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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is facial attraction the most important thing to physical attraction for you? Can you fall for someone before seeing their face? And if so, does their face ruin that?

Could you sleep with anyone?

(Asking for my ugly friend)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s important to me.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure, the rest remains a mystery to unfold live life on the edge I say

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Is facial attraction the most important thing to physical attraction for you? Can you fall for someone before seeing their face? And if so, does their face ruin that?

Could you sleep with anyone?

(Asking for my ugly friend) "

It's important because people's personalities shape their face. There's so many tells to who someone is in their face.

If someone is conventionally attractive but a spiteful person, it will leave its mark in their face which I find very unattractive.

If someone isn't conventionally attractive but they are genuinely warm it will also show in their face which I do find attractive.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends on the situation and what's the dealings.

But yes, face is usually for the majority the make or break part of physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x"

Same. Sounds bad but it’s true

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

This is a bit difficult to answer, at the very least the face has not got to turn you off. If there's a good vibe through messaging then I would like to meet in person, alot of people look much better in real life than in their photo. Then attraction can build through talking and hopefully having a laugh.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

If she has no face how can i fuck it

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Oh, face is very important. I liveca kind and attractive face on a person,

male or female, to find them attractive. This is why just sending me dick pics won't suddenly have me clamouring to jump your bones.

(I realise I'm no oil painting, so this may be somewhat hypocritical).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how good the body is

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x

Same. Sounds bad but it’s true"

I think it's very human. You find yourself in a situation... You like them as a person... You don't want to make them feel bad...

I wouldn't now, though.

Sorry, totally haven't answered your question!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"You don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire "

You do if you're poking the fire with your groin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look like the baddie from the Goonies, I need to take what I can get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly important

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Very important to me, if I don't like the face I ain't kissing it.

Mrs

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I look like the baddie from the Goonies, I need to take what I can get!"

Mama Fratelli?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how good the body is "

This isn’t a couple! THIS IS A MAN!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x

Same. Sounds bad but it’s true

I think it's very human. You find yourself in a situation... You like them as a person... You don't want to make them feel bad...

I wouldn't now, though.

Sorry, totally haven't answered your question! "

Agree. Peng tings only now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look like the baddie from the Goonies, I need to take what I can get!

Mama Fratelli? "

even that's punching

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Yeah its important, couldn't shag a complete goblin. But personality is definitely much more important for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how good the body is

This isn’t a couple! THIS IS A MAN!

"

I’ve been rumbled

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Very important! No facial attraction then it's a no no x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I can't sleep with just anyone no. I do need to feel an attraction, which includes facially, as I like to kiss, and kissing is a big part of getting intimate with someone for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need to find the face attractive. It's a big deal for me.

I really don't understand the fabbers that want to get to know you first before showing you their face. At which point it could be a total no go...and then what? I guess they argue you got along and you're then shallow for binning them based on looks.

Truth of it is attraction is a massive part of it and that includes the physical attraction.

If I got on with someone before seeing their face and then didn't find their face attractive they automatically go in the friend zone.

But a face pic is just a still life pic. I need the expression, mannerism, the way they talk, look at you, hold themselves and so on.

I actually find it quite hard on here as a result.

Call me shallow. I need someone I want to kiss,their face has to be attractive to have me want to kiss them. And isn't a kiss where it starts?

I'll shut up now, sorry for the essay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely need to find the face attractive. It's a big deal for me.

I really don't understand the fabbers that want to get to know you first before showing you their face. At which point it could be a total no go...and then what? I guess they argue you got along and you're then shallow for binning them based on looks.

Truth of it is attraction is a massive part of it and that includes the physical attraction.

If I got on with someone before seeing their face and then didn't find their face attractive they automatically go in the friend zone.

But a face pic is just a still life pic. I need the expression, mannerism, the way they talk, look at you, hold themselves and so on.

I actually find it quite hard on here as a result.

Call me shallow. I need someone I want to kiss,their face has to be attractive to have me want to kiss them. And isn't a kiss where it starts?

I'll shut up now, sorry for the essay. "

Essays are always welcome in my threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its important, couldn't shag a complete goblin. But personality is definitely much more important for me x"

Goblin

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Facial attractiveness is probably my number one thing I am attracted to. Body/genitals etc I find less important, but I really need to fancy someone's face to want to have sex with them.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Facial attraction is important for me.

