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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton

Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Yeah no problems

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Why not ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Easily I often sleep with my partner without having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

If they can tolerate my snoring then yes

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Yep, easily done. Not necessarily erection free, but that wasn't the question...

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else "

I know the pain

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes and I have done in my university days.

Mrs

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Yes and I have done in my university days.

Mrs "

I wouldn’t get to sleep with you led next to me.

That said I have done this a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, even with a Fab friend!

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

I’ve had to get used to it and we rarely sleep together anyway now

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Lmao

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Is this one of those “tell me you’re a sexual predator without telling me you’re a sexual predator” questions?

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

Toward the end of his life, Gandhi used to have young women (girls, really) sleep next to him so he could prove his purity to himself.

He was a bit of a creep, sadly.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I could.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Ask any married couple and they'll tell you it's a frequent occurrence.

A

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

A no is a no.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes, I just put deep heat on my cock and strap it to my leg

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them.

Ask any married couple and they'll tell you it's a frequent occurrence.

A"

definitely true

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes no sex as we would be asleep...easy.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Yes

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By *estmids71Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I do.... Every bleeding night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I might have an enormous stonk on. But I can definitely, maybe, perhaps, possibly control myself

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Nope, absolutely not, I have no self control and men are just too good damn irresistible not to fuck at every given chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

In theory, yes, but I don't sleep well with another person in my bed, I have had my own bed to myself too much and I like it

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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else "

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Did for most of my marriage

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question "

Suggest she books a hotel

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I did for years!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I did for years!"

Harsh.....I'll solve it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question "

Sounds like she entirely wants the sex to me. Tell her you have a sofa she can sleep on if she must stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs "

I like the thought of hoovering up penises in our sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs

I like the thought of hoovering up penises in our sleep "

That'd teach me for leaving it laying around on the floor!

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel "

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs "

...This made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easily

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By *nly4fun76Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Shared a hotel room with a single female not that long ago. We shared to save the cost of a room. Just because they are the opposite sex does mean you have to have sex if you share a bed.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have done this many times over the years.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Easy peasy.... In fact we do this most nights!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes ive shared a platonic bed with many men

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Yep! I do it every night.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them.

Yep! I do it every night."

I know that feeling

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Yeah

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes and have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I’d rather have the bed all to myself

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Yes, I just put deep heat on my cock and strap it to my leg "

Can I rub it in

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes..& have done

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"Yes but I’d rather have the bed all to myself"

Me too

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

yes I am capable of that and have done so many times.

Where's the facepalm emoji?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure I understand the question x I new bed partner OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure I understand the question x I new bed partner OP?"

Ffs A new bed partner?

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world


"I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.

"

I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.

It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.

A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Yes, both of us quite often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.

I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.

It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.

A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me."

I thought we agreed on a nod of the head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well . "

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world


"I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.

It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.

A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me.

I thought we agreed on a nod of the head?"

I'm keeping that just for you. There's eye contact involved and stuff. Feels sacred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems like a funny question, but I suppose to those who haven't even had the opportunity then they don't know.

Obviously sex is not an obligation or even an opportunity when you sleep in the company of someone else. The concern would be if your significant other did so and the circumstances around why they did so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have done on many occasions.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yeah. I currently enjoy sleep more than I want sex

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Yes, I just put deep heat on my cock and strap it to my leg

Can I rub it in "

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Yeah. I currently enjoy sleep more than I want sex "

That's just wrong but unfortunately true

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant


"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs "

Mine does I definitely have a magical vagina

OK so If I am really into someone then I struggle to keep my hands off them so tend to constantly fuck. But that's rare and I've slept with loads of people all genders and just slept. Either it was platonic in which case its off the table anyway or I had gone off them like when I was married

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yes

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Infact probly no id likely be too hot and sleep on the floor

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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel "

I'm thinking of saying that, as she hardly gave me money last time for food, I even suggested she stop at her brothers, but said no room,

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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair"

She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Please, OP don’t do it. This situation is just gonna slowly destroy you within and anger and hate will manifest itself in something else in your life. so please just don’t do it.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, have done many times.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

I have many many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

[Removed by poster at 03/07/23 20:29:34]

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair

She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of "

I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life.

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Yes

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Yes, and I do so very often.

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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair

She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of

I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life."

Thanks as she doesnt have a lot to say either, trying g to get blood from a stone as the saying goes, as far as conversation went with her, no banter at all !!! With either a yes or no answer or words with 1 syllabub in them !!!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs "

Lol!

