FabSwingers.com forum: Knowing me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm the same online as I am in real life, I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea but I'm fine with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aha."

I was gonna write that aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I don’t think anybody knows I even exist, I just pop random replies to posts every now and again, can’t say I’ve taken the time to let people know me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t know, really.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Aha."

There is nothing we can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no, no and no, to all of your questions, particularly the one about caring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah, I don’t think anybody knows I even exist, I just pop random replies to posts every now and again, can’t say I’ve taken the time to let people know me

I noticed the shirt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aha.

There is nothing we can do."

I hate myself.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I am what I am.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I’m just me, same on here as I am in the real world.

I’m like marmite though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aha.

There is nothing we can do."

I don't know what I'm to say.

I'll say it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I like to think that this 1 person knows me x

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I am what I am. "

None cares nor knows, My friends forsake me like a memory lost:

I am the self-consumer of my woes—

They rise and vanish in oblivious host,

Like shadows in love’s frenzied stifled throes

And yet I am, and live—like vapours tossed

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Aha."

Take on me......

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Aha.

Take on me......

Take me on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

No they don't

I possibly don't

Yes I do

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Nah, not at all. I can't be arsed trying to cut through a crowd on here as a single guy and not in the clique, so I'll only post snippets. Honest snippets, but not much more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

I like to say I don’t care but I do. And every day I’m a slightly different person. So, yeah, I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour is very much the same but otherwise I wouldn't say people get much insight into who I really am no. That's why I don't concern myself with strangers opinions, they are making judgements on a tiny snippet of personality.

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I just like talking about sex . I definitely don't try to give any impression, I just talk. Sometimes I can get ranty that's true in real life but most the time I'm quite chilled

I don't care how I come across really I don't take anything too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm pretty much the same me in real life as the person you see here.

I make no secret of being a big softy, a hopeless romantic and occasionally capable of a bit of lust.

I'm fairly open about some aspects of my life especially with people I'm close to on here.

However I live with constant imposter syndrome so I'm always convinced people would be let down by the reality of me in comparison to what I show here.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I don’t lie on here. This is me.. .

Just not all of me.

There are a few on fab who know me very well. But still not entirely. And to be fair - probably don’t want to.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A very select few know 95% of me ..

The small piece left everyone should keep to themselves

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

Let's put it this way.

I'd never have believed some people I've seen in here could probably do very well on Strictly Come Dancing.

How wrong I was........

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Forum me is pretty much me. There's personal stuff that no one here needs to know. But anyone who has read enough of my posts should be able to tell if we'll get along or not.

Also thanks for the earworms OP and Ricky.

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By *rMindandMrsCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We try to be really authentic in our comms with people - even if we are saying thanks but no thanks.

But...authentic vs do people really know us...guess that's v different and we only open up to people when we meet them. And even then, we are discerning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think you know me... *epic guitar riff*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me."

Well you seem to be a thoroughly decent human bean (pun intended) x

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Interesting question raven.

For me? You do. Most others don't. They just assume my say it how it is approach is dickhead behavior and have no understanding that it's literally my profession to analyze people and so can do better than most.

So take that, haterzzzz xoxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could not careless what people think of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think only one person on fab, maybe two people, know me. And I don’t care how anyone sees me anymore. I don’t want to sleep with most of them and I probably will never ever meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm pretty much the same me in real life as the person you see here.

I make no secret of being a big softy, a hopeless romantic and occasionally capable of a bit of lust.

I'm fairly open about some aspects of my life especially with people I'm close to on here.

However I live with constant imposter syndrome so I'm always convinced people would be let down by the reality of me in comparison to what I show here.

This sums me up better than I did

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Used to?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

They don't. I like to think I project the person I am and am seen that way. But I'm not going to stress over if they don't.

Is it nice to be liked and known for it? Yes of course. But if that's the case awesome, if it's not... Awesome.

Fuck you all, I'm me. If you want to know me here I am. If you don't that's cool

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We try to be ourselves on here, and try to put exactly who we are in person on here, obviously only letting information about us were happy sharing be known. Does is it always come across as we want it to? Probably not. Do people like us? Who knows (insert shrug emoji) Do we care? If we did we'd have left a long while ago if we were worried people didn't

Tinder x

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

no, no and absolutely no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you seem to be a thoroughly decent human bean (pun intended) x"

Awww thank you lovely, and I definitely appreciate the pun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to?

Oh you think I'm bad now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all infact I bet a lot would be suprice to find a well managed person

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Serious head on.

(Yeah....right...no....really...)

Having just met several forumites this very weekend for the first time each and every one of them was exactly as they are on here.

And I mean that in a good way of course.

All of them. It was almost like they weren't real people and were AI powered robots of their forum personas.

It was nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Humour is very much the same but otherwise I wouldn't say people get much insight into who I really am no. That's why I don't concern myself with strangers opinions, they are making judgements on a tiny snippet of personality."

I don't think people can fake humour, unfortunate for some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting question raven.