In saying that ,a person can become more attractive to me the more I get to know them ,but there has to be something there in the first place.

I don't think I could kiss a face I didn't fancy

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they looked like Jimmy Savile or Holly Willoughby then it would be a no.

Otherwise I'd need to see them in real life. Pics don't represent the real whole person and sometimes people look different when they don't have a black & white filter and bunny ears.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's probably the single most important factor for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most important

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they looked like Jimmy Savile or Holly Willoughby then it would be a no.

Otherwise I'd need to see them in real life. Pics don't represent the real whole person and sometimes people look different when they don't have a black & white filter and bunny ears."

If you saw their pics, would you recognise them in real life do you think?

Also agree, Holly Willoughby is not it.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just gonna have to be honest and admit that if someone doesn't have a face, I'm definitely not gonna fuck them.

I think I would actually be a bit scared too

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Very important... if there's no initial attraction then I wouldn't be able to kiss or go any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head"
that’s nice

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice"

No, no, he has got a point.

He is out of line, but he is right.

Damn...its not the same without the actual meme pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facial attraction is important for me.

In saying that ,a person can become more attractive to me the more I get to know them ,but there has to be something there in the first place.

I don't think I could kiss a face I didn't fancy

Em x"

I agree with this.

Of course there has to be the initial attraction but someone can become even more attractive the more I get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head"

If this was QI I’d sound the alarm

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice"

OK, a bag over my head so I can’t see her

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head

If this was QI I’d sound the alarm "

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By *alverncpleCouple
over a year ago

malvern

Very important

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

It's important. For sure, people can become more attractive over time as I get to know them, but I'll probably -almost certainly - have liked their face from the outset.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

It’s important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice"

He would poke eye and mouth holes into it. He’s not a monster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd look even more gruesome without one. It keeps all my eyes only head etc....

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

Face is the most important thing for me above everything else. Bodies I don't mind different shapes and sizes but if they had the body of a god but not an attractive face then I couldn't overcome that.

M x

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

(Mr)

I appreciate attractive feature, but also appreciate the thrill of anonymity. I have been tied blindfold to a cross by Miss and had strangers in the clubs touch, lick and suck me. Senses go crazy when you don't know.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

For me facial attraction is paramount (yes I’m that shallow, but I own it! ). It’s always tricky if you’ve messaged someone for a while and then see the face pic and it’s a total turn off So no, I couldn’t and wouldn’t sleep with anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me facial attraction is paramount (yes I’m that shallow, but I own it! ). It’s always tricky if you’ve messaged someone for a while and then see the face pic and it’s a total turn off So no, I couldn’t and wouldn’t sleep with anyone "

Not sleeping with anyone sounds like celibacy?

Do you think I have a pretty face?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice

He would poke eye and mouth holes into it. He’s not a monster."

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Initial attraction for me is a combination of everything.

A pretty face and a shit personality is less attractive than a less pretty face and a great personality.

But facial attraction is one of the first things that draws your eye.

I have met too many people with a banging body and a shit personality to be swayed by their body alone.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"For me facial attraction is paramount (yes I’m that shallow, but I own it! ). It’s always tricky if you’ve messaged someone for a while and then see the face pic and it’s a total turn off So no, I couldn’t and wouldn’t sleep with anyone

Not sleeping with anyone sounds like celibacy?

Do you think I have a pretty face? "

I am celibate, didn’t I mention this?

And you already know you have a pretty face

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Is facial attraction the most important thing to physical attraction for you? Can you fall for someone before seeing their face? And if so, does their face ruin that?

Could you sleep with anyone?

(Asking for my ugly friend) "

I can't no. I need to see them. But in that i fell for my present partner way before we accually met up. But we did message and eventually video call before we met up but by then i was well hooked on him. Best decision of my life meeting my fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively important, I can't bring myself to cum on them if its an ugly one.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

What i mean is it's not just about looks, personality and how they act emotionally towards you is far more important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me facial attraction is paramount (yes I’m that shallow, but I own it! ). It’s always tricky if you’ve messaged someone for a while and then see the face pic and it’s a total turn off So no, I couldn’t and wouldn’t sleep with anyone

Not sleeping with anyone sounds like celibacy?

