FabSwingers.com forum: do the forums make someone more or less attractive to you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well? Do they?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Depends what they're like in the forums. So both, I guess.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Both. Depends on how they come across. I used to like someone in the forums but they turned out to be a right real asshole.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Both for sure.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sort of. Since its a glimpse in to a part of their personality (or lack of) but it's far from the whole picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends what they're like in the forums. So both, I guess. "

I would agree 100%

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Sort of. Since its a glimpse in to a part of their personality (or lack of) but it's far from the whole picture. "

This entirely.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Of course, physical attraction only goes so far.

The mr

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It certainly can facilitate an added attraction based upon the persons forum persona and the manner in which they present themselves.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

But of both, photos can attract attention but it's the personality that keeps the attention going.

In the forums it's either I go off someone because of their views/posts or it's just made clear we aren't compatible or the opposite and it could be someone I've never looked at but come across great in the forums and attraction is formed.

Mrs

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Both

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

95% of the time they become less attractive

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Can defo be both! Gives you a little more idea of the person behind the profile... Which can be good or bad, depending on what you're looking for. What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums can be a good gauge of someone's personality and possible sense of humour...

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Depends what they're like in the forums. So both, I guess. "

Yeah exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can defo be both! Gives you a little more idea of the person behind the profile... Which can be good or bad, depending on what you're looking for. What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x"

Generally they have made people less attractive to me.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Can defo be both! Gives you a little more idea of the person behind the profile... Which can be good or bad, depending on what you're looking for. What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

Generally they have made people less attractive to me.

Is that a bad thing, though? If you find out you're not compatible rather than being bowled over by pics/profile?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Forums are a good filter for me! X

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Quick answer is Yes.

Depending on how someone interacts or the views they display, affects how attractive I find them.

If someone looks absolutely stunning, but displays vile or hateful views in the forums, then they instantly become unattractive to me.

Conversely, if someone I wasn’t sure about is funny, insightful or interesting in the forums, then they will become far more of an attraction to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have saidit can either attract or repel.

Or be neutral.

So, a totally non committal answer from me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As others have saidit can either attract or repel.

Or be neutral.

So, a totally non committal answer from me! "

Would you bang me if you hadn’t seen me in the forums?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can defo be both! Gives you a little more idea of the person behind the profile... Which can be good or bad, depending on what you're looking for. What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

Generally they have made people less attractive to me.

Is that a bad thing, though? If you find out you're not compatible rather than being bowled over by pics/profile?

True. But sometimes why can’t a 10/10 be a 10/10? For the fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you mean by attractive.

I can disagree with someone on one subject and agree on another. I like people who will give opinions no matter what they are. Not keen on beige.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Can defo be both! Gives you a little more idea of the person behind the profile... Which can be good or bad, depending on what you're looking for. What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

Generally they have made people less attractive to me.

Is that a bad thing, though? If you find out you're not compatible rather than being bowled over by pics/profile?

True. But sometimes why can’t a 10/10 be a 10/10? For the fuck

Ha! People are much more complicated than that as well you know

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Utterly! Many hotlisted profile's have been removed after seeing their posts.

Some have been added as well, but only if attractive to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Utterly! Many hotlisted profile's have been removed after seeing their posts.

Some have been added as well, but only if attractive to us."

Ditto...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on what you mean by attractive.

I can disagree with someone on one subject and agree on another. I like people who will give opinions no matter what they are. Not keen on beige. "

I’m Black. Not beige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you mean by attractive.

I can disagree with someone on one subject and agree on another. I like people who will give opinions no matter what they are. Not keen on beige.

I’m Black. Not beige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others have saidit can either attract or repel.

Or be neutral.

So, a totally non committal answer from me!

Would you bang me if you hadn’t seen me in the forums? "

I'd bang anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, but they have enabled me to have a lot more direct messages / chats with people on Fab than if I hadn’t interacted in the forums. Not just from other forum contributors but from lurkers that never post but message anyway.

And it’s THOSE chats that help me decide if I really like the cut of their jib or not.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on what you mean by attractive.

I can disagree with someone on one subject and agree on another. I like people who will give opinions no matter what they are. Not keen on beige.

I’m Black. Not beige.

You would totally get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As others have saidit can either attract or repel.

Or be neutral.

So, a totally non committal answer from me!

Would you bang me if you hadn’t seen me in the forums?

