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Do you think you’re attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh, so is that why you hide your face on here?

No but fr- do you? Do you think you are average or even good looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think we’re about the average mark if we’re being completely honest. Too much gym dodging and pizza eating for us to be considered “hot”

Mr

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No where near attractive enough to have a picture anymore after some rather nasty comments haha turns out the online sex community is just as 5oxic as the rest of the internet

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I used to think I was a stud but time is definitely doing me no favours!! I think I look like an old man now

D.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I have attractive qualities. I wouldn’t put my face there necessarily, but each to their own.

My face is hidden due to work though, not my Shrek-like qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average to below average.

This isn't a woe is me thing or hey tell me i'm hot!

By the law of averages, most of us are in fact just that. Average.

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

I'd say average

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Profile and pics I’m a 5

I’m person solid 7, very humble I know

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'm average at best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We like to think we’re about the average mark if we’re being completely honest. Too much gym dodging and pizza eating for us to be considered “hot”

Mr "

I wouldn’t worry about bodies. Faces are more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, but you work with what you have,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of 2 I’d give myself 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the day, sometimes I look alright other times I'm like what the fuck is that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Average to below average.

This isn't a woe is me thing or hey tell me i'm hot!

By the law of averages, most of us are in fact just that. Average.

"

I dunno. My family always tell me I’m a good looking boy. V handsome they say.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Honestly no I don’t but my Mr thinks I am xo that’s all that matters.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Neither of us really think we're all that but both love each other and hubby is my number one fan xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm nothing special. I like to blend into the background unnoticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average to below average.

This isn't a woe is me thing or hey tell me i'm hot!

By the law of averages, most of us are in fact just that. Average.

I dunno. My family always tell me I’m a good looking boy. V handsome they say. "

Families lie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Average to below average.

This isn't a woe is me thing or hey tell me i'm hot!

By the law of averages, most of us are in fact just that. Average.

I dunno. My family always tell me I’m a good looking boy. V handsome they say.

Families lie. "

You saying I’m less attractive than most of the fabbers on here?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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No I'm not attractive, and in some ways I'm happy that I'm not, having attention on me makes me feel super uncomfortable, I would much rather pass by unnoticed

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By *hameleons69Woman
over a year ago

good ship lollipop

I'm a middle-aged overweight menopausal crazy woman, average is my goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average to below average.

This isn't a woe is me thing or hey tell me i'm hot!

By the law of averages, most of us are in fact just that. Average.

I dunno. My family always tell me I’m a good looking boy. V handsome they say.

Families lie.

You saying I’m less attractive than most of the fabbers on here? "

Noooooooooooo

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think I'm okay looking. Sometimes I think I'm hideous (hi PMT) other times I think I'm kind of cute. I like how I look when I wake up in someone else's arms, I look cute then.

I don't think I'm anything special but equally, I don't think I'm awful. I kind of like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m

Definitely not hot in my eyes, but everyone has different opinions or thoughts on what they think is cute.

There’s a few gorgeous women on here that don’t believe they are hot or attractive but I think they are x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I scrub up well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Average to below average.

This isn't a woe is me thing or hey tell me i'm hot!

By the law of averages, most of us are in fact just that. Average.

I dunno. My family always tell me I’m a good looking boy. V handsome they say.

Families lie.

You saying I’m less attractive than most of the fabbers on here?

Noooooooooooo"

I read that in an Amy Whinehouse voice

Maybe I am ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I scrub up well."

These are the answers I’m hoping for. Believe in your sauce

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

I wouldn’t say I’m ugly as such, but I scare myself when I look in the mirror, so not going to subject the people of fab to that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say I’m ugly as such, but I scare myself when I look in the mirror, so not going to subject the people of fab to that!"

Do face pic Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Below average,that’s a truthful answer to me.

Everyone can put make up on, do their hair and suck in and hide all flaws in pictures or videos,but in reality person looks completely different.

Fel from other hand,he’s drop dead gorgeous any time of day.

Alice

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We are no posh and becks but we are no Jack and vera we are not bad for are age well that's what people tell us

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"I wouldn’t say I’m ugly as such, but I scare myself when I look in the mirror, so not going to subject the people of fab to that!

Do face pic Friday "

I’ve been blocked from doing it

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Below average,that’s a truthful answer to me.

Everyone can put make up on, do their hair and suck in and hide all flaws in pictures or videos,but in reality person looks completely different.

