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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Pretty sure I got recognised in the supermarket at the weekend. Either that or I was looking especially stunning.

Message and say “Hi” if it was you.

Anyone else get recognised whilst out and about? How do you feel about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recognised, or recognised from Fab?

The former happens periodically for me, the latter pretty much never.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Pretty sure I got recognised in the supermarket at the weekend. Either that or I was looking especially stunning.

Message and say “Hi” if it was you.

Anyone else get recognised whilst out and about? How do you feel about it?"

I get recognised regularly when I am out as Linda, which is great

I never get recognised when I am out in male mode which is a huge relief

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Someone thought they saw me in a local Asda.

I was near the Asda, but I didn't go inside.

They messaged to ask if it was me and described someone like me, with a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was when at the gym. But I'm pretty sure I was just paranoid after camming in chat rooms.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Got recognized in the supermarket I work in this morning! Apparently he comes in and gets his lunch first thing and often sees me! Spoke this morning though pleasant young man! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst was on holiday with my sons. This bloke sent me a message to say he saw me by the pool (recognised my tattoo) and that he was going to come and say hello at the bar later that night.

I was horrified, because I was there with my sons and he was a shadow profile.

I replied to say I didn't think that would be appropriate and I'd appreciate if he didn't approach me at all.

I then got a barrage of abuse from him.

Was still none the wiser who he was but when I turned on who's near to see if he was just being weirdo he was within quarter of a mile. He was a nasty weirdo.

I've never felt so uncomfortable.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"The worst was on holiday with my sons. This bloke sent me a message to say he saw me by the pool (recognised my tattoo) and that he was going to come and say hello at the bar later that night.

I was horrified, because I was there with my sons and he was a shadow profile.

I replied to say I didn't think that would be appropriate and I'd appreciate if he didn't approach me at all.

I then got a barrage of abuse from him.

Was still none the wiser who he was but when I turned on who's near to see if he was just being weirdo he was within quarter of a mile. He was a nasty weirdo.

I've never felt so uncomfortable.

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It's like when people start threads asking if there were signs and symbols people wore to indicate they were swingers, would people wear them in public. Absolutely not, there are too many people with no concept of boundaries.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"The worst was on holiday with my sons. This bloke sent me a message to say he saw me by the pool (recognised my tattoo) and that he was going to come and say hello at the bar later that night.

I was horrified, because I was there with my sons and he was a shadow profile.

I replied to say I didn't think that would be appropriate and I'd appreciate if he didn't approach me at all.

I then got a barrage of abuse from him.

Was still none the wiser who he was but when I turned on who's near to see if he was just being weirdo he was within quarter of a mile. He was a nasty weirdo.

I've never felt so uncomfortable.

"

It's a bit stalker like saying he will come and say hello

I would message said I think I spotted you in the wild, so just a quick message to say hi

And just left it at that.

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Recognised, or recognised from Fab?"

I’m assuming from fab. It’s that or I had 2 heads.

Am now paranoid after the weirdo story.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Recognised, or recognised from Fab?

I’m assuming from fab. It’s that or I had 2 heads.

Am now paranoid after the weirdo story. "

It's OK we/FAB will hold vigil for you if we see you have going missing on the news

But to be safe I would barracade the doors and windows and not go out in the dark or to places were there is no public around

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I got recognised at the local swimming baths when out with the kids.. he was away working, it was another woman that said.. hi.. hope things are fab with you.. winked and left to be with her friends, I trawled thru our friends list and who’s local and to this day I’ve no idea who she was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a message off a 60+ year old guy saying he lives on the same street as us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live quite close to a major shopping centre in Sheffield and the amount of messages we get from people believing we are either inside and asking to meet or saying they have seen us in there is unbelievable.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes someone inevitably comes up to me and asks for my autograph saying "thanks Brad"

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I sometimes get messages asking if I work at a nearby supermarket, I haven't worked there for 9 years.

But I've had a couple of people message saying they've seen me on the school run, naming the school too. And with no face pics, always ignored and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get messages asking if I work at a nearby supermarket, I haven't worked there for 9 years.

But I've had a couple of people message saying they've seen me on the school run, naming the school too. And with no face pics, always ignored and blocked"

Wow! That’s shocking and very creepy!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I recognised a couple from here on a holiday recently, I wouldn’t dream of approaching them to say so though.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

You woukd think people will have the decency to leave people alone in their daily life. It's inappropriate to approach people like that or even tell them afterwards you have seen them imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve Recognised others and been recognised. Best option is don’t say anything. I once got a message off some weirdo on here saying that they had met me (on a different un-named profile to the one they were messaging from) threatening that they were going to tell my family.

There’s some right m weirdos on here. So now all face photos remain private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shour did recognise another formite before but didn’t say anything to them I did however drop my phone and who ever they were with hand it back

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I got recognised walking past a pub yesterday - I “know” the people who saw me via fab/WhatsApp chats but we have never actually met.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I sometimes get messages asking if I work at a nearby supermarket, I haven't worked there for 9 years.

But I've had a couple of people message saying they've seen me on the school run, naming the school too. And with no face pics, always ignored and blocked

Wow! That’s shocking and very creepy! "

It really is bizarre! People used to use my real name but then not show me who they are, I block them too, cba

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I would hate it, they would get blocked... Even the ones who think they've seen me at the pub, doing the school run or on the gym (I don't do any of those things) get blocked.

It's really creepy to mention it or try and think you're clever for recognising someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were out for a family lunch one day and overheard the couple on the next table talking about us.

The woman recognized Mrs C necklace, but they never approached us.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

If you see us out and we have family with us, you stay away, it's that simple

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

But then, that's the risk you take being on a swinging site

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By *eteranSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol, Spain

Pretty often due to what I do and my face being up. Although often I am not told until I get a message later saying where and when.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Pretty often due to what I do and my face being up. Although often I am not told until I get a message later saying where and when. "

Yes I get this! I then try rack my brain trying to work out who I noticed looking at me! X

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve been recognised on here by two guys I was in School with (well, they were a year above me). No idea how as my location is not my old hometown location, nor did I shag either of them previously (or at all!).

Gave me the ick as they sort of alluded that as they knew me I should fuck them.

I just blocked. I don’t do ultimatums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been recognised on here by two guys I was in School with (well, they were a year above me). No idea how as my location is not my old hometown location, nor did I shag either of them previously (or at all!).

Gave me the ick as they sort of alluded that as they knew me I should fuck them.

I just blocked. I don’t do ultimatums."

Oh wow!

...

Best we had was a an old school friend messaged us, he didn't recognise Jay though but Jay recognised him.. so we hid our pictures and sent a message asking "does you surname start with..."

He blocked us really quick....

Jay was laughing his head off and messaged him on Facebook (yes they were fb friends too!) Pmsl. They had a right laugh about it as his friend said he was like "SHIT" and that he had gone to look at pics again before he blocked but they had all gone!

Got him in a proper sweat haha

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