I'd bang anything"

You make me feel special

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes. "

I have never blocked a pretty girl in my life

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I use them as an additional filter so it's really down to them how attractive they want to appear to me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes. "

I've gone a step further and passed on them in kiss/fuck/pass threads because of their attitude elsewhere.

The collective intake of forum breath was palpable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I've gone a step further and passed on them in kiss/fuck/pass threads because of their attitude elsewhere.

The collective intake of forum breath was palpable "

That’s worthy of a forum ban. Don’t you know that the ONLY acceptable answer to ANY female respondent on such a thread is “fuck”?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Interesting point op, perhaps if I stopped posting I might get lucky

. Then again probably not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I've gone a step further and passed on them in kiss/fuck/pass threads because of their attitude elsewhere.

The collective intake of forum breath was palpable

That’s worthy of a forum ban. Don’t you know that the ONLY acceptable answer to ANY female respondent on such a thread is “fuck”?

It’s true. You’re not allowed to pass on women in here.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I've gone a step further and passed on them in kiss/fuck/pass threads because of their attitude elsewhere.

The collective intake of forum breath was palpable

That’s worthy of a forum ban. Don’t you know that the ONLY acceptable answer to ANY female respondent on such a thread is “fuck”?

Some of them deserve an additional 3 letter word after that.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I like that it can show me a bit more of their personality.

This can swing either way in terms of becoming more or less attracted to someone.

I've had messages in the past from attractive looking people,but having seen some of the shit they post on the forum it was an instant delete and block.

Status updates are another great filter,some of them are just

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I've gone a step further and passed on them in kiss/fuck/pass threads because of their attitude elsewhere.

The collective intake of forum breath was palpable

That’s worthy of a forum ban. Don’t you know that the ONLY acceptable answer to ANY female respondent on such a thread is “fuck”?

Some of them deserve an additional 3 letter word after that. "

Now

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I've gone a step further and passed on them in kiss/fuck/pass threads because of their attitude elsewhere.

The collective intake of forum breath was palpable

That’s worthy of a forum ban. Don’t you know that the ONLY acceptable answer to ANY female respondent on such a thread is “fuck”?

Some of them deserve an additional 3 letter word after that. "
I agree

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Quick answer is Yes.

Depending on how someone interacts or the views they display, affects how attractive I find them.

If someone looks absolutely stunning, but displays vile or hateful views in the forums, then they instantly become unattractive to me.

Conversely, if someone I wasn’t sure about is funny, insightful or interesting in the forums, then they will become far more of an attraction to me"

this the same for me .

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I think it facilitates any latent attraction, a picture only goes so far. Their personality can come through in their words, face to face is the final step. If you fail to stimulate our minds with your words, your penis will never get a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So. They’re 6 …but funny, intelligent and have some good stuff to say online… what are they now?

Or, they’re an 8/9 but show arrogance and seem like a bit of a nob online…?…

Is it this type of thing?

I’ve become amazingly attracted to someone over time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like that it can show me a bit more of their personality.

This can swing either way in terms of becoming more or less attracted to someone.

I've had messages in the past from attractive looking people,but having seen some of the shit they post on the forum it was an instant delete and block.

Status updates are another great filter,some of them are just

Oh Em, these new pics.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit."

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I like that it can show me a bit more of their personality.

This can swing either way in terms of becoming more or less attracted to someone.

I've had messages in the past from attractive looking people,but having seen some of the shit they post on the forum it was an instant delete and block.

Status updates are another great filter,some of them are just

Oh Em, these new pics.

Thank you, I was feeling myself a bit the last few days

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were. "

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here. "

I agree with this. My online personality is not all of my personality, but it is very much 100% true of whom I am alongside everything else that makes me, me.

Granted, online is easier to be a little more bold, a little less reserved but I'm not saying or doing things I'd not do or say to somebody else.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here. "

I don't think it's pretending, necessarily, more that it's difficult to get a full picture of someone through the written rather than spoken word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I formed an opinion about someone based on the forums, attraction doesn't really come into it first as it's more about whether I'd like them as a person. If I do, then attraction can come into it based on how good looking I find them and how they interact with others and myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like that it can show me a bit more of their personality.

This can swing either way in terms of becoming more or less attracted to someone.

I've had messages in the past from attractive looking people,but having seen some of the shit they post on the forum it was an instant delete and block.

Status updates are another great filter,some of them are just

Oh Em, these new pics.

