FabSwingers.com forum: Turned on by this - questioning my sexuality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.

However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.

Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say no.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yes.

Next stop shlong up the pooper

(You free tonight?)

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't say so but does it really matter?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think so.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

No not at all .

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I want to rub two straight guys’ dicks against each other/with my hands until they both cum at the same time and they are all covered in each others’ cum…

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I think that if that doesn’t bother you, it must lead to more adventurous “touching”.

But keep alert: if your attention wanders it could be his lips around your dick. Then what if you didn’t mind that?

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By *irthy-GentMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

If you believe you’d be comfortable doing that, why worry about labels? You are who you are, and honestly that’s the end of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if that doesn’t bother you, it must lead to more adventurous “touching”.

But keep alert: if your attention wanders it could be his lips around your dick. Then what if you didn’t mind that? "

Then he would've found something new he's into and enjoys

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

"If you believe you’d be comfortable doing that, why worry about labels? You are who you are, and honestly that’s the end of it. "

This. OP is a sexual being, I assume ? If it feels good, then a label isn't necessary.

The excitement you fantasise about could come from a number of places, and I'm not going to second guess them as they vary from person to person.

Live in the moment, and if it felt good, then great. If it wasn't to your expectations, then at least you tried.

You don't gain a "Bi" badge afterwards, unless you really want to wear one or it's your 100th time perhaps

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

It makes you a samurai

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.

However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.

Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?"

The good old double barreled BJ. As a single guy, I have participated in this a couple of times to enable couples to fulfill their fantasies / kinks.

The dilemma is more about the issue of labels. We tend to like labels, because we then can define people and know what to expect. The problem is then that they then become rigid and restrictive, as they will categorise us, often using pre-defind categories that often aren't flexible, so may not accurately describe us.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Why does it matter, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. You are you and not comparable to anyone else or their definition. Sexuality is a part of you, but not all of you. Your orientation is up to you and it is a choice for you to experience, but orientation does not define your sexuality. If it feels good and natural then enjoy the experience you have been offered. If it isn't for you then feel confident you now know for sure. If it is for you then feel no guilt for the time before as you just did not know. Be you and embrace who you are.

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By *imon the owlMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"I want to rub two straight guys’ dicks against each other/with my hands until they both cum at the same time and they are all covered in each others’ cum…

Done that and it was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men need to stop worrying what makes them bisexual and just enjoy what they enjoy.

If that happens to be you on your knees sucking cock then give me a shout.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

One thing I (Frankie) say a lot is the sex act does not define the sexuality.

Having a cock held together with another by a woman is not yiu being attracted to a guy.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Absolutely…… next step, the confession booth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Next stop shlong up the pooper

(You free tonight?)"

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By *he Kat 666Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

"Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.

Why do I have "always look on the bright side of life" as an earworm now???

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'd say yes so you'd better put bi curious on your profile, just as a precaution

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By *rooMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"I want to rub two straight guys’ dicks against each other/with my hands until they both cum at the same time and they are all covered in each others’ cum…

That would be so horny

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.

Why do I have "always look on the bright side of life" as an earworm now???"

I was humming it as I wrote my comment, sorry you must’ve heard me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on perspective.

If the urge to press your penis against another is what you seek, then possibly curious.

If however, seeing the woman so excited that she just has to do that, then no, the thrill comes from her excitement.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No not ni.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Men need to stop worrying what makes them bisexual and just enjoy what they enjoy.

If that happens to be you on your knees sucking cock then give me a shout."

I swear every post of yours these days...

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I've always been straight, don't fancy men, can't see myself sucking or even touching cock, yet in club I was with couple playing with boobs and it turned out to be stunning lady boy whose partner unexpectedly took my cock and wanked me. I have to admit to being excited. Confusing

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

No, it doesn't.

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By *andyman 123Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Sane thing confused straight as they come but want to try a real ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.

However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.

Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?"

Not in the slightest.

Likewise DP doesn't, DV doesn't, spitroasting a woman doesn't (even if you make physical contact with him midway through obligatory 'high five' moment), nor being in close proximity to other dicks during blowjobs, hand jobs or simply by being naked in the same room as another dude.

If you're only interested in women, have no desire to take her place sucking schlong, taking it up the bum, or frantically tugging another cock like you're shaking a bottle of orangina to get the orangy bits mixed in properly......then you're not in the least bit bi.

Even if the other guy is.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.

Why do I have "always look on the bright side of life" as an earworm now???"

Now you’ve done it - Eric Idle on a cross… he’s whistling..

god this Teams call is dull…

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Men need to stop worrying what makes them bisexual and just enjoy what they enjoy.

If that happens to be you on your knees sucking cock then give me a shout."

Sadly I'm not 91 though

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By *atchfordbiMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Does it matter? All you did was touch cocks together in a mouth, I'm sure in the 3some you both connected at more than one point,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it

If you'd like a cock in your mouth then maybe

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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Yes.

Next stop shlong up the pooper

(You free tonight?)"

Oh this, I missed this.

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan
over a year ago

Fife

I don't think it's bi but I also don't think it really matters to anyone else but you. If you enjoy it and you are comfortable with it, what does it matter what strangers on a shagging site think? There are some people here that demand you use the labels that suit their opinions on your profile. They can't be happy with people liking some things but not falling into a label. Like "you must say you are bi if you will allow a guy to suck your dick".

If you are comfortable with it and enjoy it, that's really all that matters.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.

However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.

Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?"

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By *andyman 123Man
8 weeks ago

Maidstone

Had a ts suck me dry just had to try it once lol

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