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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had anyone had much luck with anonymous hookups?

No judgement here but some people are on this site and discretion is important as they are in a relationship outside of Fab...

Are there other people out there that would want to meet anonymously? ie GH or full face coverings etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glory holes are quite popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think you get a feel for someone as an individual, ive managed to do sucessfully this with one person on fab and we now talk often daily and Id consider her a friend, we still have never seen each others faces but we have seen the bodies to know their is a mutual attraction! There is something about it, the thrill is something I dont think I could get bored of!

I wish more people were open to this, its guaranteed discretion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in.

Joking aside, I’ve had one and it taught me that it’s not really my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you get a feel for someone as an individual, ive managed to do sucessfully this with one person on fab and we now talk often daily and Id consider her a friend, we still have never seen each others faces but we have seen the bodies to know their is a mutual attraction! There is something about it, the thrill is something I dont think I could get bored of!

I wish more people were open to this, its guaranteed discretion!"

A lot of people have hot bodies, not so much good faces. I want a good face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a fantasy / Sanrio around something like this

Just finding someone I could trust like that to start with is why it’s still not done

Basically have someone I trust take my fab profile for a day

Have me blind folded and handcuffed bent over have them arrange a meet with someone

Have the guy come use me ones done and he’s lift they then go on to fab delete all messages from the person and no verification left so I will never know who it was

Only people that would know is the guy who used me and the friend or fuck buddy who set it up

I like the idear off the mystery that ever passing profile I be thinking to myself was it him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But sometimes the barrier of trusing someone else with your discretion is hard!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Regards to safety it's a huge risk isn't it. Difficult to pick anyone out in an identity parade if they are wearing a balaclava.

Also, leaves the situation open to bribery and corruption. Without someone else there to supervise, I couldn't put that much trust into any stranger

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Black mail , it's too early not to get them mixed up

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Just goto a club. Most have dark areas / privacy holes / ovens etc

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I've had a few blindfolded meets

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Just goto a club. Most have dark areas / privacy holes / ovens etc "

This

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes never knew the person we fcuked like rabbits for daze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love blindfolded meets but I’m not sure we could do totally anonymous

Mr

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

"

I think this is where I would need some one I trust completely to talk to/organise it with the other person so I knew I was safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you get a feel for someone as an individual, ive managed to do sucessfully this with one person on fab and we now talk often daily and Id consider her a friend, we still have never seen each others faces but we have seen the bodies to know their is a mutual attraction! There is something about it, the thrill is something I dont think I could get bored of!

I wish more people were open to this, its guaranteed discretion!

A lot of people have hot bodies, not so much good faces. I want a good face. "

The irony is just that!!

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By *ateshugsMan
over a year ago

Isle of Man, (Crosby ish)

I’d love to meet a total stranger at a bar, or in a lift, or a hotel and both know what is about to happen without a word.

No words, just pure unadulterated lust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

I think this is where I would need some one I trust completely to talk to/organise it with the other person so I knew I was safe "

Absolutely and to be there for after xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

"

*The Hunger Games*

I volunteer as tribute

(Voice cracking in there too just to add drama)

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

"

I'll do it with you....

But it wouldn't be me obviously...

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By *karussin22Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

"

From that brief description….I’m totally sold on the idea

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By *iguyyyMan
over a year ago

whitstable


"I think you get a feel for someone as an individual, ive managed to do sucessfully this with one person on fab and we now talk often daily and Id consider her a friend, we still have never seen each others faces but we have seen the bodies to know their is a mutual attraction! There is something about it, the thrill is something I dont think I could get bored of!

I wish more people were open to this, its guaranteed discretion!

A lot of people have hot bodies, not so much good faces. I want a good face. "

A good face? Just for you to sit on… hmm

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By *imon1980Man
over a year ago

Harlow

I have had about 10 over the years and its so intense.

All were the female is blindfolded couple of times hubby been there and others the female is there just blindfolded and waiting!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I have had about 10 over the years and its so intense.

All were the female is blindfolded couple of times hubby been there and others the female is there just blindfolded and waiting!"

Oooh that sounds reet orny

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve never done the complete anonymity thing. Blindfolds, dark rooms, etc. And it doesn’t appeal, if I’m honest.

But what I did do quite a lot, when I was younger, was meet complete strangers for sex. Turn up and knock on the door of a hotel room or a flat without knowing anything about the woman waiting on the other side.

Frankly, I’m lucky nothing ever went wrong. And even luckier that every time turned out well.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I sometimes quite like the idea of an anonymous encounter in a completely dark room. All the kissing, touching, teasing and exploring as well as hot, inhibition free sex. Never knowing who each other are but totally lost in the moments.

However there's too much that could possibly go wrong to make it happen for me.

"

I once went into a completely dark room at a club. No idea what happened in there and by who. I wouldn’t do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anonymous hook ups just depend on one's parameters and inclinations. Increased risk via anonymity has a direct resonance to a decrease in standard for hygiene and social acceptance. This in turn can affect the opinion of how such a person might effect anyone they meet in the future and the opinion of whom might judge them negatively for undertaking such a risk. Ultimately anyone who participates in an anonymous hook up takes their chance and pays their price, even if it is in a way they did not predict.

“A little consideration, a little thought for others, makes all the difference.” - Eeyore

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Had anyone had much luck with anonymous hookups?

No judgement here but some people are on this site and discretion is important as they are in a relationship outside of Fab...

Are there other people out there that would want to meet anonymously? ie GH or full face coverings etc? "

I don't ask too many questions in a club mainly because I may never meet them again.

But I don't see why not in a club. Elsewhere is a big boundary for my safety and security.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of different anonymous situations and sessions. Doesn't have to be faceless just that one or both of us don't know anything about them including name. Miss taking cock she has never touched or seen from someone she hasn't seen and him leaving without her seeing him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my FB we regularly do. She will be bent over waiting for them.

I'll watch. They come and go!

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Have done them they can be fun! But it's not as good or intimate as a regular FWB in my opinion. Also you never know if they get tested just because they said they do, But regular testing is something i do anyway.

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