Fel from other hand,he’s drop dead gorgeous any time of day.

Alice "

After viewing your pics I would say you were both above average good looking couple

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think I'm ugly but I don't think I'm hot I'd say a plain Jane average type.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say I’m ugly as such, but I scare myself when I look in the mirror, so not going to subject the people of fab to that!

Do face pic Friday

I’ve been blocked from doing it "

By who? The don?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below average,that’s a truthful answer to me.

Everyone can put make up on, do their hair and suck in and hide all flaws in pictures or videos,but in reality person looks completely different.

Fel from other hand,he’s drop dead gorgeous any time of day.

Alice

After viewing your pics I would say you were both above average good looking couple "

Sweet, it will take more to convince me

Alice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t. I think I’m bloody amazing…and I’m deluded.

I hide my face because from past experience it’s been an unexpected filter (send face pic…stop talking for blocked) so I avoid that so I at least can hang around here and chat on the forums.

Here’s my face. I’ll leave it in this thread as a profile pic.

Everyone’s attractive to someone right? RIGHT??

*you know the meme.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I think I am attractive facially yes , whether others do is out of my control and of no concern ultimately.

Self appreciation is paramount to be healthy mentally

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Everyone is attractive to someone… we all have different things that turns us on

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I look great in a balaclava.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I am attractive facially yes , whether others do is out of my control and of no concern ultimately.

Self appreciation is paramount to be healthy mentally "

25 June - literally stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is attractive to someone… we all have different things that turns us on "
what turns you on, Christina?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look great in a balaclava.

A"

When I wear a balaclava … let me not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To myself ? No I'm not particularly. I'm always a project with tweaks to implement. The work is never done so no self patting please..chop chop

T

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Nope, I've just been chatting in pm, I sent a face pic.....and now silence

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't feel attractive...but I have a good heart and I'm a good person.. (I'm no oil painting) but I'm learning to love me for who I am,so I find myself attractive "sometimes" haha..

But I am certainly no model material...and I think attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

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Guessing by the lack of genuine replies once I send a face pic I guess not . (Him). She’s makes up for him tho (him again).

Turn lights off it’ll be fine

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"I think I am attractive facially yes , whether others do is out of my control and of no concern ultimately.

Self appreciation is paramount to be healthy mentally

25 June - literally stunning"
m

It’s a look all men can replicate equally as well and enjoy good fortune of being a specimen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All I have to say is- believe in your sauce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m slightly above average in looks, maybe a 6 or 7. I’ve been told I’m handsome but I’m not turning any heads.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

I don't think I'm a complete goblin and I'm attractive to some people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I’m slightly above average in looks, maybe a 6 or 7. I’ve been told I’m handsome but I’m not turning any heads. "

You look above average facially from what we can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m slightly above average in looks, maybe a 6 or 7. I’ve been told I’m handsome but I’m not turning any heads.

You look above average facially from what we can see. "

Thanks man

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By *_elie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I am to some, I'm not to others.

Doesn't that apply to all of us?

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Below average,that’s a truthful answer to me.

Everyone can put make up on, do their hair and suck in and hide all flaws in pictures or videos,but in reality person looks completely different.

Fel from other hand,he’s drop dead gorgeous any time of day.

Alice

After viewing your pics I would say you were both above average good looking couple

Sweet, it will take more to convince me

Alice "

I have added to hotlist so must be a good start

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My face is pretty. My body is super average. Fine enough if looking at the mantle while poking the fire

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

I actually think I'm good looking. I certainly don't look in the mirror and go, Jesus Christ...put it that way.

But I also have seen names above in the thread who have given themselves average ratings when I think they're really good looking. So maybe I have low standards?!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I think we're average to be honest.

Some day's I feel I look better than other's but doesn't everyone.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so they say , in P's eye's I'm gorgeous and in mine,he is.That's all that really matters.

Em x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am to some, I'm not to others.

Doesn't that apply to all of us?"

