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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18.

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

You know that steely Dan song ? "Hey nineteen " it's like that

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I'm not sure it ever becomes inappropriate as long as everyone are consenting adults.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."

You being you're age, as long as 18 the bigger the age gap the hotter

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Anything over 15 years is just wrong.

A

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Anything over 15 years is just wrong.

A"

Oh yeah I mean that's just sick. How's the wife by the way?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Anything over 15 years is just wrong.

A

Oh yeah I mean that's just sick. How's the wife by the way? "

Still getting ID'd for scratchcards at Asda.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never inappropriate. It’s not always a good idea…

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Anything over 15 years is just wrong.

A

Oh yeah I mean that's just sick. How's the wife by the way?

Still getting ID'd for scratchcards at Asda.....

A"

They stopped ID'ing me for stuff. I think that means I look old now

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Anything over 15 years is just wrong.

A

Oh yeah I mean that's just sick. How's the wife by the way?

Still getting ID'd for scratchcards at Asda.....

A

They stopped ID'ing me for stuff. I think that means I look old now "

They don't ID me (shock....I know, right ) but they do question if I'm buying booze for my daughter when we go through the checkout.

She pisses herself laughing every time.

You can go off people........

A

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Age gaps become less appropriate the older people get

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think as long as nobody is being taken advantage of there's no problem.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It becomes a problem when there is any form of inequality such that one person may feel any level of coercion.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It doesn't if the partners are happy

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Death

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

For me it's anyone below 30 as have to draw a line somewhere! And tbh I see 20 somethings that often ask to meet as boys rather than men at my age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you have to ask this question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re asking yourself this then it’s inappropriate

Mr

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

For relationship depends on mentality of both

Sex wise there isn’t as long as legal and constitutional

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The usual rule of thumb for 'socially acceptable' is half the older age +7. eg a 40-year-old dating someone under 27 would be considered unacceptable.

In terms of just fucking.

Personally, if the younger person is in their 20s, they're a grown-up and with the world being full of kinks I'm not going to yuck someone's yum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problems with age gaps or what anyone gets up to in their consensual private lives. Since the whole Schofield affair I've had to listen to so much judgmental crap from people. I'm 50 and a date/fuck much younger men. So tired of people trying to shame me for that. The assumption is always that the older is trying to exploit the younger person. Even tho on Fab a high percentage of males under 30 are actively seeking older women.

I enjoy my time with hot young lads and hope it continues as I get older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met F when she was 16 and I was 23, I felt like a dirty old man, yet here we are 10 years later

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London


"I met F when she was 16 and I was 23, I felt like a dirty old man, yet here we are 10 years later "

Congrats on being together so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."

I would say if you are my childrens age you are too young for me (they are both in their twenties)

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"The usual rule of thumb for 'socially acceptable' is half the older age +7. eg a 40-year-old dating someone under 27 would be considered unacceptable.

In terms of just fucking.

Personally, if the younger person is in their 20s, they're a grown-up and with the world being full of kinks I'm not going to yuck someone's yum.

"

Never subscribed to that notion myself.

Particularly given that example gives a 13 year age gap as being the max, but the same formula means a 60 year old would be fine with a 37 year old, giving a 23 year gap. The simple maths just means the older one gets the younger they can hook up with someone.

40 - 27

50 - 32

60 - 37

70 - 42

80 - 47

90 - 52

It's a pretty weird system for 'social acceptability' when one half can age twice as fast as the other.....

A

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."

Why do you ask

And two. If the two people engageing in sex both concenting

Its no one else's bussiness

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It would feel inappropriate for me with anyone in their twenties and lower.

I don't have kids ,but still they'd be young enough that I could be their parents age.

I guess it will vary for people ,with what feels comfortable.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met F when she was 16 and I was 23, I felt like a dirty old man, yet here we are 10 years later

Congrats on being together so long "

Thanks

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By *OutOfTenMan
over a year ago

SA7


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."

