FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

why is it soo hard to find a women on here

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've been on here for nearly 7/8 months and the amount of msg i sent is just unbelievable...no reply whatsooever! no that i only write one line msg, i put alot of effort in most of the msg i send but i guess too many stubborn womens?

is there any women out there for me LOOOL or am i just wasting my time here?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fuck those stubborn bitches! They know they want you.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable

Because your a child?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because your a child?"

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In two words - it's not!

But finding one that finds your profile, pics and the messages you send interesting enough to reply is the challenge!

Negativity tends to breed disinterest - maybe lose the moans on your profile and focus on the positive!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck those stubborn bitches! They know they want you. "

Hahahahahahaha

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL "

Touche xx

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL "

Saw that one coming....

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Fuck those stubborn bitches! They know they want you. "

Brilliant. Tea just came out of my nose!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best to ditch the forum thread as well. It doesn't do you any favours really.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

[Removed by poster at 28/01/13 18:48:32]

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i've been on here for nearly 7/8 months and the amount of msg i sent is just unbelievable...no reply whatsooever! no that i only write one line msg, i put alot of effort in most of the msg i send but i guess too many stubborn womens?

is there any women out there for me LOOOL or am i just wasting my time here? "

It's probably your age tbh. A lot of people equate age with experience.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are one of many men in the same boat, you're young which is neither a help nor a hindrance.

What are you sending as an initial message?

I get between 40-60 new messages a day and if I'm going to reply the profile has to be written in a manner which makes me think I'm going to get along with the man. (Yes I probably am the grammar police)

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they look at the sydney uni rubbish & think no ta. Youre young so why you are looking for tail on a swinging site is a real baffler.

Of course im not anywhere local to you & am old, so I havent experienced your tailored messages but from the forum moan & profile it would be a simple no ta from me.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i've been on here for nearly 7/8 months and the amount of msg i sent is just unbelievable...no reply whatsooever! no that i only write one line msg, i put alot of effort in most of the msg i send but i guess too many stubborn womens?

is there any women out there for me LOOOL or am i just wasting my time here?

It's probably your age tbh. A lot of people equate age with experience."

Yeah I guess your right! That's what I think aswell but there are some famous ppl out there the same age as me or even younger with a lot of verifications LOL

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn time

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Touche xx"

Indeed but I have met the odd lady.............and my they were odd!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL "

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always make some form of reference to StarWars in initial messages and find it works a real treat, for example, "I'd like to Jabba your Hutt" or "I'm bored with being Hand Solo, fancy a Leia?".

And the classic: *Lightsabre extends*

Try it and May the Farce be with you.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! "
But he is a child and I think he should go and get a girlfriend in the big wide world!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *gchristinaTV/TS
over a year ago

london

you looking for one with or without a cock ?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"you looking for one with or without a cock ?"
Now that is a real Touche!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you looking for one with or without a cock ?"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And the classic: *Lightsabre extends*

"

Its even better if you swing if from side to side whilst going

'HWUUM! HWUUM!'

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its that dado rail. It's way too high. Puts us right off it does

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

And the classic: *Lightsabre extends*

Its even better if you swing if from side to side whilst going

'HWUUM! HWUUM!'"

Take your faulty sabre back ...... they go ..... Vvvvvvuuuuuuuuuuuuuu VvvvvvvVVVVuuuuuuuu

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really"

Where has he turned nasty ?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

Where has he turned nasty ?"

Well I don't know why all mature people think negative things about young people! Not all of them are the same!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

Where has he turned nasty ?

Well I don't know why all mature people think negative things about young people! Not all of them are the same!"

too right!

and as for the young shouldnt be on here.. the same could be said for any age group really.. i mean cos the young should get a gf! really dont get me started on that again

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

Where has he turned nasty ?

Well I don't know why all mature people think negative things about young people! Not all of them are the same!"
I dont think negative things about about young people.....I was one once a long time ago!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as a bit arrogant

Take out things like "I know how to handle myself & don't need a teacher"

And remove what you hate - no need for it

Then tell people about who you are, your personality and keep the tone of the profile light

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile comes across as a bit arrogant

Take out things like "I know how to handle myself & don't need a teacher"

And remove what you hate - no need for it

Then tell people about who you are, your personality and keep the tone of the profile light

"

Thanks will do

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two words: generic profile. It looks like you've just copy and pasted bits of other people's profiles and said "that'll do".