Do you think I have a pretty face?

I am celibate, didn’t I mention this?

And you already know you have a pretty face"

Yeah I do know. But I like it when you stroke my… *cough* ego.

Alexa, play Ego by Beyoncé.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Initial attraction for me is a combination of everything.

A pretty face and a shit personality is less attractive than a less pretty face and a great personality.

But facial attraction is one of the first things that draws your eye.

I have met too many people with a banging body and a shit personality to be swayed by their body alone."

So true, personality is definitely an important part of attraction.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Initial attraction for me is a combination of everything.

A pretty face and a shit personality is less attractive than a less pretty face and a great personality.

But facial attraction is one of the first things that draws your eye.

I have met too many people with a banging body and a shit personality to be swayed by their body alone."

True. Not all the beautiful are nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial attraction is very important to me as it can provide that initial attraction. However, I do find some people more attractive when I meet them and get to know their personality and various facial expressions to go along with it. It's why I find it tough to judge purely on a photo.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Facial attraction is important, eyes and smiles connect me. These and someone’s soul attract me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Facial attraction is important, eyes and smiles connect me. These and someone’s soul attract me. "

I have a great smile apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to see all "big 3" around the same time ideally; face, body and emerging personality characteristics. I don't want to be attracted only to one of those and hope that the rest will match expectations as we chat along. I don't want to feel anyone is compromising because of some attachment made along too many words spoken or too many expectations build. And if I'm honest yes I do want them to fancy all 3 about me as well but body takes over priority as we shall be naked together at some point. Maybe if I looked for emotional attachments it would have been different but that's not the case.

Tones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they looked like Jimmy Savile or Holly Willoughby then it would be a no.

Otherwise I'd need to see them in real life. Pics don't represent the real whole person and sometimes people look different when they don't have a black & white filter and bunny ears.

If you saw their pics, would you recognise them in real life do you think?

Also agree, Holly Willoughby is not it. "

I would walk past them if they were wearing a different tshirt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they looked like Jimmy Savile or Holly Willoughby then it would be a no.

Otherwise I'd need to see them in real life. Pics don't represent the real whole person and sometimes people look different when they don't have a black & white filter and bunny ears.

If you saw their pics, would you recognise them in real life do you think?

Also agree, Holly Willoughby is not it.

I would walk past them if they were wearing a different tshirt. "

There’s no doubt in my mind you’re a fake

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


".

True. Not all the beautiful are nice people. "

Amber Heard. Looks beautiful, but likely to hit you with a bottle and shit the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".

True. Not all the beautiful are nice people.

Amber Heard. Looks beautiful, but likely to hit you with a bottle and shit the bed. "

Still would.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


".

True. Not all the beautiful are nice people.

Amber Heard. Looks beautiful, but likely to hit you with a bottle and shit the bed.

Still would."

She's a hard no, I'd rather go down on the Titanic.

.

The pair of you, however mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".

True. Not all the beautiful are nice people.

Amber Heard. Looks beautiful, but likely to hit you with a bottle and shit the bed.

Still would.

She's a hard no, I'd rather go down on the Titanic.

.

The pair of you, however mmmm"

Can Amber Heard join?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

His face is what arouses me, so it's of utmost Importantance to me

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Quite important but no point in being pretty with no personality either

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By *dventuresWithEveWoman
over a year ago

SW Birmingham outskirts

Very important, eyes being windows to the soul etc...and then there's a sensual, kissable mouth to check out....yes, faces are very important to me

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield

pretty important to a extent but what i like other's may not and vice versa!

the main thing about the face to me is the eyes and smile! that's the critical bit for me personally... cute smile and eyes that just grab ya and I'm gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x"

This. I can only hope everyone who's ever been with me has genuinely fancied me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x"

I did once, never again

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We both want to fancy the people we fuck and want them to fancy us as well. It does mean that sometimes it is hard to find a couple where we all fancy each other, so single guys (or ladies) can be easier to find

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not the face not the face!

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Face please, nice eyes and naughty smile

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If she’s got a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle then I’d just bum her doggy style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she’s got a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle then I’d just bum her doggy style "

Cover the face, slam the base?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If she’s got a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle then I’d just bum her doggy style

Cover the face, slam the base?"