What do YOU think of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My face is pretty. My body is super average. Fine enough if looking at the mantle while poking the fire "

Yes your face is pretty

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't think I've aged well.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I think I'm average with a little spice, I like my style and am perfectly happy with how I look but I'm no Gwen Stefani

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes of course I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! I’m the most attractive guy on the planet! Did you even need to ask?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm alright, wouldn't say I'm hot. I got everything on show here so nobody is left wondering what my face or body look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to think we’re about the average mark if we’re being completely honest. Too much gym dodging and pizza eating for us to be considered “hot”

Mr

I wouldn’t worry about bodies. Faces are more important"

I’d still say we’re about average. I think we’re both quite nice to look at and we seem to get interest from the people we find attractive so we’ll take that as a big win

Mr

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By *onsShlongMan
over a year ago

bury

I would say reasonably average. I have different coloured eyes so I guess thats something nice to look at

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I'm alright with me, looking like I've been done by a West Midlands bus then a taxi then a rickshaw then a skateboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm average on a good day. The world of online dating vs here has shown me my face puts people off!

This is very a very apt post though. How can someone's level of attractiveness to you be defined if their face is hidden?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm alright with me, looking like I've been done by a West Midlands bus then a taxi then a rickshaw then a skateboard "

Did Rickshawed do you?

Pics?

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Do I think I'm attractive? Simple answer is no.

Do other people find me attractive? Some do and say so, a lot of others don't say either way, so I assume I'm not to them.

The thing is, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there's always someone out there who'll find someone attractive whether they think they are or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have some attractive qualities. I've been told I have nice eyes and a nice smile.

I wouldn't rate myself any higher than a 5 or a 6 though. Decidedly average and unexceptional looking haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely average and I show my face,what I lack in looks I make up with my personality &sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason why there’s always old sayings is because people before us have experience and wisdom and truth. The saying I refer to is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So you will be a 10 for some people, but a 2 for others. Just as someone will be a 10 for you and the 2 for other people. So regardless of how you rate yourself, you are a 10 for some.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Oh, so is that why you hide your face on here?

No but fr- do you? Do you think you are average or even good looking? "

I am told I am attractive but to me I'd say I am OK. Not ugly.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Oh, so is that why you hide your face on here?

No but fr- do you? Do you think you are average or even good looking? "

My body needs work which I am in the process if doing

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

I think S is exceedingly hot and I would consider myself to be average, if I went to the gym and ate healthier I might have a chance at being hot though lol

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average at best lol but make up for it with wit and silky skills

Don't show face until we've spoken for a while. Most here do the same so don't see it as a problem.

Like naked attraction online

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'm average on a good day. The world of online dating vs here has shown me my face puts people off!

This is very a very apt post though. How can someone's level of attractiveness to you be defined if their face is hidden? "

You’ve got a nice face.

And I agree, facial attraction is so important to me that without seeing any of someone’s face I can’t be genuinely attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, so is that why you hide your face on here?

No but fr- do you? Do you think you are average or even good looking?

I am told I am attractive but to me I'd say I am OK. Not ugly."

You’re not ugly bro

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes. To some people.

Yes to me depending on the angle I look in the mirror.

There are days I feel attractive and there are days I look and feel my age.

K

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I think I’m okay most days. It’s sometimes been said I’ve got that sort of cute girl next door look just with wrinkles

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By *ighlandGirl14Woman
over a year ago

Inverness

Nope, not even a little bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

S thinks she is average at best, I think she is stunning - J

J thinks he is average, I think he is gorgeous - S

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I’m a solid 6 when I do my hair and make up. On the other days I’m a troll.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"S thinks she is average at best, I think she is stunning - J

J thinks he is average, I think he is gorgeous - S

"

N'aww, couples what are ya like!

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"I’m a solid 6 when I do my hair and make up. On the other days I’m a troll. "

See I think you're facially a stunner. A good 8/9!

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

A cliché for sure, but clichés are clichés because they contain a kernel of truth!

There are definitely some beautiful people here, alas l am not one of them. I don’t recoil when I see my reflection (most of the time) and I’m certainly no stud muffin, but Im a happy chap and I look the way I look. Hopefully I make average

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S thinks she is average at best, I think she is stunning - J

J thinks he is average, I think he is gorgeous - S

"

You are both gorgeous,a stunning couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I’m attractive but I think it’s more because of my mixed heritage and I am always dark, so perhaps just different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, I am the epitome of dad bod lol

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

But in my usual style I'm fucking hot

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm a firm 5 which suits me just fine. I'd rate my personality as a 7.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Subjective. To some I know I may be no matter how few.

To myself, no. Though I don't think I'm unattractive. I'm just standard and generic average. I've accepted it's the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is more about self confidence than actual physical attractiveness.

