FabSwingers.com forum: Oral seems to be underwhelming

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

According to a recent study of fabbers, many fabbers seem to agree that oral performed on them is quite underwhelming and/ or boring.

So shall we collectively agree to stop doing it? To make for better meets? Let us know and we’ll send out the memo.

Thanks all.

Sydney. X

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Nope. Love oral

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Use. Your. Words.

Ask, communicate

Yours, Queensland (Brisbane)

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By *rive u crazyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

True. Can’t find ladies that still appreciate receiving oral attentions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stop doing it just learn.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope, not stopping it's my favourite thing to do and I'm sure the Mr wouldn't be impressed if I stopped

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"True. Can’t find ladies that still appreciate receiving oral attentions"

Depends on the woman. I get better orgasms via other means. Different people like different things and that's ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry."

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We should start a MOOC for oral skills. Too many don't know what they're doing so it's shit. So better to have none.

I adore giving a BJ, so I'm not going to want to quit that

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By *rive u crazyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry."

Same here, just not with a Willy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use. Your. Words.

Ask, communicate

Yours, Queensland (Brisbane)"

Sounds like an Adelaide to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should start a MOOC for oral skills. Too many don't know what they're doing so it's shit. So better to have none.

I adore giving a BJ, so I'm not going to want to quit that

I adore Lots of things. Doesn’t mean I’m good at them

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I give a fuck what he wants. But if he doesn't want my mouth on his peen then chances are we aren't compatible. Because I absolutely love giving head. And I just stopped myself from going into way too much detail there.

Let's be proud of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"True. Can’t find ladies that still appreciate receiving oral attentions"

All they want is focki focki like a fox.

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By *hrops56Man
over a year ago

Telford

Chance would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

Let's be proud of me

Girl!!! Go you!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We should start a MOOC for oral skills. Too many don't know what they're doing so it's shit. So better to have none.

I adore giving a BJ, so I'm not going to want to quit that

I adore Lots of things. Doesn’t mean I’m good at them

I'm out if there's no oral

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Use. Your. Words.

Ask, communicate

Yours, Queensland (Brisbane)

Sounds like an Adelaide to me

I'm not sure how you mistake Brisvegas for Adelaide

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)"

That's the badger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)"

Hmmmm.

Makes sense.

Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Sounds great

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Overrated, yes absolutely. But still enjoyable. If oral is not an option then I won't feel like I've missed out.

Actually, thinking about it. Reciving oral as a form of foreplay and teasing, just to building up excitement and anticipation more, I enjoy that. But oral as the whole act with intent to cum, I don't find it all that exciting.

I do enjoying giving more than receiving. But it's about the selflessness side of it, causing pleasure for somebody else without the need to expect in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

Receiving oral is one of my favourite things. I enjoy that more than actually having sex sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should stress early that I’m winding people up. Look, I’m not a huge fan of BJs but I’m not going to say no to one. I’m not a idiot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not

Receiving oral is one of my favourite things. I enjoy that more than actually having sex sometimes. "

I know. I wrote a note on your profile after your comments on last night’s thread.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)

Hmmmm.

Makes sense.

Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like? "

For sure. But I'm happy for a guy to go down on me (a bit!) if it makes him happy. Making him happy is part of what I'm trying to achieve and part of what gives me pleasure. It's not just "do X act for Y physical response"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm down with this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)

Hmmmm.

Makes sense.

Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?

I didn’t have you down as the ‘do things to make a man happy’ kinda person and so it’s disappointing to read this

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

Let's be proud of me

You are such a good girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm down with this.

Oh I knew you would be

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I'm down with this.

But not going down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds great "

Let’s shake on it to agree!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Meets.

Bleurgh.

And no, I'm not going to stop. The people I meet really enjoy oral from me, to the point where they ask me to do it in various sexy ways. If someone didn't like it I wouldn't do it - sex isn't a tasting menu where you have to enjoy every course put in front on you.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I'm down with this.

I'll do your oral for you.

That didn't sound like I expected.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)

Hmmmm.

Makes sense.

Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?

I didn’t have you down as the ‘do things to make a man happy’ kinda person and so it’s disappointing to read this

Being attuned to the desires of the person I'm fucking, and submitting to the patriarchy. Kind of not the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm down with this.

I'll do your oral for you.

That didn't sound like I expected."

Am I pimping guys out to you or.......

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Dear Sydney,

can we please collectively agree, LEAVE THE ORAL ALONE.

Sincerely,

Dee

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i cant live without oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On second thoughts, can we keep the guy on guy oral?

Rather fond of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.

It’s giving - Fuck what he wants

I think there's an element of compromise?

If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.

(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)

Hmmmm.

Makes sense.

Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?

I didn’t have you down as the ‘do things to make a man happy’ kinda person and so it’s disappointing to read this

Being attuned to the desires of the person I'm fucking, and submitting to the patriarchy. Kind of not the same thing?

Ok if you say soooooo

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I'm down with this.

But not going down."

Are you going down swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm down with this.

I'll do your oral for you.

That didn't sound like I expected.

Am I pimping guys out to you or......."

Remember pimp my ride?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Its not the act its the person

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When it's done by someone who enjoys giving it's very satisfying.

I don't care about the orgasm,it's all about feeling the tongue on my most sensitive area.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"On second thoughts, can we keep the guy on guy oral?

Rather fond of that. "

Seconded.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I'm down with this.

I'll do your oral for you.

That didn't sound like I expected.

Am I pimping guys out to you or......."

Ooh. Yes. But im not paying.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"On second thoughts, can we keep the guy on guy oral?

Rather fond of that.

Seconded."

Thirded.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"On second thoughts, can we keep the guy on guy oral?

Rather fond of that. "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When it's done by someone who enjoys giving it's very satisfying.

I don't care about the orgasm,it's all about feeling the tongue on my most sensitive area.

Noted.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Depends on whos doing it for me.

The visualisation, their skill, imagination, technique and enjoyment all become part of the entire experience.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

I’ve removed it from my interests. Actually I’ve removed all my interests. I’m not interested.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm down with this.

But not going down.

Are you going down swinging?"

https://youtu.be/bQU5dYDt7-U

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm down with this.

But not going down.

Are you going down swinging?

https://youtu.be/bQU5dYDt7-U"

https://youtu.be/1XmwiwQjU8E

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve removed it from my interests. Actually I’ve removed all my interests. I’m not interested. "

I’m interested

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"I’ve removed it from my interests. Actually I’ve removed all my interests. I’m not interested.

I’m interested"

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