Thank you, I was feeling myself a bit the last few days

I would like you to feel yourself some more

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here. "

Same yes ... No point in being anything other than yourself.. I'm just as much of a cheeky shit irl

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here.

I agree with this. My online personality is not all of my personality, but it is very much 100% true of whom I am alongside everything else that makes me, me.

Granted, online is easier to be a little more bold, a little less reserved but I'm not saying or doing things I'd not do or say to somebody else. "

I agree with both of these fine fellas.

I'm the same on and offline. Just more terrified of people in the physical world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here. "

I think the online space is just so different and specific it’s impossible to be *exactly* the same. Facial expression, tone etc are all harder to convey. Responses are more measured. It’s harder to be impulsive or react naturally, immediately, to things etc. It’s not a bad thing. You’re still being the real you. Just a different version.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were. "

I agree, but some are closer to how they act than others. If I were to meet you, would I think you come across better or worse than how I view your online persona?

For example is Annie Wilkes as tone deaf about people in person as she was when she posted, or was it just a lack of her communication skills?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were. "

Challenge accepted.....

I'm about 99% the same. Just less good looking in real life, obvs.....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

Challenge accepted.....

I'm about 99% the same. Just less good looking in real life, obvs.....

You'd have to be. Else the sun would be eclipsed by your handsome.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here.

That's more to do with how people see me or react to me.

Nothing to do with how I am exactly the same person and express myself the same way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I agree, but some are closer to how they act than others. If I were to meet you, would I think you come across better or worse than how I view your online persona?

For example is Annie Wilkes as tone deaf about people in person as she was when she posted, or was it just a lack of her communication skills?

Anyway if you meet me in person you’d like me a lot more. I respond more than I do on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here.

That's more to do with how people see me or react to me.

Nothing to do with how I am exactly the same person and express myself the same way."

I think my tone, facial expressions, use of my body are more to do with me and how I express myself. But that’s me. You don’t have to be the same. Maybe you’re exactly the same on here as irl. That’s good

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes to both, I'm probably shooting myself in the foot with my sarcasm most days

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Not necessarily more attractive but some come over as lees attractive because of their comments and have been blocked as a result.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

The forums have helped grow my block list to the size of a small continent

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes both here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only to see if they are anything like their forum persona in real life, or more full of shit.

None of us are anything like we are on the internet in real life. Even if we wish we were.

I'll disagree with you on that.

I'm exactly the same person offline. I don't pretend on here.

I don't think it's pretending, necessarily, more that it's difficult to get a full picture of someone through the written rather than spoken word? "

Agree. Humour can be very difficult in text form. Seeing someone laughing their arse off at what they're saying makes it come across differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not exactly but it does give me a better insight. Sometimes seeing those aspects of a person makes them more appealing to me. Equally it may also put me off.

Guess that's the beauty of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same as most people, it can be either.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

Ive blocked people from comments made on forums. Particularly if they come across as racist or sexist. Doesn’t matter how attractive they are.

I’ve also engaged with guys that I wouldn’t have bothered if it hadn’t been for the forums.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Yes to both, I'm probably shooting myself in the foot with my sarcasm most days

Sarcasm is very funny, but almost impossible to pull off in written form unless you really, really aren't subtle.

Example at 2:30am last night got a message from someone 40 miles away saying "meet now, I'm in a hotel".

"Sure, I'll get out of bed at 2:30am on a work day, drive 40 miles for someone I've never met or spoken to and have sex"

They replied, "Or I could drive to you"

Next time I think I'll dispense with the sarcasm and just tell them to fuck off.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I find all the sexiest people through these forums.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

They certainly put you off some infividuals. A bit sad really as might be nice people but just come out as real d......s in the forums. Especially if an excessive amount of arrogance is frequently displayed.

And yes, I do like to add the rainbow emoji at the end of certain subjects as an indicator that I come in peace. We know it does not take long for some regulars on here to kick off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find all the sexiest people through these forums."

For my next thread…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily more attractive but some come over as lees attractive because of their comments and have been blocked as a result."

I’d hate to be that forum user.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t remember what anyone said in forums long enough to form an opinion.

What was this thread about?

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

It's just humour nothing serious is it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t remember what anyone said in forums long enough to form an opinion.

What was this thread about? "

Lies. I know you have thoughts about me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Can go either way

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I have never blocked a pretty girl in my life "

(joke)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've totally blocked attractive people over things they've said in the forums, so yes.

