FabSwingers.com forum: Why don’t more men get lip fillers.

By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Are plump lips more desirable in women than men?

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For the record I’m genuinely wondering about the difference in what people find attractive about one sex and not the other as opposed to a debate about lip fillers.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If I wanted to look like that I'd honestly just smash myself in the face with a frying pan.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to get lip fillers at a decent clinic - got told I really don’t need them, already had the most sought after lip line naturally. Which was nice they could’ve just taken my money. Do see sone gay men with fillers, not yet seen a straight guy with them though so maybe it’s perceived that way.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Are plump lips more desirable in women than men?

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For the record I’m genuinely wondering about the difference in what people find attractive about one sex and not the other as opposed to a debate about lip fillers.

Do you harbour a secret desire to look like Daffy Duck?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia? "

I thought it was something to do with blow jobs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Mine are more than plump enough already.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Don't think they look good on anyone.. luckily my lips are perfect

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I personally find full lips attractive on men, and on anyone. Prefer them natural, but others' cosmetic choices are nowt to do with me.

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

i find them ridiculous imo nothing natural to it and not very attractive.

i do wish i would have bigger lips for lippy butnot to the extent of filler

most men have small lips anyway i have to cheat with make up.

Bigger lips doesn't mean you give better blow jobs lol

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

It’s interesting I understand that any look has people that like it and people that don’t, there is obviously a societal thing suggesting that plump lips especially on are a woman is an attractive feature.

Let’s face it ladies have been using lipstick and make up for probably over a hundred years to have that look, but it’s obviously not seen as sexy in men.

Having said that, Thierry Henry, va va voom.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Don't think they look good on anyone.. luckily my lips are perfect"

This I agree with, well the first point in any case..

Unnatural isn't attractive..

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It’s interesting I understand that any look has people that like it and people that don’t, there is obviously a societal thing suggesting that plump lips especially on are a woman is an attractive feature.

Let’s face it ladies have been using lipstick and make up for probably over a hundred years to have that look, but it’s obviously not seen as sexy in men.

Is it as simple as saying that men and women are wired to find different things attractive

And then there's the perception that cosmetic procedures are/were 'too girly' for men.

Having said that, Thierry Henry, va va voom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just don't look good as far as cosmetic procedures go for men. Not like synthol injections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get them because I was born with nice lovely full lips.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Because as ugly as I am, I'm not quite ugly enough to change my features for something like that.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

I'm a ten...

No improvement necessary...

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

"Are plump lips more desirable in women than men?

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For the record I’m genuinely wondering about the difference in what people find attractive about one sex and not the other as opposed to a debate about lip fillers.

I think they look ridiculous, just my personal opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia?

I thought it was something to do with blow jobs "

Could well be.

It's not a look I admire but as is oft quoted here 'each to their own'

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia? "

They are??

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

It depends on how much filler people have put in, I have known people have just 0.5ml to boost some of the fullness they have lost with age. If they hadn't told me I wouldn't have known it was so subtle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like make up

Red swollen lips, flushed (rouged) cheeks, widened eyes.

All signs of sexual readiness in a woman so guys are genetically attracted to it.

We’re all just clever monkeys.

Some not so clever of course.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Like make up

Red swollen lips, flushed (rouged) cheeks, widened eyes.

All signs of sexual readiness in a woman so guys are genetically attracted to it.

We’re all just clever monkeys.

Some not so clever of course. "

I dunno. I'm more attracted to the cleverness of not paying questionable prices for such cosmetic enhancements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my lips filled - my natural lips are full but when I smile the top lip disappears into nothing so I fill the top to stop it from flipping under

I’m told it looks natural and happy to share pics if anyone is considering filler and worried about it looking unnatural

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I have some straight male friends who get filler on lips Simply as they have a very thin upper lip and it bothers them You wouldn’t know they have filler as it’s subtle. Much like my lip filler j get it’s about being subtle with it for me.

Each to their own and I have friends with the full porno Jessica rabbit lips and they look great as it suites their vibe. Plus it’s not permanent anyway

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not many men seem to have plump lips, but it's just one feature and I go for the whole package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not desirable on anyone

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Like make up

Red swollen lips, flushed (rouged) cheeks, widened eyes.

All signs of sexual readiness in a woman so guys are genetically attracted to it.

We’re all just clever monkeys.

Some not so clever of course.

I dunno. I'm more attracted to the cleverness of not paying questionable prices for such cosmetic enhancements. "

To add on to this

I mean in terms of doing it for just attracting men.