But for the love of all that is holy do NOT get the two mixed up.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Attraction is paramount including facial attraction. I’ve slept with people without any attraction on my part and didn’t get that rush.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


".

True. Not all the beautiful are nice people.

Amber Heard. Looks beautiful, but likely to hit you with a bottle and shit the bed.

Still would.

She's a hard no, I'd rather go down on the Titanic.

.

The pair of you, however mmmm

Can Amber Heard join?"

You can ask her, she can be at the other end of the room, bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't have sex with a headless body.

F

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Face is the most important bit to me.

I only would ever have sex with someone I find aesthetically attractive x

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Absolutely huge for me. It's not just a still image though. I need the experience in person, their expressions the eye contact to get the full effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face is as important as the body and the personality.

I need all 3.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's most important to me .

I say no if I'm not attracted to their face ,even if they have a good body.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Very very important. If theres no attraction face wise then there's no point in a meet in my mind.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Thankfully beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Which means there is someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important to us.

One of our pics shows exactly why to me.... looking into those eyes...

Jay

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Not very cause it’s only going to get full of jizz when I’ve finished anyway

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice

He would poke eye and mouth holes into it. He’s not a monster."

Have you met him?!

Also faces are super important!

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head"

Never knew little dick energy was thing its just as nasty as big dick energy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice

He would poke eye and mouth holes into it. He’s not a monster.

Have you met him?!

Also faces are super important!"

Yours

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head

Never knew little dick energy was thing its just as nasty as big dick energy"

You wouldn’t like it as a wart on the end of your nose

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I absolutely have to love the face, accent, body and personality. Amazed I ever meet these men,but I do find them

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Who cares when she’s got a bag over her head that’s nice

He would poke eye and mouth holes into it. He’s not a monster.

Have you met him?!

Also faces are super important!

Yours "

Mine is definitely face shaped

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Face is very important

A nice body is great, but if they have a face like a bag of spanners it just ruins it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face first, it’s what catches my eye, a great smile and beautiful eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They definitely have to have a face. Just weird otherwise.

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

Face and personality, so important to me for any kind of attraction. Body type I’m not so bothered about. I need to be drawn in by the words and the eyes the most! Hands strangely is something I look at too, so I know what I’m going to have touching me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say face and personality is important to me.

I've spoken to fellas having not seen their face pics but they have very nice bods and find I'm not attracted to them when I see their face. I don't mean the fella is ugly (before I get some weird feedback!), I'm simply not attracted to them.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

It's important as their personality for me. I need to feel i have a connection with someone before i want to have sex with them

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Yeah both as important

Might have awesome personality but if I’m not attracted to their looks aswell it won’t work

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It's extremely important to me. I absolutely must find a man's face attractive as I love lots of eye contact

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

Extremely important, what exactly am I meant to sit on if they don't have a face?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in a position where I was chatting to guy for ages and we only shared body pics. We agreed to meet for a social as I felt like we clicked when chatting. Before rhe social we finally decided to share a face pic. I was kinda disappointed with how he looked but decided to go a head with the social meet as we genuinely got along great. I headed off to meet him thinking it will just be the one meet. After spending ages chatting to him I realised I was actually still attracted to him. We went on to meet afterwards and it was some of the best sex I've ever had.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I've been in a position where I was chatting to guy for ages and we only shared body pics. We agreed to meet for a social as I felt like we clicked when chatting. Before rhe social we finally decided to share a face pic. I was kinda disappointed with how he looked but decided to go a head with the social meet as we genuinely got along great. I headed off to meet him thinking it will just be the one meet. After spending ages chatting to him I realised I was actually still attracted to him. We went on to meet afterwards and it was some of the best sex I've ever had. "

He has to have amazing personality and chemistry for me to feel that way about a guy. I need to enjoy looking the guy's face as i fuck or suck him

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Depends on the situation. I can warm to a face when I get to know someone's personality, I can't warm to certain personality traits. I had a fuck buddy who has a really pretty face, gorgeous. But some questionable behaviour made him appear ugly to me , does that make sense? So I don't wanna fuck him anymore.

