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By *enuinesteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch West midlands

Is this really a bad opening line, as stated in many profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here it just became a synonym for lack of the originality I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone has to make an effort to reciprocate a lack of effort. Does that sound like a good opener to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pesky 5 words I imagine have got a lot of profiles deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, are you OK?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

When you're the 28th message that asks it a day, yes it's a lack luster message. I can answer that question a dozen times already on my way through the work corridors, never mind on here.

As most guys receive very few messages, you won't understand that recieving such messages dozens of times a day is just, well, meh.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

If the profile you are reaching out has lot of details about themselves, this question is considered a bit unoriginal. You can read their profile and find something specific you can start a conversation with.

If you are messaging an empty profile, it's probably fine. Then I would question what attracted you to that empty profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem with it. That plus a few pictures. Can say what you like and get a reply if they fancy you?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Don't think it's as bad as it's made out either people are going to be attracted to you or they're not

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By *enuinesteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch West midlands

Yes I get it, not thought provoking and very repetitive for you ladies who get thousands of messages, but I can write a long detailing message, see a profile view, then nothing. It’s tough for us genuine blokes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be so hard being a woman on fab getting hundreds of messages a day purely because they are a woman and are online

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