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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the opposite.

Tones

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, I'm more likely to leave them well alone if I see some sort of pattern like that.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I like the people I like for them, not for other’s responses to them.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?"

I don't like puppy dawgs or sheep. Not in THAT way, anyway

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t find someone attractive because they’re popular, I find them attractive if they seem nice.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Nah popular by association is droll, I like the fussy fuckers

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Screw them Brucey, I'm single and I'll flirt if I want to.

I've always found it odd people being put off by people flirting with multiple people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on their tits ..

( . Y . )

But my serious answer is yes. And no. It depends on the individual.

Glad to have helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah popular by association is droll, I like the fussy fuckers"

Fussy fuckers! ()

T

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world


"I like the people I like for them, not for other’s responses to them. "

This. If I like someone, it doesn't matter if they flirt/are flirted with a lot the intensity with which I want to finger them does not waiver.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?"

Brucey explain the psychology please....I only came here to get my dick wet...but psychology interests me also...

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?

Brucey explain the psychology please....I only came here to get my dick wet...but psychology interests me also..."

Oh they're so dreamy look at their abs/boobs

You hear it enough times you wanna rub yourself on those abs/boobs

Lesson over

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Flirtatiousness = confidence = sexy

Sometimes. Not always. But sometimes.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I like the people I like for them, not for other’s responses to them. "

This x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!


"Nah popular by association is droll, I like the fussy fuckers"

I read that as Pussy Fuckers - bet im not the only one.

Flirting is fun - I’m no really one to flirt to be fair though…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. If I don’t find them attractive it doesn’t matter how popular they are with others, it’s not going to change that.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think the opposite, I tend to prefer quiet understated women who avoid attention

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?

Brucey explain the psychology please....I only came here to get my dick wet...but psychology interests me also...

Oh they're so dreamy look at their abs/boobs

You hear it enough times you wanna rub yourself on those abs/boobs

Lesson over "

Yeah, nah.

If I'm attracted to someone it's generally because they entertain me. I couldn't care less how others feel about them or how they feel about others.

A

*and because they look good of course.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

No! Not everyone will find someone desirable or have a vibe.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm attracted to people with whom I'm attracted to.

If most of the men are taking a right turn on the yellow brick road to stick their wick into Miss Popular, it's likely I'll be taking a left turn for the object of my desires.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Worth pointing out this can happen unconsciously so while you MAY think it doesn't apply to you, it also might a little?

Also worth noting this can be the opposite way in that you might find someone less attractive because they are ignored or not held in critical acclaim from the masses.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?

Brucey explain the psychology please....I only came here to get my dick wet...but psychology interests me also...

Oh they're so dreamy look at their abs/boobs

You hear it enough times you wanna rub yourself on those abs/boobs

Lesson over "

OK not learnt fuck all from todays psychology lecture tbf......

And no popularity doesn't make me intrested in someone.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Are you desired Bruce?

Does your constant posting get you much action or do you think it had the opposite effect?

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Are you desired Bruce?

Does your constant posting get you much action or do you think it had the opposite effect?"

I mean it's made you want to fuck me a little hasn't it?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No, we have our preferences and things that really tick our boxes. We work with those, not those of other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desire and attraction are funny things.

Sometimes popularity can leave me thinking I wouldn't stand a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah its cool, I've banged em already anyway.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Worth pointing out this can happen unconsciously so while you MAY think it doesn't apply to you, it also might a little?

Also worth noting this can be the opposite way in that you might find someone less attractive because they are ignored or not held in critical acclaim from the masses. "
Never really cared about popularity! If i find someone attractive or nice i don't care if they ain't popular. I'm more drawn to people who don't care lol

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby


"Nah popular by association is droll, I like the fussy fuckers

I read that as Pussy Fuckers - bet im not the only one.

Flirting is fun - I’m no really one to flirt to be fair though….. "

Your terrible broken coffee tables & those fingers let's not get started on the other stuff lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I wouldn't find anyone attractive purely because the forum ladies thirst for them.

I've gone off people when they've become popular because people noticed my lamp post pissing

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I wouldn't find anyone attractive purely because the forum ladies thirst for them.

I've gone off people when they've become popular because people noticed my lamp post pissing "

#youdon'tknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so. I don't know. But I wouldn't think I could become attracted to someone just cos everyone else wanted to bum them. I mean, if anything, seeing everyone all over someone and them reciprocating and loving it puts me off more than anything.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I don't think so. I don't know. But I wouldn't think I could become attracted to someone just cos everyone else wanted to bum them. I mean, if anything, seeing everyone all over someone and them reciprocating and loving it puts me off more than anything.

"

Bend over

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No. It doesn't work for me at all.