I really find humbleness attractive so this forum is very Hot!!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes I think so! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I look ok. I have days where I don’t think I am but everyone has those don’t they

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think most people do fit into the "average" category, at least as far as physical attractiveness goes. I'd put myself here as well.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Definitely average and I show my face,what I lack in looks I make up with my personality &sense of humour "

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I'm a weird attractive. To most people I'm not attractive and then to a few I'm a 10. It's weird when it happens, every now and I meet someone and they just fall to pieces.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’m happy with how how I look, that’s all that really matters x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It also depends on how much pollen is in the air and how tired I am.

Not forgetting, how grey my roots are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’m attractive. Some days better than others, but never ‘hot’.

I’m a sapiosexual though, I place little value in looks of style - I’m attracted to intellect and personality and hope others are too.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I wouldn’t fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, most definitely

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I am fair to middling. I have been called attractive, but I wouldn't say beautiful.

But as with everything, attraction is subjective, and an average person can become elevated with their attitude, same as a beautiful person can loose their edge, with an ugly attitude xx

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I must admit I land on the side of handsome

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My pictures are awful and those that I meet in person say that I’m much more attractive in the flesh. I’m happy with that and feel like I scrub up pretty well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look my age so most wouldn't consider myself attractive.

I make sure I send face pics early in a conversation so as not to disappoint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I look even worse if I try and put make up on

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I’m happy with myself and I’ve learnt that’s the important thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....always, they either think I am or they do not.

I don't think I am but then 45 years of looking at the same face...how can you tell?

It's like when you look at your friends isn't it? If they suddenly asked if you thought they were attractive you'd look at them and say you're YOU I don't look at you that way and I'm so used to your face etc I can't tell. Don't we do that with ourselves?

Though being fair I hardly look in the mirror or see myself.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

There's definitely a reason I'm always headless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel attractive once I've covered up the panda eyes and rosacea face with makeup. Without it I feel average and invisible. I like being invisible a lot of the time.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think I go to the gym, Pickle?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I must admit I land on the side of handsome "

You do

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m my own worse enemy but my husband tells me every day how beautiful I am and that’s all that matters..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on the whole but I also don’t think I’m unattractive, just a middle ground “meh” which is why I do put my face here. Would hate to meet someone and for them to be disappointed. What you see is what you get

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I believe myself to be attractive. What other people think is out of my hands.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Fuck No !!

But I'm comfortable with it and don't care any more

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

My mom said that I'm not bad looking, (thanks mum) and I scrub up well. So I'm average at worst.

Seriously though, isn't attraction subjective though?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"There's definitely a reason I'm always headless "

You know my opinion

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By *rowneyes38444Man
over a year ago

purfleet

I think I'm marmite

Some love some hate.

I'm nothing special, defo prefer myself with facial hair & short/bald hair. But understand it's not everyone's taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you think I go to the gym, Pickle? "

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

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By *rowneyes38444Man
over a year ago

purfleet

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By *rowneyes38444Man
over a year ago

purfleet


"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....always, they either think I am or they do not.

I don't think I am but then 45 years of looking at the same face...how can you tell?

It's like when you look at your friends isn't it? If they suddenly asked if you thought they were attractive you'd look at them and say you're YOU I don't look at you that way and I'm so used to your face etc I can't tell. Don't we do that with ourselves?

Though being fair I hardly look in the mirror or see myself."

You have a stunning figure & I'm sure your face is just as stunning

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I don’t think I am attractive, never did but the older I get the more I’m in peace with myself.

I’ve got pretty much hard life and it shows on my face. I can see how stress, sleepless nights, very limited financial resources and past traumas make me look when I try to compare myself to other women.

But then I strongly believe, and I teach it to my children, attractiveness is not about looks. It’s about wisdom, confidence and knowing our own self worth that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly think I’m average. Never considered myself attractive but I am confident. When I do send a face pic, I haven’t had anyone run away so that’s good. I often get told I have an innocent look, regularly get ID at supermarkets! Winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m relatively happy in my own skin. That’s what matters to me.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I've been described as being like a fine wine... I get better with age.

OP, I only hide my face on here to give all the others guys a fighting chance

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"There's definitely a reason I'm always headless

You know my opinion "

I know - paper bag on the head for the next social I promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm attractive and it's just my personality letting me down haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m more oddly attractive to some….I have a weird face and body shape lol.

I’m more accepting now I’m older so I’m cool with it

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

No. I look too much like my mother

J x

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

Average i think

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"There's definitely a reason I'm always headless

You know my opinion

I know - paper bag on the head for the next social I promise "

Well if that's your kink

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

No, but most of us Ladies have had unattainable ideas of what's "attractive" pushed into our heads from a very young age, so even if we are, we will probably never believe it.