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave your head, grow a goatee, get some shades and you'll get more fanny than a fanny shop

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two words: generic profile. It looks like you've just copy and pasted bits of other people's profiles and said "that'll do"."

says he with a pointless profile :/

stalkers.. cia.. trouble beforehand.. sounds very inviting

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you looking for one with or without a cock ?"

Briliant!! Just spat my wine out with laughter at that!!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two words: generic profile. It looks like you've just copy and pasted bits of other people's profiles and said "that'll do".

says he with a pointless profile :/

stalkers.. cia.. trouble beforehand.. sounds very inviting "

Cracking review. That'll be half a star then?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! But he is a child and I think he should go and get a girlfriend in the big wide world!"

in his defence he is'nt a 'child' is he..?

he is young, clearly but were'nt we all once..

give the guy abreak eh..

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! "

To be fair he did get called a child. He's 20. Not 12!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! But he is a child and I think he should go and get a girlfriend in the big wide world!"

He's not a child. He's young yeah but not a child. Why should be get a girlfriend? He's just as much right to be on here looking for NSA as anyone.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! But he is a child and I think he should go and get a girlfriend in the big wide world!

He's not a child. He's young yeah but not a child. Why should be get a girlfriend? He's just as much right to be on here looking for NSA as anyone. "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really"

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! But he is a child and I think he should go and get a girlfriend in the big wide world!

He's not a child. He's young yeah but not a child. Why should be get a girlfriend? He's just as much right to be on here looking for NSA as anyone. "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! But he is a child and I think he should go and get a girlfriend in the big wide world!

in his defence he is'nt a 'child' is he..?

he is young, clearly but were'nt we all once..

give the guy abreak eh.. "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?"

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering !

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense."

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense."
I will get the popcorn and sit down!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! "
Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense."

I'd think it makes more sense trying to make connections on here than going out, getting hammered and pulling some rotter at ten to two with your beer goggles on lol

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense."

i used to think the same, before the net etc thats how it was..

pub, club, pull if you struck lucky lol..

then again that was usually one or two nights a week..

think if we had the same options that todays younger folk have, dating and this type of site..

we also would have used it as well as getting out there..

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you got two choices. keep trying or give up

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!"

when you were 20 how would you have taken someone calling you a child..?

personally with one tour of active duty at that age i would probably have reacted a bit more than the OP did with you m8..

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way "

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx "

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

I'd think it makes more sense trying to make connections on here than going out, getting hammered and pulling some rotter at ten to two with your beer goggles on lol "

I disagree, its part of the learning curve

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!

when you were 20 how would you have taken someone calling you a child..?

personally with one tour of active duty at that age i would probably have reacted a bit more than the OP did with you m8.."
Well we share a common theme as I was on Ad when I was 19 ............I was a child and should not have been there but hey that is life........!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic"

I'm stealing the word 'instashag'.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Its that dado rail. It's way too high. Puts us right off it does"

.....wallpaper....

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic"

No

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic"

Maybe they are living their life and are having a better range of options to explore fetishes, fantasies alongside the vanilla than we had at that age..?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic"

Some young guys are but I've seen woe is me messages from just as many 30 and 40 year olds as the youngsters. In op's case he's been here a fair while its not like he's moaning after a few weeks. And not all young lads wanna be out pubbing and clubbing all the time. I don't see why you should have to have settled down and had kids or whatever before you can try to have NSA fun on a site like this. Maybe he wants to have some fun and get it out if his system before he settles down

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!

when you were 20 how would you have taken someone calling you a child..?

personally with one tour of active duty at that age i would probably have reacted a bit more than the OP did with you m8..Well we share a common theme as I was on Ad when I was 19 ............I was a child and should not have been there but hey that is life........!"

respect that you have now with hindsight reached that conclusion about what you were doing then..

but the same cant be said for all..

and lets be honest there are less confrontational ways of sayin it perhaps...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Some young guys are but I've seen woe is me messages from just as many 30 and 40 year olds as the youngsters. In op's case he's been here a fair while its not like he's moaning after a few weeks. And not all young lads wanna be out pubbing and clubbing all the time. I don't see why you should have to have settled down and had kids or whatever before you can try to have NSA fun on a site like this. Maybe he wants to have some fun and get it out if his system before he settles down "

When did i say go pubbing and clubbing all the time, when did I say get married and have kids and settle down.