I'm not the sort of person who flirts with everything and anything - nothing wrong with those who do.

When some men desperately vie for the attention of that sort of woman in a thread, more often than not I think "you gullible old man" and cringe a bit. And my vagina is towel dried to an inch of its life with every they do.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I feel no ways about it.

Group presentations can be far removed from how someone is privately.

All kinds of weird and wonderful reasons for human behaviour.

Favourite psychiatrist quote: 'After 50 years, I've realised we are all just projecting our insecurities onto each other, including me'.

It's the awareness that appeals to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman piques my interest, how anyone else reacts to her is irrelevant to me.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!


"Nah popular by association is droll, I like the fussy fuckers

I read that as Pussy Fuckers - bet im not the only one.

Flirting is fun - I’m no really one to flirt to be fair though…..

Your terrible broken coffee tables & those fingers let's not get started on the other stuff lol "
I’m outraged - i was not flirting with you … we were simply having a conversation… which finished with you telling me you wanted to ride my face like a merry go round pony and i think i said ‘ thank you!’ Which seem to have assumed was me flirting….*

* portions if this transcript may not be 100% accurate …. Or just plain lies…. Big whoppers of lies….. and combinations thereof

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

No, if I like them I like them

Tinder x

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"No, if I like them I like them

Tinder x"

Thought provoking

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No, it's a deterrent to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon this happens to me without noticing. Not in a serious- I want to meet them- way but I think someone becomes more intriguing if they’re something on here.

But ultimately I’m not actually attracted to anyone until I see their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People say they don't like people that flirt with everyone on forums right?

BUT - are you more attracted to people the more THEY are desired? If you see all the men/ladies fawning like puppy dawgs over a certain member, are you more likely to find them attractive like a baa baa black sheep? It's psychology it happens and is common.

But is it YOU?"

Where on earth is the Psychological element? Weak!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I think this is a really interesting post. Go Brucey.

There are some posters who attract a lot of attention and you'd be daft if you pretended you didn't see it go on. And that attention attracts more. I think the recipients notice realise and maybe even laugh a little.

J

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Curse you missing comma!

J

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

No.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I think this is a really interesting post. Go Brucey.

There are some posters who attract a lot of attention and you'd be daft if you pretended you didn't see it go on. And that attention attracts more. I think the recipients notice, realise and maybe even laugh a little.

J "

I realised I didn't answer. Do they have the fan club because they have a fan club or because they're objectively hot? Probably the latter.

J

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Seeing people getting fawned over will never make me become attracted to someone. I do see some pictures of people on the forums that get my attention, but I find I become attracted to someone through seeing their personality come out in the way they write and interact on the forums more than anything. Personally, I like to get to know if I like their personality before I'd flirt with anyone, and if I did like them, I'd flirt privately instead of on the forums if the attraction was mutual. As for those who do try and actually flirt on the forums, I find it makes them look a bit sad and desperate unless the flirting is done in an obviously jokey fashion.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

I love a good flirt

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Look at it this way.

Some people get fawned over and idolised because of the forums.

Some people get all drippy dicked over the latest hot pic top 10.

Some people get fap happy because someone has a nice rack or pretty penis.

Other get fanny flutters because of a six pack.

People will always be attracted to whatever they're attracted to, but the more someone posts photos or makes profiles comments then the more they are visually available for others to potentially become attracted to, the more attention they receive and sometimes that attention snowballs because people have fabbed a pic of them or responded to posts in here.

Some might say it's a numbers game. Attention breeds more attention and whilst it's not always good attention most of the time the 'it's better to be talked about than ignored' theory applies. It's why some people post more pics, start more forum threads and comment a lot more than others.

Is it because they crave the attention, or because they need it to function, or simply because online adoration gives them a stiffy or lady boner?

Who knows. But it certainly works for some more than others.

A

*not sure if that comes across as I meant it. Literally woke up 2 minutes ago and my brain is still 5 minutes behind my fingers. Need coffee.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. Turns me off a bit.

Why would I want a cookie that everyone has dribbled over? I want the forgotten cookie gathering dust in the corner of the tin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a really interesting post. Go Brucey.

There are some posters who attract a lot of attention and you'd be daft if you pretended you didn't see it go on. And that attention attracts more. I think the recipients notice, realise and maybe even laugh a little.

J

I realised I didn't answer. Do they have the fan club because they have a fan club or because they're objectively hot? Probably the latter.

J "

Is anyone on fab objectively hot? Now that’s a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don’t like it when other flirt on the forum? I don’t think we flirt on the forum but I’d hate for people to judge us for basically having a laugh and some fun on here!

