is tarnished now because of her.

Where is the money?

Crooks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And no one saw this coming at the time? More red flags than a soviet parade

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them."

Come on. The whole thing was weird. None of this surprises me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Capt Toms daughter admitted to keeping the royalties from his book when it was meant to go to charity and getting covid loans and handouts.

She is lower than low, I bet she forced her Dad to go around the grounds of his large home.

His name is tarnished now because of her.

Where is the money?

Crooks!!!"

If people tarnish his name that's incredibly shit on them.

Unless they really think that he was aware and in on the scam.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"There's a pub near me called Uncle Tom's Cabin

Captain Tom's Cabin is health and fitness club

Pretty brazen behaviour. "

It's also a weirdly racist joke.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Remember the Mcanns using money donated to find Maddie to pay off the mortgage"

No. Not the saintly ones who only popped out for Tapas. I don't think I'd heard that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them.

Actually the greatest grift was the Tories who enhanced the coverage about what he was doing.

Caveat, I fully respect what he did as a moral boost and his fight to the last spirit.

But as ex service and ex NHS I think the government was laughing all the way as not only do they find the NHS with our taxes they were encouraging us to continue funding it after tax by suggesting anyone not supporting Tom was being unpatriotic.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them."

It's not a great grift. People donated money and they stole it. It is incredibly pedestrian.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

£800,000 from his books went to the daughters company, to stay in the family. Awful daughter

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

They never got a penny of mine, always be wary of ‘pop up’ charities.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

I fucking gave my money thinking it was going to NHS and good causes and not this criminal family to jet off and build a sports centre for themselves.

I hope they get charged and pay it all back to NHS.

I bet Captain Tom was trying to escape from his evil daughter and family.

I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Where is the £40+million?

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"£800,000 from his books went to the daughters company, to stay in the family. Awful daughter "

Not just the daughter..you think other members of the family didnt know and the accountant.

You cant just take £800,000 without telling other people.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"There's a pub near me called Uncle Tom's Cabin

Captain Tom's Cabin is health and fitness club

Pretty brazen behaviour.

It's also a weirdly racist joke. "

How is that racist? Should the publican change the name of their pub?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"One of the greatest grifts of all time though.

You have to take your hat off to them.

Actually the greatest grift was the Tories who enhanced the coverage about what he was doing.

Caveat, I fully respect what he did as a moral boost and his fight to the last spirit.

But as ex service and ex NHS I think the government was laughing all the way as not only do they find the NHS with our taxes they were encouraging us to continue funding it after tax by suggesting anyone not supporting Tom was being unpatriotic.

"

Tom was used as smoke and mirrors during

governmental covid disdemeanours and given huge boosts by personalities and unwarranted news coverage.

It is so easy to fool the public and create a phoney hero for them , they are idiotic in their blindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a pub near me called Uncle Tom's Cabin

Captain Tom's Cabin is health and fitness club

Pretty brazen behaviour.

It's also a weirdly racist joke. "

’weirdly racist’ reaching ??

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Can we clap every Thursday 8pm until this family is charged,jailed and made to give all the money to NHS.

"CLAP TO JAIL THURSDAY 8PM"

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It’s all over the news!

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By *vlizTV/TS
over a year ago

merseyside and anglesey

I could see something shadey about her when they would interview him and she would answer for him,

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley


"Remember the Mcanns using money donated to find Maddie to pay off the mortgage"

No they didn't. They made two payments when they were on unpaid leave for 6 months. Unethical, yes, but totally different to what you said

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

Just read an article stating that she has admitted taking 800,00.

daily mail me thinks

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

All over the news, stealing £800,000.

I wonder what else she has done and is hiding.

Needs to get investigated and charged.

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By *octor ProdMan
over a year ago

working Overseas

They used money from the books not the charity funds. I beleive that it does not state the money from the books would go to the funds, it never stated that they wouldn't; so not misappropriated.

The issue is around how the trust is being run and the salary his daughter receives as Chair of the charity.

I think must of us who gave, believed the funds would have been distributed quickly and the fund closed down, but a vast majority hasn't and it is being used as a salary pot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All over the news, stealing £800,000.

I wonder what else she has done and is hiding.

Needs to get investigated and charged."

Must be a Tory scam going on and they need her in the news to cover it up.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe


"I fucking gave my money thinking it was going to NHS and good causes and not this criminal family to jet off and build a sports centre for themselves.