I once fucked a guy without seeing his face first, it was weirdly hot

Would I fuck anyone ? Hell no

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Personality and face are everything for me, nothing else matters

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

It depends. On instant attraction it’s essential. But, I prefer chatting and getting to know someone first before doing the face pic thing, because if we flow really naturally it doesn’t actually matter

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course, it’s important that the first thing you see in the real world.

But also face pics are a must, because it saves a lot of time

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have like looking into it when he's on top.

I also have to like who he is; regardless of his face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is facial attraction the most important thing to physical attraction for you? Can you fall for someone before seeing their face? And if so, does their face ruin that?

Could you sleep with anyone?

(Asking for my ugly friend)

It's important because people's personalities shape their face. There's so many tells to who someone is in their face.

If someone is conventionally attractive but a spiteful person, it will leave its mark in their face which I find very unattractive.

If someone isn't conventionally attractive but they are genuinely warm it will also show in their face which I do find attractive."

Food for thought! Preach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pick a pretty face over other things (body, etc)...

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face "

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

In the pub a few months ago a man I was chatting to who is a friend of a friend said he was liking me more the more we spoke.

I blamed the beer, but he disagreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in a position where I was chatting to guy for ages and we only shared body pics. We agreed to meet for a social as I felt like we clicked when chatting. Before rhe social we finally decided to share a face pic. I was kinda disappointed with how he looked but decided to go a head with the social meet as we genuinely got along great. I headed off to meet him thinking it will just be the one meet. After spending ages chatting to him I realised I was actually still attracted to him. We went on to meet afterwards and it was some of the best sex I've ever had.

He has to have amazing personality and chemistry for me to feel that way about a guy. I need to enjoy looking the guy's face as i fuck or suck him "

Yah I'd be the same. I suppose the chemistry and way he held himself made him attractive. He actually looked better in person too so I guess my point is that I'm glad I didn't say no just because I didn't. Like his pic.

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

A nice body would win over the face as its not like your having a full on relationship and there is always an option to turn the lights down

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!"

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the pub a few months ago a man I was chatting to who is a friend of a friend said he was liking me more the more we spoke.

I blamed the beer, but he disagreed."

And what happened next, Nanna?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you."

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

As important as the rest or even more. It has been scientifically proven that most of people look at faces while watching porn.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"In the pub a few months ago a man I was chatting to who is a friend of a friend said he was liking me more the more we spoke.

I blamed the beer, but he disagreed.

And what happened next, Nanna?! "

We carried on chatting until it was time to go home.

It's one of those pubs where most people know each other or knows a few of the crowd and everyone chats to everyone.

His girlfriend was there too.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them "

Hadn't even written on my profile or put a single pic up when I first joined fab and the amount of desperate messages I got like this was astounding...a lot of men won't admit it but they couldn't care less about a face, it's the hole that is the goal...sorry for calling you out on it blokes. They'll say just turn the lights off!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them

Hadn't even written on my profile or put a single pic up when I first joined fab and the amount of desperate messages I got like this was astounding...a lot of men won't admit it but they couldn't care less about a face, it's the hole that is the goal...sorry for calling you out on it blokes. They'll say just turn the lights off!"

I concur this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Jay 100% do.

I am a rather selective kinda guy though!

I think more with my head than I do with my cock tbf. The mind is where seduction begins!

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

Physical attraction is so subjective, I'd love to say a face doesn't matter much to me but if I'm not attracted to a face, I can't take it further, it's the deciding factor of whether or not to even speak to someone...In person it's different because personalities shine through more than online but I still won't take anything further if there isn't an initial attraction to somebody's face and especially the eyes...eye fucking is always on the agenda so they've got to be what I think is attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them

Hadn't even written on my profile or put a single pic up when I first joined fab and the amount of desperate messages I got like this was astounding...a lot of men won't admit it but they couldn't care less about a face, it's the hole that is the goal...sorry for calling you out on it blokes. They'll say just turn the lights off!"

We have been rumbled

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

It has to look comfy enough to sit on.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them

Hadn't even written on my profile or put a single pic up when I first joined fab and the amount of desperate messages I got like this was astounding...a lot of men won't admit it but they couldn't care less about a face, it's the hole that is the goal...sorry for calling you out on it blokes. They'll say just turn the lights off!