Makes no difference to us if everyone else wants them or not. If we like the look of someone we’d chat to them and if the connections there; the rest is irrelevant to us

Mr

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Isn’t it just part and parcel having a flirty personality, I mean everyone has a flirt and a laugh does it necessarily mean they all want to sleep with eachother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don’t like it when other flirt on the forum? I don’t think we flirt on the forum but I’d hate for people to judge us for basically having a laugh and some fun on here!

…

Mr "

It’s really interesting reading this thread for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember what I wrote originally, but I am put off people if they flirt with certain other people.

On here, people tend to follow the crowd. There's certain fabbers who everyone seems to think are hot. But are they? Or does everyone just follow everyone else.

I can't even remember what the question was now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't remember what I wrote originally, but I am put off people if they flirt with certain other people.

On here, people tend to follow the crowd. There's certain fabbers who everyone seems to think are hot. But are they? Or does everyone just follow everyone else.

I can't even remember what the question was now."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't remember what I wrote originally, but I am put off people if they flirt with certain other people.

On here, people tend to follow the crowd. There's certain fabbers who everyone seems to think are hot. But are they? Or does everyone just follow everyone else.

"

1000% this

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

For me it's like this .......

A flirty personality is charming and fun with everyone.

It doesn't mean they want to fuck them.

I like flirty, playful, charming characters BUT being a grown up I don't think that everyone I have a giggle or a word with here , wants to fuck me.

Does seeing everyone pay homage to one person make that person more attractive to me ? Not really, doesn't put me off them either.

Whether I find someone attractive or not depends on me not on the approval of the masses.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think this is a really interesting post. Go Brucey.

There are some posters who attract a lot of attention and you'd be daft if you pretended you didn't see it go on. And that attention attracts more. I think the recipients notice, realise and maybe even laugh a little.

J

I realised I didn't answer. Do they have the fan club because they have a fan club or because they're objectively hot? Probably the latter.

J

Is anyone on fab objectively hot? Now that’s a question"

Visually or mentally stimulating?

Because I'd say yes to both.

But few manage to pull off both.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a really interesting post. Go Brucey.

There are some posters who attract a lot of attention and you'd be daft if you pretended you didn't see it go on. And that attention attracts more. I think the recipients notice, realise and maybe even laugh a little.

J

I realised I didn't answer. Do they have the fan club because they have a fan club or because they're objectively hot? Probably the latter.

J

Is anyone on fab objectively hot? Now that’s a question

Visually or mentally stimulating?

Because I'd say yes to both.

But few manage to pull off both.

A"

I prefer really not to speak. I’ve had a bad nights sleep.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny"

People can be hot physically in body and not so hot facially. The old saying you don’t look at the mantle piece when you’re poking the fire

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

People can be hot physically in body and not so hot facially. The old saying you don’t look at the mantle piece when you’re poking the fire "

Better known as BOBFOC.

A

*I'm more FOBBOC myself

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"I can't remember what I wrote originally, but I am put off people if they flirt with certain other people.

On here, people tend to follow the crowd. There's certain fabbers who everyone seems to think are hot. But are they? Or does everyone just follow everyone else.

I can't even remember what the question was now."

What ever it was you nailed it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope probably the opposite

Mrs

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I can't remember what I wrote originally, but I am put off people if they flirt with certain other people.

On here, people tend to follow the crowd. There's certain fabbers who everyone seems to think are hot. But are they? Or does everyone just follow everyone else.

I can't even remember what the question was now."

You basically just said my question again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny"

Could be other way round. They haven't seen their bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar to the latest streaming series or film, the latest celebrity to be spoken of so fondly, I'll go check it out, but often I miss what the hype is about.

It doesn't make them more appealing to me, though admittedly I want to understand the fuss, but if makes no difference to how I see them.

Be that, a series, film, celebrity or another.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"People don’t like it when other flirt on the forum? I don’t think we flirt on the forum but I’d hate for people to judge us for basically having a laugh and some fun on here!

…

Mr

It’s really interesting reading this thread for sure"

See sometimes I do like to get nice and deep!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny"

I've been lucky enough to see some faces as part of face pic Friday and at socials. There are some hot fabbers both male and female. I realise it's actually subjective because it's in my opinion but I think they're attractive enough to count as objectively hot.

J

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

I've been lucky enough to see some faces as part of face pic Friday and at socials. There are some hot fabbers both male and female. I realise it's actually subjective because it's in my opinion but I think they're attractive enough to count as objectively hot.

J"

And NB too

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Never mind the psychology in Brucie's O.P. there's tons more in the responses.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

I've been lucky enough to see some faces as part of face pic Friday and at socials. There are some hot fabbers both male and female. I realise it's actually subjective because it's in my opinion but I think they're attractive enough to count as objectively hot.

