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By *illagaz OP   Man
over a year ago

yeovil

So is it the way I look or how my profile reads. I chat nicely I chat dirty but it’s like I am the invisible man. Sensible answers only.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Who said that come out ...!

Tis the way .!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't be attractive to everyone, you just have to find 1, or maybe 2, personally I think 3 is a good number.

It takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age thing will also be a big problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can't be attractive to everyone, you just have to find 1, or maybe 2, personally I think 3 is a good number.

It takes time."

3, it’s the magic number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All comes down to personal preference. Just keep at it and you’ll find someone that takes a look and will think that’s going straight in my basket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can't be attractive to everyone, you just have to find 1, or maybe 2, personally I think 3 is a good number.

It takes time.

3, it’s the magic number "

It's a good number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing will also be a big problem "

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"The age thing will also be a big problem

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP "

I think that neither matching the implied birthyear of the username would be an extra extra red flag for me.

But, OP, there is no formula. Everyone is different. Read profiles, only message the people you genuinely want to connect with that you match the preferences of. And women on here are overwhelmed with both nice and dirty messages in varying amounts of impersonal messages. Remember you're trying to connect with a whole human.

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By *illagaz OP   Man
over a year ago

yeovil


"We can't be attractive to everyone, you just have to find 1, or maybe 2, personally I think 3 is a good number.

It takes time."

Will you be my number 2 then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing will also be a big problem

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP "

Yup !

1959 In my book makes OP 53.

Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s his dads account, he just messaged me to let me know he is as young as he says he is. Promise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing will also be a big problem

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP

Yup !

1959 In my book makes OP 53.

Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse."

I’ve got my abacus out. Computer says no?

Anyway, good luck OP, keep visible in the forums, attend socials and or clubs and the successometer needle with be pointing North!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing will also be a big problem

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP

Yup !

1959 In my book makes OP 53.

Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse."

I got 64 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age thing will put nearly every one off. You are better off contacting admin to get it change and then take some better pictures.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Yeah your profile is all over the place with age dates etc, maybe get in touch with admin and see what can be changed. Otherwise maybe bite the bullet and start again with your correct age.

The inconsistency is a massive red flag to many because our spideysense says if you can’t tell the truth about your age, what else are you lying about?

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"The age thing will also be a big problem

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP

Yup !

1959 In my book makes OP 53.

Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse."

Well I'm 54 and I was born in 1968! So the OP can't be 53

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plot twist, he forgot what he was doing and put4 of his lottery numbers on the end of his profile username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing will also be a big problem

This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP

Yup !

1959 In my book makes OP 53.

Yes 64 Dont know how I got53

Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse.

I got 64 lol "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You need to look at all the other posts from single men who struggle. Typically nothing wrong with them. Occasionally unrealistic expectations though. ..

You have to sell yourself m. Look at the posts that guide on this. And give people photos so they could assess if they find you attractive

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