What I said was guys his age should be out with mates not on sites like this or any other, its all part of the learning curve in life, and being realistic, a guy his age is unlikely to get a met, as most people on this site are in there 40's with kids his age.

Its also regulary written in forums people wont meet anyone their kids age.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, my opinion is his age group should not be using the net.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Maybe they are living their life and are having a better range of options to explore fetishes, fantasies alongside the vanilla than we had at that age..?"

in what way, swinging has been about for years and years, even when I was OP's age.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And not all young lads wanna be out pubbing and clubbing all the time."

This. I don't drink and I loathe the pub/club thing, and there's no prospect of me putting up with it in the hope I might get my nads licked. Not now, and not when I was 18.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!

when you were 20 how would you have taken someone calling you a child..?

personally with one tour of active duty at that age i would probably have reacted a bit more than the OP did with you m8..Well we share a common theme as I was on Ad when I was 19 ............I was a child and should not have been there but hey that is life........!

respect that you have now with hindsight reached that conclusion about what you were doing then..

but the same cant be said for all..

and lets be honest there are less confrontational ways of sayin it perhaps..."
He is a child, that is my opinion and I have seen older cry like one when confronted with theatre conditions. His post shows he immaturity. That is my opinion I meant no disrespect but my view is that he should be out pulling 19 year old birds instead of haunting the backwaters of FAB.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!

when you were 20 how would you have taken someone calling you a child..?

personally with one tour of active duty at that age i would probably have reacted a bit more than the OP did with you m8..Well we share a common theme as I was on Ad when I was 19 ............I was a child and should not have been there but hey that is life........!

respect that you have now with hindsight reached that conclusion about what you were doing then..

but the same cant be said for all..

and lets be honest there are less confrontational ways of sayin it perhaps...He is a child, that is my opinion and I have seen older cry like one when confronted with theatre conditions. His post shows he immaturity. That is my opinion I meant no disrespect but my view is that he should be out pulling 19 year old birds instead of haunting the backwaters of FAB."

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Maybe they are living their life and are having a better range of options to explore fetishes, fantasies alongside the vanilla than we had at that age..?

in what way, swinging has been about for years and years, even when I was OP's age."

yes would agree it has, my perception was that it was maybe more of a couples scene perhaps..

largely by word of mouth..

i had threesomes at the OP's age and know it went on with others..

was thinking more about the ease (or not) for some that the net brings..

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Some young guys are but I've seen woe is me messages from just as many 30 and 40 year olds as the youngsters. In op's case he's been here a fair while its not like he's moaning after a few weeks. And not all young lads wanna be out pubbing and clubbing all the time. I don't see why you should have to have settled down and had kids or whatever before you can try to have NSA fun on a site like this. Maybe he wants to have some fun and get it out if his system before he settles down "

Beautiful said

hmm 19 years old bird? Not intrested in those one..i'm looking for mature bird (I know its hard to find) LOOL

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Clearly some guys feel threatened by a 'young buck' coming on here, maybe peeved that he may get a bit more action than them?

He is of an age where he can make his own decisions in life...including joining this site

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

OP, can I also suggest if it suits you to lower your age range to people more your own age?? As like has been mentioned by previous posters some do not like meeting with people close to their children's age.

At the end of the day the decision to stay and persevere or leave remains with you. Good luck whatever you decide. X

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

Where has he turned nasty ?

Well I don't know why all mature people think negative things about young people! Not all of them are the same!"

No, but some come across as petulant and those of us with kids in their 20s we're soooo over the terrible twos.

That said, the most petulant, foot stomping post I've read was by someone in their 60s!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Some young guys are but I've seen woe is me messages from just as many 30 and 40 year olds as the youngsters. In op's case he's been here a fair while its not like he's moaning after a few weeks. And not all young lads wanna be out pubbing and clubbing all the time. I don't see why you should have to have settled down and had kids or whatever before you can try to have NSA fun on a site like this. Maybe he wants to have some fun and get it out if his system before he settles down

Beautiful said

hmm 19 years old bird? Not intrested in those one..i'm looking for mature bird (I know its hard to find) LOOL"

And I'd also suggest not calling them birds as that does come across in a bad way!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Maybe they are living their life and are having a better range of options to explore fetishes, fantasies alongside the vanilla than we had at that age..?

in what way, swinging has been about for years and years, even when I was OP's age.

yes would agree it has, my perception was that it was maybe more of a couples scene perhaps..

largely by word of mouth..

i had threesomes at the OP's age and know it went on with others..

was thinking more about the ease (or not) for some that the net brings.. "

And that's exactly the problem, the net makes life too easy, and takes away the fun of finding out to a degree.