Guys on here tell me I'm hot all the time, but I take all compliments from horny Men with a pinch of salt, as I tell myself they're just saying what they think they need to say to try and get laid.

It's rather sad actually, but I know I'm not alone in my thoughts. x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

No, I don't. Apparently, I have good eyes, but I would say I'm about average.

I'm certainly punching above my weight!

- Jack

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Definitely not but I think I’m Improving a little bit with age. I think it’s important to put a face pic, most people will decide based on whether they like the face or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and never have

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"I must admit I land on the side of handsome

You do "

Confirmed

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I think I've been average to below average most of my life, but I'm aging into my face if that makes sense. Whether that's because I suit the santa look or because I no longer give a fuck I don't know.

If this trend continues I'm looking forward to being the hottest guy in the care home.

B

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

I'm a 10 (and modest too!)

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Average… but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and guide dogs aren’t that advanced…..

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I don’t think I am attractive,

I know I’m fucking attractive

Hot stuff, handle with caution hot!

If I where you I would be asking to come fuck me hahaha

I don’t show my face cause folk would start catching feelings, I’m here for a good time not a romantic time

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Over the years on dating apps, I've found that I'm really not all that appealing. Barely any attention or interest, when I do get some interaction it is very limited and ends quickly. Maybe I'm boring too!

Even on then street or out in public, very few looks or smiles. Nobody strikes up a conversation. Not even a hint for me to feel I should make the first move.

My appeal is very limited I guess.

I like the word appealing more than attractive or unattractive.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Some of the time, if I've made a bit of an effort and done my hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not gorgeous just average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, face for the radio.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I believe I am but never hung up on it, it I'd what it is.

I'm more in interested in my mind and heart which compliments my beauty its what I like to see and find out about others too

If their mind and heart compliments their looks I'm not going anywhere

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I struggle to believe I am attractive.

In the sense partners or friends pick up on it, find it 'cute' to begin with; it becomes a thing they don't drop and then try to convince me that I am.

I'm fine about it, sometimes other people take issue with it. My mate did for years, became a pet project for her. She cornered me rationally several times. Always ended in laughter. Then she said. This isn't about you, it's me - why do I need to be chased?

I said. So we getting these milkshakes my throat's killing me? Love her to bits but damn can she talk.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I am repulsive. True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm super pretty. As pretty as a rhubarb and custard tart.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Attractive to animals and babies for some reason. But I love that.

As for what others think I don't really worry about it.

Jo.Xx

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"I am repulsive. True story. "

Fake news!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell me

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"You tell me "

Great tat…

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m average verging on the moderately nice looking scale

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

It's hard to say about yourself, especially being a woman, we seemed to be programmed to pull ourselves to bits.

Thought I looked good at a bbq the other week when a friend of mine pointed at my cleavage and told me to 'put them away' because her fella was sat next to me. Sat there for the rest of the day really self conscious and uncomfortable.

So even when I do feel okay about myself it can all change so easily, Mrs xxx

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

My face is not attractive, I have the most amazing resting bitchface. However, I have an attractive personality irl if I like ya, so yeah, I’m attractive to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to say about yourself, especially being a woman, we seemed to be programmed to pull ourselves to bits.

Thought I looked good at a bbq the other week when a friend of mine pointed at my cleavage and told me to 'put them away' because her fella was sat next to me. Sat there for the rest of the day really self conscious and uncomfortable.

So even when I do feel okay about myself it can all change so easily, Mrs xxx"

You did look good! And that's exactly why she told you to put your tits away. You should have told her to fuck off.

I'm sad she ruined your confidence. It's very clear to tell she was jealous. You shouldn't let people like that dull your sparkle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, so is that why you hide your face on here?

No but fr- do you? Do you think you are average or even good looking? "

I actually think I have a decent face, I just need to get fitter and work on my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasonably. Took me a long time to feel comfotable about my looks, but my face has grown on me

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I do alright first stage in my life I'm actually happy in my appearance and my body

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By *kygladMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Shreks ugly Brother here

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It's hard to say about yourself, especially being a woman, we seemed to be programmed to pull ourselves to bits.

Thought I looked good at a bbq the other week when a friend of mine pointed at my cleavage and told me to 'put them away' because her fella was sat next to me. Sat there for the rest of the day really self conscious and uncomfortable.