I hope they get charged and pay it all back to NHS.

I bet Captain Tom was trying to escape from his evil daughter and family.

The money he raised from his walk and the donations all went to charity. There’s no dispute there.

He wrote 3 books and in the prologue of one said that he wanted the money to do more good for charity. Those proceeds were held in a limited company and the daughter spent £800k. Not illegal just highly immoral.

I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Where is the £40+million? "

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Whoa what's with all the judgements?

The 38 million raised by Tom was before the family created their charity.

Why shouldn't the family assume the proceeds of Tom's books would go to them as or unless specified in a will. You've heard of inheritance?

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe


"Whoa what's with all the judgements?

The 38 million raised by Tom was before the family created their charity.

Why shouldn't the family assume the proceeds of Tom's books would go to them as or unless specified in a will. You've heard of inheritance?"

Because he wrote in the prologue of one of the books that he would like the money to go to charity. Unfortunately he didn’t ensure that legally that would happen. She didn’t break the law but she went against his written desire

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

“Just a few more laps Dad, we want a hot tub too”

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"Whoa what's with all the judgements?

The 38 million raised by Tom was before the family created their charity.

Why shouldn't the family assume the proceeds of Tom's books would go to them as or unless specified in a will. You've heard of inheritance?"

Most of that money was transferred to the new charity

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe


"“Just a few more laps Dad, we want a hot tub too”"

Ha ha. Come on dad keep going those Disney tickets won’t pay for themselves.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Whoa what's with all the judgements?

The 38 million raised by Tom was before the family created their charity.

Why shouldn't the family assume the proceeds of Tom's books would go to them as or unless specified in a will. You've heard of inheritance?

Most of that money was transferred to the new charity "

Obviously we don't read the same sources.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Whoa what's with all the judgements?

The 38 million raised by Tom was before the family created their charity.

Why shouldn't the family assume the proceeds of Tom's books would go to them as or unless specified in a will. You've heard of inheritance?

Because he wrote in the prologue of one of the books that he would like the money to go to charity. Unfortunately he didn’t ensure that legally that would happen. She didn’t break the law but she went against his written desire "

Ok, a matter for her conscience then re one of the books.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Still like to find out where the £40m is. Is it in her bank account earning interest?

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By *ithintemptationsCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Charity's are a stealth tax,stopped giving to any of them years ago,now i just drop 50 quid in the had of a homeless person,if they want to buy booze or anything to numb their upset on a tempory basis then crack on!

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe


"Still like to find out where the £40m is. Is it in her bank account earning interest? "

All that money went to 241 nhs charities just as he wanted.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/health/captain-tom-moore-foundation-finances-b2011018.html

The foundation set up in his name is separate as is the limited company that had the money for his books

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've just watch the interview. This spa wasn't that impressive.

These people are the only people who know what they really did right or wrong.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe


"I've just watch the interview. This spa wasn't that impressive.

These people are the only people who know what they really did right or wrong."

Other than the charities commission, HMRC and companies house .

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I've just watch the interview. This spa wasn't that impressive.

These people are the only people who know what they really did right or wrong.

Other than the charities commission, HMRC and companies house ."

Who will investigate

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

But I will say getting paid from the foundation and getting pain 18 grand for days work on top of that and give the charity 2 grand is not good.they say the money got was toms money from sale of his books.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"“Just a few more laps Dad, we want a hot tub too”"

Thanks so much for this

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

He will be looking down on the family left behind. And the green eyed monster h has created and time will be the judge.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

800k. For the most part I don’t trust charities, a charity CEO usually drives a Ferrari etc. A small percentage goes to the cause

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By *earded and cuddlesMan
over a year ago

Devizes

They also (including Tom) went on holiday during the pandemic, and before people jump on the bandwagon off it was to fufill a lifetime dream etc that I have heard spouted around. At that time families were not even allowed to say goodbye to their loved ones before they passed away etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... a charity CEO usually drives a Ferrari etc..."

And your evidence for this is where?

There are nearly 170,000 charities in England and Wales, are you saying that the leaders of let's say 85,001 of those drive Ferraris? (OK, just to be fair, take the make off and allow any posh sports car from a Porche upwards). Nope, still think you have no evidence for that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"They also (including Tom) went on holiday during the pandemic, and before people jump on the bandwagon off it was to fufill a lifetime dream etc that I have heard spouted around. At that time families were not even allowed to say goodbye to their loved ones before they passed away etc.