My first ever 3sum was at OP age, from a night out in a pub, no word of mouth, no internet etc. I don't regret for one second going out and meeting people whilst I was still in a position to go out every Friday and Saturday night.

The internet can be a wonderful tool, but can also be a bad thing too.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Haha, so it's only when you can't go out and pull in the traditional sense that we resort to swinging? Xx

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

Some young guys are but I've seen woe is me messages from just as many 30 and 40 year olds as the youngsters. In op's case he's been here a fair while its not like he's moaning after a few weeks. And not all young lads wanna be out pubbing and clubbing all the time. I don't see why you should have to have settled down and had kids or whatever before you can try to have NSA fun on a site like this. Maybe he wants to have some fun and get it out if his system before he settles down

Beautiful said

hmm 19 years old bird? Not intrested in those one..i'm looking for mature bird (I know its hard to find) LOOL

And I'd also suggest not calling them birds as that does come across in a bad way!! "
Noted! It was a term of endearment but noted nontheless

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"He is a child, that is my opinion and I have seen older cry like one when confronted with theatre conditions. His post shows he immaturity. That is my opinion I meant no disrespect but my view is that he should be out pulling 19 year old birds instead of haunting the backwaters of FAB."

what does your having seen older guys cry like children have to do with the OP?

there are probably hundreds of guys in Afghan as we speak of his age and younger who are acting in a fully professional manner under extreme stress and personal danger..

recognise that we are all different people from when we were 20..

if the issue is about his profile and yes it would'nt hurt his chances to review it, why not say that..

your an older guy, confident in posting etc on the forums..

however that does'nt give you the right after 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years to call someone a child imho..

comes across as patronising, just my opinion..

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, can I also suggest if it suits you to lower your age range to people more your own age?? As like has been mentioned by previous posters some do not like meeting with people close to their children's age.

At the end of the day the decision to stay and persevere or leave remains with you. Good luck whatever you decide. X"

But I'm not intrested in younger girls! Dunno why!!! But might do if I don't get succeed LOL x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of them. They're just lying about the place. Go find one.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Clearly some guys feel threatened by a 'young buck' coming on here, maybe peeved that he may get a bit more action than them?

He is of an age where he can make his own decisions in life...including joining this site

"
Not at all.......I have no issues with "young bucks" non whatsoever but the use of the term buck is not helpful as in birds?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I'm not intrested in younger girls! Dunno why!!! But might do if I don't get succeed LOL x "

If you're looking for older women, may I suggest you avoid putting 'LOL' at the end of everything? I can't be the only person who immediately switches off at the sight of it.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"He is a child, that is my opinion and I have seen older cry like one when confronted with theatre conditions. His post shows he immaturity. That is my opinion I meant no disrespect but my view is that he should be out pulling 19 year old birds instead of haunting the backwaters of FAB.

what does your having seen older guys cry like children have to do with the OP?

there are probably hundreds of guys in Afghan as we speak of his age and younger who are acting in a fully professional manner under extreme stress and personal danger..

recognise that we are all different people from when we were 20..

if the issue is about his profile and yes it would'nt hurt his chances to review it, why not say that..

your an older guy, confident in posting etc on the forums..

however that does'nt give you the right after 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years to call someone a child imho..

comes across as patronising, just my opinion.. "
Actually I do have the right. The right to say what I feel. You have expressed your opinion we differ. I think the OP is immature and expressed my view.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I would much rather get to know people on here and then meet them then get half sloshed in a bar or pick up two randoms that could be underage, crazy.

I had 3somes when I was younger too but looking back this is a much safer way of going about things.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Fuck those stubborn bitches! They know they want you. "

4shizzle ma nizzle.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Que Sera Sera

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!"

Ah yes the humble opinion statement. I like the definition :

it's mainly used to attempt to show that the opinion stated was either godly, true, or was stated by someone with humility. All three of those reasons are what would be simply known as bullshit.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way "

Lol...speak for yersel'

Maybe so many youngsters are on here because they seem to think its a sex site???

