FabSwingers.com forum: How comfortable

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Are you having your hands behind your back if the other requests it on a first meet with someone you have chatted to a fair bit?

Too much too soon, or standard?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

As in bound behind your back?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Either or really, demanded or bound. Maybe lightly bound?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy getting tasered so usually comply

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

First meet, no chance I'd be bound. If someone demanded it would depend. Although I have submissive tendencies, I don't submit easily

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

No bondage on a first meeting. That sort of play needs trust that you can't built up just chatting over the phone/online imo.

Holding them behind my back is acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Which is probably a contributing factor to me still being alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"No. Which is probably a contributing factor to me still being alive. "

Very sensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if i requested it rather than them?

And they obliged

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"What if i requested it rather than them?

And they obliged

Going down on you like an apple bob contest?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What if i requested it rather than them?

And they obliged

Going down on you like an apple bob contest?"

But with less teeth.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like being alive to be honest

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Trust takes time to build, I’m surprised how much I can read good people, but I wouldn’t tie, or want to me tied on a 1st meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to be doing the tying. Although once I trust someone I wouldn't rule it out.

But not on a first meet. Things like that take trust and comfort.

When it happens, it's the biggest compliment and thrill

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"What if i requested it rather than them?

And they obliged

Going down on you like an apple bob contest?

But with less teeth.......

Like a horse to the trough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, not first or 101st meet

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Not on 1st meet

Even 2nd, 3rd or 10th lol

Have you not seen that film ‘Gerald’s Game’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tough one. I think for us it’s how much we trust the person and we seem to be ok at judging character. If we felt comfortable with it we absolutely would but if there was a shred of doubt, then it’s no

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