"

They went to Barbados at a time when travel was allowed to "Green List" countries.

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By *igtoyMan
over a year ago

Sexytown

My best mate and his wife were friends of the family. They were telling me not nice things about the daughter years ago....they moved away from their sphere of influence. I wont repeat anything here but a nasty, narcissistic person to be sure. Or 'dodgy as f**k' as my family would say.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Apealing against getting her spa building getting demolished.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Apealing against getting her spa building getting demolished.

"

Logic to me states if they didn't comply with original permission re planning (external dimensions), then they'll lose appeal. If they did but only internally differ, they may have the right to appeal or reapply?

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Every lap he did she was counting the money... Fraud... End Off...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Apealing against getting her spa building getting demolished.

Logic to me states if they didn't comply with original permission re planning (external dimensions), then they'll lose appeal. If they did but only internally differ, they may have the right to appeal or reapply? "

Apparently it is 49% bigger than the original plans

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Mr S here.

So fed up with the crass and uninformed comments that all charities are a grifters or somehow corrupt!

I have very considerable and high level experience of the charity sector, and the truth is that the majority are run by well meaning volunteers. The larger ones have to be run by capable managers, and to attract decent people you need to pay decent salaries. The large mega charities are the exception rather than the rule.

Are there some bad apples, of course there are in the same way there are bad apples in all walks of life, but to tar all charities with the same brush is both wrong and disrespectful to all those who dedicate themselves to helping others.

Let’s be clear, the growth of the charity sector is a direct result of successive governments abdicating their social responsibilities and expecting charities to fill the gaps. Also, as part of this, governments and local authorities now contract out a lot of their functions to be delivered by charities. People need to remember our society would be all the poorer if charities did not exist, and you would soon be grateful if ever you needed their support.

As others have noted, the Charity Commission has stepped in as the regulator. Is the CC ideal, no because Government has increasingly cut its funding, but that is a political issue and not the fault of the charity sector.

Has this woman acted illegally, I don’t know, but that is for the authorities to determine.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe


"Mr S here.

So fed up with the crass and uninformed comments that all charities are a grifters or somehow corrupt!

I have very considerable and high level experience of the charity sector, and the truth is that the majority are run by well meaning volunteers. The larger ones have to be run by capable managers, and to attract decent people you need to pay decent salaries. The large mega charities are the exception rather than the rule.

Are there some bad apples, of course there are in the same way there are bad apples in all walks of life, but to tar all charities with the same brush is both wrong and disrespectful to all those who dedicate themselves to helping others.

Let’s be clear, the growth of the charity sector is a direct result of successive governments abdicating their social responsibilities and expecting charities to fill the gaps. Also, as part of this, governments and local authorities now contract out a lot of their functions to be delivered by charities. People need to remember our society would be all the poorer if charities did not exist, and you would soon be grateful if ever you needed their support.

As others have noted, the Charity Commission has stepped in as the regulator. Is the CC ideal, no because Government has increasingly cut its funding, but that is a political issue and not the fault of the charity sector.

Has this woman acted illegally, I don’t know, but that is for the authorities to determine."

Very well said!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Poor old Toms legacy is tarnished.

She will probably hold a fund raiser to pay for the demolition costs.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"Mr S here.

So fed up with the crass and uninformed comments that all charities are a grifters or somehow corrupt!

I have very considerable and high level experience of the charity sector, and the truth is that the majority are run by well meaning volunteers. The larger ones have to be run by capable managers, and to attract decent people you need to pay decent salaries. The large mega charities are the exception rather than the rule.

Are there some bad apples, of course there are in the same way there are bad apples in all walks of life, but to tar all charities with the same brush is both wrong and disrespectful to all those who dedicate themselves to helping others.

Let’s be clear, the growth of the charity sector is a direct result of successive governments abdicating their social responsibilities and expecting charities to fill the gaps. Also, as part of this, governments and local authorities now contract out a lot of their functions to be delivered by charities. People need to remember our society would be all the poorer if charities did not exist, and you would soon be grateful if ever you needed their support.

As others have noted, the Charity Commission has stepped in as the regulator. Is the CC ideal, no because Government has increasingly cut its funding, but that is a political issue and not the fault of the charity sector.

Has this woman acted illegally, I don’t know, but that is for the authorities to determine.

Very well said!"

Thank you

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