So even when I do feel okay about myself it can all change so easily, Mrs xxx

You did look good! And that's exactly why she told you to put your tits away. You should have told her to fuck off.

I'm sad she ruined your confidence. It's very clear to tell she was jealous. You shouldn't let people like that dull your sparkle.

"

I second this.

That says a lot about her own confidence, and in that of her partner.

Great, some cleavage is out. I may take a glance, it's often difficult not to do that when first noticed. But that's it, I'm not going to gawp at a woman's chest just because it's partially on view and especially when I've got a partner I'm interested in.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"It's hard to say about yourself, especially being a woman, we seemed to be programmed to pull ourselves to bits.

Thought I looked good at a bbq the other week when a friend of mine pointed at my cleavage and told me to 'put them away' because her fella was sat next to me. Sat there for the rest of the day really self conscious and uncomfortable.

So even when I do feel okay about myself it can all change so easily, Mrs xxx

You did look good! And that's exactly why she told you to put your tits away. You should have told her to fuck off.

I'm sad she ruined your confidence. It's very clear to tell she was jealous. You shouldn't let people like that dull your sparkle.

"
Thanks for that. Sometimes I am amazed that girls can be quicker to pull each other down than lift each other up, guys don't seem to do that, they just seem to take the mickey out of each other.

My hubby said I should have told her that I could sort it and then turned around and poked her fella in the eyes haha. Wish I had now xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to say about yourself, especially being a woman, we seemed to be programmed to pull ourselves to bits.

Thought I looked good at a bbq the other week when a friend of mine pointed at my cleavage and told me to 'put them away' because her fella was sat next to me. Sat there for the rest of the day really self conscious and uncomfortable.

So even when I do feel okay about myself it can all change so easily, Mrs xxx

You did look good! And that's exactly why she told you to put your tits away. You should have told her to fuck off.

I'm sad she ruined your confidence. It's very clear to tell she was jealous. You shouldn't let people like that dull your sparkle.

Thanks for that. Sometimes I am amazed that girls can be quicker to pull each other down than lift each other up, guys don't seem to do that, they just seem to take the mickey out of each other.

My hubby said I should have told her that I could sort it and then turned around and poked her fella in the eyes haha. Wish I had now xxx"

Yep, women can be so bitchy and jealous. But if it ever happens again, do poke her fella in the eyes.

I remember a few weeks ago one of the mums on the school run told me to cover up around the men and I wasn't even wearing anything particularly revealing. She actually did up a button on my top, and I was so pissed off I then undid another button and made a point of having a good chat up close with her husband over the next few weeks because I am petty like that.

I know we are slightly going off topic now, but seriously, if you feel good do not let anyone ever take that away from you. If her husband looks, that is not your problem and is fine as long as you're comfortable. You embrace those titties.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Remember, you are not ugly! You are just poor.

Except you, you are a little.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I'm ugly as feck

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

I think I am alright.

I hide my face because I can.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"It's hard to say about yourself, especially being a woman, we seemed to be programmed to pull ourselves to bits.

Thought I looked good at a bbq the other week when a friend of mine pointed at my cleavage and told me to 'put them away' because her fella was sat next to me. Sat there for the rest of the day really self conscious and uncomfortable.

So even when I do feel okay about myself it can all change so easily, Mrs xxx

You did look good! And that's exactly why she told you to put your tits away. You should have told her to fuck off.

I'm sad she ruined your confidence. It's very clear to tell she was jealous. You shouldn't let people like that dull your sparkle.

Thanks for that. Sometimes I am amazed that girls can be quicker to pull each other down than lift each other up, guys don't seem to do that, they just seem to take the mickey out of each other.

My hubby said I should have told her that I could sort it and then turned around and poked her fella in the eyes haha. Wish I had now xxx

Yep, women can be so bitchy and jealous. But if it ever happens again, do poke her fella in the eyes.

I remember a few weeks ago one of the mums on the school run told me to cover up around the men and I wasn't even wearing anything particularly revealing. She actually did up a button on my top, and I was so pissed off I then undid another button and made a point of having a good chat up close with her husband over the next few weeks because I am petty like that.

I know we are slightly going off topic now, but seriously, if you feel good do not let anyone ever take that away from you. If her husband looks, that is not your problem and is fine as long as you're comfortable. You embrace those titties.

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Thank you so much, you've made me feel better about myself x

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