I know I came here only for the comments.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Yes.

I dunno what you do with your time, Tim but sounds like you need to live a bit more.

Just the other day, I was on Brighton nudist beach dozing off surrounded by a bunch of naked men and women who were also dozing or sleeping and nobody was boinking anybody.

There was a gay couple having a kiss and a cuddle which I thought was cute but no porn sex.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Obviously. And if they were hot and didn't want to, obviously to that to.

Because you know, I like sex and am not a complete monster?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Yes, I just put deep heat on my cock and strap it to my leg "

Another comment I only came here to read!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them.

Nope, absolutely not, I have no self control and men are just too good damn irresistible not to fuck at every given chance! "

Golden comment. Fab is my entertainment.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question "

For Christ's sake. No. This right here is mind fuckery manipulation. You don't need this, especially at your age...I'm younger and I didn't even let my sibling from overseas come around to stay because I get burnt out by people.

Let her be a fucking adult and go stay in her own bed somewhere.

Strong boundaries OP.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.

Mrs

I like the thought of hoovering up penises in our sleep

That'd teach me for leaving it laying around on the floor!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can do the old top and tale like when you’d stay at a friends house as a kid

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.

I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.

It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.

A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me."

I can cuddle without developing a whole level of feelings.....Yeah due to my mental health, I have to keep strict control on my feelings....on a daily/hourly basis.

I'm more likely to develop commitment-level emotions if I spend a lot of time with just one person which rarely happens now.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Yeah. I currently enjoy sleep more than I want sex "

I was like this for most of the pandemic..and then it started to get weird in my brain...disconnected from my body and from the world...started going to clubs in November despite being on the site for ages.

Best thing ever. That and nudist/naturist partaking.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure, long as spooning is allowed

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Please, OP don’t do it. This situation is just gonna slowly destroy you within and anger and hate will manifest itself in something else in your life. so please just don’t do it."

Agree with this.

Shudders at her emotionally manipulating you OP.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Yep, have done a few times to be fair.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair

She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of "

As a mentally unstable person, I think I have the authority to say that she is unstable and she will create chaos in your life if you let her sleep in your bed with you. Don't do it.

Boyfriend and brother know this other wise they would give her money for an Air B n B instead of dumping her on someone else!

I've slept on friends' and families couches, sofas, floors happily. I never assume that all my friends and family will share their bed with me. Especially adults!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I probably have bigger issues watching films with people...

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair

She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of

I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life.

Thanks as she doesnt have a lot to say either, trying g to get blood from a stone as the saying goes, as far as conversation went with her, no banter at all !!! With either a yes or no answer or words with 1 syllabub in them !!! "

Flogging a dead Aussie horse here mate and you don't need it to come and decompose in your bed either.

She sounds like a chaos creator and/or a shit-stirrer...especially if she can't communicate with more syllables.

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over a year ago


"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "

Yes

Mrs

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

Yes.

Slept (literally) with quite a few girls when I was at Uni. Sharing a bed/floor/sofa with a friend after a nighty out wasn't impossible.

Since then, most nights when I had a a partner, all the nights I've shared in bed with my daughters as they have grown up, and a few other occasions.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yes very easily.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"If they can tolerate my snoring then yes "

I'm hard of hearing, so won't hear your snoring D

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Yes have done it often.

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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Please, OP don’t do it. This situation is just gonna slowly destroy you within and anger and hate will manifest itself in something else in your life. so please just don’t do it."

Many thanks, she has already done that on how she took advantage of me, she doesnt do BJ either when we did have sex, but loved me to give her plenty, the last time she stayed ove, for e weeks, we only had sex twice, the 1st week & the last week infact on my birthday,

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By *KTim61 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else

Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question

Suggest she books a hotel

I would suggest she books a hotel as well .

Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair

She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of

I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life.

Thanks as she doesnt have a lot to say either, trying g to get blood from a stone as the saying goes, as far as conversation went with her, no banter at all !!! With either a yes or no answer or words with 1 syllabub in them !!!

Flogging a dead Aussie horse here mate and you don't need it to come and decompose in your bed either.

She sounds like a chaos creator and/or a shit-stirrer...especially if she can't communicate with more syllables."

Her favourite words are Tes No & ok she has no banter at all, we went on a coach trip, it was the longest & most boring trip I've ever been on, I pretended to be asleep some of the time, with her not having nothing to talk about, the sex wasnt the best either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we back to talking about exes again?

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Yes, but I can't promise not to get a boner if she was snuggled up or I was spooning her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes.

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