We have been rumbled"

A very long time ago, sunshine! The trick for women on Fab is to not let it go to their heads!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them

Hadn't even written on my profile or put a single pic up when I first joined fab and the amount of desperate messages I got like this was astounding...a lot of men won't admit it but they couldn't care less about a face, it's the hole that is the goal...sorry for calling you out on it blokes. They'll say just turn the lights off!

We have been rumbled

A very long time ago, sunshine! The trick for women on Fab is to not let it go to their heads!!"

I think it’s nice to know the parts of us we do show off on here are appreciated but always got to stay grounded. If you haven’t seen my face, you don’t know I’m hot. One guy called me the hottest guy on this site and I was flattered but I also laughed out loud because I had no face pics up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say so many men ask me to meet them without ever asking for my face

Yep!!! I get messaged 'hello beautiful' when I don't have a face pic on show

I know full well that none of them would give me a 2nd glance if they passed me in the street!

Yup totally get that one. They say so much but do very little. Internet for you.

I know men do this that’s partly why I asked the question but as soon as I did I knew nobody would confess that faces don’t matter to them

Hadn't even written on my profile or put a single pic up when I first joined fab and the amount of desperate messages I got like this was astounding...a lot of men won't admit it but they couldn't care less about a face, it's the hole that is the goal...sorry for calling you out on it blokes. They'll say just turn the lights off!

We have been rumbled

A very long time ago, sunshine! The trick for women on Fab is to not let it go to their heads!!

I think it’s nice to know the parts of us we do show off on here are appreciated but always got to stay grounded. If you haven’t seen my face, you don’t know I’m hot. One guy called me the hottest guy on this site and I was flattered but I also laughed out loud because I had no face pics up. "

On the net manys imagination,lust,desires run wild of what they would like and may want in a dream make up! Not always in reality!

Real is very far apart from dreaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have slept with people who I didn't find that attractive in the past. Never worth it.

Mrs TMN x"

If you’re asleep with the offending boat does it really matter?

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over a year ago

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By *abbum69Man
over a year ago

Croydon

Personally I need to see the face, I think you can get a much better feeling about the person if you see there eyes (the window into the sole) so to speake, I think that's much more important than what there body is like

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

For me, I'd rather see a face than a cock... yes the face is THE most important, and I want to see those eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely all about mutual attraction, quality over quality for us. X"

Interesting hypothesis!

Visual aesthetics and in particular facial attraction is surely in the eye of the beholder? How would one judge quality, nice eyes, square jaw or full head of hair?

As Aristotle once said “Beauty is a thin veil that masks the soul and appeases the shallow”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I need to see the face, I think you can get a much better feeling about the person if you see there eyes (the window into the sole) so to speake, I think that's much more important than what there body is like"

If the eyes are the window to the sole you must be lying down?

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

*may not

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing."

Totally this ^

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The face is part of the whole package so yes I/we would have to be attracted to the person but there is so much more to attraction than just looks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing."

No but if the face pic isn’t attractive then it’s just not gonna work for me. The face isn’t the only thing that matters but no attraction means it’s just a friend vibe

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Face is important as there has to be a general attraction for me to consider investing my time in a conversation. A guy doesn’t have to be Brad Pitt but well kept and presentable is important.

A poorly taken picture though, however attractive he is, is an instant turn off and a no go for me x

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I do love a pretty face and it probably would be a deal breaker…….Many a time I’ve been driving and seen a drop dead gorgeous body and thought I’d fuck that and screamed inside when I’ve seen the face….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing."

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love a pretty face and it probably would be a deal breaker…….Many a time I’ve been driving and seen a drop dead gorgeous body and thought I’d fuck that and screamed inside when I’ve seen the face…. "

Be careful of starting into mirrors as the reflection could easily offend!

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

No but if the face pic isn’t attractive then it’s just not gonna work for me. The face isn’t the only thing that matters but no attraction means it’s just a friend vibe "

How many friends have fallen in love. How many friends have become lovers. How many friends have remained just friend because they weren’t attracted to each other at first and never spoke up.

It’s a topic that really has no boundaries. I think the face expectations are too high and get in the way of potentially amazing meets. I know people haven’t got time to waste or socials and meets with a face that doesn’t grab them instantly but what if that gorgeous face belongs to a crap personality? Time wasted? Still going to play?