Doing it because you want to is the only factor that should be taken in to account. I still don't think the visual results(good or bad) justify the price but that's my preference. I will admit that the less extreme versions can make subtle differences, but 99% of the time unless it's a full on allergic reaction look, most men won't notice much.

The self confidence from it is attractive though.

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By *eardedwonder999Man
over a year ago

Worcester

I mean the question I gave to ask myself why on earth would I want them..???

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Are plump lips more desirable in women than men?

Discuss

For the record I’m genuinely wondering about the difference in what people find attractive about one sex and not the other as opposed to a debate about lip fillers.

You know the lip fillers will always take up the chunk of the discussion. The title and things around it always dominate the discussion more than the subject as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like make up

Red swollen lips, flushed (rouged) cheeks, widened eyes.

All signs of sexual readiness in a woman so guys are genetically attracted to it.

We’re all just clever monkeys.

Some not so clever of course. "

I hate lipstick, especially red lipstick. And maybe that’sa genetic flaw

idk. But I think for a long time people have hated on full lips. It’s funny seeing everyone think they’re hot now though.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Like make up

Red swollen lips, flushed (rouged) cheeks, widened eyes.

All signs of sexual readiness in a woman so guys are genetically attracted to it.

We’re all just clever monkeys.

Some not so clever of course.

I hate lipstick, especially red lipstick. And maybe that’sa genetic flaw

idk. But I think for a long time people have hated on full lips. It’s funny seeing everyone think they’re hot now though. "

Fashion init!

I'm not attracted to claws and talons (slightly longer nails I do find appealing), yet they seem to be a thing too.

There was a video clip I saw of a woman stating women do it for themselves, not for me. Which I agree with.

Some men have adjusted to this, or grown up with it as the norm so they just go with it because for the most part it's a thing you have to accept that most any future partner will have these things.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Botox is derived from botulinum which is one of the deadliest bacteria on the planet there is no way you’d get me putting it into my body voluntarily.

Also I’m not a fan of the look I had lips like that 30 years ago when someone hit me with a bottle.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Botox is derived from botulinum which is one of the deadliest bacteria on the planet there is no way you’d get me putting it into my body voluntarily.

Also I’m not a fan of the look I had lips like that 30 years ago when someone hit me with a bottle. "

You don’t have Botox injected into your lips it’s not a filler

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I don't find lip fillers attractive

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Botox is derived from botulinum which is one of the deadliest bacteria on the planet there is no way you’d get me putting it into my body voluntarily.

Also I’m not a fan of the look I had lips like that 30 years ago when someone hit me with a bottle.

You don’t have Botox injected into your lips it’s not a filler "

Botox anywhere in the body is not a good thing in my humble opinion but as I say each to there own

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Botox is derived from botulinum which is one of the deadliest bacteria on the planet there is no way you’d get me putting it into my body voluntarily.

Also I’m not a fan of the look I had lips like that 30 years ago when someone hit me with a bottle.

You don’t have Botox injected into your lips it’s not a filler "

Also there is this

During a lip flip procedure, your healthcare provider injects Botox into parts of your upper lip.

Not the same as a filler but it is Botox in the lip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why these are desirable on anybody. Natural beauty cant be beaten

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think there's quite a few men that have it done like the guy above but opt for a more natural finish rather than the overfilled ones a lot of women get.

Mrs

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Are plump lips more desirable in women than men?

Discuss

For the record I’m genuinely wondering about the difference in what people find attractive about one sex and not the other as opposed to a debate about lip fillers.

You know the lip fillers will always take up the chunk of the discussion. The title and things around it always dominate the discussion more than the subject as a whole. "

So true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find full lips attractive on men, and on anyone. Prefer them natural, but others' cosmetic choices are nowt to do with me. "

And me

More men should get fillers tbh there is a way to get them done so that they look natural, and not all of them look "puffy"

A man with a nice set of full lips is so much more attractive than one with a line for a mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my lips done and they look natural, unless you saw a before pic you wouldn't know

My lip line was perfect but I wanted a bit more of a fuller look so had some injected into the body of my lips but not the lip line

I guess one of positives of being black is we all have full lips so no one bays an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find full lips attractive on men, and on anyone. Prefer them natural, but others' cosmetic choices are nowt to do with me.

And me

More men should get fillers tbh there is a way to get them done so that they look natural, and not all of them look "puffy"

A man with a nice set of full lips is so much more attractive than one with a line for a mouth "

A line for a mouth is sending me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they'd look like a dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they'd look like a dickhead "

That is absolute class. Got me in stitches here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they'd look like a dickhead

That is absolute class. Got me in stitches here."