So take that, haterzzzz xoxx"

You surprised me brucey.

Now bend over it's my turn.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

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i don’t care but i don’t think they have the right impression of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think only one person on fab, maybe two people, know me. And I don’t care how anyone sees me anymore. I don’t want to sleep with most of them and I probably will never ever meet them.

Yes!!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Well you seem to be a thoroughly decent human bean (pun intended) x

Awww thank you lovely, and I definitely appreciate the pun!

You're most welcome and I'm glad you enjoyed the pun... I have plenty more where they came from...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Used to?

Oh you think I'm bad now...

Bad is good Joe.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Hello op.

We’ve not spoken but you have given us the impression that you are a curly haired ice maiden that would be competitive at crazy golf.

We’d like to challenge you to 9 holes and a seat on the windmill sometime.

As for us… I imagine people just feel sorry for H and wonder how she copes with my beautiful penis.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Used to?

Oh you think I'm bad now...

When I'm good I'm very very good

But when I'm bad I'm better

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Interesting question raven.

So take that, haterzzzz xoxx"

I don't have a clue what you're actually like. You give very little away considering the sheer volume of posts. I suspect we'd get on in real life though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I’m a mystery

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

Rubiksville

I'd expect only Danish knows me here, I'm not overly concerned about people's opinions of me but suspect most don't have a clue about me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello op.

We’ve not spoken but you have given us the impression that you are a curly haired ice maiden that would be competitive at crazy golf.

We’d like to challenge you to 9 holes and a seat on the windmill sometime.

As for us… I imagine people just feel sorry for H and wonder how she copes with my beautiful penis."

Oh how easily I'm forgotten..

But also, hell yeah I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting question raven.

So take that, haterzzzz xoxx

I don't have a clue what you're actually like. You give very little away considering the sheer volume of posts. I suspect we'd get on in real life though.

Don't tell him I said this but he's actually alright.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. I’m a mystery

See, i reckon this is the best way to be.

No expectations, no disappointment.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life (except my name isn’t really Waggoner).

It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference.

I would like to get to know some.

What was the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I’m a mystery

See, i reckon this is the best way to be.

No expectations, no disappointment.

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life.

It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference. "

This ^

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life (except my name isn’t really Waggoner).

It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference.

I would like to get to know some.

What was the question? "

Are you now, or have you ever been, a member of dodgy mc dodge face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think people can fake humour, unfortunate for some. "

Not fake it but imitate it? Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life (except my name isn’t really Waggoner).

It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference.

I would like to get to know some.

What was the question? "

I don't think anyone really knows me either, I'm just meaning by how you present yourself. I have opinions on most people on the forums and the majority I've never spoken to.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

No I’m much more of an annoying twat in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but it's very limited. Anyway i adore a wrong impression.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I don't think anyone really knows me either, I'm just meaning by how you present yourself. I have opinions on most people on the forums and the majority I've never spoken to.

I assume I project who I really am. My opinions and humour are the same as I share with friends. How this comes over I can’t tell - that’s (unfortunately maybe) up to the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh! *Shrugs shoulders*

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

One thing is, I don't think I want everyone to know. I'm not a sociable person, I'm selective in those I like and share with.

While I don't change things about me to put forward, I don't put my full self forward. Nor will I ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will think of you what they will, no matter how you think you put yourself across.

We’re not for everyone, and that’s ok

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Interesting question raven.

So take that, haterzzzz xoxx

I don't have a clue what you're actually like. You give very little away considering the sheer volume of posts. I suspect we'd get on in real life though.

Don't tell him I said this but he's actually alright. "

Blush emojis if I blushed ever right now!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I think people probably get a decent sense of my personality from here. I like to think I'm much the same in person.

But that's not to say anyone really knows me/knows me as I'm not sure I know anyone from here well enough for that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

Online is a persona.

In real life ever day matter you swe and view the real highs & lows of that person

On fab its an assumption from pics and some write ups and posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breaking up is never easy, I know, but I have to go.

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By *nterblueMan
over a year ago

manchester

Too much of an introvert to give much away here. *this is actually giving away more than usual.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

There is a couple of people on here who know us quite well, but for the most part, probably not. What gets posted is always genuine, it’s just it’s a tiny part of who we are.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No they dont

I dont show me anymore

Now its my instinct to just say random shit to ward off vagina my minge magnet has been removed

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't even want to know me well so I don't think it's safe for anyone else

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

One or two do yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm far less shallow in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows me,it takes a long time to get to know me. I never come across very well on here.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I wouldn't say I don't care. I just don't spend much time thinking about how people take me. It's a bit of a wild goose chase and a lot of energy for little return.

I don't see how you can get to know someone like really KNOW someone without ya know talking to them. Listening to what they say, hearing their story and all that. Trying to understand them.

I reckon it's really hard to know yourself. Like really KNOW yourself ya know. And I think: how can someone really get to know me if I don't know myself?

