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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Do you try to do this when you mess up, in any situation, hold your hands up, apologise and make right what you messed up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do try to hold my hands up and say sorry and try and do better

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

If I'm in the wrong I will always admit it and it it had caused problems I will try to right them again. But sometimes you do have to realise things can't be or shouldn't be righted again

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Of course, thay's what decent people do. Nobody is right every time. If you are wrong, then apologise and learn from it. Most people appreciate that. I apply this not only with family and friends but work too and most people love that open and honest approach

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall


"Do you try to do this when you mess up, in any situation, hold your hands up, apologise and make right what you messed up..."

It depends on the situation, the circumstances around how or why I messed up, what the implications are, how I’m feeling and how much I value future interactions with the other party.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Yep admit and fix .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

If it involves someone I care about, yes.

If not, probably not no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I know I’ve messed up I’ll always apologise.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Absolutely. I will always admit my mistakes and attempt to make amends, usually whilst apologising incessantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you try to do this when you mess up, in any situation, hold your hands up, apologise and make right what you messed up..."

Try to.

Takes two though doesn't it.

Can't make amends to thin air.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Do you try to do this when you mess up, in any situation, hold your hands up, apologise and make right what you messed up...

It depends on the situation, the circumstances around how or why I messed up, what the implications are, how I’m feeling and how much I value future interactions with the other party.

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That's a interesting point, I didn't consider not valuing future interactions, as a reason not to make amends

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Naaa, fuck it!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends. Yeah, if I'm in the wrong, I'll generally admit it. Try and sort things out if they're open to it and make sure I don't repeat that behaviour rather than just talk about it.

I'm rarely in the wrong though.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I apologise even when I'm right

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm never in the wrong so

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Do you try to do this when you mess up, in any situation, hold your hands up, apologise and make right what you messed up..."

Absolutely my steps, 8,9 and ten help me with this process and helps me to challenge my behaviour and deal with thr feelings of shame and guilt of behaving like a twat

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Uh, thought you ladies were never wrong??

Always own up myself and apologise if necessary.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

If i have the chance to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do own up to my mistakes and apologise. Sometimes I also take the blame for things I probably shouldn't. I'm trying to stop that though

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Always apologise if I'm wrong and I'm not perfect...

If only more realised they aren't always right and aren't always the voice for everyone..

And stopping the downright nasty comments would help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I’m a Gemini and I’m never wrong

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Nope I’m a Gemini and I’m never wrong "

Thats highly debatable innit Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, If I have messed up I own it and apologise.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

I’m happy to apologise when needed and admit when wrong. Not to make amends though if apologising and admitting I’m wrong isn’t enough they can get fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because I'm never wrong!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No I am very bad at apologising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I’m a Gemini and I’m never wrong

Thats highly debatable innit Susan "

Wanna have a discussion about it Bernard

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