I’d like to know the status quo on this.

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk


"This is a bit difficult to answer, at the very least the face has not got to turn you off. If there's a good vibe through messaging then I would like to meet in person, alot of people look much better in real life than in their photo. Then attraction can build through talking and hopefully having a laugh."

Sorry to be rude but why don’t you have pictures then ?

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening. "

What about an awesome face but a crap personality….still happening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

No but if the face pic isn’t attractive then it’s just not gonna work for me. The face isn’t the only thing that matters but no attraction means it’s just a friend vibe

How many friends have fallen in love. How many friends have become lovers. How many friends have remained just friend because they weren’t attracted to each other at first and never spoke up.

It’s a topic that really has no boundaries. I think the face expectations are too high and get in the way of potentially amazing meets. I know people haven’t got time to waste or socials and meets with a face that doesn’t grab them instantly but what if that gorgeous face belongs to a crap personality? Time wasted? Still going to play?

I’d like to know the status quo on this."

Simple. You go for the looks and personality. Why should you give up on one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is sexy. That said, my penis has none. I will fuck a consenting dying grandma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening. "

So by that reasoning whilst on a sojourn to an art gallery you would much rather view the Mona Lisa than a work of Pollocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

What about an awesome face but a crap personality….still happening?"

No, I want the face, body and personality. As I stated above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

So by that reasoning whilst on a sojourn to an art gallery you would much rather view the Mona Lisa than a work of Pollocks?"

I'd rather go to Costa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

No but if the face pic isn’t attractive then it’s just not gonna work for me. The face isn’t the only thing that matters but no attraction means it’s just a friend vibe

How many friends have fallen in love. How many friends have become lovers. How many friends have remained just friend because they weren’t attracted to each other at first and never spoke up.

It’s a topic that really has no boundaries. I think the face expectations are too high and get in the way of potentially amazing meets. I know people haven’t got time to waste or socials and meets with a face that doesn’t grab them instantly but what if that gorgeous face belongs to a crap personality? Time wasted? Still going to play?

I’d like to know the status quo on this."

Well I think if you send the face pic and then continue to get to know someone you can easily filter out people you don’t click with. Why not meet people you find attractive that are also a match personality wise?

I’ve fallen in love with friends but only ones I’ve found attractive. I think there’s certainly a thing here. Maybe Demisexuals feel different? I don’t know. But facial attraction is important to me

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"I do love a pretty face and it probably would be a deal breaker…….Many a time I’ve been driving and seen a drop dead gorgeous body and thought I’d fuck that and screamed inside when I’ve seen the face….

Be careful of starting into mirrors as the reflection could easily offend!"

Starting what exactly?

Also I don’t have mirrors as they keep breaking for some reason….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

So by that reasoning whilst on a sojourn to an art gallery you would much rather view the Mona Lisa than a work of Pollocks?

I'd rather go to Costa "

Ah, of course...........how silly of me! Flat white no doubt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love a pretty face and it probably would be a deal breaker…….Many a time I’ve been driving and seen a drop dead gorgeous body and thought I’d fuck that and screamed inside when I’ve seen the face….

Be careful of starting into mirrors as the reflection could easily offend!

Starting what exactly?

Also I don’t have mirrors as they keep breaking for some reason…. "

Sorry the pun is lost in to the annals of the Fab forum archive........I meant to type staring........bugger

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

No but if the face pic isn’t attractive then it’s just not gonna work for me. The face isn’t the only thing that matters but no attraction means it’s just a friend vibe

How many friends have fallen in love. How many friends have become lovers. How many friends have remained just friend because they weren’t attracted to each other at first and never spoke up.

It’s a topic that really has no boundaries. I think the face expectations are too high and get in the way of potentially amazing meets. I know people haven’t got time to waste or socials and meets with a face that doesn’t grab them instantly but what if that gorgeous face belongs to a crap personality? Time wasted? Still going to play?

I’d like to know the status quo on this.

Well I think if you send the face pic and then continue to get to know someone you can easily filter out people you don’t click with. Why not meet people you find attractive that are also a match personality wise?