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"Just so love young guys with attitude

never get anywhere and turn nasty about it

Laughable really

where did he get nasty?

he responded to someone having a dig at him..

see nothing wrong with that?

Me neither. Yes he responded but it wasn't nasty. I thought it was pretty good, considering ! Dig away...its my humble opinion.....!!!

Ah yes the humble opinion statement. I like the definition :

it's mainly used to attempt to show that the opinion stated was either godly, true, or was stated by someone with humility. All three of those reasons are what would be simply known as bullshit."
Is that your humble opinion per chance?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic"

"Majority"? What utter rubbish. Even a quick search shows that your cliched opinion that swingers are middle age is somewhat out of date?

And I don't agree that the instashag mentality is age specific either? There are just as many older men that don't have the right mindset to succeed on here.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

"Majority"? What utter rubbish. Even a quick search shows that your cliched opinion that swingers are middle age is somewhat out of date?

And I don't agree that the instashag mentality is age specific either? There are just as many older men that don't have the right mindset to succeed on here."
So tell me what is success "on here" I am interested to know.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

The thing with life time forum bans is it is so easy to create another profile.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem meeting women

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

"Majority"? What utter rubbish. Even a quick search shows that your cliched opinion that swingers are middle age is somewhat out of date?

And I don't agree that the instashag mentality is age specific either? There are just as many older men that don't have the right mindset to succeed on here.So tell me what is success "on here" I am interested to know."

In the context of that post success clearly equates to getting meets. Is that ultimately not the reason most of us are here?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"The thing with life time forum bans is it is so easy to create another profile. "
Aimed at?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

"Majority"? What utter rubbish. Even a quick search shows that your cliched opinion that swingers are middle age is somewhat out of date?

And I don't agree that the instashag mentality is age specific either? There are just as many older men that don't have the right mindset to succeed on here.So tell me what is success "on here" I am interested to know.

In the context of that post success clearly equates to getting meets. Is that ultimately not the reason most of us are here?"
Then I am successful, clearly?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

"Majority"? What utter rubbish. Even a quick search shows that your cliched opinion that swingers are middle age is somewhat out of date?

And I don't agree that the instashag mentality is age specific either? There are just as many older men that don't have the right mindset to succeed on here."

I love that with most of your posts, it means i dont have to say what i was going to-cheers for that

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, for me, I dont understand why youngsters 18-23 ish are on sites like this, you should be out with your mates, getting, d*unk and pulling in the traditional sense.

lol - I agree..its only when you get past it that we relegate ourselves to this site! You have mail by the way

Lol...speak for yersel'

Maybe so many youngsters are on here because they seem to think its a sex site??? "

This is a sex site??? I want my money back! (well I would if I'd paid anything)

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *uschmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I don't have a problem meeting women "

Hmm.. I wonder what your secret must be?

Is it staring me in the face?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me wonder why so many people whinge about people putting up 'whinging, can't get a meet' posts, then come on to whinge??

My top tip: ya normally get an idea of the post from the title, solution: avoid

Whinge over

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all, but as majority people that swing are older and have kids that are 20, they are unlikely to meet.

Shouldn't they live there life first before heading online for 'instashag' which most guys his age are on here for, if we are being realistic

"Majority"? What utter rubbish. Even a quick search shows that your cliched opinion that swingers are middle age is somewhat out of date?

And I don't agree that the instashag mentality is age specific either? There are just as many older men that don't have the right mindset to succeed on here.So tell me what is success "on here" I am interested to know.

In the context of that post success clearly equates to getting meets. Is that ultimately not the reason most of us are here?Then I am successful, clearly?"

Are you? I don't know? I've not bothered looking. It's also not a competition and people get to bogged down worrying about others.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't like younger cos they have kids that age, some do like younger

Some like bdsm, some don't

Some like anal, some don't

Some like watersports, some don't

Some like black guys, some dont

Etc etc..

Doesn't mean anyone whatever they are or looking for shouldn't be on the site

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

In a galaxy, far, far away.....

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Because your a child?

Hmmmm okey whatever you say old man LOL

Hmmmm, a very adult, mature response! "

Which one? The first or second comment?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"The thing with life time forum bans is it is so easy to create another profile. "

You really do need to stop doing that, the last one you commented on was totally wrong.

If you think someone is on a forum ban and has got round it by using another profile REPORT it.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP....maybe take a peak around the forums, there are plenty of tips on profiles etc.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
back to top