FabSwingers.com forum: One liners

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive noticed pretty much every profile that gets my attention states no one liners or something like dont just start with hey or how are you ... anyways .. I have never once sent an one line opener and still the percetage of even getting my msg read never mind replied to is brutaly low so tell me honestly am I so bad at it?? Or just not hot enough??

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Your profile is okay maybe clearer picture & a few more.

It's not easy to actually get meets really difficult.

We go to socials and some clubs.

You also need to get verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advice I actually have a couple of veris they sort of disappeared my settings says to show them so dont really know what happened there

Yes, theres only 2 but you know I really do like to get to know people and have a build up before I meet as also many profiles say soo

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

You're pretty cute, just a shame I'm the wrong end of the country x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Ive noticed pretty much every profile that gets my attention states no one liners or something like dont just start with hey or how are you ... anyways .. I have never once sent an one line opener and still the percetage of even getting my msg read never mind replied to is brutaly low so tell me honestly am I so bad at it?? Or just not hot enough??

Your profile more like z dating profile. Very little to show so it would put me off tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few more pictures, not necessarily cock shots, more suggestive pictures.

The bio is ok, but nothing that makes you stand out from other single men on the site. Think about who you want to attract and how you can amend your profile to make yourself more appealing.

Good luck, OP

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Some people look for certain physique too you're probably not their cup of tea, sorry. Hopefully someone will find your profile attractive. You really need to show more of yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aww thanks thats a big compliment for me

and yeah it is quite bit of a shame I would say but I do travel a lot with work to the docks so never say never

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the constructive feedback Ill take that to heart

and probably start thinking about gym membership

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay thats a new thing for me as am 6ft 4 and usually stand out everywhere I go so I have mixed feelings about that its good but its not I guess Ill think that thru thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you use 'reply and quote' to a message, we'll know who you are responding to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you use 'reply and quote' to a message, we'll know who you are responding to

I gotcha,aking progress already I might look dumb as hell but this is literally my first post in the forum so thanks for your patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you use 'reply and quote' to a message, we'll know who you are responding to

I gotcha,aking progress already I might look dumb as hell but this is literally my first post in the forum so thanks for your patience"

You're doing ok!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you use 'reply and quote' to a message, we'll know who you are responding to

I gotcha,aking progress already I might look dumb as hell but this is literally my first post in the forum so thanks for your patience

You're doing ok!

Thank you kindly

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. So most messages won't get a meet or even a compatible person.

1 liners just increase the simplicity of others knowing it's not a match.

Having realistic expectations is important for your well-being and to stay motivated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. So most messages won't get a meet or even a compatible person.

1 liners just increase the simplicity of others knowing it's not a match.

Having realistic expectations is important for your well-being and to stay motivated

I have plenty of motivation in my life so I dont have to worry about that really

I guess youre right about compatibility with others as my experience is that the profiles that seems like a great match to me will probably never read my msg or it stays on read .. it could be commnonly simplified by replying or deleting the thread when theres no interest coz then it doesnt leave very little trace of hope but I might be asking too much

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I once got asked by a woman with a nit picky profile … you will… you shall… I won’t… you won’t… under no circumstances….. if i could describe myself in one all encompassing sentence and make it eye catching so she would find it and me irresistible.

I wrote ‘Lazy!’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I once got asked by a woman with a nit picky profile … you will… you shall… I won’t… you won’t… under no circumstances….. if i could describe myself in one all encompassing sentence and make it eye catching so she would find it and me irresistible.

I wrote ‘Lazy!’

Did it work?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I wrote ‘Lazy!’

Did it work?"
no - which saved me from saying no thanks… she laughed then moved on to persecute some other poor unfortunate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wrote ‘Lazy!’

Did it work? no - which saved me from saying no thanks… she laughed then moved on to persecute some other poor unfortunate.

Saying no thanks and beeing honest about it would surely give her more clues then the lack of effort saying lazy .. we all on here for same reasons I believe so honesty should be the pinnacle right?

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

"Thanks for advice I actually have a couple of veris they sort of disappeared my settings says to show them so dont really know what happened there

Yes, theres only 2 but you know I really do like to get to know people and have a build up before I meet as also many profiles say soo

When people leave and delete their profiles, any veris they have left will also disappear.

See if there are any socials being organised near you. Go along, have a pleasant evening chatting to a few people over drinks and hopefully get some more veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When people leave and delete their profiles, any veris they have left will also disappear.

Didnt have a clue thats how it works but I promise I didnt make them leave

Thanks for advice Ill do my research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different people are attracted to different things, some will mention gym fit others look for average build others look for kinks. be yourself just advertise yourself, a few nice pictures every now and then (doesnt have to be cock shots) and just try to think what makes you different from other guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"different people are attracted to different things, some will mention gym fit others look for average build others look for kinks. be yourself just advertise yourself, a few nice pictures every now and then (doesnt have to be cock shots) and just try to think what makes you different from other guys. "

Thanks that sound very reasonable, advertise myself mmm never thouhgt about it like that really but it makes sense!

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