FabSwingers.com forum: Married men

By *erseykev OP Man
over a year ago

St Helier

Do any ladies on here meet married men???

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do but only in private. Public response is outrage

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine

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My young squire, sometimes it's best to be outrageous than just fine. When was the last time you quaffed wine that was just fine?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes and people will rarely ask your marital status in a club.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine

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My young squire, sometimes it's best to be outrageous than just fine. When was the last time you quaffed wine that was just fine?

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Yes and people will rarely ask your marital status in a club."

A couple did ask me once !

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine

A double standard? Quick, guide me to my fainting couch and bring my smelling salts.

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By *erseykev OP Man
over a year ago

St Helier

Unfortunately there are no clubs over here nicecouple

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"
nope sorry they don't

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I.dont some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"

It’s a swinging site. The clue is in the name

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"

Are you asking for a friend or yourself?

The question is rarely do ladies meet xxxxx and more would any ladies like to meet me?

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Only if she knows about it, don't want to get involved in any drama. Same goes for married females btw.

Luna

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"

Some girls will, some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't

Well, I know I've got the fever but I don't know why

Some say they will and some girls lie.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some will yes! I prefer not to x

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine

It’s never fine for any gender!

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???

It’s a swinging site. The clue is in the name

Ah yes but cheating is not and never has been part of swinging!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Yes, preferably with the enthusiastic encouragement from the wife.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???

It’s a swinging site. The clue is in the name

Ah yes but cheating is not and never has been part of swinging! "

For you that is.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In the club environment there is less sigma around it. Clubs are a little like entering a different time and space. For some obviously it'll be an absolute no. Some are of the mind we're all adults there for a good time and it's not for them to police others morality. But for most it's I think it's just a case of don't ask don't tell in a club.

We would probably be do not ask, do not tell if it weren't for the fact we're chatty, inquisitive sorts. So we have come across a few married (without permission) men and women in our time in clubs. As people who have both been cheating on by ex spouces it's not an endearing feature. However we take individuals as we find them as an individual then and there. We know the world is not black and white. So although we do find cheating distasteful it would be a lie to say we have never been with a married man or woman.

Also come across a fair few couples on the club scene where both of them are cheating on their respective spouses back home.

It's an uncomfortable side of the lifestyle and we wish in an ideal world was not there. But as you can see above we'd be hypocritical to call others on it. However it's something we don't seek out or desire.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???

It’s a swinging site. The clue is in the name

Ah yes but cheating is not and never has been part of swinging! "

Oh. It’s a cheating thread.?… how would I know?

OP. Why not make that clear for us all??

*clickbait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they do but only in private. Public response is outrage

If they're hot yeah.

Pfffft to the public outrage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"

Loads do, and lots of married women are on here both with and without knowledge of their partners. However most of the women are discreet about it and keep it under the radar.

It’s not for everyone though which is fair enough and I can understand and appreciate their reasons why

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Yes they do but only in private. Public response is outrage

If they're hot yeah.

Pfffft to the public outrage!"

I agree

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

And I thought that Australia’s dismissal of Johnny Bairstow was contentious.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I can guarantee that the ones who say no wouldn’t stop you from ploughing their hole if you only told them mid shag.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I can guarantee that the ones who say no wouldn’t stop you from ploughing their hole if you only told them mid shag. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have no shame

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Yes I have no shame

Life is too short for shame

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Yes I have no shame

What about a 65 year old married man?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Some do some prefer not to ... all you can be is honest and yourself and see what comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have no shame

What about a 65 year old married man?

I'd have to say no as you're older than my parents so I just couldn't go there sorry

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Yes I have no shame

Do you ask them if they're married?

I've seen profiles saying will meet married if honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do,they just don't know they do.its why most men on here lie and never fall for the "can sniff a married man a mile off"(no they cant) and those doing the reverse psychobabble of "happy to meet married men" ( no they aren't, they just want you to be honest so they then can avoid).

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have no shame

Do you ask them if they're married?

I've seen profiles saying will meet married if honest about it. "

I haven't met anyone yet that hasn't been truthful from the start as I don't meet anyone instantly.

Always comes into the conversation early on in my experience, no point lying about it to be honest.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Yes I have no shame

Do you ask them if they're married?

I've seen profiles saying will meet married if honest about it.

I haven't met anyone yet that hasn't been truthful from the start as I don't meet anyone instantly.

Always comes into the conversation early on in my experience, no point lying about it to be honest. "

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By *ts.Only.CharlieWoman
over a year ago

wimborne

I used to meet a married man, it was a nice feeling that he wants me over his wife, but then over some time he caught feelings for me. So I had to draw the line.

Also was having intercourse with a man for at least 4 months, then he dropped it to me that he was married and had children. His daughter was a year younger than me. So once I knew that then our meetings were finished.