It’s giving

https://youtu.be/zK34Xjjm4Q8

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By *op4bottomMan
over a year ago

Billingham

They look stupid and are not nice to kiss, when will women stop trying to emulate what is in the media that is photoshoped, filtered and unrealistic and accept who you are the shape and size you are and be confident with that.

NOW THAT is sexy and desirable.

Not someone who looks like they have been hit hard in the mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like make up

Red swollen lips, flushed (rouged) cheeks, widened eyes.

All signs of sexual readiness in a woman so guys are genetically attracted to it.

We’re all just clever monkeys.

Some not so clever of course.

I hate lipstick, especially red lipstick. And maybe that’sa genetic flaw

idk. But I think for a long time people have hated on full lips. It’s funny seeing everyone think they’re hot now though. "

I when to a majority white school and got picked on rotten for having big lips

It's hilarious how the tables have turned now

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Honestly this forum has some of weirdest attitudes. The anger and hate at total strangers wanting to change their appearance, or have a swimming pool, or various other things. Is this where all the least inclusive people end up ?

I think plump lips look sexy and if you don’t have them naturally and it bothers you, it’s great you can get them enhanced easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly this forum has some of weirdest attitudes. The anger and hate at total strangers wanting to change their appearance, or have a swimming pool, or various other things. Is this where all the least inclusive people end up ?

I think plump lips look sexy and if you don’t have them naturally and it bothers you, it’s great you can get them enhanced easily. "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"when will women stop trying to emulate what is in the media that is photoshoped, filtered and unrealistic and accept who you are the shape and size you are and be confident with that."

Because biological notions of authenticity is a bit outdated and bigoted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lips are nice and plump already, no need for fillers. My ex gf always told me I had great BJ lips

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I really have a thing about guys with nice lips... It's been the reason I've messaged a few on here!

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia? "

This. That's why women first started wearing lipstick.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"If I wanted to look like that I'd honestly just smash myself in the face with a frying pan.

Quite.

They look bloody awful in my opinion!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Mine are already big enough

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"If I wanted to look like that I'd honestly just smash myself in the face with a frying pan.

Quite.

They look bloody awful in my opinion!"

It's just one of those things I suppose. Like fake boobs, some will live them, some really dislike.

I think there are a generation of younger women who are all clones of one another though because of the lip filler, botox, tattooed eyebrow look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys with nice full lips are really attractive!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia?

This. That's why women first started wearing lipstick."

Well that's simply not true.

Lipstick throughout the years has been used by men and women, falling in and out of popularity, most of the time for reasons not related to sex.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"If I wanted to look like that I'd honestly just smash myself in the face with a frying pan.

Quite.

They look bloody awful in my opinion!

It's just one of those things I suppose. Like fake boobs, some will live them, some really dislike.

I think there are a generation of younger women who are all clones of one another though because of the lip filler, botox, tattooed eyebrow look. "

Oh I know

Dread to think what my daughters will be doing in a couple of years time....

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Two words......Pete Burns

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Two words......Pete Burns

Pete took things to the extreme. Someone like that is insanely rare to come across in reality

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Aren't puffy lips on your face supposed to mirror labia? "

I see a big labia in the mirror every single day…

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some people who have lip fillers look good & you maybe wouldn't realise they've had it.Maybe lots of men have secretly had little fillers done.

I'm not a fan of the massive pumped up lips on anyone ,but that's their choice at the end of the day.

Miss

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Each to their own but we look like what we look like and we have no plans to change that.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

There's a guy in my local asda who's face is just fake everything - his lips were so puffed up they looked like they were about to split open. How is that not painful?

I honestly don't know how he thinks that looks good, I bet he was an attractive guy before.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Its not a good look.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"If I wanted to look like that I'd honestly just smash myself in the face with a frying pan.

Pretty much this

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I work with quite a few men who have had lip fillers.

To each their own, but I find it highly unattractive on both men and women.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"There's a guy in my local asda who's face is just fake everything - his lips were so puffed up they looked like they were about to split open. How is that not painful?

I honestly don't know how he thinks that looks good, I bet he was an attractive guy before."

I think it looks ridiculous on men and, rightly or wrong, I'll judge them for it.

Men can get away with a roughness and wrinkled face that women simply can't. They should be taking advantage of that!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They'd rather get penis fillers.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Are plump lips more desirable in women than men?

Discuss

For the record I’m genuinely wondering about the difference in what people find attractive about one sex and not the other as opposed to a debate about lip fillers.

Because we're not that insecure about our bodies as much as women and if we are we don't resort to quick fix techniques

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By *rettyboylloydMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Cos they've seen Bo Selecta maybe???

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