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what made you turn to swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me it was a number of reasons, but apart for the obvious of sex is fun, for me I joined because I love chatting, spending time and generally socializing with people of this mind set, people of a more open nature.

Another big reason for me is I have and do get turned down by women the majority of times when it come to bf/gf relationships. I feel I am one of the lesser good looking people sadly and I feel in the swinging society my bad looks are more forgiven, so I tend to do a lot better.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sex with more than one person at a time is my biggest turn on.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

A friend of mine who knew my desires shall we say but also knows how little free time I get to go out and meet people suggested I try fab, she has been on here and other sites a while. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex husband announced he thought he was bi, I said ok let's do a threesome and find out...

He found out he was straight, I found what I was missing!

Hence ex!

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By *sMinxyWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

well...... I was looking for a swinging chair for my garden...

and 6 years later i still havnt got one :D

ok... truth... had been divirced a few years, and thought why should i miss out on fun!! and one of best friends showed me site she was on... and the rest is history :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got bored of the trampoline. Xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Ex husband announced he thought he was bi, I said ok let's do a threesome and find out...

He found out he was straight, I found what I was missing!

Hence ex! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because i like having lots of sex with lots of different men.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

just don't have the stomach 4 the park roundabouts anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem who enjoyed sex, i felt swinging was the safer and cleaner option.(especially in a club)..I didnt want to be the one grabbing a quicky behind the nightclub at the end of the night or have alcohol play any part in things.

I also love the social side of things and prefer it to the vanilla side of things

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"Ex husband announced he thought he was bi, I said ok let's do a threesome and find out...

He found out he was straight, I found what I was missing!

Hence ex! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was to have fun with a variety of different people.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet people who share a mutual appreciation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet people who share a mutual appreciation "

Same for me... Out of the few friends I talk about sex openly with, they think I'm odd for being so open to new experiences and sex in general! I think they're the crazy ones

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By *igdnlittlemCouple
over a year ago

hartlepool

We got into it bcos I wanted to see littlem having sex with others - and 30yrs later its still the best _iew ever lol

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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

Mr and I have been together for over 20 years, since 16. Married for almost 14. Confidant and totally secure in our relationship , we both had only 1 other partner (many many) years ago.

Just looking for more fun

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

thought it would be fun, erotic and exciting..

very..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not intend to live the life of a nun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me (D) always been a perve in one shape or another. So long as there is total loyalty and honesty in the core relationship then anything else is icing on a rather delicious cake...

nobody said it was swinging in my youth or 20s or 30s, it was just having a wild time

so what got me into it?...lust and greed..luckily we both think the same way

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire


"for me (D) always been a perve in one shape or another. So long as there is total loyalty and honesty in the core relationship then anything else is icing on a rather delicious cake...

nobody said it was swinging in my youth or 20s or 30s, it was just having a wild time

so what got me into it?...lust and greed..luckily we both think the same way "

I blame the local swing club been to close to where we live.

Ian

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

The thought of other men wanting me, and hubby loved the idea of watching me, so after 20 years we tried it, so glad we did. Don't do often but fresh and exciting when we do and build up is massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was looking for my first 3sum

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Well this time last year I lost my nan and a second brother & I realised how short life was & that it was time I started to enjoy myself as I had been in a deep black hole for 7 years.

My occupational therapist suggested online sites, to help me get my confidence back & make new friends, so joined a couple of sites, had a few meets & one guy suggested this site back in May & introduced me to clubs & have never looked back.

Best thing I ever did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was browsing on another social media website, when all of a sudden a link on someone's wall appeared saying "swingers have more fun".

I thought to myself really? Clicked on the link and the rest is history

Always had a wild sex life so this site was a good place for me to broaden my horizons.

«Sigh»basically I wanted my first 3sum lol

Silk x

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

I'd just come out of a relationship and was missing having sex. A friend of mine told me he was on here and recommended it. That was quite a few years ago now, never bothered looking for another relationship because I can have occasional sex without the complications. Suits me for now even though my circumstances have changed yet again and I rarely get the opportunity to have fun

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