I think you have to gauge that on a person by person basis. At 42, I look at women under 25 and think noooooooo. I really could be their dad at that age, plus there’s be such a gap in interests and maturity I wouldn’t be interested. So for me, there’s a lower limit for sure. Going upwards in age though, I wouldn’t discount anyone as long as there was a spark. That said, a 69 year old may look at my and discount me for the same reasons as I would a younger lady.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."
18 with a 99 yr old i mean out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to my nieces in their early 20's, three years is the maximum and they believe any more than that then the youngest is a victim.

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Gotta remember though on here, many men and women put their own age as lower lol... especially women lol I don't know why.... embrace your age !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."

Is it consensual?

Is it fun?

I have a thing for the older lady. So for me, they'd have to be mature and close to my age. Or older. I'm not interested in tiktokkers, chatsnappers, instagrammers.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18.18 with a 99 yr old i mean out of order "
i mean you'll kill the old fart

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I don't think there is a point in age difference as long as everyone is comfortable and happy.

When I was 22 I was regularly having sex with a 44 year old lady and we both loved it.

I'm now 59 and have recently had a 22 year old guy visit me and fuck me. We both enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Anything over 15 years is just wrong.

A

Oh yeah I mean that's just sick. How's the wife by the way?

Still getting ID'd for scratchcards at Asda.....

A

They stopped ID'ing me for stuff. I think that means I look old now

They don't ID me (shock....I know, right ) but they do question if I'm buying booze for my daughter when we go through the checkout.

She pisses herself laughing every time.

You can go off people........

A"

She's too good for you. But we all knew that anyway didn't we?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I met F when she was 16 and I was 23, I felt like a dirty old man, yet here we are 10 years later "

Was that on account of being a dirty old man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met F when she was 16 and I was 23, I felt like a dirty old man, yet here we are 10 years later

Was that on account of being a dirty old man? "

Well I'm older and dirtier now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18.

Why do you ask

And two. If the two people engageing in sex both concenting

Its no one else's bussiness"

I was just curious as to what others thought. For me it doesn't really bother me so much what others get up too. I personally wouldn't want to be with anyone in the 18 to 25 year age bracket but thats just because I have kids/young adults that are coming to and from my house all the time and find they aren't that mature. That being said I've been with someone who was 20 years older than me.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I met F when she was 16 and I was 23, I felt like a dirty old man, yet here we are 10 years later

Was that on account of being a dirty old man?

Well I'm older and dirtier now

"

That's the spirit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18.

I think you have to gauge that on a person by person basis. At 42, I look at women under 25 and think noooooooo. I really could be their dad at that age, plus there’s be such a gap in interests and maturity I wouldn’t be interested. So for me, there’s a lower limit for sure. Going upwards in age though, I wouldn’t discount anyone as long as there was a spark. That said, a 69 year old may look at my and discount me for the same reasons as I would a younger lady."

Yah I get what your saying. Especially the ones young enough to be my kid.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Gotta remember though on here, many men and women put their own age as lower lol... especially women lol I don't know why.... embrace your age !! "

Nope, I am REALLY 37

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Talking to my nieces in their early 20's, three years is the maximum and they believe any more than that then the youngest is a victim.

"

I think that's a bit of an odd rule of thumb, it all depends on the individuals, maturity and consent (and ability to give it). There were 20yrs between my parents, no-one was a victim or coerced.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gotta remember though on here, many men and women put their own age as lower lol... especially women lol I don't know why.... embrace your age !!

Nope, I am REALLY 37 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is 19 years between us

It hasn’t ever felt wrong to us subjectively though we both understand that objectively speaking it can be a source of unease for others

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over a year ago

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you have adult children then not the same age or younger

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"At what point does an age gap become inappropriate when it comes to sex? Talking obviously about people over the age of 18."

I learnt though personal expeience that a legal, 26 year age gap is BLOODY HUGE. I now have strict age limits because I am apparently an idiot.

For context. He was a year older than my mum

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