I have never blocked a pretty girl in my life

(joke)"

You

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Yes to both, I'm probably shooting myself in the foot with my sarcasm most days

Sarcasm is very funny, but almost impossible to pull off in written form unless you really, really aren't subtle.

Example at 2:30am last night got a message from someone 40 miles away saying "meet now, I'm in a hotel".

"Sure, I'll get out of bed at 2:30am on a work day, drive 40 miles for someone I've never met or spoken to and have sex"

They replied, "Or I could drive to you"

Next time I think I'll dispense with the sarcasm and just tell them to fuck off."

The point at which you mentioned it was a work day should have been all they needed to know it wasn't going to happen either way

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

yes and yes.

But all you get here is their online persona. It's possible you might really like that but the person will do nothing for you.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Less but I try not to worry about it, unless we are potentially going to meet at a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums make me find certain users less attractive for sure

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Forums make me find certain users less attractive for sure "

Sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t remember what anyone said in forums long enough to form an opinion.

What was this thread about?

Lies. I know you have thoughts about me

Compulsively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they're a dick or not

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends if they're a dick or not "

You say the sweetest things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like walking into a pub with your eyes closed and saying "who are you attracted to"

Which wouldn't happen!

There always has to be a physical attraction. The forums just offer a platform to give an opinion.

Ultimately the profile picture decides if someone clicks on your name to view what you've written about yourself / photos.

Unless your a comedy genius (with no profile picuture) and even then you'd have to have substance behind your profile.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m probably made less attractive by the forums, tends to happen when I open my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if they're a dick or not

You say the sweetest things

That's because I am sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forums make me find certain users less attractive for sure

Sorry about that

Not you

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Depends on my mood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forums make me find certain users less attractive for sure

Sorry about that

Not you

Sorry

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Sometimes the most attractive people say the dumbest things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I warm to some due to their posts & totally get turned off by others.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Neither but lets be honest it is much easier to put my tip in with forum girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. People become more or less attractive to me based on how they speak on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Forums make me find certain users less attractive for sure

Sorry about that

Not you

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I like the forums as it gives you good interaction and see what people are like.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments. "

I will take this opportunity to apologise now then….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments. "

Good thing you’ve seen their comments and been cringed out now rather than later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both x

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments. "

I’m defo one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both… they may look amazing but if they come across as arrogant or rude then it’s a no… luckily you’re all nice and I enjoy chatting to all.

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By *neakypeaky30Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Definitely both. It can be a really good indicator on how youmay or may not get along with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments. "

We can’t all be Ryan Reynolds…. Or even Burt Reynolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments. "

Oh snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

We can’t all be Ryan Reynolds…. Or even Burt Reynolds

But we can be Bert Kriescher

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

I will take this opportunity to apologise now then…."

Never apologise for being yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

I will take this opportunity to apologise now then….

Never apologise for being yourself "

Exactly!

You shouldn't care if you annoy people, be you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

We can’t all be Ryan Reynolds…. Or even Burt Reynolds

But we can be Bert Kriescher "

He looks like he’s borrowed my look

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

I will take this opportunity to apologise now then…."

Hold on, I don’t post on those threads so I retract my apology but I do apologise if I’ve done anything anywhere else….

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Mix of both, I could really like their pictures but if their personality comes across ugly it could put me off, however sometimes things can come across the wrong way in text to as its meant in the posters head so I don't always right someone off immediately.

That's me personally, can't comment for him

Tinder x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

We can’t all be Ryan Reynolds…. Or even Burt Reynolds

But we can be Bert Kriescher

He looks like he’s borrowed my look

I love him

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Never thought about it. I dread what people must think of me on here haha but honestly I can never tell what people are like til face to face

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I like the way your vagina shimmers in the moonlight on fridays

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

it makes them more intriguing but in the end if they are assholes then I'm turned right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the who fancies who threads, I go off so many guys. I reckon I've been put off 99.9% of guys this way.

There's a lot of guys on the forums I'd probably meet, if I hadn't seen half of their comments.

We can’t all be Ryan Reynolds…. Or even Burt Reynolds

But we can be Bert Kriescher

He looks like he’s borrowed my look

I love him"

Just watched a couple of his videos…

Pretty funny

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Both

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

So far never come across a physical attraction in the forums to me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t remember what anyone said in forums long enough to form an opinion.

What was this thread about? "

Who’s the most righteous out of us all.

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