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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

9 months for me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 months for me !!"

4 days for me so far....

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks is the longest I've ever gone without. That was because of childbirth.

I couldn't imagine not having a sex life.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It'll be nearly a year from when I last had sex to when I anticipate it happening again.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Two months today!!

Longest dry spell in forever it feels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months on OPs

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Must be 3year

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

About 20 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a whole 48 hours Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 days but that will change in the next couple of hours

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

5.5 inches.

Same without as with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 weeks is the longest I've ever gone without. That was because of childbirth.

I couldn't imagine not having a sex life."

Sorry, think I've read the post wrong so I'll answer again. It's been 2 days for me since I had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been so long I'll be like a wild animal that's been released from a cage

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny


"Must be 3year "

You are a couple who don’t have sex on a swingers site but don’t meet.

How does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What year is it?……..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex...long enough....decent sex feels like a life time ago or around 2.5 years to be exact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've broken a record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with my hand.. surely that counts?

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

3 years, 5 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 days

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Day n half, it seems I am someone's cuppa tea after all

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By *oupleofkinks69Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

12 hours as my partner went back home earlier. I'm lucky that I have a partner with a drive as high as mine ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went without it for around 15 years man!

Post puberty, 18 months was the longest as my partner was asexual (unaware). I didn’t really mind across the entire relationship but the first 6 months to a year were incredibly difficult as I didn’t understand what I was doing wrong.

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By *asochistMan
over a year ago

Folkestone

Well this is going to sound sad.....14 years.....But there are some circumstances.

And due to medical reasons it aint gonna change.

Still feel horny as feck sometimes though......Ah well, such is life....

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Been a few days since my last poke

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By *addyjonMan
over a year ago

grays

15 years for me, but still called a cheat if I managed to find some casual sex.

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By *addyjonMan
over a year ago

grays


"Well this is going to sound sad.....14 years.....But there are some circumstances.

And due to medical reasons it aint gonna change.

Still feel horny as feck sometimes though......Ah well, such is life...."

Know that feeling, 15 years approx for me but still have needs.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Over 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few weeks

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"17 days "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two weeks but home time tomorrow

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Too long incredibly difficult to get a meet

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Been that long l forgot who gets tied up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been over 2 months for me since I' ve had sex

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By *-Elle-XWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

8 months

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

10 minutes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"17 days

Same "

Fancy another go?

I'll make you cum if you make me, fairs fair right?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

About 10 years when I was married… one of the times

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"17 days

Same

Fancy another go?

I'll make you cum if you make me, fairs fair right? "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 weeks is the longest I've ever gone without. That was because of childbirth.

I couldn't imagine not having a sex life.

Sorry, think I've read the post wrong so I'll answer again. It's been 2 days for me since I had sex."

Sounds rough. You'll get through this though, just stay strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A month is too much.

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By *unnyhunnyWoman
over a year ago

Forest of Dean

5 days

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By *igh timesMan
over a year ago

stoke

12 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a more than a month

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By *orthernman71Man
over a year ago

N

Roughly 6 months and counting

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Almost two years now since I last had sex. Been on Fab for 1 year now and not got anywhere near a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last August for me, although hopefully breaking that streak soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly 6 hours for us

Mr

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

At present, a month and that does feel a little too long.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Over a month!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 months, and I can easily go another 16 months.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm grumpy after 2/3 days!

Longest was probably a couple of months.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 hrs sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometime in May and the calendar in July looks busy so probably no sex for a while longer.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

About a day. Will change today though

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Some count in hours, days, weeks, months or years. I'm getting depressingly closer to double digit months. 9 months.

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Must be coming on for 15yrs due to partners ill health. I really miss the taste though

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

2 weeks

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

About 7 hours!

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night but as always if we go past the second day we become ratty and snappy

So we have a rule, mandatory 3rd day !

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Sex?... is that what we're supposed to be doing here?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex?... is that what we're supposed to be doing here?! "

No. I'm only hear for the banter.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Sex?... is that what we're supposed to be doing here?!

No. I'm only hear for the banter."

I thought it was for free cake ?

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Really surprised reading this thread how long it's been for some of you lovely people X

Hubby couldn't last a whole day without sex xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

10 Days

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Really surprised reading this thread how long it's been for some of you lovely people X

Hubby couldn't last a whole day without sex xx"

Not surprised looking at you! For me it’s usually every few days but can be a bit longer if unlucky when away from home and the wife. During Covid of course long periods but got frisky with wife all the time. That’s usual

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

A week

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

2 days, but it wasn't great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now? About 14 hours.

F

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

17 years was the longest....... but losing my virginity just after my 17th birthday was great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been over 2 months for me since I' ve had sex

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Thanks for complement xx

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

36hrs. Give or take

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

5 long long months…..

Longest 13 months…..one sesh…..then 12 months and was in a relationship (married)

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By *eff1961Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Nearly 3 years since tasted pussy

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

5 months. Just the once then, 8 months prior to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 days.

And my horn level is dam good 8 today.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

2 years

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By *eardedwonder999Man
over a year ago

Worcester

A week for me

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"9 months for me !!"

If I think about it, then it will only depress me

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Longest ever gap was about 4 years.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I once did 15 months, through my own choice after a breakup... my god did I drown the poor guy I used to break the drought

Never again. I get grumpy after a day or so now

MrsAbz

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Too long

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By *IZZ_69Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

2 day's

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

Well over 2 years for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8hrs, give or take

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By *alico_KittyWoman
over a year ago

Kittys Lane

14/15 months ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 months no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8hrs, give or take"

You mean you've had sex more recently than me?!

*drags husband up the stairs*

F

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

11 days. We're not allowed due to a new piercing, bring on Saturday when times up!

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

16 hours

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By *atchmoMan
over a year ago

Upminster

4 shags in 10 months ... a new low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8hrs, give or take

You mean you've had sex more recently than me?!

*drags husband up the stairs*

F"

Sorry not sorry, when you got a willing neighbour..

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Months with a partner but 20 minutes ago on me own

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

It's been seven hours and fifteen days I think. Give or take a hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days. Far too long

Went without for 3 years once

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By *edladybird1977Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Last night, and had some fun with myself this afternoon (Red)

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"It's been seven hours and fifteen days I think. Give or take a hour. "

He was cruel to take his love away...

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8hrs, give or take

You mean you've had sex more recently than me?!

*drags husband up the stairs*

F

Sorry not sorry, when you got a willing neighbour.."

I barely have a willing husband some days

F

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Currently at 8 hours. That was when we realised that she would be late for work

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Too long! Nuff said

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Ages and ages and ages.

And ages.

Also ages.

I may sulk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ages and ages and ages.

And ages.

Also ages.

I may sulk."

Well we know that isn't entirely true!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do blowjobs count? If not 3 days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do blowjobs count? If not 3 days."

Did you not do sex ed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do blowjobs count? If not 3 days.

Did you not do sex ed? "

Sex Ed was a pervert who lived round the corner. I did not do him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do blowjobs count? If not 3 days.

Did you not do sex ed?

Sex Ed was a pervert who lived round the corner. I did not do him."

Sometimes, just sometimes, you do make laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do blowjobs count? If not 3 days.

Did you not do sex ed?

Sex Ed was a pervert who lived round the corner. I did not do him.

Sometimes, just sometimes, you do make laugh. "

All the time.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Over 3 and a half years. I reckon I pretty much qualify as a virgin now.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Well I know it’s sad but I seem to come out tops here 18yrs for me !!!

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