J

And NB too"

Yes but there's now a "subtle" bit of "boo hiss" going on and you've got to play along with that Julie.

I'm not one of those people that others think are hot. I might not always see the hotness in the flavour of the month but fuck it. People will keep peopleing and as long as it's not hurting others, it's probably not worth typing so many words over.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I love to flirt (I know, shocker). I also love a flirt. But I also love a sarcy bugger.

I don’t find someone more or less attractive based on the size of their fan club. I do find it desperately unattractive though, when I see someone who clearly believes their own press & turns into a bully or a snake because of it.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.


"Worth pointing out this can happen unconsciously so while you MAY think it doesn't apply to you, it also might a little?

Also worth noting this can be the opposite way in that you might find someone less attractive because they are ignored or not held in critical acclaim from the masses. "

That has never happened to me and I find that odd that it happens to others. You stop finding people attractive because others don't?? I dont understand why that would make a difference, though I'm used to fancying people in the public eye who most in the UK have never heard of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

I've been lucky enough to see some faces as part of face pic Friday and at socials. There are some hot fabbers both male and female. I realise it's actually subjective because it's in my opinion but I think they're attractive enough to count as objectively hot.

J"

Oh I know you’ve seen faces! I’ve sent you mine before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But don’t we also covet what we can’t have?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

I've been lucky enough to see some faces as part of face pic Friday and at socials. There are some hot fabbers both male and female. I realise it's actually subjective because it's in my opinion but I think they're attractive enough to count as objectively hot.

J

And NB too

Yes but there's now a "subtle" bit of "boo hiss" going on and you've got to play along with that Julie.

I'm not one of those people that others think are hot. I might not always see the hotness in the flavour of the month but fuck it. People will keep peopleing and as long as it's not hurting others, it's probably not worth typing so many words over."

*resists urge to type lots*

Friday!

J

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Worth pointing out this can happen unconsciously so while you MAY think it doesn't apply to you, it also might a little?

Also worth noting this can be the opposite way in that you might find someone less attractive because they are ignored or not held in critical acclaim from the masses.

That has never happened to me and I find that odd that it happens to others. You stop finding people attractive because others don't?? I dont understand why that would make a difference, though I'm used to fancying people in the public eye who most in the UK have never heard of."

No it's more if you get told enough times that someone isn't hot - depending on you as a person you're more than likely to agree with the masses than remain with your original opinion (if you thought they were hot)

Again this is just conformity. Actually sociology more than psychology - that dude above was right!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny

I've been lucky enough to see some faces as part of face pic Friday and at socials. There are some hot fabbers both male and female. I realise it's actually subjective because it's in my opinion but I think they're attractive enough to count as objectively hot.

J

And NB too

Yes but there's now a "subtle" bit of "boo hiss" going on and you've got to play along with that Julie.

I'm not one of those people that others think are hot. I might not always see the hotness in the flavour of the month but fuck it. People will keep peopleing and as long as it's not hurting others, it's probably not worth typing so many words over.

*resists urge to type lots*

Friday!

J"

Yaaay! Friday it is! I shall hold off of tequila until then.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I am less attracted to people that overly flirt on the forums are who have a ton of veris in quick succession.

That is their personal choice and I’m not judging at all before anyone goes down that route.

I am attracted to people with a certain level of decorum and each meet has to be special to all of us not just a number or because it’s a way to gain popularity.

Flirting with everyone is a way to gain popularity and the game that some people play and have played in the past holds no interest for me. So I am one of those people that gets put off by people who like to draw attention to themselves at the expense of others.

Marc

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Everyone on here thinks people are hot but they’ve never even seen their faces most of the time so that’s kinda funny"

Oh no Pickle, I need to check out the mug before I think someone is hot.

I'm sh-a-a-a sh-a-a-allow

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm more attracted to people that aren't the centre of attention because that's a good starting point for having something in common.

Anyone constantly being told they are attractive or hot is likely to point me in the opposite direction and avoid them like the plague because so often on here I genuinely don't see the attraction or how they can be viewed as hot.

They might look amazing but turn ugly as soon as they open their mouths or start typing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Very few of the pics on here are 'honest' pics. It sometimes amuses me to see people mesmerised by them like kittens chasing a laser. It's all illusion.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

to a point but if I think they are an asshat then I just think their fans have no taste

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I don’t / can’t flirt online with people I don’t know anyway it feels strange to me flirting with someone when you don’t really know them.

I prefer face to face flirting maybe I’m just old school.Even if people have face pictures up they can be extremely deceiving I take a awful picture but the amount of people we have met and not recognised them from their face pics is unbelievable…If we like someone tho we don’t care if their popular or not as long as their decent people that’s the main thing for us ..

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