FabSwingers.com forum: Gentlemen

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So this is one for the guys pretty simple any of you actually had a woman message you first? I had two lol that’s it

And another one do you actually get women who reply to your messages (yeah women get lots of messages I know I’m not dumb) just asking a curious question I know when I see the inbox on the rare time it’s yellow in like wow haha

Also this is just a funny post so don’t anyone take it seriously

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"So this is one for the guys pretty simple any of you actually had a woman message you first? I had two lol that’s it

Also this is just a funny post so don’t anyone take it seriously "

Yes and yes mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t exactly say I am a guy more in the middle but to answer your question yes

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many and sometimes (but certainly not always!) in that order

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It does happen. When it does it’s lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can say my inbox is as dry as the dessert lol

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I prefer to message guys , closed my inbox

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I had one recent wink. I replied and got a sort of half hearted reply. I tried a few more messages and got monosyllabic answers. Then nothing.

I’ve had a few ( very few) from women three or more hours’ drive away. I think they saw safety in distance.

I’ve never initiated contact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer to message guys , closed my inbox "

You’re a very rare woman on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this is one for the guys pretty simple any of you actually had a woman message you first? I had two lol that’s it ….

Nobody likes a show off!!!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes, and few remained very good friends on/off the site over the years but I also get a reply from my message not always like many of you

but I find it amusing

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Honestly, it has only ever happened once in my lifetime in here.

Or possibly did I just dream that one up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on the receiving end of a first message, but have a had a few replies. Some have led to nothing. Some have led to more

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester

"So this is one for the guys pretty simple any of you actually had a woman message you first?

….

Also this is just a funny post so don’t anyone take it seriously "

Yes - but not for years; unless they wanted money.

I tend not to get excited when I receive that odd, rare and elusive message. There’s a huge disconnect between receiving a message and agreeing a meet.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Aside from reciprocal and synchronous messages between friends and forumites on here, I've only sent three messages in the last two years. My engagements and meets have been the fruition of women sending me the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Yeah, twice maybe, definitely once. a long time ago, in an inbox far far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this is one for the guys pretty simple any of you actually had a woman message you first? I had two lol that’s it

Also this is just a funny post so don’t anyone take it seriously "

As the female half of our couple, I will happily message guys first that catch our eye...

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened a couple of times, nice to feel wanted

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Passable........

Just remembered we were meant to text you today.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Yes maybe 6-7 times over the years none went anywhere for one reason or other some I messed it up so my fault

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Billy Butcher? Is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Passable........

Just remembered we were meant to text you today.

I am.

Tender.

Walking like Robocop.

Now I know how the ladies feel.

Kinda.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Passable........

Just remembered we were meant to text you today.

I am.

Tender.

Walking like Robocop.

Now I know how the ladies feel.

Kinda."

Use more lube.

No. Sympathy.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Yes and yes, both in the last couple of days

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've had a few message first.

You can't blame them - I am a sex god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Billy Butcher? Is that you?

Alright treacle calm ya tits down and make us a nice cuppa tea ta.

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By *urboSquirrellMan
over a year ago

downtown

Not a fuckin chance for either I'm defo doin sumtin rong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to message guys , closed my inbox "

Same closed mines so I can message people myself

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Passable........

Just remembered we were meant to text you today.

I am.

Tender.

Walking like Robocop.

Now I know how the ladies feel.

Kinda.

Use more lube.

No. Sympathy.

I take it back!

Just seen a certain photo.

Looks like you got smashed right in the Vulva.

*sorry...sodding autocarrot. Meant Volvo obvs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah tonnes.

Cause I'm so fucking lovely ain't I.

Passable........

Just remembered we were meant to text you today.

I am.

Tender.

Walking like Robocop.

Now I know how the ladies feel.

Kinda.

Use more lube.

No. Sympathy.

I don't think any amount of lube would have gotten me out of that tight spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be just me.I love a true gentleman. Old school when us women where put on a pedestal. I had bad experiences with men my age. My X just wanted sex and then go back to video games and ignoring me. I met my current husband and he is a true gentleman. I tend to his needs and he tends to mine. What happened to the disconnect in society now?

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yeah, many first messages from women

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Get women and couples messaging first.

Also get replies from women if I message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple times. I gave up searching and messaging first a while back was getting demoralising so now I just stick to my friend chats and look out for inbound newbies every now and then. Saves the ‘oh… read deleted…’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare, but it has happened. Winks but no message, which is a shame…

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its very rare grab it with both hands,,

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Yes it's not often though. I seem to get winks. I like that, it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent messages first if I've liked the look of someone

Annndddd I didn't become abuse if the feeling wasn't mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive

My English is out of the window lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive sent messages first too

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By *implymeABCMan
over a year ago

Newbury

I've received a wink from a woman, but never a message

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"So this is one for the guys pretty simple any of you actually had a woman message you first? I had two lol that’s it

Also this is just a funny post so don’t anyone take it seriously "

I've had quite a few I've even had women sending me tit pics that I didn't ask for fab can be wonderful place at times .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here before but since back I heard the ratio of men to women is much higher now. Women get so many messages. I have only get a couple of messages since back from people I don't know...its rare but does happen

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Mainly me doing the first contact from cam. Not unknown though for lady first

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have been fortuneaye enough to have a couple of women message me first and they have turned ito good meets and even prolonged friendships. its rare for me hut does hapoen.

Yes i do get replies from time to time, though sometimws my replies to them get lost in their inbox for a while.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Haven't sent an introductory message since January 2020 so every conversation since has been started by women contacting me.

My fab bestie and fwb messaged me first.

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