But I only meet married men with the wife's consent now. Less hassle and knowing I'm allowed to do it makes it less intense.

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By *he massage manMan
over a year ago

filey

"Yes and people will rarely ask your marital status in a club."

When I attended the clubs regularly everyone knew I was married and my story behind it and although I only massage and soft play I always tell people before arranging a meet/massage.

And I do meet a lot of couples that state they don't meet attached guys. But its like age its about the individual not the label.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"They do,they just don't know they do.its why most men on here lie and never fall for the "can sniff a married man a mile off"(no they cant) and those doing the reverse psychobabble of "happy to meet married men" ( no they aren't, they just want you to be honest so they then can avoid).

You're welcome."

It’s nice that we have you to speak for “us” and “them”.

Like the Dr Dolittle of fab.

#not all heroes wear capes.

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

jarrow

I read one bio where the couple said they prefer married men as they were less hassle and knew it was simply the sex nothing else

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only if their wife knew and was happy for him to meet,otherwise no.

There's many will though as long as they know from the off.

Miss

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

I am a married man playing with her permission. The sticking point is confirmation. Some will only see married guys if they get confirmation of permission from the wife.

We no longer have sex due to her medical issues so she encourages me to play as long as she doesn't find out. That way she doesn't feel blame for not being able to provide me with what I need. So how do I provide proof?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I am a married man playing with her permission. The sticking point is confirmation. Some will only see married guys if they get confirmation of permission from the wife.

It's a difficult one, I suppose I don't need to see permission as anyone could be the female providing that, I like a degree of trust and the knowledge that his wife, is not going to hunt me down, as blaming the unsuspecting female, is easier than blaming the husband when he cheats... especially when he sides with his wife against her...

I guess we can only do so much to protect ourselves, from being dragged into drama

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"I can guarantee that the ones who say no wouldn’t stop you from ploughing their hole if you only told them mid shag. "

That’s why you ask before. That’s why we don’t just rock up and fuck

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I do, I know others won't like me for that but we all have our reasons for going on here and that is their business not mine.

I also find married men are more discreet and less likely to brag to their mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yes and as long as they aren't nervous and rushing things lol it's fine and they don't want any strings so that's perfect

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have no shame

What about a 65 year old married man?

I'd have to say no as you're older than my parents so I just couldn't go there sorry

Plus the distance of course!

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By *apa_smurfMan
over a year ago

Swindon

coming from experience some do, but it is far few between, most have wanted to speak to my wife in the chat rooms on cam to prove I'm not lying

im 100% honest on my profile and state I'm married and that my wife also has a profile we even have a couples account, but it still puts many off, on another note

I block/ignore fems that are "cheating" as I would like to speak to the husband also,

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Some do.

Even more lie about not meeting them.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

If I am horny for you I couldn't give a shit about your personal affairs. I want that juice!

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Some do.

Even more lie about not meeting them."

Love your comment about Jap's eyes on your profile!

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Some do.

Even more lie about not meeting them.

Love your comment about Jap's eyes on your profile!

True though.

Saw yet another this morning which appeared to have a bad case of conjunctivitis!

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Some do.

Even more lie about not meeting them.

Love your comment about Jap's eyes on your profile!

True though.

Saw yet another this morning which appeared to have a bad case of conjunctivitis!

Bloody love your sense of humour! Shame I'm too old for you

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By *cholarmanMan
over a year ago

Reading

I am not sure why Fab doesn’t provide a married unmarried box to tick and enable that as a search criterion. I know plenty would lie but at least you had the option of being honest

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If their wife knows and is cool with it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I am not sure why Fab doesn’t provide a married unmarried box to tick and enable that as a search criterion. I know plenty would lie but at least you had the option of being honest "

agree x

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"If I am horny for you I couldn't give a shit about your personal affairs. I want that juice!"

Thats so cool

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I do, I know others won't like me for that but we all have our reasons for going on here and that is their business not mine.

I also find married men are more discreet and less likely to brag to their mates. "

Not on here, I've found married men to be the most chatty about their different extra marital sexual partners, I guess they don't need to be loyal to meets in here, as they are not looking for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked , I answer honestly. It's on my profile, not ashamed to be playing around without my wife.

She would love to join in but cannot do so. I'm sure that this causes prfor me in respect of being married but single in meets

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Ooh married men just make my prostrate twitch in anticipation and excitement

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Meet socially, of course.

Meet for play, depends on the person, the play and the circumstances.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I am not sure why Fab doesn’t provide a married unmarried box to tick and enable that as a search criterion. I know plenty would lie but at least you had the option of being honest "

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If you want the option of being honest you can do just that by declaring it as a piece of narrative in your profile description. You don't need a tick box for that.

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