And I kind of want that because that's ya know what intimacy is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few know the "real" me, who I am, what I'm all about, inside and out!

Some even know my real name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’m not close enough with anyone on here for them to know me well. People probably have their assumptions on the type of person I am and that’s fine, it doesn’t bother me too much what others think of me, I’m likely never going to meet them in real life anyway.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Only 1 has ever been allowed in to know me completely and she will remain the only one to ever know me completely the rest of my life

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

One fella does. We had sex together for about a year or so. That was quite the session!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Only two people on here know me. The rest know what I want them to know

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"One fella does. We had sex together for about a year or so. That was quite the session!

Talk about stamina!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nobody knows me,,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People get the impression of me that is coloured by their experiences and tastes. I don't think anyone can give or get a 'right' impression.

I have no idea of the impression I give and I do don't want to know, it would be pointless because I wouldn't be able to change it

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Some people on here know me. Other people on here don't know me. Some people think I'm amazing. Other people think I'm a twat. Some people think I've got a face like the back end of a bus. Other people think I've got a face like the front end of a bus. Some people think that I make valuable contributions. Other people are wrong. Some people think that I'm fabulous at the sex thing and are desperate to wrap their legs round me to experience mutual ecstasy. Other people are not bonkers.

Some people want to meet me. Other people want to meet me but haven't realised it yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?

Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.

But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?

Those that know, know.

The rest get the surface level cocky prick.

So deep. Like an onion. At the bottom of the sea.

Layers and shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only what they think they know. I reckon unless you meet up and spend time with someone, they only make up their image of you. Some get the privilege of getting to know you more over time.

If they then still like who they find is another question altogether.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to portray myself as a random internet dickhead but in real life I’m really a really nice guy.

The mr

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Only a handful of people on here really know me, but I’d like to think I’m the face to face as I am on here.

Only the people I’ve met can back up this claim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say one or two people on here know the real me. I’m not that different from my forum persona but I can be a lot more caring. This is already too serious for me… boobs, fart, nipple tassels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say one or two people on here know the real me. I’m not that different from my forum persona but I can be a lot more caring. This is already too serious for me… boobs, fart, nipple tassels."

Also… apart from those couple of people I really don’t care what people think of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a couple of people on here that know me and I like to think I know them pretty well too. Obviously they are both awesome, hardworking unique people that I have oodles of love and respect for, that's why I'm drawn to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

If there isn't more to you than a few quickly chosen words on a screen, well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care - mostly it's just strangers in my pocket.. I certainly don't look for their validation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to know but I can’t say that we act or speak differently on here to what we do in real life. It’s a tough one as people perceive the same thing in a lot of different way ways.

We’ve chatted to people outside of this and they’ve been nothing like what’s portrayed on here and we’ve spoken to some away from here that were exactly the same as they are on here.

So to summarise.. I don’t know

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Before people meet me they presume I’m intimidating or think I’m going to be up my self which is far from the reality! On here you’re just a series of images- people who don’t take the time to get to know you will come up with their own ideas about anyway.

One person knows me exceptionally well and a few others know what I allow them too, I’m wary of who I let in x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

On the forums? Not at all.

They see aspects of my true self but it’s all what I’m comfortable with them seeing. None of it is false or fabricated but it’s not all of me.

My friends from here, partners, people that I’ve met, they know me and I’m lucky that they want to keep me in their lives (mostly).

No one can really know the whole you from words on a screen

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think people think I'm more outgoing than I am, I'm fairly quiet.

It also depends on the environment, I've chatted to people on here to meet and not enjoyed the night for whatever reasons obviously the night isn't as upbeat as a night that had gone well.

For me totally depends on the environment and how comfortable I am with the people I'm with.

It can be easy to click with people online then in person not so much and others I've met at socials and wouldn't have looked at their profile had I seen it 1st.

I really don't care if people's opinions of me though it's easy to form opinions of people you've not met it's also easy to have certain expectations from your own perception of them which isn't always correct.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don't

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

No, of course they don’t know me.

Most people I meet IRL off the forums are pleasantly surprised with me… haha I suppose I whinge a lot on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That will be five strong 'no' replies...

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I don't really care - mostly it's just strangers in my pocket.. I certainly don't look for their validation "
I'd like to validate you

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't even know me most of the time, so good luck to anyone else who thinks they can work me out!

Jo.Xx

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By *icker20.Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Hmmm

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I don't even know me most of the time, so good luck to anyone else who thinks they can work me out!

Jo.Xx

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aye oop lass

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Of course not. No one here really knows me. They only see a small slice of part of me.

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By *lphahouseMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like to think I come across as kind and happy to other people. I think if you cared what people thought all the time though, it would send you mad!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’d like to think there’s a few people who I class as friends who I reckon if you asked them they’d say they feel they know me.

That’s a long winded way of saying yes.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I dont care. Its one of the Joys of growing older.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

As you get older you care less and feel people can take you as they find you. I don't put on an act for anyone

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