I’ve fallen in love with friends but only ones I’ve found attractive. I think there’s certainly a thing here. Maybe Demisexuals feel different? I don’t know. But facial attraction is important to me"

I guess there’s no right or wrong answer. We all use fab and select partners / playmates in our own way. The current trend seems brutal tho, the send me a face pic demand then a demoralising block there after….yeah sure I’m speaking from experience, I’m not ashamed to admit it.

Guess it’s part of the o line way….no time for feelings, no time for emotions - just a brutal selection process.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Watch Naked Attraction and see if your choice changes when the faces are revealed - you have your answer!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A body that I love could very much make up for a face I'm not keen on, but l I have never had to make that trade-off. Luke

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

Very important, unless at a gloryhole

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

What about an awesome face but a crap personality….still happening?

No, I want the face, body and personality. As I stated above. "

But the face pic isn’t telling you all that is it?

You get sent the 10/10 face pic. The messages seem coherent and alluring, you decide on a social, he’s a gorgeous looking arrogant buffoon….what did the all important face pic tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

What about an awesome face but a crap personality….still happening?

No, I want the face, body and personality. As I stated above.

But the face pic isn’t telling you all that is it?

You get sent the 10/10 face pic. The messages seem coherent and alluring, you decide on a social, he’s a gorgeous looking arrogant buffoon….what did the all important face pic tell you?

"

The pictures tell me he's hot, the messaging and video calls tell me he has a good personality.

It's not hard.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Very important, unless at a gloryhole "

Very interesting subject and opens up a whole new conversation for obvious reasons.

Anyone care to open up on this???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

No but if the face pic isn’t attractive then it’s just not gonna work for me. The face isn’t the only thing that matters but no attraction means it’s just a friend vibe

How many friends have fallen in love. How many friends have become lovers. How many friends have remained just friend because they weren’t attracted to each other at first and never spoke up.

It’s a topic that really has no boundaries. I think the face expectations are too high and get in the way of potentially amazing meets. I know people haven’t got time to waste or socials and meets with a face that doesn’t grab them instantly but what if that gorgeous face belongs to a crap personality? Time wasted? Still going to play?

I’d like to know the status quo on this.

Well I think if you send the face pic and then continue to get to know someone you can easily filter out people you don’t click with. Why not meet people you find attractive that are also a match personality wise?

I’ve fallen in love with friends but only ones I’ve found attractive. I think there’s certainly a thing here. Maybe Demisexuals feel different? I don’t know. But facial attraction is important to me

I guess there’s no right or wrong answer. We all use fab and select partners / playmates in our own way. The current trend seems brutal tho, the send me a face pic demand then a demoralising block there after….yeah sure I’m speaking from experience, I’m not ashamed to admit it.

Guess it’s part of the o line way….no time for feelings, no time for emotions - just a brutal selection process."

Fab is a shallow plastic hallway populated by Philistines and the coarse a place where the good die like dogs in a gutter, there is also a negative side..........

It’s a joke before all the beautiful people get offended!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I can honestly say that I have never left my house without my face.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

If your out and about and people watching most of us wouldn’t think god their ugly let me go and talk to them to to see what their like on the inside….it’s sad but the face is genuinely what we see first and what generally attracts us.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sometimes I have both faces on before I leave the house but never no face. So it's pretty important

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I understand the need for a face pic but can that one dodgy selfie really be the reason for a delete and block? The face pic doesn’t tell you if the person is charming, funny, seductive, sexy / boring, arrogant, ignorant…..

I think good messaging and the ability to hold a conversation along with shared interests are more important to a potential social. The face May night be absolutely perfect for your fantasy meet but the owner of that slightly imperfect look might just be amazing.

They can have an awesome personality, but if there's no attraction, it ain't happening.

What about an awesome face but a crap personality….still happening?

No, I want the face, body and personality. As I stated above.

But the face pic isn’t telling you all that is it?

You get sent the 10/10 face pic. The messages seem coherent and alluring, you decide on a social, he’s a gorgeous looking arrogant buffoon….what did the all important face pic tell you?

The pictures tell me he's hot, the messaging and video calls tell me he has a good personality.

It's not hard. "

You’re simplifying it way to much….pictures messages video calls. Nothing tells one more about a person than actually meeting, eye contact, body language, dress sense, hygiene, their choice of scent. You got all that from FaceTiming for 10 minutes?

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