FabSwingers.com forum: Good looking

By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say that I have, but I can help you out with nos. 1 & 7 on your profile but I'd have to lie about my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send one back saying they are too good looking for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't say anything about being good looking that's down to the individual to decide if I am or not lol

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

Haha! Nobody takes any notice of that anyway

Next time you check out a guys profile, make a note of how many class themselves as good looking

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

"I send one back saying they are too good looking for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should put on mine average looking guy with shiny head.x

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

"I don't say anything about being good looking that's down to the individual to decide if I am or not lol

I think this is the best way to be. One persons "good looking" is another persons "hit with the ugly stick"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is the eye of the be holder , lol maybe same go for on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

Yep, I've noticed that... They send a face picture then and my first thought usually is "who told you you were good looking, your mother?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should put on mine average looking guy with shiny head.x"

I think that goes for me too bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

Yep, I've noticed that... They send a face picture then and my first thought usually is "who told you you were good looking, your mother?"

You'll be saying thats who all those mystery Valentines were from next!

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

Yep, I've noticed that... They send a face picture then and my first thought usually is "who told you you were good looking, your mother?"

Exactly!! I feel like its false advertising... Is there a trading standards we can contact about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

Yep, I've noticed that... They send a face picture then and my first thought usually is "who told you you were good looking, your mother?"

Exactly!! I feel like its false advertising... Is there a trading standards we can contact about this? "

Lol, we need a Fab ombudsman/woman to vet these alleged "good looking" peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just maybe thay dont see themselfs like you see them ..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it is something for the other to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

Yep, I've noticed that... They send a face picture then and my first thought usually is "who told you you were good looking, your mother?"

Exactly!! I feel like its false advertising... Is there a trading standards we can contact about this?

Lol, we need a Fab ombudsman/woman to vet these alleged "good looking" peeps

Upgrade downgrade as seen fit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

pmsl

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

We can't win ...my profile is down as average looking younger in appearance than my years , ......then my most recent playmate tells me off because my photos don't do me justice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

Its worked wonders for you - queuing in the forums for a bit of Ryan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should put on mine average looking guy with shiny head.x"

I'm free for some shiny head polishing

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

I think you will find our profile dosnt mention my good looks? Only hers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on most male profiles or messages you receive do they state they are "good looking" .

Anyone else noticed this?

They are usually the profiles with no photo's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

pmsl

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its not as mingers are Us on fab , lol no one can like everyone and same face ... lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

Its worked wonders for you - queuing in the forums for a bit of Ryan

Get back in line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast."

nothing wrong with burnt toast after a good scrape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

Its worked wonders for you - queuing in the forums for a bit of Ryan

Get back in line

Back of the soddin queue AGAIN! My charms just don't seem to work with you do they?

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

"'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast."

At least they're not "buttering" you up as a compliment

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast.

At least they're not "buttering" you up as a compliment"

hehehehehehehehehehe

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

"'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast."

Thinking it and saying it though are different things. In my opinion, why leave yourself wide open? Surely it's better to understate yourself?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast.

nothing wrong with burnt toast after a good scrape

LOL I'm not sure how to take that but if I ever see you in the flesh and you come at me with sandpaper I will run!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"'Good looking' is very subjective. You can think you are good looking but then some cheeky forum user says you look like fucking burnt toast.

Thinking it and saying it though are different things. In my opinion, why leave yourself wide open? Surely it's better to understate yourself? "

Agreed! I think a person describing themselves as good looking is a bit naff. A face picture will do that more effectively than an unsubstantiated boast.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Saying your a minger isn't really a good strategy

Its worked wonders for you - queuing in the forums for a bit of Ryan

Get back in line

Back of the soddin queue AGAIN! My charms just don't seem to work with you do they?

Tell you in a minute I'm off to check that burger thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you i once meet a man just on his good looks male model doing loads of work things in uk and over seas ... and when we had sex it was in the mirrors looking at him self saying ooo don't i look fab mmmmmmm lol Was a bit of a let down tell the truth .

So i did learn a lesson dont just go on looks , lol make sure you chat see if theres a nice person in there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" unsubstantiated boast."

is 'boast' a derivative of 'burnt toast'?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

" unsubstantiated boast.

is 'boast' a derivative of 'burnt toast'?

No but if Des'ree can make a song out of rhyming toast I'm sure I can!

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By *hris N KateCouple
over a year ago

Gainesville

"I should put on mine average looking guy with shiny head.x"

HAH Thats where I get my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm safe to post now - just checked and I haven't mentioned good looking in my profile.

Is there any correlation between those stating good looking and those quoting double digit numbers in regard to knob size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you look in the mirror and think 'There goes someone of average looks'?? Or do you perhaps you have more of a positive mental image of yourself?

I mean, is not just men on here that put that sort of thing on their profile? Hell there are people labeling themselves as 'Fabs finest this and that' all over their profiles - what does that say about their ego's and sense of self-image?

There are alot of womens / couples profiles that I could interpret as firmly 'up their own arse' - but in an environment where positive advertising is king, why shouldn't someone put they are attractive?

After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is it not?

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By *hris N KateCouple
over a year ago

Gainesville

I have to go metric to use double digits

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im always dissappointed when someone describes themseves as being good looking as i expect them to look like my idea of good looking

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

"Do you look in the mirror and think 'There goes someone of average looks'?? Or do you perhaps you have more of a positive mental image of yourself?

I think my opinion is irrelevant when I look in the mirror to how how I would describe myself on here or any other site.

No it's not just men, but In comparison there are fewer women who describe themselves as "good looking" "gorgeous" "stunning"

After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is it not?"

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By *Brinksy xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Halesowen

"Im always dissappointed when someone describes themseves as being good looking as i expect them to look like my idea of good looking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't put good looking on my profile, for the pure fact I think I'm just average, not good not bad.....just that, average.....there are some very good looking people here tho, I have to say, but dribbling isn't a good look, so I'll keep who I'm on about to myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im always dissappointed when someone describes themseves as being good looking as i expect them to look like my idea of good looking"

I imagine you're disappointed a lot then - since the whole notion of good looking is entirely subjective - in both parties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should put on mine average looking guy with shiny head.x"

I would disagree. I'd say you were good looking. That said, I agree beauty is in the eyes of the beholder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's wrong to give an accurate description of how one looks, and I guess on that basis I should update my profile accordingly.

I wonder how many people would still want to meet me though.

"Hunch back with gimp leg and curly teeth" is not in demand on Fabs.

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By *hris N KateCouple
over a year ago

Gainesville

"I don't think it's wrong to give an accurate description of how one looks, and I guess on that basis I should update my profile accordingly.

I wonder how many people would still want to meet me though.

"Hunch back with gimp leg and curly teeth" is not in demand on Fabs.

crap, I am in trouble then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a pastime which is predominantly based upon attracting a 'mate' using (on the most part) photographs and physical description - for what is the pursuit of a (for the most part) a purely physical act, why would anyone automatically give themselves a disadvantage by describing themselves in anything other than a positive light?

Some guy putting on his profile "average looks, average conversationalist, have a little dick (its pathetic) and I don't get laid much' is really going to only attract those for whom the thought of having a fun evening with Eeyore gets them moist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion whether he/she is good looking or not, however it does not mean I have to agree with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put anything about my looks........ Don't want to scare folk off too premature

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I don't on mine, as it's so subjective.

I have put young looking... but I am often mistaken for being in my mid-thirties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't on mine, as it's so subjective.

I have put young looking... but I am often mistaken for being in my mid-thirties. "

I get that quite a lot at Jumping Jims, especially when I try and get on the bouncy castle.

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