FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs

By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Hello All.

So I'm thinking about going to a straight male club I'll be honest I've never done it before so not really sure of what to expect. Do you have to book these or pay on the day?

Is there any females or even couples M/F willing to go along with me and show me what the club life is all about located in Maidstone fill free to message

Thank you B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a straight male club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a straight male club?"

Glad you asked as I was thinking the same thing never heard off clubs being straight male only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a straight male club?

Glad you asked as I was thinking the same thing never heard off clubs being straight male only "

All clubs I have been to have been very inclusive and that’s the way they should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a straight male club?

Glad you asked as I was thinking the same thing never heard off clubs being straight male only

All clubs I have been to have been very inclusive and that’s the way they should be."

Same here that’s what made me think I never heard off that kind off club

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

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All straight men doesn’t sound like much fun to me. Are you just going to stand around talking about football and sex ?? Might try the pub for that.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think it would all depend on the club op,maybe Google which ones ar close to you & then you can find more about them etc.

I don't think they're are any that are specifically straight,many have bi nights and theme nights.Their website should give you all that info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All straight men doesn’t sound like much fun to me. Are you just going to stand around talking about football and sex ?? Might try the pub for that. "

A club where we just talk about football? I’m in.

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By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Fill like a right twat lol

I've seen a few profiles on here where people have stated they go to straight male clubs but that was in Birmingham I believe & Essex

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By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"All straight men doesn’t sound like much fun to me. Are you just going to stand around talking about football and sex ?? Might try the pub for that.

A club where we just talk about football? I’m in."

I can talk about football all day but I'm guessing your a Newcastle fan so there really wouldn't be much point talking about that team in a club

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Hello All.

So I'm thinking about going to a straight male club I'll be honest I've never done it before so not really sure of what to expect. Do you have to book these or pay on the day?

Is there any females or even couples M/F willing to go along with me and show me what the club life is all about located in Maidstone fill free to message

Thank you B x"

I imagine OP without a cunning disguise for the ladies you'll find it difficult to sneak any single lady or female half of a couple past the door of a straight male club. Granted any no straight male half of a couple could blag it I think.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"All straight men doesn’t sound like much fun to me. Are you just going to stand around talking about football and sex ?? Might try the pub for that. "

Nope, there will be gay and Bi men there for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fill like a right twat lol

I've seen a few profiles on here where people have stated they go to straight male clubs but that was in Birmingham I believe & Essex "

I’m guessing you just mean a swingers club. Your best bet is to go by yourself. It’s very unlikely a woman or couple will want to babysit you for the night. Have a search through the club reviews on here and find one that you like the sound of and keep an eye on any events they have and add yourself to the guest list.

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By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Hello All.

So I'm thinking about going to a straight male club I'll be honest I've never done it before so not really sure of what to expect. Do you have to book these or pay on the day?

Is there any females or even couples M/F willing to go along with me and show me what the club life is all about located in Maidstone fill free to message

Thank you B x

As stated I'm not 100 percent sure how it all works as never been I've seen on a few profiles straight male clubs but they were miles away from me I see a fair few which is intended for Bi men only. I'm guessing the only way it will work is where men fuck women and don't do anything with same sex

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

If you're looking for somewhere where men 'fuck' women and noone is bi it gay then the club scene is not for you.

Firstly noone should ever ever go with the attitude that they will 'fuck' a woman and any club worth anything will be all inclusive as will the attendees.. .

Sadly your attitude of what happens when you're a single man in a swingers club is what puts a lot of women and couples off going...

We go to clubs at least a couple times a month as a couple and if a single man expected to just be able to 'fuck' me just because I was there they would be very much mistaken

Vixen

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

I think the OP was led by what he has seen on status/profiles and by his inexperience.

Well, now he is a bit more informed lol

Swinger clubs are inclusive. These are usually places where there is respect for everyone. Consent is key.

You will find all sorts of people. People mingle, socialise and sometimes have sex.

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By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

If you're looking for somewhere where men 'fuck' women and noone is bi it gay then the club scene is not for you.

Firstly noone should ever ever go with the attitude that they will 'fuck' a woman and any club worth anything will be all inclusive as will the attendees.. .

Sadly your attitude of what happens when you're a single man in a swingers club is what puts a lot of women and couples off going...

We go to clubs at least a couple times a month as a couple and if a single man expected to just be able to 'fuck' me just because I was there they would be very much mistaken

Vixen "

You clearly got the wrong idea!! And believe you me when I say this I don't just jump at any women I like to get to know them first hence why I suggested a club setting as most women just want a few exchanged messages and a meet. Connection is vital I wouldn't go to a club thinking yeah we're gonna fuck as that's the wrong attitude I may not be feeling it and vise versa. I put up the status as I've seen people stating straight male clubs & wondered if any was local not to cause any offence or a debate!! in regards to what I said about men fucking women and not the opposite sex maybe it's a possibility but not guaranteed and those who think it is well need I say anymore

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By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"I think the OP was led by what he has seen on status/profiles and by his inexperience.

Well, now he is a bit more informed lol

Swinger clubs are inclusive. These are usually places where there is respect for everyone. Consent is key.

You will find all sorts of people. People mingle, socialise and sometimes have sex.

That's what I expected to be honest

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

The clubs we have been to have been a mix of people and that’s the way it should be .

If you are not into or unsure about group settings and don’t wish to see anything that your not into then in all the clubs we’ve been to their are locked rooms which would give you the option if you met someone and you clicked ..

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

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Not sure what these profiles mean straight make club so just ignore that lol

OK so find out what clubs are near you and ring them up ask them what nights are best for a newbie and they will show you round and let you know how it works. Different clubs have different events, rules, layouts, dress codes.

Go take a look around

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By *ornyHard29 OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Not sure what these profiles mean straight make club so just ignore that lol

Go take a look around

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight only males? Nah.

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